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get his attention?
I'm really shy and I think I'm developing a crush on this guy.
How do I get his attention?
Should I wear my hair differently?
Because I already smile at him and strangely.. he smiles back. This rare cute smile.
Sometimes he comes up to me and tries to sit next to me.
Today, this lady handed out pens for everyone (math class~ to correct) and he didn't get a good pen. So he decided to take mine.. and he started to walk away. Then someone said something.. and he turned around and I gave him a /look/ .. he stopped and smiled.. and laughed.
I'm going to start to play this game (that he told me about) .. will that help bring up conversation? Like.. can you help me with the game. Explain it to me sort of thing?
Even if he doesn't like me. I'll love to have him as a friend that I could talk to and hang out with.
He's a year older than me though. He's a junior. Are juniors really interested in sophomores?
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okay from what i know most guy don't pay that much attention to stuff like how you do your hair or if you did your make-up diffferently. But i don know they LOVE attention and i think that if you talk to him and maybe do use that game thing as an exscuse to tlak to him it will help...i'm really shy to and that's how i got my crush to notice me was by giving him LOTS of attention. He absolutly loved it.after that he started oing stuff that he knew made me laugh just to get my attention. just give himas much attention as possible and TRY to talk to him just don't sit there like an idiot. that doesn't work that well.
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Guys usually don't notice stuff like new hairstyles or make-up. What they DO notice is attention. So smiling at him is a good start. Why not just strike up a conversation with him after class one day? He may be just as shy as you are, and that will be nice for him not to have to approach you!
About the game... I have no idea what you're talking about. I've never heard of that before!
I think it's perfectly possible that a junior could be interested in a sophomore. Times are changing and dating in highschool isn't really limited to just your grade now. That doesn't mean I'm recommending dating a 20 year old though! Ha. So I'd give it some time and keep doing what you're doing! Good luck! :)
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Hi,
I think he will like you for who you are and that your hairstyle will have no influence on that. It seems he has an interest in you here with the sitting with you, telling you about a computer game, borrowing the pen etc from you rather than anyone else.
Odds are, your problem is he is waiting for you to make a move and vice versa you are waiting for him. Definitely get into this game and use it as a launch pad to discuss other things with him.
I know you are shy but talk to him about his interests, yours and maybe ask him on a group date to a movie or invite him to a party etc. Age really has nothing to do with love. Juniors can be interested in sophmores and date them. At this stage age is no big deal.
Keep doing what you are doing as you have already attacted hin by doing everything you mentioned here. Keep that up but eventually you have to talk to him more and let him know how you are thinking.
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