how do u know whos a poser or not? i meen i jus added someone that said they were vannessa hudgens and i sent her a comment and she sent one back and it seemed like her but how does a person truelly know? i looke up ashley tisdale and theirs like 6 people whos display says"official ashley tisdale".so whos real and whos fake cuz they all say that they are the real person!
I wouldn't take those people seriously. Most of them don't get enough attention at school or home so they pose as someone to get fan mail.. to be praised as someone they are not. I don't see how great that is..
You really can't expect them to have enough time to be online on myspace or anything like that. They probably do go online but their personal sites are VERY exclusive. To the point where it's given out to family and very close.. trusted friends. If it does get leaked out, they would probably make another one.
They would not have enough time to comment you back or anything. Especially those two girls, many young girls are fans of them. You would think it would take days or weeks to get back to you.
You don't know them. So you don't know who they are and what they are like. They just portray a character on tv. They may seem nice on TV but in person can have a completely different personality. Usually if you go onto;
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0864308/
IMDB. There are message boards at the very bottom. If you join, you can look through the posts.. where some people found their myspaces.
Also to determine if the person is real, they usually have casual photos.. no fancy makeup or studio pictures. Usually they have a cam/pic they hold a sign stating that they are the real.. whoever. Yet, someone could have easily stolen that picture and created a myspace from that. That's why you shouldn't get hung over a celebrity on the internet. Everyone is a poser.
But I found "Khleo Thomas'" myspace once. Nothing fancy. It looked just like him, no studio pictures or anything. All photos were a constant normal size. Nothing too small like the thumbnails that you can find on the internet.
I wouldn't bother with those sites. You may try adding fan sites.. to get information like.. concert dates.. upcoming movies about them.. something like that.
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Alright.. wow.
well i was talking to my bf and we've been together almost 4 years, and we havent gotten very intimate. not past 1st base, i've tried to go down on him several times and he just never lets me.
well, today we were asking eachother random questions, and I asked him what his size was.
well, it took a really long time to get out of him, but its because hes only 2 inches.
Well, that was akward.
What i want to know, is how much does it actually take to please a woman?
hes really self concious now, and i need like, statistics to tell him, something that will make him feel better :/
please guys!
i don't think size matters in pleasing a woman. It really depends on SKILL. You know even a larger size may not pleasure you. They have to know some knowledge as to what they are doing. When girls say size matters and bigger is what they want. Anything beyond .. i don't know. 8 or 9 inches could be really painful.
When your boyfriend becomes hard, he's probably twice that size. Since you have been together for so many years.. Maybe you should start to try to become intimate.. Let him know that his size is okay. If you don't orgasm during sex, it's not uncommon.. most women can't. I really think it depends on skill. Practice and tell him what you like. I never thought I would orgasm off of penetration alone. Usually I don't. So don't give him statistics. He doesn't need to hear it. But most men are not large, it's just bragging for a higher confidence, you know? Large isn't always that great. Small and average can be good enough.
You just have to try things and talk to him. Let him know you're going to be with him because after that, he's probably going to constantly think about the possibility that you're going to leave him and tell people.
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Christopher Columbus didn't DO anything! He DID NOT discover America! Its should be Rosa Parks day BECAUSE SHE ACTUALLY DID SOMETHING!!!!!!! Does anyone know any websites that I could go research that kind of stuff? To proove that he didn't do anything and that it should be Rosa Parks day?!!??!!!
Where did you hear this from?
http://www.eyewitnesstohistory.com/columbus.htm
http://wilstar.com/holidays/columbus.htm
"CHRISTOPHER COLUMBUS discovered America in 1492. At least that is what all elementary school children were always taught: "In 1492, Columbus sailed the ocean blue." Of course, Columbus never did "discover" North America, and the regions he did explore were already inhabited. He only discovered them from the viewpoint of the Europeans. "
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosa_Parks
Rosa Parks refused to give up her seat on a bus. Thus, she was arrested. She did make people aware by the white men's actions.. But Mr.Martin Luther King made a difference with his famous speech. So I don't think she deserves a Rosa Parks Day.. Because other people have done actions like her.. so does that mean they deserve their own day too?
edit;
i didn't restate your question.
i gave you INFORMATION.
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well i just want to know what does it mean when you skip a period.Because like i didnt have my period for september and usaully i have it at the end of the month but i didnt have one.And i want to know is it nomarl,and this is the first tinme it every happen to me so whats going on.
Just because you skip periods doesn't mean you are pregnant. Age doesn't matter either. Usually your period is irregular for the first year(s). Sometimes it doesn't become regular for some women so they go on the pill.
It's normal and it's okay unless you don't get your period for like 3 or 4 months. Then you must go see you a doctor.
The common reasons why you skip a period is mostly because of stress, rapid weight loss/gain and illness.
Maybe your period is late. Sometimes it can be a week or two late. For the same reasons above. I was a few weeks late. It happened to my mother too. So it's pretty normal.
If you aren't sexually active, then you should be okay.
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I'm going to go on birth control. I haven't had my period for a few months due to losing a lot of weight & being a bit underweight. I heard you gain weight from the pill. Why is this & what kind of weight do you actually gain?? Is it more stored fat or water retention or what?? I really am afraid of this because I think its so artificial. I rather just eat more food rather than gain weight from a pill. It really scares me. Can anyone give their own advice/opinion on this situation or personal experiences?? Thanks!!
Well it really depends on how your body reacts to it. You may lose some weight or either gain it. After a few weeks from I've heard, you may lose that gained weight. You just have to experience it.
I gained some weight.. towards my boobs from what I've noticed. So it's all good haha! B cup to almost a D cup. I've also moved from a size 1 to a 2. But I think weight gain is based on your appetie change. Some women get some food cravings while on the pill. You may not. I think it's stored fat. But half of the doctors say it's a "myth".
Eating food may not help you if you have a high metabolism. The pill will make you gain about 5 pounds. Well my doctor said that. I guess you'll have to talk to yours. They all have different opinions.
I mean if you don't like your gained weight, just get off the pill.
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k so i have a silver dress and black shoes for homecoming. what color should i paint my nails?
Ideas;
-Black with silver-ish tips.
-Turquoise color would go well with your silver dress.
-A safe way is just painting it black OR silver.
Or a unique combination of both.
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hi..lets call me jane...okay so im like obsessively in like with my best guy friend, lets call him chad. okay so my best girl friend lets call her...well her names sam. okay so i told sam that i told chad i liked him and she was like OMG RLY? YAY so then she messaged chad on myspace and was like "omg jane told you she liked you!?!?!?" but hes not on right now..the thing is I NEVER REALLY TOLD CHAD! what do i do?! do i lie and make up a story saying that i was joking or do i actually tell him? thing is-- im POSITIVE he doesnt like me.
The thing is, you shouldn't lie.. because it always causes problems and drama. If you say you are joking, it could actually offend him. I mean, if it means anything to him he would talk to "Sam" or confront you about it. He may feel awkward about it so he may not speak to you. And there's always a chance he may like you back so saying you were joking would defeat the whole thing.
You can say you have a little crush on him, if he's not responding in a way you like. Just so he's not "OMG she likes me. -hides-"
Don't take it so seriously either. Just act like you never told your best friend anything and that she never told him. Just be cool about it and think he doesn't know. You really don't want to worry about it.
If he's curious whether it's true or not, he will speak to you. And if you do choose to tell him the truth, just make it a simple crush not one of those "I LOVE YOU!" kind of approaches.
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is Jaslene from america's next top model deaf? my mom said she is, but i dont think she is. i've also heard shes a transsexual. is that true too?
no those are just rumors. She's not deaf, she just has an accent. i watched the whole thing of cycle 8 a few times already and i haven't noticed anything out of the normal
she's not a transsexual. they did a nude shoot and if she was, they would have said something a while ago. the other girls are around the set too so they would have noticed and said something towards the cams. Jay and a few photographers kept saying she looked like a transsexual because of her features. she did one of the most conceiving shots in that photo shoot of being the hottest dude along with drag queens.
the photo shoot after that one, her hair was to be tied back... her features were rather masculine [since she was struggling to get a fierce look]but her feminine side outshined it.
Whatever you hear on the internet is just lies or opinions. It doesn't mean it's true. But if she were deaf or transsexual, the viewers wouldn't be the first to point it out, you know? It would be the "THING" the other girls are talking about.
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is it true that going on the pill makes ur boobs bigger, my firend said when she went on it she moved up a cup size
It depends on the person but yes, it could. The pill are hormones so you could move up a size.
The pill sometimes makes you gain weight [like the most 5 pounds], so it goes towards your boobs. I went to a C34 to a C36.. still got 3 more years of growing too.
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does anyone know any tips or home remeies to cure acne. i have it on my forehead and in a few areas on my face. i have tried everything to get it to go away but it wont. i have tried clearisil,clearisil ultra, clearisil gel, clearisil 3 step thing, acne free(same as proactiv but cheaper and bigger bottle),equate acne pads,stridex acne pads,aspirin with lemon juice,asprin and lime juice, rubbing alcohol, washing my face more often, not touching my face and a combination of each. please help!!!
I changed my diet completely. No more junk food. No more soda. Drink lots of water. I had a huge acne problem when I was younger. my face was covered. so you have to eat right and get enough sleep because it shows on the outside. you should try dove soap to wash your face. it's given me a big difference. or any soap made for treating acne. i exfoliate with asprin and honey. it really makes your face smooth and removes dead skin. go to bed with some acne spot treatment on. just put it on a few of them so you can treat those and let most of your skin rest. you don't want completely dried skin. i had to put lotion on for an hour or two because of that :/ i used to get huge pimples, now it's really tiny and it goes away in 2-3 days if i follow this routine. a little cover up and my skin looks nearly flawless.
if your become sweaty [shiny face], wash your face with a bar of soap. if soap isn't there, just use water.
washing your face more often is actually bad. it either dries or irritates your skin. so maybe wash your face one time a day and move up to 2.
rubbing alcohol is too harsh for the skin and makes acne worse for most people.
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How do you bleach your hair? well, not ALL of it but like a strip or two.Also, is there anyway to bleach it without buying a kit? thanks!
You have to buy a bleaching kit to do it. There's no other way to lighten your hair.
I used this two times before http://www.hottopic.com/hottopic/store/product.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302028403&PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524441936070&bmUID=1190972118896
You follow the instructions.. there's a powder bag on the bottom of the box. You pour the activator into a bowl and gradually pour in some powder while mixing.. and then you have it! It tells you how long to leave it in and everything
You take a piece of foil and put a piece of hair in front of it.. apply the bleach with a brush.. you cover it completely and make sure there's enough for it to go through the other side. You fold the foil together a few times.
A tip; is to use a blowdryer over the foil to quicken the process.. Take a break and use a blowdryer again. Open the foil and see the process. Make sure it is not bright yellow when you take it out. A yellow tint is okay because the toner will take it out.
Then make sure you condition those strands well. Your hair may break at the ends a little but a little trim will work.
Some people put conditioner in their hair for an hour or longer and it makes their hair less fried.
It's pretty easy to bleach hair but if you don't feel confident in it. You should go to a professional. They have better tools and products for it.
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Does it hurt when you pop your cherry???...and if you dont pop it and wait till sex will it hurt when you have sex???...will you bleed as soon as you pop it???...will you have to stop havin sex becuz you r bleedin???
It depends.
You may have torn your hymen from sports or something else, so it will just stretch a little.
If you don't stretch yourself out, yes it will hurt when you first have sex.
Some girls bleed while others don't. Some bleed very little while others it's almost like a light period. You don't have to stop having sex because of that unless it grosses you out. Be smart and wear a condom and I'm sure the guy won't be bothered by it.
But you can stretch yourself out and it will hurt less or not hurt at all.
My first time didn't hurt because I made sure I was ready physically. :P
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okay i no i dont smell and i no my breath isnt bad because I have hung out with boys before and their basically my best friends but i tend to go boy crazy and i like 3 guys at once and its hard so when the popular kids are sluts and whores and im not at all the boys tend not to even want to touch me like a hug. I get mad and i dont know am i toxic im in eighth grade and im going to highschool with this kid ive liked sense preschool because of family friends but he is nice but i dont think he is interested. How do I know if he likes me? Please help and sorry if its long.
sorry for the grammer im in a rush.!
idont think this matters but im 13/f.
Guys at that age, don't want to attempt at getting to know a girl, you know? They just want to get something out of it, like a possible handjob. So of course they go after the popular crowd because usually, they want the popularity of doing something 'sexual' so some girls are indeed easy and try to lead guys on. So they are easy target.. because if they don't do something, guys spread rumors and they are out of the crowd.
Don't be like them. Don't change anything about yourself because it will attract the wrong guys. Believe me. Be yourself and if the guys don't 'see' you.. then they are being immature or uninterested in relationships. Just wait it out. When you get into high school, things change. Boys grow up and realize they want something more.. and will enjoy the chase to be with you.
I wouldn't think much of boys right now. It's just so much drama. High school is the best time to meet someone because it's more serious.
You should make the moves with hugging. Sometimes they need to know if it's okay to do that with you. You may also come off as awkward or shy, so they may feel like they will make you feel uncomfortable with a simple hug. The only way to find out if a boy is interested in you, is getting to know him. Be outgoing and try to make simple conversation. Flirt a little too. If he's uninterested, don't let it get you down. You'll find someone better. If he likes you, he will at least try to get to know you better and hang out.
A few signs of a boy crushing on you:
-Lots of eye contact
-He smiles all the time around you
-He hugs you, walks you to classes
-Offers to hold something of yours [either a book, purse, etc]
-Gets you little gifts
-Remembers your birthday
-Gives you his number
-Wants your screename to IM you
-Wants to hang out with -you- [movies]
There's some other signs too but I'm sure you'll come across those on your own.
But those could also apply for someone who wants to be your friend.
You should take what you can get, even if it's a friendship because you'll never know what it can be in a few years.
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Well my boyfriend, well I guess not really, but we (i thought) were really close. Everything goes great during the week, but then during the weekends I can't trust him with his friends and stuff. I've talked to him about it and he understands. But then i never really thought about it, until tonight when i was talking to him. So i was talking to him and i asked him so tomorrow when your with your friends if they ask if you have a girlfriend will you say you do? and he said that he would tell them that he's talking to someone. But then i told him that he used to tell me that he would tell them he had a girlfriend and he told me he would tell people he didn't know that. I really need advice. I know that's not right and stuff, I just don't know what to do.
Is there a reason why he would say "he's talking to someone" ? It's a big difference from saying "Yes, I have a girlfriend"
Did something go on between you? Does he have a history of flirting with girls?
Any background information would be helpful.
But he really needs to understand that he's not single anymore and he shouldn't go around saying he is [since what he said applies it], just to get something [like a date] from the weekends.
What type of guy is he though?
This sort of confuses me.
Besides the whole "he's talking to someone" everything seems a bit okay.
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Do you always have to shave your pussy? If you do should i shave it or wax it? How do you get rid of the burn after you shave it? Is there some sort of lotion or something to get your vagina nice and smotth after u shave? I need help because it take to much pain and time to shave it so is there something else to do? Is there something to make ur Vgina smell goood to?
Remember to keep the skin moist with shaving cream. Remember not to use too much pressure, sometimes you do it without realizing it since you may not enjoy shaving and just want it to be other with. Wash the skin with cold water. Use a good aftershave gel, cream or lotion. I find that men products work well, especially for their shaving cream. If you already have razor burn, try using some aloe vera gel.
If it's too much pain, then stop shaving for a while and give your skin a rest. Once the hair reaches a certain length then go out and buy a new razor.. it should be easier to shave. Don't always try shaving when you see little hairs.. you'll just irritate your skin.
You can try waxing the sides and shaving the rest.
Taking a shower and keeping up good hygiene is the only way to make yourself smell "good". Don't use soap in that area. I heard there's some vaginal deodorants. Unless you have a yeast infection, you will smell okay.
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what does vintage really mean? like i know it's old clothes and stuff so like where can you go to get themm?
Actually ...vintage is the process of picking grapes and creating the finished product of WINE! so it's only made from the grapes created in one year so it's old.
But fashion wise..
Vintage means old but with some retained value.
You'll most likely find old styled clothing in thrift stores since people donate their clothes there. Some of the pieces there are out of style basically and may not fit you so you'll have to make it work. It is out of style in magazines or whatever but you can still rock the outfit. You can find some MODERN vintage clothing in stores like Forever21.
You'll just have to browse around but usually thrift stores like Goodwill are best for that.
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im a 13 year old girl in 8th grade and i wanna know if it would be slutty if i wear this for halloween. http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/sexy_cutie_scarecrow_costume.html i mean it doesnt show that much.. just legs. like at my school we have a dress code and i think its fine on that level.. but im going as a group with my friends wearing other wizard of oz costumes.. are these fine for them to wear?
http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/sexy_tin_girl_costume.html
http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/sexy_cuddly_lion_costume.html
http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/dorothy_sexy2.html
thanks! :)
You'll have to follow the dress code. Whatever length applies for skirts, will be applied to your halloween costume at SCHOOL.
a few of the costumes are targeted for older teens though.
tin girl is a little too much.
It really depends on your height. The skirts can appear too short and can give off a slutty look. Like the Lion and Scarecrow.
Dorothy seems fine though because they would be mostly covered.
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okayy im going to a school function wher i know i will c my crush. im soo frazzled and i need help!! i have moderate acne that i am seriously embarressed bout. so i need some makeup that will cover my acne so you can barely see it. it would be totally great if it didnt have any pore clogging crap that will make my acne worse. it would be totally great. any suggestions???
Bare Minerals is great for coverage. For some people, their skin improves. You should try using some acne spot treatment every night or so. Try washing your face with some Dove soap and water. I had moderate acne too and that ^ improved my skin rather than using products. Don't try concealer. It seems to make your skin oily and clogs your pores. I'm sure there's some good brands out there but I haven't came across any yet.
Bare Minerals is somewhat expensive. It's about $30 for each foundation bottle. You should try the beginners kit because it comes with a CD explaining how to apply it. It's $70 for 2 foundations, a bronzer one, a very good blush, a concealer brush, a moisturizer & the CD.
You can buy any foundation and make it work for your skin. If you are conscious about your acne, don't touch it or anything to make it red. Just use a layer of foundation or two.. and buy some pressed on powder for extra coverage. You don't want so much makeup on your face because you probably know, it attracts more attention to your acne. But I'm sure your crush would see everything but your skin problems.
Sometimes you just need a tinted moisturizer. In my opinion, it's a great light foundation to cover up redness/acne. I use a cheap brand "Wet'N'Wild"
Try sponges or brushes to apply your makeup for better coverage. It makes a big difference rather than using your fingers.
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I've been dating this guy for about 5 weeks. He's really great and I trust him. So far all he's done to me is under the shirt and on top of the pants. I've done more to him, but we haven't had sex.
I have this problem where absolutely NOTHING will go in my vagina. It's not a "relax" type of thing, I'm doing everything the right way and it won't budge. Finger, tampon, NOTHING. The hole is just too tight or something. I try and try and it doesn't work. I try to relax, use lube, and use my finger to try to get myself used to it, but even if I almost get it in there, my fingernails scratch me, so I just stop.
This Saturday we are going to be at a hotel and we'll be alone for a few hours. I plan on letting him finger me...or at least let him try to. I know that if I didn't have this pain problem, I would have already had sex with my boyfriend. I have a friend that had the same problem and she told me how bad it hurt when she finally did it. Needless to say, I'm scared to death. I don't think I'll ever be anymore ready than this. I just want to get it over with, but I don't want it to be a totally horrible experience. Any thoughts?
Also, I'm completely paranoid about EVERYTHING about myself. Before I started kissing guys, I was paranoid about my breath. If a guy were to touch my leg, I'd be paranoid about them not being perfectly smooth. If my boyfriend pulls my shirt up and puts his hands under there, I'd be paranoid about not being super toned and skinny. And it's not that my boyfriend makes me feel that way, I'm ALWAYS like that. Most of this I've gotten over eventually with him, but when sex comes into the picture, there's a whole other mess of things to be paranoid about:
-I'm going to shave because I know most guys prefer that. It's not a big deal the first time, but afterward I have major problems with cutting myself, no matter what I do.
-The smell down there. I know it's never going to smell like flowers, and I definitely shower daily and all that, but I know I'm going to be totally paranoid about it.
-Again, the weight thing. I don't want to be naked around anyone. I'm way too self conscious. Plus, I'm really self conscious about my boobs. They aren't awful, but they aren't exactly symmetrical either. Is keeping my bra on out of the ordinary?
-I don't think I get as wet as most girls. I eventually do, but it takes a long time. I don't want to be one of those dried up girls I hear so much about, and I don't want to bring lube into it because that would be embarrassing. I know all about lubricated condoms, but what about his fingers? Plus, I'll be scared, so that'll bring the wetness down even more. Is there anything I can do about that?
I know people are going to say it just doesn't seem like I'm ready, but this is who I am and always have been, and it's not going to change until I just dive in and face my fears. I just need some thoughts or ideas that could help me out.
Well you really don't sound comfortable. I had those problems too. You just need to take it slow. It's only been 5 weeks. Don't you think you should wait a little longer so you can feel comfortable with him? It will be worth it. I was really self conscious of my body too. But I just pushed it aside and soon got comfortable with the idea of being naked. You need to be comfortable and relaxed or everything will go wrong.
Every girl is tight, that's why you need to take it slow by masturbating or letting him finger you. Of course, you'll need to be relaxed and enjoy making out. Try not to think about him fingering you. The more you are into making out, the more wet you'll become. Of course you can bring lube. Talk to your boyfriend. Tell him about your problem about being tight. Also, if you plan to loosen yourself with fingering.. you may need to trim your fingernails. I'm sure your boyfriend will understand and take it slow. The more you are open to him, the more things fall into place.
I took it slow with my boyfriend and my first time.. honestly.. didn't hurt. We talked about these things and I told him that I'll let him know that I'm ready. Let him finger you when you are ready for it and continue to do so for a few weeks until you can handle 2 fingers or 3. It does help, believe me. Remember to talk to him and tell him to either stop or slow down, you know?
You shouldn't rush yourself into doing things because you'll find that it may hurt you. I've had so many friends of mine go through this. Waiting isn't all that bad. If your boyfriend calls you a prude, he isn't even worth your time.
You can change. You just need to work on your confidence. Doesn't your boyfriend make you feel beautiful? Doesn't he tell you sweet things? Believe in those, believe that you are beautiful around him. Don't care about what you think. It takes time but now I'm finally okay being naked. Since it is ONLY him looking. And you know, I doubt he will want to keep that bra of yours now. It's boobs, I don't think he will notice the shape or anything.. I'm sure he will be busy touching :]
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Well, lately my eye had been twitching. And this had never happen to me. Why does my eye twitch? And what causes it to twitch?
Thanks in advance.
Occasional eye twitching is okay & COMMON. Sometimes there's an abnormal function of the basal ganglion. [a part of the brain responsible for muscles]
You can get this from heredity, anxiety, staring at bright lights, being overly tired, and of course, corneal irritation. So get some sleep and take it easy. I had this happen to me a few times.
You can go to a doctor or wait it out. It wouldn't be much a problem if it turns into chronic twitching either. There's always drug therapy and other options.
But I say it's normal. It happens to at least everyone. Maybe someone else in your family has had it happen.
You could look up on google for more information.
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