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AM I TOXIC?
okay i no i dont smell and i no my breath isnt bad because I have hung out with boys before and their basically my best friends but i tend to go boy crazy and i like 3 guys at once and its hard so when the popular kids are sluts and whores and im not at all the boys tend not to even want to touch me like a hug. I get mad and i dont know am i toxic im in eighth grade and im going to highschool with this kid ive liked sense preschool because of family friends but he is nice but i dont think he is interested. How do I know if he likes me? Please help and sorry if its long.
sorry for the grammer im in a rush.!
idont think this matters but im 13/f.
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Guys at that age, don't want to attempt at getting to know a girl, you know? They just want to get something out of it, like a possible handjob. So of course they go after the popular crowd because usually, they want the popularity of doing something 'sexual' so some girls are indeed easy and try to lead guys on. So they are easy target.. because if they don't do something, guys spread rumors and they are out of the crowd.
Don't be like them. Don't change anything about yourself because it will attract the wrong guys. Believe me. Be yourself and if the guys don't 'see' you.. then they are being immature or uninterested in relationships. Just wait it out. When you get into high school, things change. Boys grow up and realize they want something more.. and will enjoy the chase to be with you.
I wouldn't think much of boys right now. It's just so much drama. High school is the best time to meet someone because it's more serious.
You should make the moves with hugging. Sometimes they need to know if it's okay to do that with you. You may also come off as awkward or shy, so they may feel like they will make you feel uncomfortable with a simple hug. The only way to find out if a boy is interested in you, is getting to know him. Be outgoing and try to make simple conversation. Flirt a little too. If he's uninterested, don't let it get you down. You'll find someone better. If he likes you, he will at least try to get to know you better and hang out.
A few signs of a boy crushing on you:
-Lots of eye contact
-He smiles all the time around you
-He hugs you, walks you to classes
-Offers to hold something of yours [either a book, purse, etc]
-Gets you little gifts
-Remembers your birthday
-Gives you his number
-Wants your screename to IM you
-Wants to hang out with -you- [movies]
There's some other signs too but I'm sure you'll come across those on your own.
But those could also apply for someone who wants to be your friend.
You should take what you can get, even if it's a friendship because you'll never know what it can be in a few years.
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Your not toxic.
Boys are going through puberty
they want the sluts
DONT BE THAT GIRL.
your young.. dont worry
you'll look back and laugh
blow off that boy and focus on your friends
let the boys come to you!
i know what i'm telling you.
give it time
You know you love me,CAT.
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