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Sorry its me again,
No i dont do any sort of drugs or any thing like that and it never happend the whole summer just recently began to happen when i started to be under alot of stress and breaking up with my 2 year long boyfriend that im still in love with haha so i dont know it just worrys me because alot has been goin on with my body since then also..
Thanks again =]
Oh its because of anxiety then
i still say drink alot of water and sleep a a little longer.
When i was really sad, i'd get these weird shocks in my fingers
and it was all due to anxiety.
It still comes when i'm sad
its just anxiety.
Avoid taking any pills though
it messes up your thyroid gland
and causes weight gain.
Hello,
Im not sure if its something to be worried about but recently (it never happened before) when ever i feel nervous or worried or scared or mad my palms begin to sweat alot, to the point that sometimes if theres a pin or something in my hand it will slip out or i wont be able to hold it straight, and my hands also get very shaky! and also my heart races so fast like if i also think of a problem that really efected me badly..Ill stop eating immediantly..and my plams wil sweat and my head and neck will get hot and then begin to sweat also..and my hands begin to shake and im not sure whats going on but im worried..Please help Thankyou
Do you do uppers?
Like.. cocaine,x,ect?
That may be it.
Or maybe your just a nervous person
its summer it may have to have alot to do with the sweating.
Try meditating and drinking more water
Chances are your dehidrated:)
Love,CAT.
im going to a party like a sweet 16. i cant dance.
i wanna be able to dance like not corny and kind of hot. what should i dooo ?
My friend couldnt dance when we went to a huge sweet 16
just get in the middle and move your body!
make sure your in a large crowd of friends
then no one will notice you can't dance.
Maybe you dont have rythm?
which means you cant feel the music and know how to move to it presicely
dont worry!
just do what i say
be loud and energetic
if you do drink, drink a little before the sweet 16 to ease tension:)
not alot, you dont wanna look like a dumbass
Love,Cat.
i'm 16 and have had the same hairstyle for ages, i have long layered straigh brown hair, i have a side fridge, which isnt a propper one because my hair is naturally in a side parten because on my cows lick, i can't have a fringe or anything because of my cows lick because it sticks up to much
does anyone have any ideas or hair tips that i could use
would be much appreciated =D
I'm 16 too:)
and I had long cury hair with a bunnnch of layers
and i cut it!
you can see on my column how it looks now.
also,
cut your bangs into wispy bangs straight across
or the occasionally pin it back into a "poof" too.
having very shaped eyebrows makes the "poof" look better.
if your too attacheced to your long hair
hell put extensions!!!
maybe have them a lighter color than your natural hair
like vanessa hudgens old look.
you'll love it:)
Love,Cat.
i drank my friends drink and she has mono, how do i know if have it?
Search the symptoms
and if anyyyyy come up
then go to your doctor and get tested.
thats why i don't drink from the same bottles or share food.
you never know.
you know you love me,CAT.
Does it hurt when you pop your cherry???...and if you dont pop it and wait till sex will it hurt when you have sex???...will you bleed as soon as you pop it???...will you have to stop havin sex becuz you r bleedin???
It hurts alot.
Not that I know, I'm a virgin.
But its obvious
Your stretching that area.
And most ppl don't stop after it bleeds because it doesnt bleed so much
it also matters how big your partner is.
Avoid sex at young ages
hurts more.
But if you insist
BE SAFE (Condoms)
Youknow you love me,CAT.
Hi, I am a guy and I'm having trouble with scarring, and also pimples. Not really guys will be the one asking about this. But the problem is I want it gone away quick I am tired of dealing with all of this cream,bleachcream treatment. Isnt there like a plastic sugery that can remove this kind of thing like scarring,pimples. The scarring I have is mostly discolorful- ration. I hope you can help me out thanks.
Your picking your pimples.
DONT!
that leaves horrible acne scares.
There is a cream by nuetrogena that lessens the appearance of ance scars.
Scars can't be completely erased becuase its scar tissue.
Don't use creams that dry your face.
Go to your local dermatologist.
Yes there is,
a facial peel helps.
extremely painful and expensive.
You knwo what helps?
Nuetrogena mosturizer.
it has SPF in it which blocks out sun rays.
that will be your best friend.
use it...in pea size portions..
id say 2 times a day.
Goodluck:)
You know you love me, CAT.
I'm depressed. I'm 14. School hasnt really been so pleasant for me, friends-wise. It looks like I have a lot of friends because I hang around with a lot of people, but really they dont feel like friends to me anymore. Most of them backstabbed me before and I just forgave but I never forgot so it's like how am I supposed to trust someone who has betrayed me so harshly? Also, people who think they are better and barely talk to me that I use to be best friends with, only because they care about boys and will drop me in a second. Every "best friend" i've lost was either because of a lost of touch, or a huge drama scence. I don't really let people get to me. The reason I lose so many friends is because most of them have changed and expect me to follow them, and I dont. It's hard to make new friends because it's hard to trust people. I'm sick of getting hurt. I'm sick of feeling the way I do. I dont know what to do. I'm not going to change who I am just to become or stay friends with someone. I just wish I had a constant friend. Someone who is always there for me, and doesnt have a change of moods, one day you like me one day you dont. I just want someone genuine! It's probably too much to ask. But I dont know how to meet new people, I'm just not that type of person that confronts random people. I basically dont speak unless spoken to. Not in a mean way or anything, but I dont go out of my way to talk to someone. Im not sure if this is bad, and I would just really appreciate your advice with all these things I'm throwing at you. It's basically a scatter of all my thoughts. Thanks!
You remind me of me 2 years ago.
I was friends with so many people
Then people just changed into snobby bitches.
FUCKKK THEM.
I don't have a best friend, i had to go through so much girl you dont even realize.
I lost my brother, and all my friends.
But you know what keeps me standing?
Hope.
Your just 14. you wont make real friends till college or later in highschool when people get over themselves.
People are harsh, its higschool.
Thats why you never put anyone before yourself
and never depend on anyone more than you'd depend on yourself.
Know that its always greener on the other side.
If you just stick to your studies, to your family, everything will fall into place.
Stop chasing the popular kids,
stand up to those bitches and show that your not one to mess with.
Befriend the quiet girl in class, or the one who feels like you do.
This isn't even the begining.
Look at it this way.
This whole timein highschool while your working on the more important things,
those ppl who teased you will probbaly be flunking out or will be getting BAD karma.
BELIEVE IN KARMA.
I'm always here to help, i may not knwo you but i know what you're going through.
email me for more help k:)
You know you love me,CAT.
okay i no i dont smell and i no my breath isnt bad because I have hung out with boys before and their basically my best friends but i tend to go boy crazy and i like 3 guys at once and its hard so when the popular kids are sluts and whores and im not at all the boys tend not to even want to touch me like a hug. I get mad and i dont know am i toxic im in eighth grade and im going to highschool with this kid ive liked sense preschool because of family friends but he is nice but i dont think he is interested. How do I know if he likes me? Please help and sorry if its long.
sorry for the grammer im in a rush.!
idont think this matters but im 13/f.
Your not toxic.
Boys are going through puberty
they want the sluts
DONT BE THAT GIRL.
your young.. dont worry
you'll look back and laugh
blow off that boy and focus on your friends
let the boys come to you!
i know what i'm telling you.
give it time
You know you love me,CAT.
i need help flirting im like lost
im a girl btw ..aha
kk give me some things guy would like
and things that might have helped you in the past
Lucky day.
You need to be confident and a tease.
Boys chase what they cant get.
being flirty doesn't mean being slutty.
boys respect girls who keep thier legs closed!
Touch him (not sexually)
For example
Lets say he has a cute shirt
touch his chest and say
"Love the shirt"
Make him laugh!
and make him chase!!
What has helped for me
is that i'm a jokester
boys enjoy my jokes.
and i never give them what they want
whihc makes them chase.
Dont show too much attention.
this is important.
Show him attention later on after you've caught his attention, then let him be the one too run up to you to say hello:)
let it go on from there
Give me updates:)
You know you love me,CAT.
hi, can you be in love with two different people at the same time? like for a boy to love two different girls?
OFCOURSEEE!!!!!
Most likely your young
it is in your nature to test the waters
just don't hurt anyone.
i like him so much it hurts.
i'm a pretty shy girl, so i don't know how to
tell my boyfriend exactly how much i like him.
any ideas?
thanks in advance. :]
Guys like girls who know who they are.
Confidence doesnt come from the pretty and popular.
it comes from the most self-assured and most proud.
Show him you love yourself
and he will follow.
Ahh your a shy one!
Best thing to do is break out of that shell!!!
What i do is treat every boy i like as if he were my best friend.
I'm crazy, and myself around them.
Trust me. He'll love you if you love yourself.
Once you start to get his attention.
CONFUSE HIM!!!
Show lack of interest.
it will drive him nuts
to the point where he doesnt even know why hes so drawn to you.
follow my steps and you'll conquer!
You knwo you love me, CAT.
sometimes people say im annoying when i dont want to be.. how can i become less annoying? i dunno.. i mean how do i explain it. some days i just feel like talking alot and i talk about the randomest stuff ever, and some of my friends find it funny, and others find it weirdly funny. like.. what is Normal then? i guess i need to learn to stop saying the first thing that comes to my head too.. and i dont want to be known as an annoying person in conversations and stuff. so generally what can i do? :( 13/f
your 13.
Do you realize how many thoughts are going through your head at this age?
Theres a difference between being loud and annoying.
Avoid saying ignorant things and never EVER let people make you defy who you are.
Some people are just bitches,
the best way to handle with it is to say
"this is me, hate it or love it"
then talk louder to piss them off a little;)
You know you love me,CAT.
earlier in the year, around february i liked my best guy friend but he was going out with someone, then he broke up and me and him became friends with benefits. a lot of drama started because of it and i didn't like him anymore so we became just friends. then suddenly we started the friends with benefits thing again and a month later he started going back out with his ex. i was totally cool with it but two nights ago i had a dream about him where we were going out and now im starting to like him again. liking him could cause a lot of drama that i really don't need. i need to get him off my mind. help!
GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE!
Go hangout with friends.
Why are you thinking about a boy who most likely isnt thinking about you?
Show him you dont care girl!
He'll come running back
but dont take him back
you know you deserve better if hes affecting you so much!
Your probably still young
the best advic i can give you is
be a flirt, not a girlfriend.
(flirt doesnt mean slutty, being slutty isn't sexy!)
You know you love me,CAT!
I really like emo hairstyles/cuts. so if you have any pictures, please show me! I really want some ideas. THANKS!
helloooo
gossip girl.
i've been a fan since 6th grade:)
yeah i say go with the colorfull extensions
then if u want layer
layer the extensions, not your hair
and don't bleack your hair,
bleach the extensions
i say save up for really expensive ones maybe from mayo?
so they last longer:)
How do you bleach your hair? well, not ALL of it but like a strip or two.Also, is there anyway to bleach it without buying a kit? thanks!
BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL!
Bleaching always leads to breakage of the hair.
DONOT BLEACH TO THE COLOR YOU WANT ALL AT ONCE.
Get it done professionally!
and make SURE you tell them you want to come by the month.
Every month, you go lighter.
Make sure to condition like theres no tommoroww
that will be your best friend once you begin to bleach.
:)
You know you love me,CAT.