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I'm depressed. I'm 14. School hasnt really been so pleasant for me, friends-wise. It looks like I have a lot of friends because I hang around with a lot of people, but really they dont feel like friends to me anymore. Most of them backstabbed me before and I just forgave but I never forgot so it's like how am I supposed to trust someone who has betrayed me so harshly? Also, people who think they are better and barely talk to me that I use to be best friends with, only because they care about boys and will drop me in a second. Every "best friend" i've lost was either because of a lost of touch, or a huge drama scence. I don't really let people get to me. The reason I lose so many friends is because most of them have changed and expect me to follow them, and I dont. It's hard to make new friends because it's hard to trust people. I'm sick of getting hurt. I'm sick of feeling the way I do. I dont know what to do. I'm not going to change who I am just to become or stay friends with someone. I just wish I had a constant friend. Someone who is always there for me, and doesnt have a change of moods, one day you like me one day you dont. I just want someone genuine! It's probably too much to ask. But I dont know how to meet new people, I'm just not that type of person that confronts random people. I basically dont speak unless spoken to. Not in a mean way or anything, but I dont go out of my way to talk to someone. Im not sure if this is bad, and I would just really appreciate your advice with all these things I'm throwing at you. It's basically a scatter of all my thoughts. Thanks!
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But,that will be easier if you personally go talk to people to meet new people,you can't really trust people these days, of course if you see that the person is not the type spreading rumors about others,telling on others for no reason,is a calm person,not someone who looks for trouble that's someone who will not betray you,someone who always has your back but, if you're not willing to try to talk to people directly then you're gonna have to be very patient,wait until someone nice comes into your life.
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Hiii, you know what you remind me of 1 of my freinds because she feels exactly the way you feel!!! What i suggest you do is when your like in class or at lunch, don't sit with your mates go sit with someone else. Just approach some1 who looks freindly. Also i think to boost your confidence you should go get a make over and go get pampered!!!! Because that way you'll feel great and confident!!!!!
hope i helped
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You remind me of me 2 years ago.
I was friends with so many people
Then people just changed into snobby bitches.
FUCKKK THEM.
I don't have a best friend, i had to go through so much girl you dont even realize.
I lost my brother, and all my friends.
But you know what keeps me standing?
Hope.
Your just 14. you wont make real friends till college or later in highschool when people get over themselves.
People are harsh, its higschool.
Thats why you never put anyone before yourself
and never depend on anyone more than you'd depend on yourself.
Know that its always greener on the other side.
If you just stick to your studies, to your family, everything will fall into place.
Stop chasing the popular kids,
stand up to those bitches and show that your not one to mess with.
Befriend the quiet girl in class, or the one who feels like you do.
This isn't even the begining.
Look at it this way.
This whole timein highschool while your working on the more important things,
those ppl who teased you will probbaly be flunking out or will be getting BAD karma.
BELIEVE IN KARMA.
I'm always here to help, i may not knwo you but i know what you're going through.
email me for more help k:)
You know you love me,CAT.
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