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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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I am in debt and I have bad credit is there any place I can get a loan off the internet without needing a co signer? I also do not want to do a payday loan I would really be good on 3 to 4,000 help please!
The only type of loan without the need of a cosigner would be a student loan. If you consider being a student or soemthing along the lines of that then you could rcieve up to 20000. If you are already student then you should have no problem.
i have been listenning it from ages that if u want to loose fat then burn more calories then u eat.
but i want to know how many calories does a man ussually burns in a day with schedule including swimming a kilometer in an hour every day...,, some lite gym exercises in the gym for bout an hour in the morning.. and bng at college for rest of the day.... which leads to a walk of bout 2-3 kms per day at coolge...
thanks all
It really depends on what you are exercising. Riding a bike burns about 100 calories every 10 minutes. Walking takes about 30 minutes to burn 100 calories. Thought when you are exercising the mucles you actually gain weight no matter how little or much you eat. The person is gaining muscle instead of fat. I would say roughly as an estimate maybe 3000.
everything in my life is going horribly wrong, i feel im digging myself into a hole and it's just getting deeper and deeper day by day. i have an mip and 30 hours of service to complete by wednsday. i just got my liscence a month ago if even and i already crashed my mom's lexus yesterday. my parents are so dissapointed in me. i am a horrible student and just a horrible kid period. i need someone to talk to..i have my bestfriend but she is in the same position so i don't get any advice we just talk about our alike problems and sure it helps to get it off my chest but i need help and advice not someone to tell me i'm not alone. because frankly i know i am not alone. another last thing there is this guy i like but he is going to college this year about an hour away..and i he hasn't talked to me in a day and it's getting me really worked up and worried cuz i kinda told him how much i liked him and i think i may have scared him off.. please i need advice HELP. i am so worried about my life and future.
The thing with futures is you make what you what out of it. Want to go to a good college? Then starting now, do what you can to study hard and get good grades. I was like you, seemed like I was always the failure no matter how hard I tried. The reality was I was trying to hard to make my family happy. Being the best means doing your best whether that is average or even below. The only time you can't change your future is when you can't live to have one. So this means as long as you are living you have all the hope in the world to having the life you want. As for the car accident, every kid who first gets their license has at least one horrible accident that will total one or more cars. At 21 I have had many, to this day I wonder how I even got through it to be completely honest. I let everything go, moved on, and did what I could to make myself happy instead of everyone else. Accomplish what you want for youself as a person and I promise you will be completely satisfied.
As for the boy, he is not scared, he is in shock. He will come around and talk to you but you need to give him time to do so. Right now, he is thinking about how he should ask you out, what should he say now to you knowing what he knows, and he is planning out his next move.
i can't tell the difference between cellulite and stretch marks, like when you have stretch marks, because they are like scars, they are kind of bumpy and cellulite is bumpy fats, right?! so how do you tell the difference?
and how do you NOT get them? do you just rub oils and tat stuff? like keep it moisturised??
thanks so much!
Cellulite is when you skin kind of turns a yellowish color. Stretch marks are indentations in the skin, light pruple, kind of like scars but they feel kind of wavy. A wave that goes up and down. A way to avoid or get rid of this, is to buy cocoa butter lotion that can be found in family dollar. Put this on your body after getting a shower and it will get rid of them.
So here's the deal.
I want to go out and buy and Tracfone, the one with built-in double minutes for the life of the phone. Now I was thinking, if I buy that, and another double minutes card, along with and 60 minute card, and program both of them into the phone, will I get 240 minutes? Or will the second double-minutes card not work because I already have double-minutes? If it does work, will I have quadruple minutes?
The thing with double minutes is you have to buy the double minute card, buy another card and whatever that is will be doubled. Lets say you buy the double minute card, the next day you buy a 120 inute card, when you program that into the tracfone then you should 240 minutes. In your case you would have to buy two 60 minute cards in order to get the 240 you want. So in total to get 240 minutes that way you are thinking, you would need to buy two double minute cards and two 60 minute cards.
Okay, I'm 17 and a virgin but I've been externally masturbating (rubbing my clit) for a few years.
Ocasionally I'd try penetration with my fingers or something else but I never really got much from it. Lately I've been trying the penetration thing more but I'm not getting ANY pleasure from it.
I can go fast or slow, rub my clit while I'm penetrating..I just get no pleasure what so ever from it.
My question is, is it normal to not feel pleasure from masturbation penetration but still feel pleasure from actual intercourse?
I'm worried that when I start having sex I'm not going to get pleasure from intercourse.
It is perfectly normal to feel that way. You are just one of those girls who will like the real thing versus from doing it yourself. The thing with it is, don't worry and it will be fine. If you are tense then it will feel tense. If you wait for the right moment, it will take you by surprise.
So, i just started a new church and i REALLY like it and seem to fit in. Well, there's this boy whos name is Blaine, and i like him alot, and we have been like side by side since we met pretty much but theres a problem. One girl, named Heather, who is REALLY honest said that he flirts with all the new girls and then once he sees something else that he likes he moves on, then a girl named Sierra said thats not true that hes just a flirty person, then this girl names Camille said that hes fun to flirt with but hes not boy friend material. I find all of them hard to believe because hes SOOOO nice and like hes so sweet and just seems like no intntion on being mean or anything, oh and hes like 4 years older then me, but my parents are okay if we go out, becuase he is friends with them and with my brother, i NEEEEEED HELP.Oh and im a girl
Actually girls do that when they get jealous. He is the type I see myself with and probably majority of women. You should base your decisions on what you think of him as a person. IT wouldn't be fair on his part to be judged by you because of what some girls said. He might be the one person for you and you need to do what it takes to get him.
how old is lebron james
he is 23 now.
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I'll be starting my senior year this September. For the past few years I have been racking my brain on careers that I would like to pursue, and so far, i'm still clueless.
I took an online Career Aptitude Test, and I liked the results I got. It said I should consider a career in Social Sciences/Services. (Social Worker, Family & Children Therapist, Human Service Assistant, etc.)
I would love to do something like that, but I was wondering what kind of College classes I would need to take, and what requirements I would need to do to get a job. I am brain dead when it comes to any kind of math, so one thing I would really like to know is what kind of math classes would be needed. Any information is greatly appreciated.
You would be pursuing psychology then. This field can open an unlimited amount of options. The highest math you would need is college algebra. The college you choose will have all the classes listed that you will need to take in order to recieve the degree you want.
hi , i was just wondering
i run for about an hour on my treadmill everynight.
i'm looking to lose weight in my legs & stomach.
i want to drop about 25 pounds.
but i don't want muslce. i want to be skinny. i wear a size 13 pants, i wanna be about a 5 or 6. If I keep running, will my sizes go up or down? I wear a size xlarge in preppy tops (american eagle, aero.) looking for at least a size medium. I want to lose weight, not gain muclse. Will I lose or gain weight with a treadmill ?
Actually running helps build muscle not lose it. The best thing is to ride a bike to slim your etire body down because you are using your legs, args, waist, stomach, etc. Walking and running only exercise your legs and thighs. Also you need to stop drinking pop and replace it with water or at least flavored water. The vitamin flavor water is absolutely amzing. Also cutting out chocolate would help too. Eliminate those two things and you will lose the weight in no time. Don't cut out meals because that actually makes you gain weight so eat at least five times a day. Breakfaast, small snack, lunch, small snack, and dinner. This will help the process of digestion and help even you weight. This will help your body slim to the same size everywhere.
WARNING! - this is really really long, but please help!!!!
i'm a 14 yr old girl.i go to a private competitive school but am one of the lowest in my year. i used to be good at maths and bad at english but since my 3 yrs at this school it has changed it to the oppisite way round. i haven't spoken to my dad for a year and he recently left our house and is living someewhere near his office, but i don't know where. my mom is in big financial trouble and she might not be able to continue paying my schol fees. i come from a sri lankan family. my aunts aren't that uptight but they wouldn't approve of my parents and my situation. my parents have always had a bad marrige but it was me who made him to leave. when i was in the middle of grade 5 i move to the city and for 3 and 1/2 yrs i moved between my mom and my dad. that was when everything was fine. then we bought his house in the city and my dad moved u here. he stopped talking to me. we had a few fights but nothing major, he just stoppped for no reason. i hated him and still do. i'd like things to be the way they were but knowing what i know now, i know things would never be the same. now my mom and i have huge fights all the time. my mom is nice and she mostly means well but she is also blaming me and taking it out on me. she is overstressed and has no problem saying mean things to me. she criticises me contantly which i cant bear, and she also still loves my dad even though he is horrible to her and that was one of the reasons why i hated him. she wants me to be nivce to my dad but i hate him. i know she need his mney to support us but i hate him so much. also, although it sounds wierd, i think my mom doesn't understand anything and i am a tiny bit smarter than her in a way because she cant see my dad is just being cruel and obviously dislikes her but she still follows him around and insists he is good man, but wat kind of father doesn't live with s for over 3 yrs doesn't talk to me for a year and leaves us? he's quiet and unlike my mom is very precise and likes things to be neat and perfect. i once tried to say sorry to him in january but i couldn't bear it. i am quite stubborn and my pride often gets in the way but i honestly belive that i have bad parents and it doesn't help. my mom doesn't get that i am a teenager and that i need space. when i get home she criticises me and sy i need to make up with my dad and his parents are sad and that my school work is crap + i need to do harder. and she keeps piling on guilt and i have enough to worry about. what she doesn't get is that i am going to graduate and leave as fast as possible. i don't want anything to do with ANY of my family. i don't care if i'm on the streets. so why does she have to control my life? why cant she leave me alone? i'm really sensible, i don't drink, do drugs, smoke or have sex yet she won't leave me alone. i have no chance to be myself and get results. she keeps sayings she wants me to get good results when she obviously says she doesn't care about me, so why does it matter? if she would just let me go to school and work by myself. and if i et good or bad results it doesn't matter to her does it? plus she keeps comparing me to my PERFECT cousins and contanly making me feel inadequate. she actually doesn't know anything about me. not even my favourite colour. she asks me why i'm not normal but how can be if i don't have a normal family i knoe there are people who have got it worse than me but still..... i should also mention that during grade 7 and 8 and still now continually, i have been suffering from derpression and minor panic attaks. i havve also been very suicidal and i do still wish i was dead. i'm sorry about how long this is, but either tell me how to survive till i finish high school or give me a sure fire method of suicide so i can finsh it quickly.... thanks
I know how hard it is to have your parents separate, the dad ignores you, and they make you feel like crap. The thing with adults they have trouble admitting their own faults. She is not critizing you so much but herself, she is just taking it out on you because she has no other way of doing it. Raising children alone with little help or none at all is a huge burden especially when you don't know how to pay one bill after the next.
I also understand that being a teenager means you need space to find yourself and what you want to do with the rest of your life. Time to fit in with a crowd or join a group. Let me ask you something, if she left you completely alone, never asked questions and completely ignored your presence, would respect her more that she completely didn't care or that she cares enough to pry in every part of your business. My dad and mom divorced when I was four. He treated my mother like garbage but she continued to like him because he was our father. I spent most of my life despising him but then my dad went into the hospital about a year ago. His sugar was over a thousand and he would have died if he had eaten one more meal.
I suddenly realized that I regretted all those things I did because I just proved to him I was just like him. Stubborn and had nothing to say but I hate you. I learned that it makes us feel better as a person when we face what we hate the most and conquer it. It makes us better people especially those who criticize us. It makes you feel better when you prove that you are the better person. Separation is never the child's fault, remember that, and say it to yourself once a day. As for getting through the many challenges until you graduate. Get a lock for your door, don't keep a diary or evidence of your life that your mother can read. You may not have to wait until you are 18 to move out but think about emancipation. This is a tool that is used to make yourself legally an adult before you are 18.
Don't pay any attention to the garbage that your mother tries to say about you. I know it is frustrating to hear her compare you to the others but strive to make yourself better than that. Give her a reason not to compare you to those other family members. If you are having trouble with school, I would be happy to help. I am very good at math and I am a professional writer. I have written three books, two of which you can find right online at lulu.com. Another will be in the stores by the end of next month. Go to the library and brush up on your reading. Reading alot dramatically increases your ability in writing. My email is foxychick6798@aol.com is you what to send an email, aim is foxychick6798 for aol, or send me a myspace message at www.myspace.com/darkesthourforme.
i been with my gf for 10 months and 8 months ago i spoke to my ex through email but it didnt mean anything..she asked me how i was doing so i answered back saying im doing great and im happy with my current gf..and then i asked how she was and she said the same..me and my ex were just dating for 4 months it wasnt official or anything so when we she broke it off cuz she wasnt happy we spoke rarely afterwards,she just wanted to be friends..so i tried getting back together with her after we broke up i met her for lunch a couple times tried to get back with her i tried kissing her it didnt work i was just a real jerk..so my final email with her was me apologising to her how i was a jerk..well my current gf found out and now she dont trust me because she has had previous problems like this..she thinks i still talk to her behind her back but i told her so many times i dont want nothing to do with her..so now she wont even talk to me or nothing she said she wants her space to figure things out..but i think we should discuss things and work it out...i just need advice..my question is what should i do, what advice can you give me?
You need to prove to her that things are not going on. Soemtimes it is not enough when it comes to just someones word so you need to find some kind of proof. But also if she truly cared about you then she would have taken your word for it whether it had happened in the past or not. If you truly want her back, you need to give her some space, and then try to talk to her. If the same thing happened for the ex then it will for sure for this one too. It might be wise to stop talking to your ex if you really want this one back.
So, my family has a family plan from verizon wireless. We had texting, but my sister ended up going wayyy over her texting limit, and my mom got rid of her texting. But, she also got rid of mine, which is completely not fair. She said that with the family plan if you want to take away one person's texting privillages, you have to take it away for everyone? is this true, or was she lying to me? i was thinking maybe she was lying to me because she doesnt want me to go over my limit, but i know i wont. does anyone know of a plan from verizon that makes you do have to do that?
No that is not true because I have a plan of my own and added a family plan recently. My mom didn't want text messaging, my brother did, and my step dad didn't want it, and I have unlimited. My brother has a certain amount because he doesn't use as much as me. They were through cingular but they didn't like it so I got a great deal on a family plan through verizon. She was definitely making that up because I was able to do it.
my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 3 years on-and-off and this time we've been dating almost 11 months. recently i've been questioning if i still love him or not. he still loves me a lot, but i think he might too much. lately he's getting more and more overprotective and it's really annoying me. when he kisses me sometimes i still feel a spark, but mostly i don't. my friends constantly tell me we are like a married couple but i'm only 17 i don't want to be like that yet! i still want to be young and party and be a teenager before it's too late. at the same time i still love him and he makes me feel safe. my emotions are really mixed up and i can't figure out if i should move on or if i should stay with him.
If you truly love him you won't have doubts. When you love someone for everything, you give them your heart and soul. You are right, at 17 it is the time to have fun and just enjoy yourself. I really think that he is hovering you and you just need some actual space from him for a little while.
So, I'm kind of preceived as a slut. No matter what I do or how long I stay single&&don't flirt with boys I can't really seem to get rid of my reputation. and I've had a crush on a guy for idk 3 months now and he HAD one on me but I think I scared him away. And now we have to go our seperate ways and I won't see him for 2 years. But I'm madly inlove with him. What should I do?
I know it is very hard to drop a label that people have placed on you and it is even harder to break out of it especially knowing that they have placed a label on you. A good way to break it for good is to prove the people wrong by doing what you want. If you love this guy, you need to tell him and fast. Some people wonder what would have happened, you don't want to wonder but you want to know. Find him somehow and tell him how you feel. It may change both your lives forever, for the better.
Okay, I'm 14 and i havn't started my period yet. But today when I went to the bathroom, I had like a "brown-ish" mark on my underwear....? Does that mean I have started my period?
O and please hurry I really need to know! I am planning to go to the beach and i need to know how to tell my mom also because we are not very close at all........so if you could please answer both of those questions it would help me ALOT!
Thank you soooo much!
Yes, thats how it begins. You can tell when you are starting because you will have cramps, maybe a little nausea, and sometimes when you first begin for the firt time you will have stuff in your underwear. This is considered normal if it happens a couple of days before or after your period.
I took a photo album to this store to show them this dress that I wanted something like to wear to my prom, and I got an emergency phone call while I was looking and left my photo album there. Since it was a little bit of a drive, it took me a while to make it back there. They had just thrown my photo album away like a few days before that, and the store manager said that they hadn't emptied their compactor yet since the photo album got thrown away, and so he was willing to disconnect the power for the compactor and let me dig for my photo album in the compacted trash if I wanted to.
I'm not sure if it's worth it or not. Part of me says that since it's a photo album, which is very book-like in that it's basically flat to begin with, so a compactor wouldn't hurt it very much since it's already flat. Part of me though thinks it'll be hopelessy ruined, even if I find it. Do you think I should take the manager up on his offer?
I think that if it has sentimental value then you should get it. If it is something that can be replaced then I wouldn't worry about it. If it is important to you then you try to find it but if it isn't that much then I wouldn't bother.
Why isn't Lilith mentioned in most private schools? For example, during my senior year of high school, I asked my Theology teacher if we would discuss the myth of Lilith. Disregarding the teacher and myself, only three people had heard of Lilith. Why isn't she mentioned more?
Well, in most high school whether private or public disregard anything bibliocal or anything that could upset a religion or more. The story of Lilith came from bibilical stories and such in a sense. They don't talk about these things becasue they want to avoid a riot or what they think will cause one.
my bf is 16 and his penis is bent over to the right hes really insecure about it is this normal?
This is normal for more than 90% of males becasue they have the same thing. It has even been said that a bent one is better than a straight one so he shouldn't be insecure about it. If angle is more than 45 then it can create a problem and he should see a doctor but other than that it is great and completely normal.
were can you go for cheers on the internet
First go to www.google.com, type in any good cheers for cheerleaders in the search engine when it loads, and press enter or search. There are many sites that pop up after that, the first couple are exactly what you are looking for.