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So, I'm kind of preceived as a slut. No matter what I do or how long I stay single&&don't flirt with boys I can't really seem to get rid of my reputation. and I've had a crush on a guy for idk 3 months now and he HAD one on me but I think I scared him away. And now we have to go our seperate ways and I won't see him for 2 years. But I'm madly inlove with him. What should I do?
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These are two separate problems.
As far as your reputation goes, don't worry about it. There's not a lot you can do about what other people think. You shouldn't try to change yourself just to win over other people's approval/ Just make sure that when you actually start dating someone, you let them see your serious side so that they know you aren't just fun and games.
Now, about that boy - tell him how you feel. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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If you like this guy, go for it. Life's too short not to. Ignore what they other people say about you, and eventually they'll stop saying it. If you don't let them know it gets to you, they'll have no reason to keep up with it.
-Laura. (16-f)
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You 'think' you scared him away, but you don't know for sure... the best thing you can do is simply tell him..
Just call him up and ask him if he wants to hang out or go to your house, and have fun with him... if you are too nervous to ask him out. Then I reckon it would be better to just call him on the phone and chat with him and see how he is doing, and then maybe in a couple days call him again, and see what he's doing later etc etc when you first hang out with him, make it seem obvious you are not a slut, don't flirt over board with him, and leave him wanting more so if his flirting level is 8 then keep your flirting level 7 (I hope you get what I mean) don't let him get a reaction out of you every time (I guess that's what I'm trying to say)
Anyway, make sure he enjoys the time he spends with you, and then call him up again a couple days later and ask him if he wants to go out again and maybe this time you can see if he wants to be with you, just try and kiss him or something, if he kisses you then he obviously kinda likes you so simply ask him straight after you kiss him if he likes you or not.
I hope I helped you x
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I know it is very hard to drop a label that people have placed on you and it is even harder to break out of it especially knowing that they have placed a label on you. A good way to break it for good is to prove the people wrong by doing what you want. If you love this guy, you need to tell him and fast. Some people wonder what would have happened, you don't want to wonder but you want to know. Find him somehow and tell him how you feel. It may change both your lives forever, for the better.
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