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No pleasure from penetration.
Okay, I'm 17 and a virgin but I've been externally masturbating (rubbing my clit) for a few years.
Ocasionally I'd try penetration with my fingers or something else but I never really got much from it. Lately I've been trying the penetration thing more but I'm not getting ANY pleasure from it.
I can go fast or slow, rub my clit while I'm penetrating..I just get no pleasure what so ever from it.
My question is, is it normal to not feel pleasure from masturbation penetration but still feel pleasure from actual intercourse?
I'm worried that when I start having sex I'm not going to get pleasure from intercourse.
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Don't worry about it. Sex is much different than masturbation. The excitement alone can bring you halfway towards an orgasm.
Many women, however, cannot climax through penetration, so it's normal. All it takes is practice, though even so, it may not happen.
When you become sexually active, try experimenting more. Different positions may help, look up a few on the internet, or buy a book, anything will help.
Good luck.
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You have nothing to worry about. Masturbation is much different from intercourse. The clitoris is an organ whose only function is for sexual pleasure. Naturally, self stimulation will feel more pleasurable or different than sex which is still pleasurable.
Like YSG told you we can't really elaborate. Statistically, most women feel the greatest pleasure from clitoral stimulation and not from intercourse although still pleasurable for them (but not the same sensation).
I'm sure when you have sex for the first time that you will have a strong connection with your partner and have no physical difficulties in the way of experiencing pleasure.
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In reality during intercourse your
clitoris is stimulated by your partner
during sex. His pelvic area has contact
with yours. So it is a bit different
than trying to do it yourself.
Don't worry. Can't go into details
but it does work out very well. :)
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I've done some research on your question, and it turns out that all you need is patience. A women's body needs time to mature, and some really don't feel anything from penetration until there's late teens/early 20's.
Don't be embarrassed to bring this stuff up to a doctor, if you're really concerned. They'll know more then we do on here--- and they hear this stuff everyday.
Good luck.
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It is perfectly normal to feel that way. You are just one of those girls who will like the real thing versus from doing it yourself. The thing with it is, don't worry and it will be fine. If you are tense then it will feel tense. If you wait for the right moment, it will take you by surprise.
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