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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥
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If you get your nose pierced, and you decide later in life you don't want it, will it eventually grow over and not make a scar, or will it scar you for life. Thanks!
Yah, you'll have a scar but nothing you couldn't fix. Just use some cover up. My friend used to have a nose pin and took it out. You can hardly see the scar unless you look at it close up.
♥ Krissy
will you go out with me or turn me into Violet Parr or Violet Incredible (same person)with all her powers please I beg you?
Mmm, okay then. *Turns you into Violet Parr or Violet Incredible giving you all her magic powers*
i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks
Guys always do that. They have to tell their "boys" about everything they do with their girlfriend. And I'm sure their girlfriends tell their friends aswell. But, if you not really liking that people know about your relationship. Try talking to him about it. I'm sure he'll understand.
do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between.
I think you should be yourself, even if it means being "less popular". Wouldn't you like people to like you for who you are, then for who you aren't?
Ok, i have a friend that does to much druges and drinks A LOT and she doesn't live inthe same town as me so i can't watch what she puts in her body. And what she drinks. Is there any other why i can tell her that i am afried for her. Michy
Call her up and tell her you have something important to say. Simply say that your scared about her health and you don't want her screwing up her life over drugs and alchol. Comfort her, tell her you care and you want to help her with this problem. You don't want her turning into an alcholic or going to rehab for these problems. Because, if she keeps doing this for a long period of time, that is where she'll be heading. Yah, alchol and drugs could be fun for awhile, while your on your "high" and "drunk", but then it catches up to you. Rotton your liver and burning your brain cells. You should search up what drugs and alchol do to you on google, then explain it all to her. It may help if she knows everything it does to you. I wish you luck =)
I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?
No. There's nothing wrong with that, you're perfectly normal. It's not like you'll be able to be with him. I'm sure the feelings will go away. But, he is a very beautiful guy.
How do I change my password on advicentators? I'm a computer retard and I can't find it on the help stuff! thanks in advance!
All you have to do is go to the side of your screen, and click on "Profile Settings", it's the second one on the top =)
Well, about four years ago, my father divorced my mother. It took a little over three years for the divorce to go through. During that time, my father treated me like crap. He was constantly yelling at me, picking on me, and just making me completely miserable. On time, he told his family that I should go to fat camp, and they all laughed at me. He's called me "fat, ugly, stupid, and a piece of sh**." I tried running away, but he caught me, and dragged me back. He also dropped me off on the side of a highway in the middle of winter, and drove off. He lead me to become so depressed, I would hurt myself.
Their divorce was finaliazed, but we had to move our of our house and move in with my grandma. I still visit him on Fridays and Sundays. He's been making us look at houses for him, which makes me really upset. He won't support us at all because he claims he has no money, but he owns his own business, and I've done some detective work, and found out how much he makes. I hate going with him because all we do is look at houses, and it bothers me because we had to move out of our house. My 16th birthday was in September and not one person from his side of the family realized how old I was. My father didn't even have a cake for me. This was one of the most important birthdays for a girl, and he totally ignored it. He just left yesterday to go with his girlfriend to Florida, and didn't even invite us, and also waited until the night before to tell us he was going. He doesn't plan on seeing us when he moves to Florida in a couple of years. Should I just stop goign with him? I'm 16-years-old, and I would rather spend my Friday nights with my friends. I want to have a father, but not one that makes me feel so crappy. What should I do? Should I continue to visit him for the sake of having a father, or should I just forget about him? Thank you so much for helping!
Wow. First off. Does your mother know about this, or any aunts on her side, friends? I think you should try talking to you mom about this, she'll probably be there for you. As for your father, that's not a father at all. Who calls their own daughter down to the lowest and forget's her birthday. You should try at least talking to him and if he doesn't listen, try not going to see him for awhile. Maybe you not being there, he'll realize what he's missing.
i'm really confused right now. my boyfriend and i have been going out for a really long time, and i love him more than anything. but i find myself wondering what it would be like to just have like a few week fling with some other guy. my current bf is the only guy i've ever dated, so the only relationship i've known has bee like a 2 year one. i don't want to do anything to ruin what i have with my bf, but i don't know what i should do about these feelings. we don't live near each other (we're both in college), so technically, if i wanted to i could date someone else for a little, because we're not ACTUALLY dating...but we are...it's complicated. im not sure if the reason i'm feeling like this is just because i miss him, or if i really am curious about having another relationship. what should i do??? i want to meet more guys, but i'm really shy and i'm not good at approaching them. i need some good advice. thanks to anyone who answers.
You're probably somewhat curious of what it would be like to be with a different guy. Since you've only been with him, I'd be curious too. Maybe you should tell your boyfriend that your not really ready to be "tied down" just yet. Maybe ask for a break and get out dating other people. There's nothing wrong with playing the feild, your a teenager, your suppose to be like that. Your not suppose to be tired down to one guy all your life, untill your married. So yah, give it a shot and see how it goes.
one of my best friends is really going down hill. lately she has gotten really deep into drugs and drinking. it is not like her at all. lately it seems like she wants me to be mad at her and she gets really mad when i try to help or tel her i understand and am not mad. has anyone got a suggestion or have gone through a similar situation?
Aw hun. I was in the similar situation too. My brother was a hardcore drug user and drinker. His friends and me tryed everything to help him stop. But, nothing worked. You be there for her and at least try to help her and talk to her. Because, she might get worst and have something bad happen to her. Like what happened to my brother. He always though that nothing could stop him, like he was invinceable. Which he wasn't. He got stupid high one night and though he could drive home, like nothing was wrong. He ended up in the hospital the next morning on life-support, due to a car crash. His car was a total mess, wrapped around a telephone pole, no joke. It took him realizing that his life almost ended, because of his bad habits. Ever since, he hasn't been near drugs at all. So hun, I know how you feel. All you gotta do is be there for you. She's probably gunna tell you she doesn't have a problem, but try to make her believe that she does. Try going on sites about drugs and drinking. Getting facts of what it does to your life. And what kind of harm she may be in. Good luck!
I'm not 11 so don't worry. But anyway do you guys think its wrong for two 11 year olds to make out? Two 11 year old kids were making out in my school the other day and I'm in my teens and never been kissed! I just don't think it's fair. What do you guys think?
I think 11 is way to young. I mean, your not even a teen yet. Most people only begin getting interested in boys when their in their teens. I totally agree with you. That's wrong.
theres this guy and i really like him alot. and i think he likes me too. i dont know if i should wait till he asks me out or if i should ask him out. i really like him alot im like in love with him. what should i do? he seems to like me but im not sure if he likes me like i like him. should i take my chance and ask him out? or should i wait till he asks me out?
I think you should take the chance and ask him out. You only live onces right? Maybe he really likes you and he's just to shy to do anything about it. Ask him to go to the movies with you, or just start up a conversation and tell him you like him.
my garbage cans do not fit under my sink in the kitchen, so we leave them to the side. What are some good things tht I can do to them to 'hide' them, because they look really ugly just standing out in the open. I want to make them look nicer. Thanks!
You could always decorate your garbage can, or even by a new one. One that would kidda go with the style and color of your kitchen =)
what should u do when these two ppl like each other and one doesnt want 2 go out ???
Nothing. If they don't like eachother you can't do anything about it. Sometimes some people just aren't ment together or in a relationship/friendship.
great advice! keep it up
Thank you very much hun =)
can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?
Yes, you'll so get in shit for that. That's kidda gross to, no affence. I know sometimes you can't help who you like, but I big age differents like that - is wrong.
So the other day I was talking to my crush and he told me that he liked me and I told him that I liked him. Then the next day my friend Dylan walked up to me and said that Wesley, my crush was shy and he wanted to ask me out but he thinks we don't talk enough. What should I do!!!
I think you should either get his e-mail or phone number and start talking to him. Ask him to hangout with you, go to the movies or the mall. Take it from there and see where it goes!
Ok on wed I went to chruch and we had a lesson about sex bracelets but I didn't no any thing about them and I want to know as much as I can so I can tell my church about it I really want to know and if you know any thing about them tell me please.
They're these bracelets you get at either ardens, dollar store or something. They're like rubberish and come in all different colors. They're called "sex bracelets" because people whom give them to you, if they break you have to do something sexual with them - The color that breaks, that's what you have to do. It's pretty stupid and very odd!
Hey all, just looking for some different opinions on my hair. I'm getting it cut, dyed and tipped (im a guy by the way). Im going to have it so its medium length, and im going to get it dyed black, but im not sure what colour i should get the tips. I was thinking of like a copper colour, but i need help. Any advice would be great, even advice on styles or cutting lengths n styles lol. help would be greatly appreciated. Cheers!
I think you should get either red or blue tips, would look really awesome and hot!
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