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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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YAY! i found it! just letting you know in case you wanted it too.. it's www.wvane.com haha it's right on the bag =P

Oh good!! && thanks!

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um do you know of the clthing store weather vane? it's the style of hollister, american eagle, abercrombie, (preppy) lol. well do you know if they have a website? i tried looking all over the place on the internet but i CAN NOT find it anywhere!

thanks =]

Yeah I know that store. But I tryed looking and all I get it weather info! Sorry!

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ok... so i am 13/f.. i got my period in march. i was supposed ot get it last week. i am late. i am having my party thursday at hurrican harbour. now since i did not get it.. cuz we scheduled me to having it last week. but like it always changing my routine. like wen i get it. so it has been like awhile since i had it. i am scared if i am going to get it tomorrow or at the water park. my mom says i am to young for tampons. so that is out. but i am also scared of using one. so i could not just put one in with out her knowing. wat does it mean if i am late at this age? ( im not pregnant. i had no sex)

im so confused Rissa xoxo

Its nothing serious. You only had your period for a while so it will be irregular. Nothing is wrong so I think that you should just wear light pads just to make sure you dont leak or anything. You'll be fine but I think that you should just ask your mom if you could use a tampon only for that time since you are going to be swimming and stuff. I mean you're not too young. I use them and its normal for 13 year olds. Dont be scared to put them in. They are really comftrable!

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is it true like.. if a girl fingers them selves that they get there period sooner... cuz like.. wen girls have sex.. they are fingered and they bleed... sumtimes

No thats not true. When girls have sex for the first time their hymen is broken and that causes them to bleed. It can also break my fingering.

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my boyfriend just broke up with me the other day. & i liked being friends with him more then being together...i think. but i still love him alot, & he said we should just be friends & im okay with that. but we were best friends before this & it will be kinda hard to come back to that for a bit. i want to try to look really good so it will make him think that he missed out, do you think it will work ?? please help, because i keep telling myself its not over. but i dont think that i`ll go out with him for a while. can u just help me ?? thank you so much

By making yourself look extra nice won`t work. You guys broke up for a reason && I think that you need to accept this. It is over between you guys. Now all you can and should be is friends. It might take a while to go back to that stage of being best friends again but you have to take your time. Everything will be fine you just have to stop worrying. Good luck though.

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does hollister have a website? i've tried everything and can't seem to find it. thanks.

Yes they do. They are always updating it though.

http://www.hollisterco.com

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Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a huge problem. I often times wonder about God. I'm sure that I believe in him but at times I have doubts...is that normal? And also, is it true that God has a plan for everyone and some people are bound to go to hell?

Yes, I think it is normal. I mean you should ALWAYS depend on God. He means no harm to you. If you do bad things and if you are a bad person you would go to hell. It`s just how it is. God loves each and everyone of us so never have doubts. You can always trust him. Just pray every night && you'll be glad.

Edit-Everyone has a reason when they die. They must of done something wrong to deserve to go in a horrible place like hell. Not everyone is doomed to though.

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1)what are the three bases?
2)what is giving head?

There are 4 bases.

1-Kissing/making out
2-Fingering/handjob
3-Blowjob/head
4-Home-(sex)

Giving head and a blowjob is basiclly the same thing but different names. All you do is just suck on a guys penis and its called giving head.

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I use the words: incredible, awesome, beautiful and amazing all the time. I was wondering if you knew any words that mean basically the same thing, but are different?

I always call people gorgeous and I always say that! Lol. I also use fabolous, rad, narly.. thats so hardcore! Lovely, precious..

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how was your first day of school?

-caleb

Uhm my first day is acually tomorrow. I`m really nervous though! I`ve been in the same school for like 3 years now but I have no clue where my classes are! Lol!! When do you start?

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wut color is yur period supposed to be???

Usually red. But sometimes it can be redish brownish and thats normal.

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Any ideas or things i could do to meet new people?

Well whenever you go out somewhere like maybe movies or mall go up to people and just say hi. Don`t be weird though. Just be very friendly. If you have any friends from other schools ask them to introduce you to their friends and stuff like that. You will meet tons of new people. Even the people at your school. Sign up for sports and clubs.

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Is it weird for an African-American girl to say things like "Dude", "Narley", "Hot", etc.?

I dont find anything wrong with that. ;D

&& I don`t think saying narly is weird at all. I say it! Lol

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i'm scared beacause my Bf started talking about sex beacause we are in a serious realtionship and well i'm a virgin and hes not and i really dont kno anything about sex so wat should i do?
help plz i rate high

Do you want to have sex with him or are you just dont know anything about it? Honestly, I think since you dont know about it that you are'nt ready for it. Sex is something you want to be 100% sure about. You cant have any doughts or regrets. Just because you and your boyfriend are in a serious relationship doesnt mean you have to have sex but anyways.. if you are thinking about it then just wait a little more until you seem that you are ready for it. There isn't much you really need to know about sex. You SHOULD def. use a condom or any other protection. Think about all the consiquences though. You can search on google all about it and it will answer all of your questions. I just wish you were a little more specifil about your question. Hope I helped a little at least. Good luck!

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what is the best product to use on acne?

Proactiv, Murad. If you don`t want to order those then ask your doctor about it. You could simply start out by washing your face 3 times a day and using eather Clearsil or Clean and Clear. They work for me.

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im 15/f and my boobs have stopped growing since i was like 11.. but there really small! latly they have been soar does this mean their growing!? because im not having my period.. and im not getting my period soon becuase i got over it like a week ago.. so does this mean they are still growing? because this happens from time to time and it doesnt do anything = (

Your boobs wont stop growing until 18-20 so you have plenty of time. When it feels like that it usually does mean they're developing. You cant just wait for them to grow because you wont notice. It just happens. Dont worry.

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I have a horribal headach. We had no power for atleast 2 days, and it was all thunderstorms. And i couldn't sleep.

But anyways, I took tyolinal and it didnt work. I took it about 3 hours ago, it didn't work. I took the suggested amount of dosage, it still didn't work.

Anyone know a way to get rid of them? I can't take more medicen, Im not supossed to take it after withen 12 hours of last dosage. So I need your help on this one!

x Oo Maddy oO x

Okay first of all when you have headaches do not get your hair wet!! It wont make it go away and it can get you sick. You need to take a warm bath first of all. Eat and then take another pill and go take a nap. You are tired so thats why you are getting headaches. Take some ice or whatever you have thats cold and wrap it in something and put it on your head. Listen to some calming music and just rest. It will go away trust me.

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my hair is a strawberry blonde with hair 2 inches down my back and its layered. I want a cute hairstyle. Do you know any websites I can look at hair styles?

I rate high!

Here ya go!

http://www.seventeen.com/beauty/hairguide/spc/0,,625851_630832,00.html

http://www.teenstarhairstyles.com/

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I know this is kind of a stupid question to ask because I shouldn't care what people think, but I'm new to my school and I want to fit in and not get made fun of so I was just wondering if Etnies and DVS shoes are just for "skaters" or what. I don't want to be called a poser - and I know I shouldnt care what people think - but like I said, I'm new and don't want to get made fun of. Thanks in advance.

At my school you would get called a poser and its pretty lame though. Yes those shoes are mostly for skaters and only skaters would wear them. But trust me you'll fit in just fine.

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I shave 'down there' and i do it because it's better for guys and if i dont shave,it'd itch really bad (even before i started shaving) So anyways i have to go to the doctors for a physical and they have to check there..what will the doctor say to me..and will they think it's ok i do?

I dont think the doctor will say much though because its a normal thing for all girls. If he/she does say something just tell them you shave so they know. && yeah they will think its okay so no worries.

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