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i'm scared beacause my Bf started talking about sex beacause we are in a serious realtionship and well i'm a virgin and hes not and i really dont kno anything about sex so wat should i do?
help plz i rate high
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Do you want to have sex with him or are you just dont know anything about it? Honestly, I think since you dont know about it that you are'nt ready for it. Sex is something you want to be 100% sure about. You cant have any doughts or regrets. Just because you and your boyfriend are in a serious relationship doesnt mean you have to have sex but anyways.. if you are thinking about it then just wait a little more until you seem that you are ready for it. There isn't much you really need to know about sex. You SHOULD def. use a condom or any other protection. Think about all the consiquences though. You can search on google all about it and it will answer all of your questions. I just wish you were a little more specifil about your question. Hope I helped a little at least. Good luck!
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These things are not always easy to sort out, it really comes down to are you comfortable with having sex right now. Are you saving yourself for the right guy, and if you are, is he the "right guy". Its gonna hurt the first time, I'm sure you know that. If its a matter of you just don't know if you're going to be any good, trust me, guys don't really rate girls on that stuff except for oral. If you are ready to sleep with him, then try telling him you really don't know anything about it and he needs to be patient with you. Or, if you want to keep him satisfied, try starting off slow before jumping right into sex. Try handjobs, and oral sex first. It will keep him quiet on the subject of sex for a while. Just ask him to tell you what he likes when you do these things for the first time, use him as sort of an instructor. I hope this has been helpful, I tried to cover all aspects of the subject, good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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Don't do anything you're not ready to do. And make sure he knows that. When you say you don't know anything about sex do you mean you don't know what happens or you don't know if you should be on top/bottom or what to do with our hand and that stuff? If its the 2nd and he knows you're a virgin then he'll be in charge and you won't need to worry about anything. If it's the 1st one then you need to educate yourself about it and protection and all that good stuff.
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you dont sound like your ready for sex... you need to talk to you bf and just say to him that you are still a virgin and that you dont know about sex, he will be suprisingly sensitive and understanding. i was well am in that same situation, i talked with my bf and we agreed that we will wait untill i am totally ready. hope i helped ~*~Lucee~*~ xxx
ps rememba its illegal 2 have sex under the age of 16!
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