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IM SHELBYYY. Im 15. Cheerleadinggg is my lifee and it has been for 7 years and i LOVEE it :] I like answering questions and helping people. So askkk maynee.




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E-mail: shelbyy345@hotmail.com
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Age: 15
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Member Since: July 20, 2004
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Last Update: December 25, 2009
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Gosh, how can I make myself STOP procrastinating??? I mean I've got it bad. I come home from school and don't even start my homework till' about ten at night or after. I get on the computer...eat...clean my room...shower...anything but do homework, and it's making my grades suffer. If I would just start studying for tests a few hours earlier, I would do so much better. Any tips?

Im like that too, cause i get bored easily when im studying, so what i do is make note cards for everything i need to study for and i quiz myself. i could quiz myself whenever i want with notecards. As for homework, i just like doing it in the morning so i get a break at night.

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I am in love with this guy.He makes me laugh and when ever he looks at me he makes me smile.He is the only one that i let make fun of me.The problem is that he belongs to another girl. what am i suppose to do . Everyday i wake up to see him. HELLPP

That sucks, cause you cant really do anything, but wait for him to break up with her, or her to break up wtih him. Dont try and play evil and break them up cause chances are he'll end up hating YOU. Hopefully, pretty soon he'll break up with her, Maybe you can even convince him your better! hehe good luck

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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks. We have gone out for the same amount of time before, and I was the one that broke it off. I didn't feel it was right to go out with him when I just wanted to be friends. Well now, I am not happy in our relationship... AGAIN. He is not supportive at all, and I am the kind of girl that likes the single life. I don't like spending time with him, and I don't feel like there is butterflies in my stomach at all when I see him. But I will feel bad for breaking up with him AGAIN, and everybody will be mad at me and call me a whore. Should I break up with him anyway, or stick with him and make myself happy?

Dont keep it going unless YOU want to and it seems like you dont want to. Just tell him what you just said. I dont think people would call you a whore if you broke up with him. And if they do, screw them.

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For the past while i have been cutting myself. At first it was just scratches and then i started cutting deeper and deeper. I am really scared and I don't want to talk to my parents, they have enough to worry about, so is there anyway i can break the habit and just stop...and please don't answer if you are just going to poke fun at me and mock me. I don't need that. Only post if you can help me.

I think its great that you realize that its not good to cut yourself, and you know that its hurting you. If you DONT talk to your parents, and you go too far and end up killling yourself, your parents will live their whole lives blaming your death on them. So help yourself and your parents and talk to them. They'll know what to do. Suicide doesnt solve anything, it just hurts you and the people around you.

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hey im 14 and im male, i really like two girls at my school equally and i heard they both like me but i dont wanna choose one cuz then the other would get angry and im friends with them so i dont wanna lose a friend/friends what should i do?

First you need to find out for sure if they both like you. Obviously, if one doesnt like you go out with the other. If they both like you, pick who you have the most fun with and who you can see yourself with.

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have you had sex

no im only 14...

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My best friend is driving me crazy!! We have been arguing all the time it is weird. Then I found out that she tanyaitis and so then we found out that she was lying because she is fat and hates people.
RST

ha i couldnt figure out who this was but now i remember. ;-) kick your best friend to the curb. Liers are bad people.

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i might be moving to texas, half way across the country. i am really scared because i dont want to leave behind the life i have now and enter a new one. on the other hand there are some good things, but does anyone have any advice on this? if i do move, how can i make it more bearable? does anyone live in texas?

Hey! I live in texas. I love it here and i think you should be exited to move here! its not all hillbilly and stuff and its a pretty cool state. (not that i have anything to compare it to) I hope it turns out alright. ps - where are you moving? how old r u? maybe ud go to my school, lol

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im kind of going out with a guy now, but how do i kno when the time is right to kiss him first? Does anybody have any good ideas of when and where is the best time? lol Thanks alot!!

I dunno but try it with pop rocks like in tanyas profile :D

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This may be a stupid question but...

I want to start wearing tampons but never wore them before and i dont know how to wear them. Do they hurt or feel weird? How do i put them in?

they dont freakin hurt. jeez. all u do is stick it up your vagina and there you go. bam! like that cook guy. its that easy. geez. and once its up there, let it do its magic. and DO NOT stick another tampon in withought taking the other one out. you could have 5 tampons inside you all the way up to your stomach. bye!

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Ok, I'm running for Freshmen President. Anyone have any good tips for getting elected????

Hire the mafia and tell them to shoot all the other canditates....! no, here:

i think you should be like "well, i will not make these troops go to war and i will lead this nation against those iraqui people" yesssssssssss and then break out in a napolean dance. yaaa baby

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anayone know lotions or something for when your hands become kinda sweaty... or if i should go to a doctor and get something..!!???!?!?

Go to your DOC Good luck chicka - shelboney and tanya and lafawnda

my bff lafawnda went to the doctor with that issue and he gave her a lotion thing and its alll goone! :-) luv yas

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well i dont know ne pasific, but i want cool things in my profile....got ne ideas??? plz help thanks!!

well i dunno ne ideas, but u can have like, a mini chat room (tag board actually) in ur column, u can have pictures, links, a counter, polls, whatever you want.

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i need help, i really really want some kool stuff o my advice column! but i cant figure it out!! plz help, and if u dont know how to then dont answer the question!! help! plz! ttyl

~signed:NEED HELP~

What do u want in ur column? I can do almost anything because I know HTML and stuff, so just leave a message in my box and I'll do it probably today! :D

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

Thats normal, everyones different. But i would have to say ur lucky cause who wants their period for a week?

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im a big christian. very religious--but the guy that i like, and likes me, is jewish. i know that sounds dumb, but seriously, i dont know how my parents would feel. what should i do if he asks me out?

Religion definatly should'nt be a concern. Not liking a guy cause he's jewish is like not liking a guy cause he shops at HEB...

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We went school clothing shopping yesterday and the day be4 that. My mom said I can't spend too much money so I only bought 2 pairs of jeans, 4 graphic tees, anda cute lacy top. This week, I will be buying more jeans and maybe one or 2 unique shirts. my mom said i can buy more clothes like in november. my mom also said i can buy more shoes when the ones i have r broken. but is this a good start?

Sincerely,
Helpme

Yah i think thats a good start! As long as you have enough clothes for one week, thats how I do it! :D and plus u get more in novembor, so yah tahts good.

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ok I think I'm fat but no1 else does..are they lying to make me feel better or am I just not fat? I'm 4'8 and I weigh 76 pounds

Hey! cmon, does that sound fat to you? I always tell teh truth and you are NOT fat

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i'm on my sister's advice name, but im a guy and i have really hairy arm pits. is it weird to um...shampoo it? does anyone else do this? thnx

haha. i guess if you dont like them u can trim them with scissors, and i guess if you want them clean and shampooey fresh, lol, then feel free, its not like anybody will know....

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Hey I have to get braces in about a month and Im really scared cause I cant imagine having metal on my teeth lol. I just wanted to know from 1-10 how bad it hurts and how long about do people have them on?

I have braces too! It bearly hurt at all, and the most you'll feel is pressure from when they have to hold the braces mold thing on your teeth, but after that, you get em tightened once a month and in about a year or two you'll have beautamous straight teeth! :D

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