My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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Hey me and my friend/new coworker are starting a painting business and i was wondering if anyone had any good ideas on how we could get our name out there and start getting business...We have already made flyers and business cards! Thanks ! (link)
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haha van lock painting? what a gay name, but no serioulsy put up flyers everywhere! derr! its not that hard buddy
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ok, well, i was babysitting the other night for these people and they were each going off to do their own thing. well, the mom left first, and the dad was supposedly leaving pretty quickly after, but instead he hung around for awhile. i was like, ok, um..why am i here if youre gonna sit around? well, i soon found out. he wasnt going anywhere. he put his kids in thier bedroom while i was cleaning something up, and he came up behind me and started grabbing me. he told me that if i yelled, hed kill me. well, i punched him where the sun dont shine and he let me go, but im sure that if i hadnt got away, he would have attacked me. but now i dont know what to do. he didnt rape me or anything, so should i really tell someone about it? all he did was grab me. they cant put you in jail for that, can they? im just wondering what i need to do about him....im supposed to go babysit again next week, and i cant exactly tell her why i dont wanna do it..so...HELP PLEASE (link)
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yah i know its not funny i know how you feel but you werent exactly raped i was the whole 9 yards.im sorrie for laughing and i know i shouldnt have laughed at you so im sorrie because i know your probably scared
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know this is long but plz read it!!!!!!!!!!!
hey my name is kayla and i really really need help............ i had a dance earlier and the 4 guyz i like were there 1 was an x (kyle) 1 was a guy that likez me but haz a gf (nick) one iz really really hott and knowz i think he iz (cody) and 1 used to like me but he said this morning he didn't any more yet today at the skool halloween dance i was a slut so i was wairing a very reveiling shirt, my tightest jeans, a black braw w/the straps of my shoulders, and a a black thong w/the straps sticking out......... and we made a big circle so that the judges could chose the best costume but him, his gf, and this other guy that likes me (robert) weren't dressed up so they weren't in the circle then the next thing you know robert comes up to me and says he thinks i should tuck my thong straps in cuz dustin iz saying stuff so i said i didn't care and then when i went over by him to sit down he said that he was glad to know i was wairing a thong and then l8r on when me and my friendz were doing the cha cha slide every time i looked at him her was looking at me........... so well does he still like me or not???????.............. then l8r on nick asked me to dance cuz he likez me and i like him yet he has a gf........... so well wat do i do and y is he still going out w/his gf if he really likes me????????........ but i have to back in time for a minute cuz like right after i got there i saw my friendz and while i was talking to them cody, who has a gf that wasn't there, walked up and broke one of my jelly bracelets and might i add that he broke 1 at skool a couple dayz b4 and then my friend told him i think he iz REALLY REALLY HOTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!.......... so well does he like me too or wat??????..........
thank you SOOOOOOO much 4 reading this i will never 4 get u if u can help
Hey i luv ya all
but i still luv kyle, nick, cody, and dustin more
kayla
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wow ur a slut...if u wuldnt dress like that maybe you would know who likes you n who doesnt
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i am too shy to just come up to chrissy and talk to her...i havent talked with her for 3 years. literally... and to tell her i like her seems a little too straight forward but ill give it a try unless you have any more advice... (link)
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oh i didnt know you havent talked to her in three years..um...well i guess jus talk to her the first day..talk to her again the second day and if you feel ready tell her you like her. but make sure you do it before she leaves or your gonna hate yourself
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Ok so last weekend i hooked up with a girl at my friends house when his parents were outa town. she was hella cool, and actually had a sense of humor, and was hot. I mean it all went on for like hours on the couch, then moved to the bedroom, and i am pretty sure we both had hella fun. But she lives like 20 min away frum me (with no traffic) and we ahve talked for a , long time online before i actually met her, cuz she is good friends with my friend who parents were outa town. But i wanna hook up with ehr again, cuz like that ngiht was soo awesome, and i don't want it to be like all the otehr girls i've hooked up with, who like i barley talk to. well? (link)
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tell her! next time you talk to her be like you had a good time with her and youd really like to do it again sometime.
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ME and my boyfirend are planning to get married next year and he's in Alabama and i'm a way in job corp (like school) well he was away for awhile and this other guy came i didn't want a relationship i just wanted to ....you know! well we did and i didn't want any strings attack now he's stocking me and i fell bad should i tell my boyfriend or keep it to myself i still love him more than anything And i know it was wrong. And as for the other guy he's fallin in love with me and i can't stand him. (link)
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tell your boyfriend!just think about it if your boyfriend did something like that to you and he didnt tell you how would you feel? exactly tell him you'll feel 100% better. And as for your stalker id tell him to back off because you have a boyfriend that it was just a one night thing between you two.
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Okay, right now I am having a problem with my man, and I have these two best friends. They have always been right about my guyz in the past…but now, one is getting the “I warned you” vibe while the other is getting the “He loves you, Go for him!” vibe. They both know as much as I know…and they both know him as well as the other knows him…yet one is getting a good vibe and one is getting a bad vibe. I don’t know which one to listen to, cuz I trust both of them with my life…yet…they both know me as good as the other…so what am I supposed to do? I am so lost and confused. HELP ME PLZ! (link)
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take a chance and go for him. If you dont, your gonna wonder what it could of been because you know your friends arent always right even though sometimes it seems like the best thing to do is listen to them
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i am afraid to talk to this girl at my school ,chrissy, that i really like... friday is the last time ill see her till feburary and i havent talked to her in a long time... i dont know what to say. can you hekp me please? (link)
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well you should deff. tell her you like her so be like "hey chrissy whats up" and then somewhere in the conversation be like so who do you like? and then w.e she says then she'll probably say who do you like and then say well i really like this girl chrissy or just say you. I cant really help you on what to say to her because whatever you plan to say never comes out like you want it to. So all i can really say is go up to her and start a conversation and then tell her. GoOd lUck!!
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How can you tell if your depressed or going crazy is there any signs of it ? (link)
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um, i dont think theres really any signs! you'll know when your going crazy! When your depressed the only sign you'll have is that your sad all the time! hOpe i Helped!
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Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dont run away running away deff. isnt going to solve your problems.But not trying to be mean, you do need help.Think back have you ever done anything mean to any of those people who is doing this stuff to you, or to any of their friends if you have then theyre paying you back for it but this way is totally mean and id kick their asses. Anyways, talk to a counselor and your parents it sounds like you need to go to a different school and get a fresh start but thats running away from your problems which you dont want to do but if its totally neccassary then do it. If you cant do that then only thing you can do is stand up for yourself they say something mean say something back like ok w.e or everything your saying doesnt offend me ( even if it really does) and then pretty soon they'll catch on that its not bothering you and they'll leave you alone. Their only doing that because they know your not doing anything about it. People dont like hanging out with "wimps". GOod luCk!
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ok i have an appointment to get my license in december. for the test, is it a written test and a drving test or just driving and if there is a written test do i just study the same DMV booklet that i studied before i got my permit. Thanks!
BTW i live in georgia if that info is needed... (link)
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my sister took the permit test on a computer and then she had to go to a driving school for a week and then they gave her a "fake liceneses" and then when she turned 18 she got her real licenses but that was only because she was 3 days from being 18 im sure you wont have to wait till your 18 it depends on what your gonna do. But yeah if you go to DmV u have to take a driving test
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Ok well there's this kid that I've liked for awhile. We went out before but broke up..and I've bascially liked him on and off since. The only problem is I only like him when I know I don't have a chance...even when we were going out it felt weird. It seems that when I know he likes me I really have no interest but when I know he doesn't like me I get all depressed and I like him soooo much. Don't get me wrong..I don't just want to get attetion because when he likes me i do still have a little thing for him but I like him so much more when he doesn't like me! I really think I should tell him how I feel this time but I don't know how! Pleaseee help me!
14-f (link)
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i think your afraid of getting hurt so when your together you dont wanna get into him that much so if you break up you wont be all depressed like them other girls get!
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(14-f) Okay..i met this guy ova tha summa...n we r real g0od friendz..well i am crushin 4 his older brother big time !! hes a junior(im a freshman) and he can drive..well last night he came ova to my house n it was me him my friend steph & one of his friendz...well we were hangin out n stuff n it was SOO AWESOME !he has a g/f but they r sorta...ech right now...they r both confused n yeah but anywayz...i like him alot n last night we hugged n stuff..n today i was tlakin to my mom n she said that since my friend Steph wont be in town tomarrow i should call up th guy i like n ask him if he wantz ta go see tha movie Saw with me tomarrow...just as friendz...i like him so much..n i would pay for myself n stuff so it would be as friendz but it would be so nice to hang out wit him like just us !! n my mom REALLA approves of him n yeah...my mom n sisters n stuff think i should call n ask him but wit tha phone im SOO NERVOUS !!! PlZzZz help ! should i just go ahead n call him ?? PLZ HELP ! Sm0ochez (link)
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dO iT! im sure he likes you it sounds like he likes you! just call and be like hey what are you doing tomorrow _________ wait for him to answer and if he says you or why be like i was just wondering if maybe you wanted to go see the Movie Saw with me! He'll most likely say yes! unless he already has plans! gOod LucK! have FUN!
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There is a school dance tonight and i'm not sure if i should go!! i want to but there are these girls who are mean and i'm afraid they might try to pick a fight with me tonight! Should i go? and if i go and they confront me what should i do? what should i say? (link)
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GO! dont let them stop your fun their gay for picking on you. If they confront you stand up for yourself or ignore them if they keep it up tell em off just b like you guys are really gay for picking on me i never did 1 thing to you and so on if they keep it up tell on them if you feel like its needed! And if they start a fight be sure they hit you first haha tho that might not help you because you can get in trouble for hitting them even if it wasnt you that hit them first. GOoD luCK have Fun!!
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Well my boyfriend is acting really strange...well he always act like he doesnt want to do anything with me i always have to make the plans...he doesnt call me....he doesnt ask to meet me places accept for at times that is really not a good time...and i call him all the and he doesnt pick up unless i send a text message saying PICK UP YOUR PHONE...and i think that is very unacceptable i dont want to take up tooo muck of your time but please help HELP (link)
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i think maybe your boyfriend needs some space let him do what he wants wit his buddies for a weekend. its sounds like ur crowding him alot back off for a little ask him if he wants to do something with you dont tell him hes gonna do something with you he may even end up breaking up with you because your being just a little to bossy give him some space!.[[bLonDii]]
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Hey. I need some ideas on what I can do for this holiday weekend. I have like noooo money and I want to hang out w/ a couple of friends but we want to do some neat stuff like hang at the mall or have a bonfire etc. does anyone have any good ideas? (link)
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its halloween go to a haunted house with all your friends! if you dont celebrate halloween or do anything "scary" then have a little get together at someones house and prank call people or sumthin have fun tho!
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ok there is this guy named lets say scott at my school i have had a little crush on him since about.... 4 th grade lmao well anyways i recently just got over him and now all of a sudden he started flirtin with me! it was a coincidence bc i just stopped likin him neawyz today on the bus he was STARING at me and in math he was too!! he smiles at me whenever i look at him!!! please help does he like me or is he givin me mixed signals?? PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS!!! i really need help!!
i rate high!!!!!!!
xo~confused cutie (link)
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omgsh! i had the same problem! it could be both maybe he does like you! just ask him! as far as the mixed signals...he could just be doing that to get you to like him again because boyz like to brag about things like that with their friends sayin oh yeah she has this really big crush on me ya know.so id say just ask him! and dont feel bad if you dont get the answer you want!because unfortunatly in my case it was just mixed signals to get me to like him again so he could brag! ask him! Good luck sweetie! [[bLonDii]]
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I'm loosing it! 28yrs, recently married 3 months ago. Let's just say it hasn't been a bed of roses.
1st there's my stepson. 8yrs. Has grown up mostly alone with just his Dad. Spoilt brat! So I'm working day by day to be the stepmother, but in his eyes it's just EVIL STEPMOTHER. He is very rude, spiteful, headstrong, and most of the time does what he pleases if I don't put my foot down.
Now ontop of that I'm dealing with my husband (29yrs) who recently discovered he suffers from Panic/stress/anxiety attacks and hypertension. He moans evryday about how ill he feels, and I have to remain quiet & supportive. When I try to speak to him about anything, from his son, to his "condition" he tells me I am making it worse! He uses his stressful job and the stress of life as an excuse. I love him dearly & I am trying very hard to cope with his son, and him. I have suggested we take his son to a Therapist & that he see another Dr, for a 2nd opinion on his health, or even a Therapist to help him cope with every day stresses. He freaked out! Today, I lost it, and told him to get over himself, and that he should realise that he's not the only one dealing with stress. It's not the first time I've lost my cool either. We've been fighting alot recently because of everything going on. I really don't know what else to do. He and my stepson are driving me to the edge. I'm trying so hard to be strong, cause my husband's not well. But having to deal with this moaning evry day and my stepson are now taking it's toll. To top it off, my husband wants us to start trying for a baby, I desperatly want to too, but then I;m thinking "An ill husband, a terror of a stepson and a newborn baby? NO WAY!"
As much as I love him, and I want to be a good stepmother to his son, I feel as if I just want to run away because I can't handle all of this anymore. (link)
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My dad has that too! so i know what your going through as far as the moaning and complaining alot!. And i have a step brother that age. Well all i know is that the moaning is a phase they go through in the beginning because their scared that something bad is going to happen to them or atleast i think thats how it goes. As for your stepson i think hes worried about his dad and mad that maybe your spending to much time with his dad and he thinks that his dad is going to forget about him so he doesnt like you very much!.Try spending some time with your stepson and maybe even you can spend sometime away from the house maybe go out with some of your friends for awhile or a vaction!.Good Luck~ i know i probably wasnt any help but i tried! [[bLonDii]]
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Ok, there's 2 people you'll have to know for this there's:
Steph: she's a sweet 9 year old girl, she lived next door to me, and she moved 4 months ago
Adam: He is Steph's big step brother, he's 14. he came every other weekend to Stephs house.
well, I had this biiig crush on Adam,a nd I was soo sad when they left. it all hit me as i watched the moving van drive off, that I loved him, I started crying remembering all the great memories. we've played spin the bottle he kissed me, that was my first kiss. and my last. it was just a kiss on the cheek, but it really ment a lot to me. well, a few weeks after Steph moved, I IMed Adam, and told him I Liked him. we hadn't talken ever since. or at least till yesterday, he e-mailed me. he told me that he really loved me back, and that he was going to tell me in real life, apperently he came over last Saturday, but I was at a biig choir performance. I couldn't belive it, i'm about ready to go nuts!!!I don't know what to do, he lives 3 hours away, I dont' have his phone number or anything. sombobdy please help me, I'll give out 5's!!! (link)
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IM him wen hes on and ask him for his phone # if he really likes you then he'll give it to you. Who knos maybe even he'll ask you or just call you outta the middle of nowhere! E-mail him somestimes dont do it 24/7 then u might scare the guy into thinking your his stalker or something!
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Whenever I go and meet my boyfriend, we always just end up walking around and doing a bit of shopping. I want to do other things with him but none of us have any money and as we live in England, it's always raining at this time of year. Do any of you have any ideas to what we could do together? It probably wouldn't be possible to go to each other's houses. (link)
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Go to the movies! or out to dinner...try to see if he can come to your house and have dinner with you and your family...as far as money-wise theres not much you can do these days without money
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