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i was in the bookshop with my gang the other day, we were standing in the teen reading aisle (we're 13/14) and this guy was standing there by us. he was like 50, really racy looking, and he was just picking up books pretending to read them. and then sumthin really wierd happened. he started rubbing his dick really hard really close behind my back like he was sum horny pedafile or sumthin...i was SOOOOO scared, so i had him kicked out of the store. my question is, HOW DO I AVOID WIERDOS? am i a perv magnet? help meh!
Hi. wow thats scary but well if you see some wierd person walk by and stops or come near you...just like walk away...grab wutever you need and just walk away with your buds. i dont really know how you avoid wierdos but you cant really do much yah kno since it's a public place and everything but just walk away from a wierd person that you think is gonna do something stupid and wierd. Take Care..I hoped I helped! x3 SweetStar
Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?
Hi. find a good time somehwere outside of school and ask her why is she saying nasty stuff about you when you didnt do anything to her...ask her why she's being like that and all you wanted to do was to just let her kno that you are upset about this and can she stop. and if matters get worst maybe you should talk to your closes teacher that you trust and maybe they can setup a thing where you guys can just talk...Take Care..I hoped I helped! x3 SweetStar
this guy that i was friends with for a long time was having a bad day and when we were in art class i asked him what was wrong. and he was like back the *uck off and leave me alone. i was like jesus okay i was just asking i didn't mean to get you upset. that day we were making these clay things and there is this tool that has a very sharp edge on it and he held it up to my throat and he said if you don't get away from me i'll stab you with this. the look in his eyes was absolutly terrifying. that night on AIM i had asked him what was wrong and he was acting really funny. his typing had changed. he was making alot of errors and not correcting himself like he normally would. he threatened to blow up my school and then he threatened to kill me and himself. i got scared and i told my dad about it and the next day my dad called the school and my principal, my guidance counselor, and the schools D.A.R.E. officer sat down with the two of us and we were talking and he kept saying that he was joking about everything that he had said to me that night. We aren't friends anymore and i do not want to start a new school year knowing that he hates me. what should i do? should i try talking to him? or should i leave him alone? he was my best friend for a while and i miss having him as my friend
Hi. Ohh i hope ur okay..anyways i would let him cool off a bit and then slowly ask him about it...like remember when you said all that...where you really joking because i took it really seriously...and it really scared me. i mean we are best friends and now we are so far apart. what happened? so you not like me as a friend no more? and see what he says...maybe has something to say about it and if threaten you again i would maybe talk to his parents or mom and ask then how he's been lately. but yes try to talk to him and knowing that you are safe while you are with him. Take Care..I hoped I helped! x3 SweetStar
look...i haven't had the best of life and i just want to know how am i supposed to get my life back on track i was but now im starting to fuck off a bit agian and im gonna be going t school pretty soon and i want to at least make it through high skool and ill be happy but as far as i know thats not even going to happen...ive done so much shit it like a habit but i stoppe dbut now i think im gonna or i think i am already starting to do it agian... its like some one else is taking over me... i need help and i cant tell my parents becuz of some reasons... it would probably help if i told you wat ive done but im kinda ashamed of it all but yet i don't wanna stop but i do.... its just comfusing...ill just go now ... someone please help me...
Hi. everyone has a tough part somewhere in life...all i can say is that you need to talk control over your life now. i know it doesnt sound helpful but everything you do is from you which means if you started to do something you have the control to stop it but it's just the matter if you really want to or not. i understand if you dont want to talk to your parents about it because they always expect the best from their child so you just have to help yourself now..."it would probably help if i told you wat ive done but im kinda ashamed of it all" about this if you want you can personally contact me *Inbox *email (skaterangel11190@aol.com) *AIM and we can talk. i'm ready to talk to you and listen if you need. Take Care..I hoped I helped! x3 SweetStar
I have this guy that I liked about 2 years ago and he found out about it. Now, I don't like him like that (AT ALL!!!) How do I let him down easy, because I just broke up with a long time boyfriend and I know that he's about to ask me out. He got mad and said REALLY loud how I told him that I liked him when I mentioned that I didn't like anyone at the moment. THANKS!
Hi. its much easier if you talk to him one on one. because it's easier to talk and everything you guys talk about will be only for you guys to hear. tell him that you used to have a thing for him but now after all that and everything you felt like you need to just fly solo for now especially breaking up with a long time boyfriend. i'm sure if you guys are friends he will totally respect your decision and since he likes you and is about to ask you out i'm sure he will understand even more...let me know if you need anymore help.take care..I hope I helped! x3 SweetStar
I just broke up with a longtime boyfriend. He didn't seem to care at all. How do I deal? What do I do to keep my mind from straying his way?
Hi. if he doesnt care then you should worry about him...i know it's cruel but he doesnt deserve you if he doesnt care about who cares for him and who doesnt...just take some time out and think about some things and try to forget him. it's wont be easy but i'm sure you will be over him soon. i bet someones out there waiting for you . take care...I hope I helped! x3 SweetStar
Hey if you know... what are some good sites for buying belly button rings besides bodycandy.com? Thanks!
Hey. i have my bellybutton done too..! lol anyways if you go to yahoo.com and type in bellybutton rings in the search TONS will come up. let me kno if this helps! I hope I helped! x3 SweetStar
ok i know this has been asked a billion times already but oh well.
i am perfectly comfortable with how i look except for my stomache. it could be skinnier. i go back to school in about 3 weeks and i want to know some good workout ideas to get my stomache firmer by then.
if you have any ideas at all that you know will work, write back!!!
Hi. to form up your tummy you can do some sit ups. or if you have a youga ball you can lay on that and do the sit ups. thats the best way i heard of so far. you can do it right before you go to bed as much as you want or whenever you have a good time to do this. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
how do u get rid of blackheads on ur nose without using any of those products that u buy at the store? something like a home-made remedy
Hi. i dont know if this will help but you can try...it might not be the best way but here. blackheads is dirt and everything trapped in your pores. what i do it squeeze the blackheads and the dirt and everything come out and just use some face wash and it should be clearned until you have to do it again. it might hurt tho too but i got use to doing it so yea...it's might be wierd but it does work...so yeah hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
ok.i got this new courdoroy tan/white skirt..what kind of shoes would be best to wear with it? Im not the best walker in heals lol. Would plain white sneakers be good? What kinda "fancier" shoes would be best?
Also..i have split ends...but i like my long hair..does layering it sound like a good idea?
Hey. maybe loafers will go well...i'm not sure and it depends wut kind of shoes you have too. you can get heels that are not as high. you can find plenty of those sip on heels that arint high at all and those go well with lots of skirts. layering your hair is a great way! but you have to have it layered regularly. (NOT TRIM LAYERED or else your hair will be super short if you get both. i learned it the hard way!) hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
My parents have been divorced for several years now and until about a year ago I've had a good relationship with both of them. I live with my mom and I used to see my dad every second weekend. Then about two years ago he got re-married. At first things were going good and then she got pregnant and my step-sister was born just before Christmas. I spent last Christmas with them and that was the last time I've seen my dad. I don't know what happened but all of a sudden he just stopped calling me. I used to try and call him but he never answered the phone or was too busy to see me. So I've basically given up. It's gotten to the point the point I don't even want to see him anymore because I really feel like he doesn't care. Everyone tells me I need to re-establish a relationship with him, and I've been thinking about it, but he acts like he doesn't want to see me. What should I do?
Hey. i hope you feel better...okay well if you feel like he doesnt want to see why dont you tell your mom about it and then take a trip to his house and be like dad can we talk about something...lately it just feels like we haven't spent time together anymore since my stepsister has been born...are you too busy? because i would like to spend some time with you sometime if youre not busy and ask him some questions about whatever you want to know. be the brave one and make the first move to get his attention or even talk to your setpmom. i'm sure she's not evil and you guys can just talk about it. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
this is gonna be long but i promise iw ill rate u really good. ok here goes: i used to be best friends with this boy but we're not really as close anymore, but we still love eachother and care about eachother and stuff. ok so he went on vacation for a while and his gf started becoming friends w/ this guy, and the guy told me that she did all this stuff with him like lick his neck, french kisshim, lay on his lap and rub his thing w/ her head, etc. well her boyfriend came back and he found out they were hanging out and he was sorta mad cuz well you know, why wouldn't he be? my question is should i tell him? i want to stay out of it cuz i dont want any drama but i luv him and wish he knew. i dont think she'll tell him or break up w/ him soon but i dont know. help.
Hi. it depends well i guess how the girl is...is she known for being with a lot of guys yah kno? because if she has and then i say you tell him so he and the rest of the guys wont get hurt. and if you are going to tell him no matter what..find a right time to tell him so it might be less hurt. or just write him a note or type it so he doesnt kno who it is and drop it by his locker or something therefore he wont kno who told him so you wont be in it...and just stay with him alot to make sure he's okay if you choose to tell him...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
Hey! This question is for anyone who has ever changed schools! I wanna know how long it takes to make friends! I'm really pretty shy and I'm so scared I won't have any friends!! I dont know anyone and I want to know some ideas on how to get to know everyone! Thanks a billion! -me!
Hey. i recently just changed school and well i didn't really meet anyone cuz i haven't tried but everyone at ur new school should be very nice so just open up yah kno and be the first to say hi and talk to them yah kno?...just be yourself and nice and everything and put the shyness away and dont be scared. i'll do the same if you do..lol ^_^ hope i helped! x3 SweetStar.
hey i have these new black adn pink sneakers theyre mainly black but i was jus wonderin wut could i wear wit it cuz like i personally think it looks weird if im wearing shorts with it or a skirt with it i feel like i should b wearing pants with it all the tym... wut do u guys think?
Hey. you can mix and match...nothing is more rad then mix matching and dont we all feel wierd in things that we feel like they dont match? lol try blue jeans or denium or something...but it doesnt always have to be pants to have it look good...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do
Hey. well are you ready to make out with a guy? maybe your want to take things slow unlike your friend so you dont have to feel like a loner...it's not like it makes you cooler...it's how you feel for that person that you guys are comforable to make out yah kno?...i know probably most of the time if your friends does that you have to do it too (something like that) but it doesnt...maybe your just not ready yet but it doesnt mean you wont tho...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
ok...i need help!!! lyk in the movire thirteen...the girl tracy and her mom dont get along and lyk i sorta dont get along with my mom...and we fight over lyk the stupidest things and im just afraid that me and my mom are gonna fight as bad as tracy and her mom...and i never ever want that to happen!!!! also, im afraid the peer pressure is gona get me into drugs and sex and lyk smoking...and im sooo scared and i dont want that to happen AT ALL!!!! this sucks balls.
Hi. then dont let it happen!! have some bonding time with your mom and be like mom i think we've been fighting just TOO much and i dont want to end up like this one movie i saw so can we just well i guess start over and just bond for a change yah kno?...and drugs sex and smoking if YOUR choice...if you say no then no one can stop you but yourself yah kno? so it's your chose if youre gonna do it or not...and yes talk to your mom about it and if she doesnt listen write her a note or just get ur attention and talk it out. i'm sure your mom will understand because she was once a teen too...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
I'm starting a new school as a sophmore on the 16th of this month where I don't know anybody! In my old school I was semi*popular! I want to be very popular in my new school. Do you think that it is possible for the "new kid" to be popular? Anyone have any advice on how I can do that? Or if you look up to someone or know someone popular....can u tell me what makes them popular. Anything would help. Thanks a bunch! Kisses! -*-me-*-
Hey. does it really matter? lol i'm just kidding...being popular is being known by alot of ppl yah kno?...so just be nice and everything and try to learn about other ppl that maybe you not like and if everyone knows you and likes you then it's automaticlly popluar there...hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
okie.well i like this boy.we just started talking and now i like him even more. i know that he like me to. but i want 2 know.if me being 14.turning 15. and he being 12 turing 13 is really bad 2 even think about goin out with him?
14/f
Hey. wutever tells you wut to do in ur heart. if you want to then sure go for it cuz age doesnt matter and if you really like him you should just go for it! tell me how it goes if u do end up asking him or something! hope i helped! x3 SweetStar
OKay my ex boyfriend n i were in love for a total of 8 months we talked about our kids n how we wanted to get married n stuff.. but now he dumped me and after 2 weeks he has a new girlfriend [[my bestfriend]] she promised me that she would not go out with him and now she backstabbed me n went out with him! Im totally not over him and i dont know what to do.. i still love him so much.. but he doesn't care about me.. [[if u have advice]] tell me cause i rate high!He also tells me he hates me n doesn't care about me.. idk what to do!
-In love-
Hi. first of all it doesnt matter if you rate me a 1 i will still help. anyways...i would be friends with ur friend if she made a promise and broken it for ur ex...she's not a loyal friend to you and you deserve someone better then her and your ex. i kno it hurts alot cuz you were in a deep relationship but just keep your mind off him and basically whatever that reminds you of him...everything takes time to heal and if he tells you that he hates you then he's not worth your love...no matter what kind of couples break they never tell eachother that they hate them...i'm not trying to make things worst but in other words he could of used you for her...i would say take some time away from them and have fun. i hope i helped! contact me if you need. x3 SweetStar
ok mai friend (shes 14) n her ex (hes 16) went out for 10 months n just broke up yesterday cuz his dumbass cheated on her w/ a 12 yr old. yeh...thats kinda sick, but anyways she really loves him n he wants her to forgive him so they wont be on bad terms w/ each other. but, the problem is, theyre both too stubborn to talk about what happened..do u have any advice for her?
Hey. SIT THEM DOWN AND TALK! thats all because no matter how stubborn they are they have a soft heart so just have them talk...lock them in a room and be like you cant come out until you have solved the problem. hope i helped! x3 SweetStar