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comfused!!


Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 5:08 pm


look...i haven't had the best of life and i just want to know how am i supposed to get my life back on track i was but now im starting to fuck off a bit agian and im gonna be going t school pretty soon and i want to at least make it through high skool and ill be happy but as far as i know thats not even going to happen...ive done so much shit it like a habit but i stoppe dbut now i think im gonna or i think i am already starting to do it agian... its like some one else is taking over me... i need help and i cant tell my parents becuz of some reasons... it would probably help if i told you wat ive done but im kinda ashamed of it all but yet i don't wanna stop but i do.... its just comfusing...ill just go now ... someone please help me...


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SweetStarx89 answered Monday August 9 2004, 7:49 pm:
Hi. everyone has a tough part somewhere in life...all i can say is that you need to talk control over your life now. i know it doesnt sound helpful but everything you do is from you which means if you started to do something you have the control to stop it but it's just the matter if you really want to or not. i understand if you dont want to talk to your parents about it because they always expect the best from their child so you just have to help yourself now..."it would probably help if i told you wat ive done but im kinda ashamed of it all" about this if you want you can personally contact me *Inbox *email (skaterangel11190@aol.com) *AIM and we can talk. i'm ready to talk to you and listen if you need. Take Care..I hoped I helped! x3 SweetStar

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NicoleMarie answered Monday August 9 2004, 6:28 pm:
Acknowledging that you have a problem, is a really good start. Now try to think about the things that set you off and make you want to jump back into these habits. How is your family life. Do you have other siblings? Do you have any close friends? I don't want to give you any unuseful advice but it might help if you get involved in other things such as after school sports. I never that i had such a passion for basket ball until i joined. And i joined because i wanted to keep myself out of trouble. Normally, after school, i would get high. I used to go "mailbox bashing" I would start fights with people for no reason. Joining basketball allowed me to release my frusteration and anger (without hurting people) Also, this gives you the chance to earn a scholarship so you can go to a good college. Another idea is to maybe write. Write stories about things you have done in your past or presently. I wrote out my feelings in poems. Most of them are now published. That made me feel really good. It made me want to do better things with my life. Try to focus on the positve aspects in your life to drown out the negative. Recognize what makes you fall back into these habits. Avert your attention else where. Good luck

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Roxybabii922 answered Monday August 9 2004, 5:39 pm:
Just try and keep your mind focused on what you want to accomplish push the bad things out of your mind when you are trying to set forth on doing something...

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