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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.

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--Jack

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Aside from flowers poems letters notes what are good ways to win a girls heart. I mean really melt her heart. We broke up but I still love her. I dont want to lose her. Any ideas. I ran out of ideas. Something(s) a girl cant resist. Im not good with what women desire or what melts there heart. Your advice tips etc will be highly appreciated and I will rate you high.

Okay, seeing as I haven't had a girlfriend in a while (no one likes me lol jk), this might not work. However, this is what I used to win over my last girlfriend...

Tell her EVERYTHING you love about her. Tell her that you love her more than anything (of course only if that's true, you don't want to lie to her).
Tell me how it goes.. I hope I helped
--Jack
Feel free to ask me questions in my inbox...

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okay i was wondering, can you add minutes to your cingular plan without getting a whole new plan, like buying minutes?? if possible, how much would that cost??

thanks!!!

To get more minutes, you don't need to buy a completely new plan, you just need to contact cingular wireless, and ask how to buy more minutes. How ever many minutes you want, the cost will differ.
611 really works./..
I hope I helped
--Jack

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I've had my ipod nano for like, two hours and already..theres tons of fingerprints on the front && back. How do I clean it? What do I use and stuff?

Thanks mucho, I rate 5's =)

My mom and my brother both have an iPod... what they have are cases that are pretty thick, so it protects it from both breaking and fingerprints.... it really works well. There should be a case in the box that you purchased it in.
Hope I helped
--Jack

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i need some contriversal (spelling?) topics that are school apropriate. 5's to anyone that can name a few. thanks so much (:

Affirmative Action
Sportsmanship
Overpopulation
Animal Testing
Cloning
Religion in Public Schools
Self-Mutilation
Racism
Prejudice Against Religions
Doctor Assisted Suicide
Animal Cruelty
Abuse
Cell Phones in School

I hope I helped..
is this for a speech?
--Jack

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I'm a 7th grader and i'm pretty good at ball i play for the highschool jv team and i'm atleast in the top 6. I don't have a lot of confidents so i tend to not to play as hard. How could I get my confident up?

You should think about how much you love this sport. If you decide you want to be good, then tell yourself that you'll be good, and you will be. the more you believe in yourself, the better you will do.
Good Luck!
tell me how it goes
--Jack

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Ok, this may sound wierd but...I don't love my family. Yea...it's true. I find it so hard to realate and connect with them. We rarely communicate outside of yelling and complaining. I do want a family that I can come home to every day and feel comfortable with but...I don't think they're going to change. How do I make us closer? (13/f)

Sounds like you need to talk to your family. Get them all together, and see what you can do to be closer to each other. If that doesn't seem to work, then try talking to your closest friends. Friends can always help with problems.
I hope I helped you,
I hope you and your family become closer...

--Jack

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I was wondering is there any exercise or way that I can loose weight in my back? Because I dont know if I just have a lot of meat on my back or if it's fat. Please and thank you!

Honestly,
I bet you are perfect the way you are.
You may think that your apperance is everything, but its really your heart that makes and defines you. I bet you're beautiful on the inside, and that should count for something.
Hope you feel better!
--Jack

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okay well, i have a boyfriend who has had a lot of expierence with making out and i want to make out with him. but i have no idea how. don' say "just go with the flow" because that doesn't help. pleaseee helppp meeee. i rate 5's to anyone who tries!♥

Okay,
tell him you want to make out, and let him make the first move... he'll kiss you, then you kiss him back.. soon, you'll be in the groove of it, and you'll do great

Tell me how it goes!
--Jack

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