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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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Well before me n this guy started going out we "talked" durin the summer and it just felt so right.. and after that we started going out and broke up in Dec.. because of dumb reasons, but he said we would get back together after he takes some time to think... its been over a month and i cant express how much i love him, sometimes i cry my self to sleep b/c i want things to be like they use to be i miss him so much... i dont know what to do or how to act around him i wanna tell him but i get so nervous to hear his answer weither its good or bad.. how do i deal with this?

Weither it's good or bad, right or wrong, you have to tell him. You'll feel so much better just telling him how much he does mean to you. If your too shy, write him a note and give it to him. But either way you're going to have to tell him. Maybe he's feeling the same way about you, so go for it hun! And if he doesn't, find a new guy. There's so many others out there that are probably waiting just for you.
♥ Krissy

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is it wrong to like someone younger than you?

It's not wrong to like someone younger then you at all. The heart likes who it likes and you have no control over that! Go with the flow and you shouldn't care what other people think about you liking someone younger then yourself.
♥ Krissy

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ok so there is this boy liked sennce 2003-2005 right and this year its like i really really like him i catch him looking at me and i be looking at him and he catches me and i be rolling my eyes tryin to hide it but he knows that i like him b/c he be askin me if i like him i be saying no but then he be saying that he know that i like him and stuff and i be smiling trying not 2 but it happends and i catch him and its like i just stare @his eyes 4 ever till im late to class or someone bumps into me :) but does he like me, just teasing me, or just trying to be a flirt!!!!!!!

Next time he says something about you liking him, tell him it's true! Maybe he just thinks your teasing him and being super friendly. Sometimes when you like a guy a lot, the girl has to make the first move. Go for it and tell him you have feelings for him. If your too scared get one of your friends to do it for you, or write him a letter or an e-mail.
♥ Krissy

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my boyfriend used to be a big druggy before we went out. i'm a huge anti-drug person! he told me the day before he asked me out that he had quit! i was very proud of him and all, but resently someone who didn't even know we were going out told me that they saw him smoking a cig about a week after we started going out! so now he lied to me and is doing drugs (which i really hate!) the other person who told me could have made it up, but my bf has lied to me before! what should i do???

Mmm. Hun, him smoking a cig isn't concider a "drug". Even though, I'll try to help you out. If this person did make it up, you'll have to do some talking with him/her. As for your boyfriend, try talking to him about it. Try to get as much as you can out of him. Tell him you wont be mad if he tells you the truth, it's better then lying. And tell him if he lies about it, you'll find out. So, either way he'll be screwed and will have to tell you the truth!
♥ Krissy

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how can u tell if a guy wants to hug or kiss you?

If he wants to hug you, he'll probably hug you. Then if he wanted to kiss you, he'll probably pull away from the hug and kiss you. There's no "real" way to know if he wants to hug or kiss you. It'll probably just happen.
♥ Krissy

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There's this boy that i've liked since about 5th grade his name is Brian. I'm in 9th now btw. He's liked me since 2nd. We've been sorta close, but me & my boyfriend of like 2 months broke up. It wasn't serious AT ALL. But, I really like Brian. If I dated him, would it look bad? I mean me n my bf just broke up like a week ago. please help

Ask this guy out. It wont look bad at all. You liked this guy since the 5th grade hun, enough said right there. Get together with him, he's your long-term crush. If you don't make something happen this chance might pass you by. Go for it!
♥ Krissy

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ill be flriting well start laughting then like the laugh will be over and theyll be and akward slince i always say this is akward i need somthing else to say
lost n life
13 female

Ask him whatever pops into your head. Maybe start up on conversation with him. Ask him what he's doing this weekend, how his day was. Talk about music, movies or sports.
♥ Krissy

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ok 13/f i have a boyfriend but im falling for some one else who is very nice to me and hes soooooo sweEt * but i dont know what to do ? should i end our relationship and go for the other guy ? is that slutty or stupid ?
thankz !

It's not slutty or stupid, it's actually pretty smart of you. If you keep going out with the guy your with, your just hurting him. Since your falling for this other guy and having feelings for him. You should try to think about who you rather be with. See what one treats you the best, cares about you more and is the sweetest to you. Follow your heart, it will take you to the boy you feel will be best for you!
♥ Krissy

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869er questions answered eh? ;)
-Jon

Yes Jon. The good old 869er!
♥ Krissy

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i want my hair to not poof during the day because it usualy does so i would have to go to the bathroom and put a little water on my hair so it wont poof. i am planning to go out and buy hairspray that will keep my hair stay unpoofy and stay straight for the whole day, anyideas?

I have the same problem. Anything from the Aussie or Fructis products work great.
♥ Krissy

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when you give a hand job are you supossed to stand? or lay down..like how exactly are the guy and girl positioned? thanks.

Usually both people are sitting, but you can stand I guess. It just depends on what your most comfortable doing.
♥ Krissy

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Boys like the fact of girls being virgins right?

It just depends on the type of guys. Some like the fact that a girl is a virgin. Others don't because they have more experience.
♥ Krissy

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Who are you in love with? Or have a crush on ?

For me to know and you to find out.
♥ Krissy

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what would you do if you thought your best friend liked your boyfriend? I talked to my boyfriend about it and my friend knows, but i can't tell my best friend how i feel about everything. help pleaz

I would try talking to her about it, maybe she doesn't even like your boyfriend. Even if she does have feelings for him, she probably wouldn't go for him. She's your best friend, she wouldn't do something like that. And if she does try something, she's not your true friend.
♥ Krissy

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Hi my friends old friends live far away from my new house and i dont go to the same school anymore. I'm 13 and i wanna know how we can stay friends for 3 more years (so we can drive to each others houses). I know it will be hard but what can i do??? Please help me!!!

You can still keep your close friendship. Talk to her online, call her, get your parents or her parents to drive up once in awhile so you can see eachother. Keep being there for her and being a great friend. Never lose touch. Maybe write eachother letters and send some pictures. Keep up to date on things and everything will go great!
♥ Krissy

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who is your rolemodel,why?

Mandy Moore. I love her because she doesn't have to dress all trashy and show a lot of skin just to be liked. She does her own thing not worrying what other people say/think about her and she's not scared to act like a goof. She's also a total sweetheart!
♥ Krissy

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WhY did YOu take some pictures off YOur site?
**when ArE yOu addin' new 1s???

I just took the ones of my room off, I'm adding more like that though. I just have to load them onto my computer. I don't really know when I'll be adding new pictures. When I get some, I'll put them up!
♥ Krissy

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Ok,

I never know how I should respond to the "V" question when trying to get with a girl. If I say my truthful and say no, they are like "awww, that's sweet" And pretty much never hear from them again, but I don't want to lie and have it kick me latering down the line. What should I do in this situation?

Be honest about it and tell them the truth. If they don't want to be with you just because of that, their not worth it at all. Being a virgin it's totally cool, because theres not to many of them around anymore. This just shows you have respect for girls and want the first time to be special. If they don't realize this, it's their lost for missing out on a great guy.
♥ Krissy

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Almost three weeks ago my boyfriend broke up with me, I was pretty upset about it and really confused about what I felt for him. Last Sunday, a boy I kind of liked asked me out and I said yes. I broke up with him the following morning because I realised I didn't feel that way about him and that I still had some feelings for my ex boyfriend. Now I don't know what I feel. My ex has a new girlfriend but he hasn't seen her for two years, they got together of MSN instant messanger. He doesn't like me very much in any way now and we generally just annoy each other. I don't know what I feel for him or the guy I went out with after him anymore. My ex thinks I still like him and I don't know if I do or I don't. I keep thinking I'm over him then he says something or does something and I like him again. What do I do?

You really have to get over your ex. He's moved on and found himself a girlfriend, you should do the same and find yourself a boyfriend. If you guys were ment to be, you'd still be with him, but your not. You should also get over this other guy you dated, because if you really did like him, he'd be your boyfriend. Just get on with life and find a new guy to crush on, one that will treat you right and wont break your heart.
♥ Krissy

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Oh ya.. ps: jon says he loves u! y0ur not on msn so he wanted me to tell u that ;)oooh!

Silly Jon. I'm talking to him right now. What a nerd. I love you Jon!
♥ Krissy

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