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this name is old and stupid....well first off my name is stephanie.dont judge me before you know me.im pretty nice.i like meeting new people,so im open to friends, but im extremely shy, so yeah. i dont give that good of advice so i'll help you as much as i can

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I think I am pregnant what do I do what are the other side effects beside a missed peiord please help me out

***Delayed Period Throughout pregnancy This is the most widely known symptom of pregnancy, but it is not conclusive. Some women may still have a small bit of bleeding about the time when they are due their period. A delayed period can also be caused by a number of other reasons including - Excessive weight gain or loss, fatigue, hormonal problems, tension, stress, going off the birth control pill or breast feeding
***Nausea 2-8 weeks after conception "Morning sickness" is another known symptom of pregnancy, but only affects about 50% of women. Sickness can be caused by - Food poisoning, stress and other stomach disorders. Morning sickness does not necessarily occur only in the morning, may expectant women suffer from "Morning sickness" in the evening time, all day, intermittently during the day.
***Headaches 6-8 weeks after conception Headaches are a symptom of pregnancy, but are not necessarily a sign of pregnancy. Headaches are more common in pregnancy due to the changes in hormones
Tender/Swollen Breasts 1-13 weeks after ****conception Tender/Swollen breasts are usually caused by increased levels of the hormones estrogen and progesterone produced during pregnancy along with the fact that your breasts are beginning to increase in size as the fat layer thickens and you add milk glands and extra blood
***Swelling Throughout pregnancy Some women do begin to bloat almost immediately after conception. Again, this is a symptom of pregnancy, but not necessarily a sign
Darkening of Areola (Breast nipple) 1-14 weeks after conception
***Fatigue 1-13 weeks after conception Your body is working overtime making the baby, and it takes its toll. You may feel tired all the time, and only want to sleep. Although some women tend to gain their energy back a little in the second trimester
***Food Cravings Throughout pregnancy Another common symptom of pregnancy, is of course, the food cravings. You might crave fruits, meats, sweets, ice, or even non edible foods such as cigarette butts, ashes, etc. The latter are not recommended!!

take a Pregnancy test

How do I work out how much I way in kilograms? I am 7 stone, or 98 pounds, if that helps.

1 pound = 0.454 kilograms

so just multiply

is it wrong to love a baseball player thats a year younger than me?
*honest oppinion needed*
i rate high

i wouldnt see how a baseball player would effect our decion or opinion but no.its only a year apart

I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice.

just comfort her..shes not the only child that has a divorced parent,theres like half the population is divorced,remarried,or is cheating.so just help her through this and everything will be ok because there is a chance that they will be together again

last week was spring break for me, and i went to the beach. While i was there, i got sunburned. My face is peeling and all. My question is, will it be ok to get my eye brows waxed tomorrow or will it make my face peel more?

no i dont think it will make it peel more, but it will hurt worse since you have sun burn.also is you do get them waxed you might have like a white line because your eye brows cover skin and your face is tan but where you eye brows are it isnt,so basicly there will be a white mark.

Picture this:
There's a 7th grade girl and her 8th grader boyfriend alone in the hall at the end of the school day. His mom gives her a ride home so they're waiting on her to arrive. They start teasing each other and wrestling around and find themselves in the perfect position to kiss. They stare into each others' eyes for a momment, neither having kissed anyone before. The girl turns away with sudden fear.
What do you think the girl (me) was scared of? I wanted to... I just was nervous for some reason. Also, what do you think my boyfriend thought? We've been going out 5 months and never kissed. I need advice on how to overcome my fear of my first kiss or whatever I'm so scared of.I also would like to know what you think my boyfriend might have been feeling. I don't understand boys... lol. Thanks!
~Elyse

that sounds like a fairy tale or in a movie,i hate when that doesnt happen to me,grrr.ok well you sound like you care about him but theres someone else or you dont really want to get your heart broken.he might be feeling rejected,like a turn off or his heart just broke.hope everything goes well

i want to have a party but my parents think that all my friends are bad and they will brake stuff even though there like isnt anything to brake in my basement can someone tell me how i could talk to my parents aobut it or something because my friends think im like a bitch for not inviting them over

and could you give some ideas of what to do because the only stuff thats down there is a tv pool table ping pong table and like a couple chairs

thanks

if your friends call you a bitch because your not inviting them over, theres something wrong.you can probably say to your parents that if something breaks(which it wont)then you wont have another party again.You can watch a movie, play pool, ping pong, spin the bottle, 7 minutes in heaven, truth or dare, dance, karaoke,and just listen to music. Most of the time people will just want to socialize and eat! So, make sure theres plenty of snacks.

ok well im goung out with this guy but his name wont be reavealed and well he went to this party last nite and he told me before he went that he wants me to kno that he loves me and that no matter wat happens to remember that and i told him i would and today i find out from his sister who also was at the party with him that she had walked in on him and another gurl last nite and im not shurr if he was drunk or not and i juss found this out a few minutes ago and well i dont kno wat to do becuz i dont want to dump him becuz i love him so much but at the same time im not shurr if i can trust him as much as i did becuz of wat he did becuz im not always going to be there to prevent these things from happening and i've never loved anyone as much as i love him and it hurts so much i've never been so upset in my life im more upset now than when my own grandfather died and its creepy becuz i've previously stopped cutting myself and now i keep getting the urge to do drugs again and to cut myself again and i dont want to go bak to doing that but a part of me thinks thats the only way to make myself stop thinking about him but i dont want to stop loving him but a part of me wants to and it's all jus to confusing and frustrating and i need your help becuz i also dont want to try and kill myself like i have done about 5 times plz help me through this!!!!!!

cutting doesnt make it better,even though it feels good and everything.talk to him face to face and ask him about that night and if he doesnt mention the girl then ask him about it.once a cheater always a cheater

ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy

no not at all,atleast to me.other people will think its wrong but you cant help yourself from liking someone

I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do?

thats kind of like rape.tell him no. and if he makes you again thaen all he wants from you is sex and action,so dump him

ok, see, there's this guy at my school that I like ALOT for a LONG time. I know this is kinda a typical question, sorry, but, how do I find out if he likes me as much as I like him? And what do I do to get us talking? I never talk to him, but I see him in the halls everyday and we always glance at each other, but we're both too shy to say anything. I don't know what to do, because I never talk to him, so I don't wanna make a fool of myself by just all of the sudden talking to him out of the blue, you know what I mean? Anyway, srry so long!!! Please help me though!!!
Thanks a lot=)
XO0OX

pick a conversation like say 'hey' and pick a hobby you both like and say did you see football last night,who do you want to win next week.something like that

omg so i thought i was pregnant and i put the form in my wallet and i left it out in my living room and my mom found it..shes coming home in 15 mins now and said she wants to talk to me abuot something and i looked though my wallet and the pink form was gone....omg what do i tlel her???? im soo scared

you can lie and say its your friends or its for a school project which is dumb,or you can say that this happens to other people and wanted to be safe.yes its dumb but thats all i can think of unless you tell her the truth

I had a bf and he admited 2 me.. that he loves my best friend! So i dumped him yesterday! Well my ex-bf helped me the whole way threw it and He tells me im his BFFL all the time and i tell him that too. He's serious and so am i. well i love him again but everytime i start to like him again and i tell him.. we start drifting apart and arn't that close of friends anymore! Should I confess? Or wait for him to come 2 me (if he ever does) i DONT want to ruin our friendship.. but i love him soo much!

i would tell him but he would probably do the same thing so maybe say "i like you,and if you dont like me like that then can we still be bffl" thast just off the top of my mind. but something like that

Me and my boyfriend loved eachother so much! Well.. Just to piss off my best friend he always said "I LOVE YOU! I LOVE YOU!" to her! i started to get a little mad! Besides my best friend has a boyfriend! When i slept over my best friends house.. she said "if your bf wud stop throwing things at me at lunch..i'd actually love him!" Well My boyfriend and me were talking on-line and he said "HAHA! Elise (my best friend) finally said she loves me too!" I was soo pissed off! Then he said "It would be soo cool to have 2 girlfriends!" "what wud you do if something like that happened?" I had enough! so i dumped him yesterday! should i be mad at my best friend or should i not be? I havnt talked to her yet and she still doesnt know i even dumped him! wud do i do?

i dont see why you would be mad at your friend unless i didnt understand it correctly, but i think you should be mad at your ex-boyfriend because no one deserve to have their bf/gf to say i love you to other people when your going out,even if its just a joke.your bestfriends with her dont be mad.bestfriends dont come often.

What are some good "I Love You" quotes?..ANY love quotes.

Thanks =) I'll rate..

http://www.best-love-poems.com/

i love this site, it also has other kinds of poems and quotes in it.

If you walk 1 mile how many calories do you burn?
If you run 1 mile how many calories do you burn?

it depends on how fast you go.

ok, heres my problem. im in 7th grade (13 years old). ive gone out with the same guy three times in the past two years, and everyone thinks thats really weird. ive had other boyfriends, of course, but he was always the best. no matter how hard we try, everytime either of us gets a crush on someone else, it only lasts for a couple of weeks, then we realize how much we love each other. i think theyre really might be something between us, but i would feel SO embarrased to get back together with him because everyone at my school would think it odd for it to be the 4th time to go out with him in 2 years!!! but then again, i dont want to loose what i have... hes a REALLY awesome guy! hes a good football player, and hes really hot, but also he has another artsy side to him. he can find beauty in almost anything and aif your in a bad mood, he makes you feel like youre the most amazing person on the planet. so what should i do? i rate good responses.

you shouldnt care what other poeple think.all your doing is going out with people that make you look good and thats not the right thing and you really like this kid so go out with him work things out but.in my theory once its broke its broke, you cant put it back together, so once its over its over.but i dont always follow that rule either so go out with him.

if your are really athletic, are you less likely to get you period? or is it the exact opposite?

well when you burn fat, you start to have your period differently. but when you have'nt had your period im not sure.ask your mom or doctor sorry

my knee has been messed up for like a long time. i had x rays taken of it and they doctor said that the knee cap had slipped over alittle but the other one was over to the side too he said i was prolly born w/ that but now it has gotten worse and my knee cracks like 2-3 times a day and it hurts even more!!!! is there anything i can do to help it?

i would maybe strech it out or exercise a little and it might help,im not sure. thats what i did to my knee and it got a little better

does the type of tampon you use make you more likely to get TSS? i mean if you use regular as opposed to light will i be more likely to get TSS?

thanks

im not sure but you get TSS because you leave it in to long so i would say no it doesnt make a difference but im not that sure

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