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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."



I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D


advice

I started to babysit for money. But there's this evil little kid that is very young (only 6!!) but is verrry perverted. He watches rated R movies, fastforwarding to sex scenes, and he's always trying to touch my parts. I'm 15!! How gross is that?! I told his parents about it, but they wouldn't believe me. He acts like an angel in front of them I guess. I yell at him and everything, but nothing works!!

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?

oh lord.
what's happening to the world!?

geez. tell the kid this:
"you want a girlfriend someday, right? well, all of my friends aren't very interested in perverted guys. touching us & you watching movies like that aren't impressing us. it's actually disturbing, so unless you stop, you're never going to get a girlfriend and i'm never going to babysit you again. if you choose to keep doing this, i'm telling your parents (don't actually tell them cause you already did. i know you said they don't care, but he doesn't know that)."

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Okk,well i didnt really know how too work this.And i didnt know were too putt it...But

ok,so my brother finger me ...I'm not sure if he touched his penis..were he could have touch cum//I have missed my period i'm 2 weeks late.Is it just me stressing..Or my period has skipped this month///Or am i pregnet.. i do have a the flue..Does this have anything to do with it..I keep stresing to make sure my tummy isent growing please helpp..Please...I jsut don't know what tood doo...

Thanks xxx

Holy malaweeki! EW!
Are you on crack or something?

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lmfao. ahh. you're answers are great :]
yeah... this isnt really a question..
but whatever.

haha, thanks i guess.

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Well I have this friend we will call her D, and she is like SO awesome and I LOVE hanging out with her! But D is has a bestfriend(not me were just good friends but im her 2nd bff) her bff treats her like dirt. I dont want to tell her because she will probably get mad at me or something.

And D sometimes treats me that way too because i guess she is use to having people treat her like that but whenever I say anything to her about it shes always like "Chill Im just kidding" but shes sooo mean when she does it!

So what do I do//Tell her?

Sing this...

We are family.
I've got all my sisters with me.
We are family.
Get up everybody and sing.
We are family.
I've got all my sisters with me.
We are family.
Get up everybody and sing.
Everyone can see we're together.
As we walk on by.
And we fly just like birds of a feather.
I won't tell no lie.
All of the people around us they say.
Can they be that close.
Just let me state for the record.
We're giving love in a family dose.
We are family (hey, yeah.
I've got all my sisters with me (sing it to me.
We are family.
Get up everybody and sing
We are family (hey, yeah.
I've got all my sisters with me.
We are family.
Get up everybody and sing.

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hey so i just heard this song on the radio...and its country and then only line i can remmeber is "a little more life..."
i've tried looking on google and i just can't find it.
its kind of an up beat country song if that helps...any one know what it is?

Go here and see if any of those look like its the one you heard:
http://www.google.com/search?q=a+little+more+life&domains=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lyricsondemand.com&sitesearch=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lyricsondemand.com
Next time, please go to google and simply type in lyric sites and find it.

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The other day I went over to this guys house because I have been in love with him for almost a year. I have dated him two times before but my mom band me from him because he is eighteen. He wanted me to come over to finish a video that we had watched once before. But he had promised me that was all we were going to do. So I told my mom I was going to a friend's house and would be home by six. Well I went there and all I meant to do intentionally was watch the movie. Well I laid back on his bed then he laid back by me and put his arm around me. Then he pretended like he was asleep but I knew better so punched him in the side. Then he rolled over and held my arms down and licked my nose because he knows how much I hate that. Everytime he did it he laughed and kept moving closer to my face to the point my nose was touching his and our lips were practically touching everytime we talked or laughed. Then he just kissed me and we like made out for half an hour. Then he started fingering me for like ten minutes. Then I gave him head until he cummed. After that we had sex. When we were done he went to take a shower and I went down there to fix my hair. He said don't try to get in the shower with me, prostitution is bad. I told him I wouldn't have to try and asked him if he just called me a whore. He said no, if he called me a whore he would have said it to my face. So when I was in the bathroom he took off his clothes and kissed me. He then told me if I wanted to join then I could, then he got in the shower. I stood there not sure what I should do. I sat there and thought about what I should he stuck his head out and told me to come here. So I did actually thinking he was going to pull me in but he kissed me. After about 5 minutes I finally broke and just got into the shower with him. After that I started thinking I was a slut. I mean I had slept with three guys. Him, one of his friends, and this one guy I had dated at my school. I had slept with him about 8 times, his friend once, and that one guy 3 times. So now I don't know if I am or not. So I'm actually kinda confused. SO PLEASE respond to this. I'm really confused!!!

Um, yeah.
You're a slut.

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I'm going to be a young mom, My boyfriend is my age too were both 18. We had many plans and everything was going fine, until he came over one day (Im living with my mom.) And he started ranting out on me, saying "I don't want a kid, I don't want to take care of it, I dont want to college, I cant handle this. Im not your boyfriend , tell your parents the baby isnt mine. Make you seem like a slut. Im not taking care of a baby its your fault." And so much more. Well that was 2 days ago. I've been crying for hours a day and I dont know what do to anymore. Do I call him? Should I call him? What should I say? They were his ideas and I liked them. But I need him, ALOT!

Wow, he's a jerk and a spaz.
Seriously though, if I were you then I'd break up with him.

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I accidentally bleached my favorite shirt while doing laundry. This shirt means so much to me. I only bleached a few spots here-and-there on my left side of the shirt, and a stained about 3 inches wide directly on the bottom.

Could I re-dye it? It has text on it so Idk if that would affect it.

How about going over it with some kind of fabric marker or something? Would that work at all?

Please help, and give me some suggestions. Please don't give me "sorry it's ruined forever" because I know there's a way to fix it.

Thanks in advance!!

Sorry, it's ruined forever.

EDIT:
Fine. Be that way. Your not my friend anymore whoever you are.
Urghhhhhhhh.
Just re-dye it. That's what I always do.

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Tonight my dad mistakenly caught part of the family garden on fire. Does it have a chance of coming back. If so, how do I take care of them(cucumbers, shuck peas, and watermelon). If you don't know don't answer. Also please try to use correct grammer or I'll mark low. If you tried then its fine.


No hard feelings
Jenni

Stupid plant killer...
I know. It's annoying when people are like HeGy! ~WuOTz CRArCkiN MuH HOwMeY J!~
Uhh, I don't think it will, unless you re-plant it.

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how do i stop studdring my word's

One, what the hell does this have to do with plants and gardens? You put it in the wrong section...
Two, it's common sense. Talk slower. Well, not too slow. People might think you're retarded or something.

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i'm not planning on doing this, but how do you make apple juice? do you just squish an apple ? or what. haha thanks,

Why would you do that?
Just go buy some...

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i want to loose weight what is the best diet?

Eat vegetables and fruits?
These questions annoy me.

only search advicenators.com

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Hi, i am 14 and my boyfriend and i have een thinking about having sex for the 1st time. i really want to becasue i have done shit him, and we tink that it would be fun to have sex, should we or should we not?

You have done shit him?
You took a crap on him?
Uh, ew.
No, you're 14...

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i just got diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder. can somebody give me a way to cope with the kids that make fun of me in class when i cant answer a question or pick up where we left of reading?! i just wanna punch them, but i know i would get suspened. all my friends abandoned me so i dont no who to go to for advice. thanks, i rate high

Wow, they actually make fun of you? God, how selfish can people be? They should go watch You, Me, & Dupree. Dupree would tell you! We're all special in our own ways. We all have our own -ness. Just add your name before ness. Like Frahsdjkaness.
Who gives a crap about getting suspended. Punch them!

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i know how to babysit but i don't kbow how to tell people about my interset and that if they need a babysitter im available...help

Put a index card on your head that says, "I'm available to babysit." And walk around in circles yelling it out.

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theres this guy i like.. and im kind of a shy person, but i act differently outside of school. or unless im good friends with you. im outgoing and junk, but only to people im comfortable with and good friends with. how do i become more outgoing? or should i just accept the way i am? or.. i dunno. cause theres this guy i like whos pretty popular, and im not a loser not popular either..... soo yeah. and alot of times im kinda shy to talk around him or may say something stupid. and sometimes i give him side glances in school.. maybe i shouldnt do that but hes so fun to look at! anyways, what can i do to get him to like me? or any guy, in general. hes pretty nice to me now, but i havent really had many full conversations with him or anything. i guess its also because im shy, and i want to go away from him but at the same time be around him. ackk and we both do sports.. like today i saw him at a bball match and i saw him and im like "omg!" but i didnt say hi or anything.. cause what if he found out i like him! arrg an sometimes i dunno what to talk about when theres nothing really going on. soo.. any suggestions to anything i said? thanksss!

Do you want him to look at you?
Oh, that's obvious. Just jump up out of your seat and start singing the YMCA song.
You want to get him to like you?
Uh, that's impossible. You can't force anyone to like you.
Suggestions?
Go eat some celery. It's good for you. :]

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Ever since I was young I remember having tiny white [some are skin colored] bumps on the inside lips of my vagina and the outside part of my labia. When I was young I squeezed a few of them and small, white stuff came out like it was a pimple 'down there.' I was wondering if this is some sort of diesease, I've never had any problems with it, and I've been looked at by doctors at physicals, but I was just curious if this is anything serious.

Um, ew.

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can someone tell me honestley through expierience how much getting your belly button pierced hurts on a scale of 1-10.

Seven or eight.

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in like a week or so i'm getting 2 teeth pulled in the back of my mouth. im scared shit because i don't know what to expect. when i'm under the anethesia will i feel any pain? will i feel pain after it's done? is there any way that the anethesia will wear off while they are pulling my teeth out? WHAT IF I DONT WAKE UP FROM THE ANATHESIA??

im sooooo scared i need to know these answers. if you had teeth pulled out tell me EVERYTHING.

You're scared shit?
Never heard that one before.
First question...You're under anethesia. The point of it is so that you don't feel anything. They don't just give you it for the fun of it.
No idea about the second question.
Third question: If they go in slow motion, yes.
Fourth question, then that sucks for you. You'll just lay there? What else would you do?

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m/14
what should i get my gf for christmass, i suck at choosing out gifts. im thinking maybe jewlry?

You spelled jewelry wrong, buddy.
Yeah, you obviously do.
Get her jewelry.
How are we supposed to know what the hell she wants?

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