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how do i get him?


Question Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 10:14 pm

theres this guy i like.. and im kind of a shy person, but i act differently outside of school. or unless im good friends with you. im outgoing and junk, but only to people im comfortable with and good friends with. how do i become more outgoing? or should i just accept the way i am? or.. i dunno. cause theres this guy i like whos pretty popular, and im not a loser not popular either..... soo yeah. and alot of times im kinda shy to talk around him or may say something stupid. and sometimes i give him side glances in school.. maybe i shouldnt do that but hes so fun to look at! anyways, what can i do to get him to like me? or any guy, in general. hes pretty nice to me now, but i havent really had many full conversations with him or anything. i guess its also because im shy, and i want to go away from him but at the same time be around him. ackk and we both do sports.. like today i saw him at a bball match and i saw him and im like "omg!" but i didnt say hi or anything.. cause what if he found out i like him! arrg an sometimes i dunno what to talk about when theres nothing really going on. soo.. any suggestions to anything i said? thanksss!

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muse_of_thought01 answered Friday December 22 2006, 5:00 pm:
you honestly should just go talk to him.there was this guy i liked and i was very nervous because he was so nice and i was outgoing ..and stuff.one day i just talked to him ...and now i'm dating him. just talk to the guy. he'll admire your confidence. guys like girls with confidence...just not too much..lol

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xY0M0MMAx answered Friday December 22 2006, 4:42 pm:
Do you want him to look at you?
Oh, that's obvious. Just jump up out of your seat and start singing the YMCA song.
You want to get him to like you?
Uh, that's impossible. You can't force anyone to like you.
Suggestions?
Go eat some celery. It's good for you. :]

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ohxthexdrama answered Friday December 22 2006, 12:26 am:
this sound like me. aha

seriously just take a deep breathe and go talk to him. and if you are worried about him not liking you, well if he doesnt thats the end. there are sooo many other guys. you just gotta wait for the right one to come along.

the thing is you said you are comfortable around peole you know well. if thats the case, then just get to know this guy and then youll be more comfortable.

its funny this is exactly how i was with someone at my school, and now we are dating. :)

xo


p.s. dont force a relationship. just let it happen.

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