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my name is sarah. or doodle. i'm 16 and now a junior at SMHS. HATE IT! i play slowpitch and fastpitch softball. im verrrry sarcastic. you'll never know if i'm being serious or not. i'd have to say i've been through a lot, but you might not think so. try me, i could surprise you =)

advice

my friend doesn't really like this guy who i like but she's leading him on. she said to my face she's doing this on purpose. he likes me and we are like best friends but my friend askes him to dances a month early so i can't ask. What should i do?
female 16

talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about her doing that and that she is leading him on.
~*Sarah*~

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Hey
sorry this is kind of a wierd question and please dont delete i really need to lknow...like what is sexually harrasing(sp)? Liek what does a person have to do inorder for it to be sexually harassing

if some on tries to do something to you in a kind of sexual way and you dont feel comfortable about it, then thats sexual harrassment(sp).
~*Sarah*~

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Hello!! I hope ya'll can help me! I'm sorr its so long but its a long story!! Okay here is my scenario. My birthday was at the end of January, and my boyfriend had already been planning our Valentine's date. He asked me if it would be alright if he gave me my birthday gift along with my Valentine's gift because it would make it easier on him, so of course i told him yes. Well, On Saturday (which was our Valentine's day because i had to work Monday) he took me to dinner, then he blindfolded me and took me to... a hotel. BUT before you judge, it was very romantic. He had his friends come and light the candles he had set up EVERYWHERE and rosepedals, the whole deal. And we had planned to have sex for our first time, not necessarily then but we had stopped ourselves a couple of times because we wanted to wiat until it would be special. Which this was. Okay, well moving on, besides all of this, he didn't get me like flowers or a bear or even a card. I spent like $70 on him with gifts and whatnot. But i wasn't too mad because i assumed he had sent me a carnation at school (Our school has sales where you can buy a carnation for someone for V-Day and writea message and then we got them on Monday 9*) Well i of course sent him one, and i waited but he never sent me one. I went to his house after work and i brought over peanut butter heart shaped cookies (His fav!) and still nothing. This made me really mad because he didn't even get me a stinkin carnation!! I got pretty upset and left. Now am i overreacting? I mean he did spend money on me but i'm the type of person who appreciates little things like a flower or a box of choc, he didn't have to go buy a hotel or anything, i just wanted a carnation :( Lol, AND he still hasn't given me anything for my birthday!! Shouldi be mad?

i dont think you should be that mad. he rented a hotel room, bought rose pedals and candles, and that stuff aint cheap. maybe he didnt have money left over after it. im not tryin to say he is poor. so dont get me wrong. i no i wasnt of that much help.
~*Sarah*~

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Does anyone know a good image uploading site. Preferable one that doesn't resize your pictures?

i have picturetrail and its great to me!
~*Sarah*~

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i got my boyfriend a stuffed animal dog holding a thing of candy.. do you think he'll like it?

i think he will like it..it shouldnt matter what he got you and you got him. its just the thought that counts!
~*Sarah*~

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ok, wuts the average age when teens start having sex. I know, it's when your ready for it and all, but i'm jus wondering when is the average age when people start getting together?

now a days it between 12-14 but i think everyone should wait until they are AT LEAST 16 and have a way of transportation
~*Sarah*~

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Are you still a virgin if you kind of had sex? meaning... If you were making out and everything and the guy and u start to have sex and stuff and he's like half way in and then you guys stop... is that still considered being a virgin or not?
Thanks!
(Unsure)

nope your not a virgin..well at least i dont think so..
~*Sarah*~

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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!

maybe listen to the radio while you do it to keep you busy and not notice how long it is takin..or do like i do..wait until one day when you are in one of those cleanin moods..and clean it..thats what i do!
~*Sarah*~

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13/m

hi,


i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.

yours,

the thin one

if you want to gain weight, then eat those caltine (sp) bars..the ones regina eats from mean girls (LOL thats the only way i new how to explain what i was talkin about) but if the doctor doesnt tell you that you need to gain weight, then i guess you are ok!
~*Sarah*~

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does any one know where to buy the vanessa carlton tickets? i cant find them any where.. and she is coming in a month! please help!

ticketmaster.com should have them or call your coliseum or where ever she is going to be and ask them if you could come by there and by some or where the tickets are being sold. or, you could call a local radio station and ask them if you did something crazy if they could give you some. my ex b/f did that and he got 2 free tickets to the CPR fest.
~*Sarah*~

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for my school i have to like read lots of books. Does anyone know of any teen books that are good, but not to to long?

stranger with my face and tangerine are great books to me..also 8 seconds..its a lil different from the movie but it is good..all three books are actually great to me!
~*Sarah*~

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when someone calls you on your cell phone and it says "ID restricted" is there any way to find out who it is? cause sometimes i get prank calls. Like if you called the operator would they tell you.

i dont think the operator would be able to tell you but call your company and they should know. or use *69, that might work..it just depends..
~*Sarah*~

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What are some good prepaid cell phone deals? thanks!

hey..i have virgin mobile and its alright. there is also tracfone, boost mobile, and big companies such as t-mobile, cingular, and alltel have prepaid deals. the only one i no of that DOESNT offer prepaid deals is cellulat south.
~*Sarah*~

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I've noticed that guys that like me *and vice-versa* are a lot older than me. I'm a Freshman in High School, and a lot of Seniors like me (including one guy who just graduated). I *would* go for any of those guys, but they're all over 18! Is it illegal to date a 18+ guy without having sex?

its different in some states but in my state its illegal. if your parents dont even agree with you two dating (not having sex) then they can press charges. since you are only 14/15 and he is older than 18, then in my state it is considered statuatory (sp) rape. it just depends on how your parents feel about it.
~*Sarah*~

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i wanna do track in spring, but i can't run and i have no stamina or anything. i can't run for more than two minutes without havin g to stop how can i get in shape?

exercise alot and run everyday..soon you will be able to run for a longer period of time...
~*Sarah*~

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I want to get a doggie this spring! I want a small doggie that I can spend time with. Easy to train, and it likes to play and spend time with me. any ideas?

i personally think you should either get a chihuahua or a jack russel terrier...or an austrailian shepherd..my mom has one and they are EASY to train...
~*Sarah*~

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i like this one guy who is in my math class...we sit right next to each other and we ALWAYS are talking... and he stares at me too...i cant tell if he likes me or not but i REALLY like him! no one knows i like him except 3 of my very close friends. i would ask him out if i found the right moment..but i am also kinda afraid to ask him out cause if he says no then i dont want it to ruin our friendship...but the thing is that i am moving in like 2 months so it wouldnt be that long of a relationship...so i guess my question is...should i ask him out even though i am moving in a while or just keep it to myself and let it dye away??

i think you should ask him out. just because your moving doesnt mean things wont work out. as long as you arent moving anywhere far away. like anywhere over 5 hours away. unless you think that work between you two. or if you do go out at least you would have been with him for 2 months! hope i helped!
~*Sarah*~

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14/f
Last thursday I was talking to the guy I like on the phone and I think I heard him say Will you go Out with me but he said it hecka quite so I wasnt sure then I was just like what I cant hear u and I thought he said will you go out with me again but he said it so softly i wasnt sure... so i was just quite... then all of of sudden hes just where are you at and completely changed the subject... I am confused... I want him to ask me out right and now im scared cause if he did ask me out he is bably be too scared to say it again... and I need a way for him to do it... but then if he just said something else and I didnt hear him correctly I dont want to be like yea i wanna go out with you cause that would be embarresing thats the reason i was just quite... but now as i get to thinking maybe i want him to ask me so badly im hearing things...if that makes any sense please help...I was thinking of trying to get who he likes out of him but when i asked him today all he could say was i dont know...
what do i do?

why dont you ask him out? or if YOU dont want to ask him who he likes (again), get one of your friends to do it. and then if he says that he likes you, then you ask him out.
~*Sarah*~

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please help me. my ex-boyfriend, who i just broke up with yesterday, is now all of a sudden going out with my best friend!! i have no idea what to do, any advice?

talk to your best friend about thw whole situation..apparently shes not your best friend if shes going out with your ex. if that doesn't work, then ignore them period. if she starts to wonder why your not around/ talkin to her anymore, then just tell her how you feel and that you TRIED talking to her and she wouldnt listen.
~*Sarah*~

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okay, i have a friend, and i'm really close to her, we've been friends for a really long time and i just love her to death! almost like a sister! but anyways, just recently she told me about her boyfriend...he doesn't want her to talk to any guys, and he says if he ever catches her, he will kill her and him...and he's not just bluffing, he is really serious about the killing. also, they recently had sex for the first time, and the day after he wouldn't talk to her, but then he said "i'm sorry, come over to my house after work" those were his exact words! he wanted her over there so they could have sex. he won't wear a condom unless she threatens him that they're not going to have sex unless he does. also, he gives her hickies and she asks him to put them in places that can't be easily seen so she can't get in trouble, but when she asks him to he gets mad and bites her on the next, hard, leaving big places, in visible spots. i'm sorry this was long, but please help.
-concerned friend

you are a good friend for wanting to help her...she needs to tell someone whats going on because a girl should never be treated like that. if she doesn't to tell anyone, then i think you should. if she gets mad at you for telling someone, then talk to her about it and tell her how important it is that she needs to get away from him. he is treating her horribly and that is terrible!
~*Sarah*~

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