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Q: Why do guys always have to date popular girls?Why cant they date a regular girls?

Well, you are probably not popular because you are not confident. You should build your self esteem, because you are awesome and beautiful and deserve respect. Also, it is the type of guy you are going after. If you are a nerdy girl, like I am, go after a nerdy guy.

Q: okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?

I like guys who see women as equals, but still respect them by standing up for them and such things. I don't mean like beating up guys that hit on me, but I like guys who respect me. That might not sounds like a "turn on", but disrespect majorly turns a girl off. I also really like Asians and long hair on guys. Johnny Damon and Gackt Camui are good examples. Also, guys who go to the extreme and buy huge expensive diamonds are not all that hot. They make me think things like "fake" and "loser", and "fake loser". I want a guy who would go all out for me without spending a lot of money. All he would really need is a blanket and a beach at night and some snacks, and of course himself. Oh, and martial artists are hot!

Hope I helped,
Kigeto

PS- I would also not mind a boy who could watch the occaisonal chick flick with me. =D

Q: ok im 14 1/2 ok and theres this awesome guy at my school and i mean i like him and i think he likes me i mean he goes to church and everything job but the thing is he's 17 and ive heard rumors saying that guys make bets and crap on the freshmen to see how fast they can get into there pants i mean im not going to do anything like that but i don't want to be apart of a cruel joke so should i take the chance and go out with him or no..................

If he's just using you for sex, you'll probably be able to tell. I can't explain how, but trust your gut. Guys who are jerks will tell you they are jerks--you just have to listen. Just don't give yourself up to him. No guy is worth that. Kick him in the balls, literally and figuratively, and show him that you are in charge of your own body. But go on a date with him and have fun! Just remember that he has to ask permission before he puts his hand up your skirt!

Q: ok i've never been kissed before... i have a boyfriend now and we've been going out for a little over a month, we still havent kissed and i want to but since i've never done it i dont know how to make the first move... help pleez!!

Say to him, "When are you going to kiss me you dork?"

Q: You know what?? Whoever is asking these repulsive questions needs to knock it off!! Whoever it is you are a disgusting pervert who needs to go play with a tree!! And moderators, delete this moron! You can't let him ask these questions!!
I'm also going to stand up for candi_sweet_hart, you aren't whatever that ass called you. Whoever it was, he/she is a mofo.

They are just trying to get this sort of reaction out of you. Best thing to do is just go along with it or ignore it, don't worry, that person will likely be banned for the rest of eternity.

Q: i want to make a cd for a 4 year old. does anyone know some really fun songs. i don't want anything too babyish though, just something he can dance to.

LAZYTOWN!

Okay, Lazy Town is this show on Nick Jr. But it has really catchy music! You can download it...I'm not sure where, but it truly is really the best music out there for kids. And it teaches them to exercize! I actually work out to it, it's very motivational, but it's also fun for children to listen to.

Q: When my boyfriend and I talk on the phone, he always switches over to another call. Well with his phone I am able to hear the voices, and it's ALWAYS another girl's voice.. could he be cheating on me? How do I bring this up with him...

Uh, yeah. He is definitely cheating on you, you should cut his balls off. But that's illegal for some stupid reason, so just break up with him.

Q: I really need to make a website and ASAP, due to the fact gay texas is going to make a new law and i need to get a petition and letter on here QUICK, so do you know a good website thats free, easy, "pretty", and I can keep up at least until AUG, SEPT?

thanks

Um...what new law? Is it something I support. Cause I ain't helping you unless you are fighting for the same things that I am.

Q: could someone give me the names of some really upbeat songs that make you smile when you hear them. they don't have to be a new song I go for the oldies too.

Papa Lapped a Pap Lopped! It's by my favorite singer, Gackt! Um, yeah, it's in Japanese. I know a lot of people think "why would you want Japanese music, you're not Japanese you idiot." but what does that matter as long as the music sounds wonderful? And trust me, this song does sound wonderful. It is on Gackt's album entitled Rebirth, check it out. Gackt is awesome!

Q: My boyfriend and i were in my aunts hot tub, and well i had my period so we couldnt do anything but neither of us knew if condoms still worked as well in water as they do out? and do they make ones for jsut water..i know its a dumb question but i dont know..pleeze let me know!!

Why did you even need condoms? You can do sexual things without having actual intercourse. It's more fun that way anyway, because you leave him wanting more. ;) Anyways, condoms are probably waterproof, unless they are the paper ones.

Q: I have an adorable new baby puppy and he's a golden retreiver mixed with a boarder collie!! He's SO adorable! But I have no name for him.. any ideas?

Nuriko!

I'm telling you, Nuriko is the best name ever for a golden retriever because they are sooooo cute, just like Nuriko.

Q: I've looked but cant fund the site counters.. where you put a counter on a site to say how many people have visited..
i know of coolcounters.com ..but does anyone know of anything else?

Have faith. Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins, just have faith in our Lord and Saviour and everything will turn out okay.

Well, I hope I helped.
Love,
lesbian4christ

PS- I hope you pray to God he loves you more than anybody else!!!

Q: Ok well Brett i/med me...my boyfriend and he said will you kiss me i dont no if it was a joke or if he was serious..i dont no what to say to him....help me!?

PLEASE Help,

Confused

if he's your boyfriend he's probably serious. But it's really stupid to ask you that online! What are you supposed to do? Kiss the monitor? Eh, whatever, next time you see him give him a kiss.

Q: okey, i didn't know what category to put this in so i just chose love life. Anyway I was wondering about all the sweet nicknames.. I mean everytime a guy calls me babe or darling i die inside..seriously just a name can make me fall. But what can we call guys? Is there anything we can say to make them shiver? can we call them babe? Is there any laid back names? (like you know if we're just talking on msn and he says : hey, babe - what's up? Can we say something like that, even if we're not dating? cuz guys can use babe howvever..do we have anything like that? Something that will make them all nervous and stuff or just happy. And nothing that will make them embarresed, like darling is probably too feminin for them..Thanx!//marlena

Darling
Sweetie
Sweet pea
Love
Papa
[his name]-kun (pronounced coon)

Good luck.

Q: Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
i rate high!

Men rule the world. Unfair, but true. Women used to rule the world, but at one point it switched. All the stories were changed around. Eve was now the bad one, Adam was awesome. The Greek Goddesses were less important than the male Gods. But if you look closely enough, you will see that the female characters are more intelligent and have more dimensions than the useless male characters. And women who heard those stories though, "Oh, I am just a useless woman." Not to mention centuries of women being degraded in several disgusting ways. And do you believe there are people who blame a woman if she is raped? Terribly sad, but also terribly true. What can we do about this injustice? Hm, there is probably something...but it's after 1 am and I'm really waaay too tired to organize a revolution right now. Good luck.

Q: ok so here it goes i'm a 15 year old female ok i already asked a question about what am i supposed to do to get this guy david's (whom i like) attention; now i have a nother question kind of related to that....he knows that i like him and we actually talk somewhat now we started talking a couple days ago but actually talked in person when i was at my bestfriend diana's house and david and my friend michael decided to come over, so we were talking except i wasnt doing much talking i was kinda laughing at whatever i thought was funny mostly the stories i was reading in a magazine but i guess i wasnt talking that much becasue he was around and i was afraid i was gonna say something stupid. so i guess my question is what should i do to get him to i guess like me back or find out whether he likes me back??

Just go with it. Talk to him all the time, and hint at stuff. And then eventually he'll ask you out.

Q: I went to a private school until this year and everyone was pretty religious and conservative.

Now I go to public school and I have a LOT of more socially liberal friends that I get along with better in a lot of ways. At private school, I was the "weird one." Now I'm not. At all.

Sometimes I can hang out with my old buddies and it's fun, but then a topic like homosexuality comes up and I'm surrounded by people who disagree with me.

I just feel like I'm being pulled in different directions by people who want different things from me.

I miss my old friends, I love them, I grew up with them, but I feel like I'm just too different to really be that close now. I don't know how I can balance my new and old friends, not really time-wise, but in my own mind.

Please help. People who do not write in complete sentences need not answer. If all you have to say is "balance your time," forget it. If you had read, you'd have realized it wasnt about that at all.

Thank you.

Don't do anything to please anyone. Whatever you think is your business, and none of your friends have any say in that. Try to make that clear to them. I know that can be tough and sometimes fails miserably, in which case you have to stop speaking to a person, but hopefully this won't be one of those cases. Try changing the subject when something like that comes up, or just phase out and don't participate in it. Something my mother told me was "Never discuss sex, politics, and religion in mixed company. Those are the three things that will start an argument." So if your friends start with the gay bashing, just say, "Yeah how about those lizards?", or something like that.

Q: i always write before i go to bed because im a young author, and well, i always leave my light on because i forget because by the time im done writing im really tired. anyway does sleeping with a light on really give you lukemia?

Well lukemia is cancer right? And these days, pretty much everything causes cancer.

But even if it didn't, using that light takes electricity, and electricity mostly comes from nuclear power plants. If the nuclear power plants were to meltdown, we would all have cancer, and our babies would all have interesting yet horrible mutations. So...save the world, save electricity. Turn your light off before going to sleep. =)

Q: Ugh. I screwed up big time. There's this kid (Joe)..and he's going out with my best friend..at one point and time he liked me and vice versa.. but now i hate him big time and vice versa. but the thing is , is that out of everyone on the bus we rather sit with each other because I guess we're both anti-social in a way. Well we were fighting (physical fighting)..and just kissed, I dont know, we were into the moment i guess..it only lasted about 15 seconds, but still.. i have no idea what I'm going to say to my best friend or even whether or not I should tell her... any ideas?

Aw, that's so sweet. I wonder what you're going to do.

Q: my friends say i talk about this kid i like way too much, and now that i think about it i kinda do. what can i do to stop? i mean i like him so much i can't get my mind off him. what can i do?

Write about him in your diary, and talk to your friends about other things. Dinosaurs, maybe, or cappuchino.

bio

Call me Molly. I'm seventeen, female, and I love shoujo anime. I'm also a Level 1 Moderator.

My categories:
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Or just general stuff. I'll try my best to answer anything.

Warning: I'm known to give sarcastic as hell answers. Sorry, I can't help it. If you have a question that I think is mind numbing and stupid, I'm going to be sarcastic. My hope is that you will realize that my negative opinion of you doesn't make you any less of a person, and you will apply this knowledge and grow up to be a well-adjusted, confident person. Rate me 1 if you wish, but please try not to take it too seriously when I do this.

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