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my boyfriend


Question Posted Saturday March 26 2005, 10:28 pm

When my boyfriend and I talk on the phone, he always switches over to another call. Well with his phone I am able to hear the voices, and it's ALWAYS another girl's voice.. could he be cheating on me? How do I bring this up with him...

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Julesianne answered Monday March 28 2005, 11:10 pm:
First of all I don't think its nice of him to put you on hold like that. Secondly, he could be cheating on you...or he could just have a lot of female friends. If you bring it up to his face, chances are he'll get defensive and question your trust. So you might want to wait until the next time he calls you...if he says hes going to switch over to another call ask him who it is and if he tells you a girls name ask him if you guys are friends or something like that. If he's on the call for over a minute or 2...hang up and see if he calls you back. If he doesnt call you back i would get suspicious...but if he does call you back you should probably bring it up... i hope i helped
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calirae010 answered Monday March 28 2005, 11:50 am:
when he comes back, ask him who it was and if he lies and says one of his guy friends' names, thats when you have a problem.
&hearts; cali rae

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therocketsummer answered Sunday March 27 2005, 10:31 am:
Well, he could be but he's probably not. Ask him who this girl is and what kind of feelings he has for her, he'll understand if you likes you alot.

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shake answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:39 am:
No...he isnt.

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karenR answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:33 am:
How rude! I would ask him "Do you know that when you switch to another call I can hear everything you say" check out his reaction. If he kinda looks guilty i'd be worried about it. If not, then i'd be asking who she is. Could be a relative, you'll never know until you ask.

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Miss_Lily answered Sunday March 27 2005, 12:39 am:
Tell him exactly what you just told us. Tell him that when he answers his call waiting, you can still hear his conversation and you have noticed that there have been girls on the other end a few times. Tell him that you don't have a problem with him being friends with other girls, but you would at least like to know who he is friends with. If your boyfriend is a good person, he will tell you the truth. It could be that it is all one big misundertanding.

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gakkuhideto answered Saturday March 26 2005, 10:57 pm:
Uh, yeah. He is definitely cheating on you, you should cut his balls off. But that's illegal for some stupid reason, so just break up with him.

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BreTTChezzey20 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 10:42 pm:
ask your boyfriend if he is talking to another girl when he goes on hold or try to here what there saying and ask if he's cheating on u

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XOCaliHereWeComeKayXO answered Saturday March 26 2005, 10:41 pm:
heyy well maybe its just a friend of his dont consider that possibility yet until youve talked to him about it but by bringing it up just say maybe im not trying to get into your personal life i was just wondering who it is you talk to on the phone when you switch over and im sure he will understand hope it helped
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