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Q: Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's.
the georgia nicholson series by louise rennison
they're soo funny, I absolutely love them
so far there are like 4 or 5 books in the series, but I'm sure there will be more soon
my friend loved it, and she recommended it to me, and I love it, and I recommended it to my other friend, n she loved it also. maybe you'll like it too

Q: im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
13/m
I think it's really great that you want to wait because it shows that you also respect women. I'm 13 and all my friends, guys n girls, are planning to do it before they get married. so maybe a lot of kids in your area arent planning on waiting either. and in highschool, they might make fun of you for still being a virgin. o well, I'm sure your parents will be very proud of you. just ignore all the insults that you might get and you'll be fine.

Q: Hi i love music. I was wandering what r some really good songs and cd's?

~please help!

~i rate!
I totally love music tooooo
I listen to mainly hiphop, r&b, and rap.
soo these r my fave songs for now:
How Could You, Mario
Candy Shop, 50 Cent
One Last Time ft Dr. Dre and 50 Cent, Eminem
Gasolina(Remix with Lil' Jon), Daddy Yankee
O, Omarion
Obsession, Frankie J
Get Right(Fabolous Remix), Jennifer Lopez

must have albums are..
Massacre, 50 Cent
O, Omarion
Red Light District, Ludacris
and maybe Encore, Eminem

ok well those are just a few. if you need more, just ask

Q: i'm currently a freshman in my second semester of college and i have a problem staying awake in my classes, even if i get adequate hours of sleep the night before!

i've tried drinking coffee during class (despite the caffeine, has not worked for me), bringing munchies, having a water bottle, doodling on my notebook, and vice versa. basically anything to keep me busy and awake! all of my attempts have failed...any ideas?
oo well you could try takin some sleep pills. they'll help you get a good night's sleep, and you'll feel more awake and alert during the day instead of drowsy and sleepy.

energy drinks can also help perk you up.

hope i helped! my brother is in college too, but he's a senior

Q: well i ordered the
Farouk CHI Transformation System Home Support Kit stuff and i thought it would straighten my hair because on this one website it had info on it and it gave me the impression that it would straighten my hair but it didnt and it was 40 bucks and i have really curly hair and i it didnt do anything but i found out that it just makes it shiny and stuff so i have it and i dont kno what to do with it could i return it *it was off a website and i ordered it from california and i live in florida* and does any one know something else that would straighten my hair and make it stay *i have really really curly hair* could some one give me websites and names thanks alot
signed
-confused girl
I used to have like really curly and wavy hair, but then I went to a salon and got my hair straighten. getting it professionally done is better than doin it yourself because professionals know a lot more about hair, so they'll do a better job and you wont get burned as much. but it costs A LOT more than if you do it yourself. if you go to a salon to do it, you hair will stay straight for atleast 6 months but the whole straightenin process takes like atleast 5 or 6 hours
it's called the Japanese Straight Hair Perm, or something like that.
I already did it twice, and I might do it again soon, soo if you have any questions about this, I'll be glad to help :)

Q: i wanna be a cheerleader but i dont think i can. what knid of things do you have to know how to do.i rate good
you probably need to know how to do splits and cartwheels, or things like that. you should be skinny because you'll have to wear a short skirt.
you DONT have to be attractive. because in my middle school, I kno 2 girls that are cheerleaders, but they're like too skinny and it's not like they're anorexic or anything, they just have high metabolism. and they're like kind of.. ugly. even though i dont know you, you're probably a lot prettier than them :)
sooo you'll need to be skinny(but not too skinny), flexible, and you need to be outgoing and energetic to cheer your team on

just try your best, and if they dont like you, then it's their loss

Q: can over charging your ipod (mini) hurt it? because lately my battery will say its out..but i reset it and its full again or something like that. does anyone know why?
i have an ipod mini too, it's greeeeeen, but I usually just plug it in to charge it after i get home, n i pull it out of the recharger b4 i go to bed, soo I usually recharge it for like 7 hours or more. i'm not sure if overchargin it will harm it, because I dont try to overcharge it, but my brother said that it really does harm your ipod. he's had an ipod for like 3 years, and
he knows a lot about computers and electronics, soo he might be right. sooo overcharging your ipod will probably hurt it, but i'm not completely sure

Q: okay i don't understnad when people say or its on an icon or something what dose it mean when they say its ther Anti drug?
it means that it's something that keeps them from doing drugs. i saw one that said that music was their anti drug, and that means that they love music and it's their reason for staying away from drugs.
it basically just means that they really love something or love doing something

Q: hurry i need advice quick wut does it mean when a girl is going to "play" a guy???
it means that she's going to pretend to like a guy, but she doesnt really. she could be doing it as a joke. like she pretends to really like a guy, and when the guy starts liking her a lot, she breaks his heart. that's one example. also she could play her boyfriend by cheating on him

Q: here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!
well, that's not NOT normal. my mom got hers when she was 16, and she said that at that time where she was, most of the girls got it at 16 also. I got mine when I was 12, and I know some people my age that have also gotten it at 12 also. and I know some people that still havent gotten it yet, and they're like 13 or 14. soo it's normal. everyone is different, so there's nothing to worry about. But i think that if you still havent gotten it by age 16 or 17, you need to consult a doctor because that's like too old. but you're 14, so it's fine

Q: Okay my question I had posted was

Okay... i am 14.. and I was just wondering how old do people think is TOO OLD??

and I didn't mean.. "am i too old" i meant how old is too old for me too go out with.. so if u answered my last question wrong I am sorry I didn't state my question clearly and if u wanna answer again.. just do it!!
well if you're 14, anyone 18 or older is too old for you. there really isnt an age limit, but I wouldnt want to date anyone more than 2 or 3 years older than me.
also, if you're a girl, dont try dating anyone younger than you because that would be embarassing

Q: Is it true that your boobs stop growing 2 years after you got your period?
oo no, i would be horrified if that was true. lol. usually girls get their periods when they're preteens, like at the ages of 10-12. and if their boobs would really stop growing 2 years later, like at 12-14, then there would be A LOT of flat women out there.

Q: does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high
I totally have the same problem. I just recently bought an eye mask from bath and body works, it costed like.. 26 dollars. I've only used it twice in 1 week, but I havent seen any improvement yet

a couple of products are...
Neutrogena Radiance Boost Eye Cream (which is like around 11 bucks)
L'Oreal Dermo-Expertise Visible Results Eye Skin Renewing(18 dollars)
L'Oreal Dermo-Expertise Defense, Eye(13 dollars).. i wanna buy this myself, depending if target sells it
Almay Kinetin Firming and Brightening Eye Cream (13 dollars)
Vita-K Solution for Dark Circles Under Eyes(around 10 -11 dollars)

the prices depend on the stores you buy it from, but i got all the info from drugstore.com.
also, putting cool natural tea bags and cucumbers over your eyes will help reduce puffiness

Q: if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????
ooo no. some girls just make out with other girls for fun. it doesnt mean they're a lesbian or anything. if you liked it, then ya, that would make you a lesbian or a bisexual

Q: Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?
ooo yea, because they dont like it when you're not prepared for class... but they shouldnt take a lot of points off, because it's not even a big deal.

sooo they can bring your grade down for not being prepared, but the points taken off should be very little

Q: im a 16/f and im satisfied with my breast size. I dont want them to get any bigger though. Is it possible to control the growth? Or do i have no control over it? I d ont want them getting as big as my moms breasts..thats a little too big for me.
oo sorry but no. if big boobs are in your family's genes, then you'll most likely have big boobs. you could try getting breast reduction if your breasts grow bigger.
andd you actually DO have control over it, in a way. do you see any skinny girls walking around with double ds? without getting a boob job. soo my point is that if you become skinnier, the fat in your breasts might reduce. and if you become fatter, the fat in your breasts might increase. oo i'm not sure if that's true, but it COULD work :)

Q: can someone please get the lyrics for simple plans song addicted? thanks
i will rate 5's
please help(i can not find these lyrics)
I heard you're doin' okay
But I want you to know
I'm addic-
I'm addicted to you

I can't pretend I don't care
When you don't think about me
Do you think I deserve this?
I try to make you happy
But you left anyway

I'm tryin' to forget
But I'm addicted to you
But I wanted
And I needed
I'm addicted to you
Now it's over
Can't forget what you said
And I never
Want to do this again
Heartbreaker
Heartbreaker
Heartbreaker

Since the day I met you
And after all we've been through
Still addic-
I'm addicted to you
I think you know that it's true

I'd run a thousand miles to get to you
Do you think I deserve this
I tried to make you happy
I did all that I could
Just to treat you good in every way

I'm tryin' to forget
But I'm addicted to you
But I wanted
And I needed
I'm addicted to you
Now it's over
Can't forget what you said
And I never
Want to do this again
Heartbreaker
Heartbreaker
Heartbreaker

How long will I be waiting
Till the end of time
I don't know why I'm still waiting
I can't make you mine

I'm trying to forget
But I'm addicted to you
But I wanted
And I needed
I'm addicted to you

I'm trying to forget
But I'm addicted to you
But I wanted
And I needed
I'm addicted to you
Now it's over
Can't forget what you said
And I never
Want to do this again
Heartbreaker
Heartbreaker
Heartbreaker

I'm addicted to you
Heartbreaker
I'm addicted to you
Heartbreaker
I'm addicted to you
Heartbreaker
I'm addicted to you
Heartbreaker

Q: Hi. Where can I find My Shared Folder on my computer? I am so lost. I'm not really a computer person so I really don't know. Thank you.
first click on "My Computer" which has an icon of a computer. and, when a page opens, My Shared Folder should be on there somewhere. On my computer, the folder is labeled, Shared Documents.. maybe that's what's on your computer also

Q: How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas?
they are both very bad for your skin, but I would suggest getting sun tanned. a safer way is to just use those imitation tanning products that you can buy in drugstores. they wont harm your skin the way that tanning does, and they'll still make you look great

Q: well i have this g/f that ive gone out it now for like 3 weeks i like her and all she wants me hold her hand and all that but im in 7th grade 12 years old and i c like seniors holding hands and all that but holding hands with her makes me feel like ever1 is watchin me and i dont like 2 be in the spot lite. well i do but thats not the piont. should i hold her hand or wat


signed
holdin hands impared
you dont HAVE to hold her hand. it's basically your choice, but if you want your girl to be happy, then yeah... hold her hand.

if you feel uncomfortable doin it in public, then try holdin hands indoors first to get used to the idea. then gradually start holding hands in public. and.. you should also stop thinking that everyone is looking at you. if most of the senoirs are holding hands, you're not gonna be any different from them, so they wont watch you cuz there will probably be hundreds of other people holding hands.

it's kind of like when you have a giant zit on your forehead, and you think that everyone's going to stare at it and laugh or whatever. but in reality, they really dont care. sooo if you hold hands wit your girl, they probably wont care either

it's your choice, and if you really like her, you wont be that scared or think that everyone will be watching you

p.s. where are you from? cuz i didnt know people still held hands..

bio
azngemini
hii, I'm Christina, 14, and I'm from Queens, NYC. I live near a huge mall, which is great becuz i lovee shopping. If anyone ever decides to visit nyc, let me know cuz i can tell you where the hottest places to go shopping are.
Music is a HUGE part in my life, I especially like rap and r&b. and TI's pretty hot too..
I lovee this site, and i go on it whenever i can. i cant say that i always give great advice, but atleast i try :)

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