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Can i burn a CD from limewire? and how do i go about that?
To be honest, the only program I've ever burned a cd off of was Kazaa, and that was a long time ago. I think you might be able to, but I'm not sure. This area isn't my specialty. What I do know is there is a way of burning songs off of limewire onto your iPod if you have one. And how one goes about these things, I'm not sure, but hopefully I could help in some way. In order to burn a CD, your going to need memorex blank discs which you can buy in any office supply stores. So sry I couldnt be more specific!
Alright im 13/f and im about 5'3 and i weigh 123 pounds. Do i need to lose weight?
You sound average, and that's a good thing. You could without it being dangerous, but there's no need.
Ok, so Ive known this guy for a long time. And hes been one of my best friends for almost as long as Ive known him. I can tell him anything and he can tell me anything. And so back in april he told me he liked me and I liked him. And so he broke up with his girlfriend because he liked me and we were....officially un-offical. If you know what I mean. But last week we hung out, and he was acting like everything was fine, when my friend pulled me aside and told me I wasnt the only girl. So later that night I asked him about it, and he said that he liked this other girl....we'll call her Ali. so I got pretty hurt. Ali goes away for boarding school in a few days...and I dont know what to do about the guy. Even if he stops liking Ali, Im still not sure if I should get involved with him again because people say he can sometimes flirt a lot. Will someone please help me out with what to do? Ill rate youu. Thanks
I think, in your case, it's going to be better and less painful to break your heart now, and call the whole relationship-to-be thing off, then getting hurt later. If he asks you about it, just tell him you still have feelings, but you don't know if it would work with him. This way, when things are less shaky and Ali's gone, and you can get a feel for what you want to do, and take a breath, then you can take it up from there. But trust me, if you rush into this, it might turn out to be a mess. So just hang in there for the time being, and see what happens!
I was just wondering if any has any suggestions for a really good foundation - preferably something with full-coverage and with a flawless look?
Try something revlon maybe? gl!!
My hait is pretty thin & long. Is there any way I can get my hair thickened. I know its proboly not possible but I was just wondering. I eat extremely healthy. Eveerything I basically eat is organtic & I take supplements. So its not because of my eating habits. Thank you!
I don't think there's any particular way. Maybe if you make it full with curls it'll appear thicker. Good Luck!
OK my grampa just passed away friday and so far it hasn't really hit me that he was gone so I didn't cry right away. Everyone was saying "I'm so sorry.." and stuff. But then the kid I think I love told me that he was so sorry about what happened on my away message( we haven't talked for about 2 weeks) and once I saw that I just started balling my eyes out. I don't know why i particularly did it when he said it. Also, my mom is REALLY strssed out. A year ago on august 28th my aunt died. My moms birthday is august 29th. My grampa (her dad) died the 30th.
So my questions are: How can I make this less strssful for my mom and why did I start crying when he said that he was so sorry about my grampa?? thank you sooo much.
For your mom, just try to be comforting, she may not be herself and it's your job to be a tower of strength in these tough times. Just try and do stuff around the house for her so it's one less thing she has to worry about. Clean up some rooms, help me dinner, clean dishes, wash clothes, just till she gets her mind back in place. And you probably started to cry because the whole situation became real. When my great grandmother passed away, and we knew it was coming, everyone just sort of delt, and was quiet, we were all locking in these horrible feelings, but the tears wouldn't come. We just arranged what we had to, and that was that. At the end of the night after the funeral, all the sudden my aunt burst into tears and was crying non-stop, I'd never seen an adult cry in such a way. Sometimes we deny things, and at any random moment it just dawns on us big time and hard! It's okay to cry. Let your mom vent to you if she wants, and just try to be as strong as possible and know that everyone has a time, and its a way of life. I am so, so sorry, I know this can't make the pain easier, and I know I don't know him personally, but I still feel really bad for you, it's alot of stress to handle, and sadness. Good Luck!
bestfriend that is a girl: emma
emmas boyfriend *my best friend also* : Kyle
my boyfriend: max
kyle is an a$$ to emma
ahhh
she doesnt really like him anymore and says 'i wanna break up with him' but then she like 'noo i still like him'....... and kyle and max are best friends.... so i told emma she should just break up with kyle but then i dont want kyle to get hurt... but i dont want emma to be tortutred with dating someone who she doesnt really like... how do i help both of them?
ill rate high if its good
It's worse for her to go out with him and not like him than to break up with him! Yeah maybe he'll be a little upset, but faking the whole thing seems like deceit to me! Let her know that, and you can't help your feelings sometimes, even if they wind up effecting others. And if Kyles an 'ass' to Emma she shouldn't be too concerned about his feelings. And if she's just going to be on and off, up and down about Kyle, then there's nothing you can do but just be a good friend if she likes him, then doesn't. Moodswings and hormones is the only explanation, and all you can attempt to do is try and advise her.
ok.....well this boy asked me out, and i dont like him, i like some one else! but i dont know how 2 tell him that i dont like him.
HELP ME!!!!! plz!
Just say "sorry I don't have those sort of feelings for you." He may be sad regardless of what you say, but I guess that's life, and he can't be too hurt if you do it gently.
Ok so i havent had a boyfriend since like febuary and i like this kid but he said he needed to get to know me better what should i do to get him to know me better??
ill rate high for good answers
Hang out with him more often so you can talk! Let him just ask away! Talk on the phone... the more time you have to talk the more and more you learn!
hey.. my boyfriend doesn't always respect me. ok he does, really he
does, if he didn't i wouldn't be with him but the other day we
were out with my friends and he got all mad because he says that i act
differently around my friends and he doesn't like that.
he walked away at my birthday, but did come back shortly after.
i guess i could just keep them seperate although i wish i didn't
have to, but i don't know how to talk to my boyfriend without it
sounding bad.
hes testy. i've tried but we always joke around being mean to each
other, but its all joking.
my friends think im blinded by my love for him and i shouldn't be
with him if he does this, but i love him so much i can't bare to let
him go.
please help!! i've tried sitting down and talkin to him, and yelling
doesn't work either. please help!! thanks.
If you do something he doesn't like, just say "I'm sorry you feel that way" , "I didn't mean it" all that stuff. But remember you don't have to change yourself for him! If you feel like your walking on egg shells all the time, it's time to break it off and just be friends until he can listen to you when you're trying to talk since you say talking with him doesn't work. If he really wants to change and listen to you when you are trying to talk to him he will and maybe you can go out again! If he's a jerk and decides to do nothing, then that's that. Otherwise, you can't go on this way with him controlling you like that, hard as it is, there's some changes that are just going to be painful, but in the end you'll benefit. Other than that there's nothing you can do, I mean you can't yell, you can't talk, and you don't want to break up with him. It's a sticky situation! Good Luck all the same!
Does anyone know of any websites where you can get cheap posters of like bands and stuff?
Try ebay if you don't mind bidding. They have a huge variety. Also Smartpunk if you want to buy right away.
Well as far as friends go I'm sort of lost and dont know who to believe anymore. I had this one friend me and this girl was close to and he started lying and everything else and we both told him pretty much what we thought when he coped off with an attitude. But the girl now we are friends (not sure if were exactly as close as we use to be now or what) but my friend that we told off and another boy came to her house a few weeks later and now her and the other boy are going out. Dont nobody like him not me her mom, her sister, and a few more. We all got a bad feeling about him i have told her and i am sure her mom has but not sure bout her sister. But we have tried telling her he is trouble. She wont listen. And in the past he has been well known for drugs. here is a couple of questions, 1) do you know a good way to get them broke up? 2)And is there anyway we can get it across to her he is trouble?
If her parents aren't seperating them, there's nothing you can do either. You can't "break them up" and the more she knows nobody wants her going out with him, the more she'll feel motivated to do so, because she feels like she's rebelling and she might like that. Don't keep pushing against her to stop dating him, it might do the opposite of what you hope. She'll have to come across the decision herself, because there's no phsycial way you can stop her if you've tried talking to her. And no, there's no way to get it across to her he's trouble, she probably knows he's trouble, but if she wants to do it she'll be headstrong. Tons of teens go through this phase, my friends have done this in the past and it's really annoying. All you can do is grit your teeth, stand by and be a good friend regardless, and hope sense get's knocked into them. Good Luck! Just remember, if she talks about him, get quiet and stuff and don't say anything either way.
hi, i used to have a friend named hayley. well she invited me over one day to come swim at her house. well i told her i didnt want to because i had to go to a party later...and so after that day, i havent talked to her in like 3 months. She said she never wants to talk to me ever again and that we were never friends to begin with..i miss her so much..our friendship, to me, was special and it hurts so much when i know its gone
Sometimes just change itself hurts. It may not be about her specifically. Just realizing a piece of your life is gone is saddening sometimes. It's just the way humans work. She doesn't sound good for you, and as sad as it is that she's gone, you'll have more happy memories to come if you focus on caring friends. Your not alone in the world, alot of people drift from eachother. Hopefully you can just shrug it off, and not give her the time of day because she's downright rude!
The guy I have this huge crush on (i've liked him since February of this year) is a year younger than me. He's in 7th grade and i'm in 8th, but he has a late birthday so he COULD be in my grade but he missed the cut off (his bday is in November of 1992 and mine is in july of 1992 so i'm only a couple months older than him.) However, other people think i'm weird, cause they don't know when his bday is, and they think im weird cause i like a younger guy. Well the truth is i really like him. and i dont care what other people think. but what should i do 2 not make them think im a dork/loser for likeing someone younger than me?? Thanx i rate 5 every time :-)
Your fine! People ask these questions ALL the time. You should care less if you like a FIFTH grader because if you like them, that's just the way it is. It's your LIFE and no one else knows your heart's desired direction. That and WHO CARES if they don't know when his birthday is! Don't get technical... nobody has the right to get technical when all you should care about is him... and you, it's not about them, or anyone else. I tell people this all the time, and it's your life, just focus on you and enjoy it! Don't let other's opinions bother you, especially because if they know it does, then it'll make them feel all the more encouraged to do it some more. Don't give them more activities. Tons of people date younger guys, I have myself. It's no big and it's no ones business anyway.
my friend-lets call her jamie, and my other friend, lets call her janice and i have become REALLY close this month and last! like REALLY CLOSE!
so we had a sleepover the other day at jamies house and everything. then we went to my house l8er that nite (this was 2 days ago). we talk every day and stuff. so we were going to sleepover janices house tonite but i didnt hear anything else about it.
well something fishy just happened and i asked jamie if janice was with her and shes like "y" so i told her wut i thought. jamies exact words were: yea shes with me because her mom needed sum wer 4 her to go" this was over text messaging. i didnt answer them. this was like 5 mins ago. but anyway, wut the hell because i live right down the street from janice, but jamie lives 15 minutes away from us! this REALLY REALLY hurts my feelings like i want to cry. im like tearing as i right this.
tomorrow, were all going to this party and stuff together and i was going to see if janice wanted to carpool cause the party is like 30 mins away. but now im mad at them. but i AM going to the party. im just crying now because my feelings didnt get hurt, they got BROKEN!
wut should i do? and also, sorry for the length.
It's hard, it really is. They don't seem like they're trying to be bad friends though. Maybe Janice's parents/parent only wanted her to have one friend over. I know sometimes parents just like their peace and quiet. It's important not to have an ALL-OUT brawl with them at the party. It wouldn't be a good idea. Just express calmly how you felt a little left out, trust me, they will have more pity on you if you approach it calmly then screaming or making a really big deal out of the whole thing. It could be a misconception, and until more signs of disclusion come, don't assume they don't want you! It sounds like one night of misunderstanding, and hopefully nothing more. Just keep yourself serene, don't let your head blow over the top with thoughts, because if you jump to conclusions you'll just distress yourself more.
my boyfriend is mad at me cause i dont get jealous when he talks to other
girls but i am not a jealous person he says that if i dont get jealous
that i dont really love him i was wondering if this is true????.
No! That's rediculous. This is surreal! Guys would think it was cool for you to allow him to talk to other girls in most cases. He sounds like he just wants drama, and thats not cool. Tell him you can't help how you feel, and your more at rest not having drama, and it's selfish of him to want you to feel bad feelings.
ok I guess i'm popular thats what people tell me but I don't think I am ,I mean I don't want to be popular there are rumors about you constantly,people don't like u cause they think that u think your all that ,but i'm not like that. how do I become unpopular please help will rate high
It's not horrible! Just steer clear of the drama. The only way to not be "popular" is tell people to stop calling you that. Because popular is only what people make it... a word people thoroughly enjoy bouncing around. Tell them you just don't like the label. You might just be really friendly and people like that!
2 questions.. what song is it that goes
and I don't want the world to see me
cause I don't think that they'd understand
when everything's made to be broken; i just want you to know who I am
and where can i get the link for
Artist: Project Wyze
Song: I don't want the world to see me
Album: Only If I Knew
Well, sry I only know the answer to the first question, and it's "Iris", by the goo goo dolls. I used to love that song!! Well, anytime you need to figure out lyrics type them into google and usually you can find the song name and artist as well. Good Luck findin out the rest!
i need cutte ways to as this girl to a dance like really cute ways shell be like aww i no that i ask her regualr she will say yes
Leave a nice letter in her mail, dedicate a song on the radio and tell her to listen in, carve the question into a tree, spell it out with chalk in the street near her house ... I guess just be as creative as possible!! Hope these ideas have helped you out!!!
Alright well I have these 2 differant groups of friends. One of my friends, Laura, is like this rocker/ punk and likes rock like HIM and The Used and she got me really into it. So now I'm all rocker-ish and wear like BMX shirts and a beany hat and everything and I really like this new apperance. (I used to be preppy) It's not like my attitude has changed or anything and I'm definately not going to go out and do pot or anything like that. But then my other group of friends are more like normal. They're not preppy or fall under a particular group. I love them all both the same and my other best friend, Jess, thinks that I'm going down the wrong path and I'm going to wind up in trouble. Him and this other guy I'm friends with are whispering and talking about me behind my back and saying how I've gone punk. And I don't want to be punk because I really haven't changed and I just don't want to be known as a punk. Jess also says that if I don't change back to the "old" me then he doesn't know he wants to be my friend anymore. This hurts because I'm best friends with both Jess and Laura. I want to stay how I am but how can I show Jess and my other friends I really haven't changed and how can I make them just accept the new me?
Thanks for all your help and I rate really high!!
*..:..* The "punk" *..:..*
PS I just entered High School (9th) and so this is when I'm experiancing like new personalities so I'm not really randomly changing.
Trust me, if you like what you're wearing, go do it! You're not a poser for changing, because what people don't understand is that no one was born PUNK, PREP, GOTH, ROCKER, SKATER, HIPPY, COUNTRY all that crap. You just become what you are eventually, and you have every right and tendancy to change some more it's a part of growing up. Tell people not to judge a book by it's cover, and that you still want to be there for them, and if they can't except your new style, then they don't have to, because it's mean to abandon a friend because of what they're wearing. Good Luck!!!