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feel like im losing everything
Well as far as friends go I'm sort of lost and dont know who to believe anymore. I had this one friend me and this girl was close to and he started lying and everything else and we both told him pretty much what we thought when he coped off with an attitude. But the girl now we are friends (not sure if were exactly as close as we use to be now or what) but my friend that we told off and another boy came to her house a few weeks later and now her and the other boy are going out. Dont nobody like him not me her mom, her sister, and a few more. We all got a bad feeling about him i have told her and i am sure her mom has but not sure bout her sister. But we have tried telling her he is trouble. She wont listen. And in the past he has been well known for drugs. here is a couple of questions, 1) do you know a good way to get them broke up? 2)And is there anyway we can get it across to her he is trouble?
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If her parents aren't seperating them, there's nothing you can do either. You can't "break them up" and the more she knows nobody wants her going out with him, the more she'll feel motivated to do so, because she feels like she's rebelling and she might like that. Don't keep pushing against her to stop dating him, it might do the opposite of what you hope. She'll have to come across the decision herself, because there's no phsycial way you can stop her if you've tried talking to her. And no, there's no way to get it across to her he's trouble, she probably knows he's trouble, but if she wants to do it she'll be headstrong. Tons of teens go through this phase, my friends have done this in the past and it's really annoying. All you can do is grit your teeth, stand by and be a good friend regardless, and hope sense get's knocked into them. Good Luck! Just remember, if she talks about him, get quiet and stuff and don't say anything either way.
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