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hey michelle! its ab! what is the best way to get your legs muscular?
I don't know who Michelle is, but I know alot of lungs, jogging and wall sits are good. That's what I do lol.
ok I like this girl named Britney she has a good personality likes to smile a lot and she has a nice smile. Ok I've been giving her poems and all that other stuff every time I do she says thank you. How do I get her to like me more than just a friend? The bad thing is her dad is over-protective how do I get to know her more and family to and to get them to trust me more without getting her pissed off at me?
Maybe try something new, like asking for her screename, or something so you guys can talk more. That way she will get to know you more. You can talk to her dad one-on-one or with Britney in the room but just tell him about yourself because I am sure you are a nice person, I don't know that many guys that write poems thats so sweet!
what kind of gift do u get ur bf for ur one year aniversary?.. were only 15 but its styll a big deal for me... thanxs :O)
**emmy**
Something that will mean alot to him because it came from you. A picture frame with your pic in it would be nice, but it's all up to you!
how do i get one of my guy friends to like me?
Well, that's kinda a tricky one. Don't act like someone you aren't cuz that won't get you anywhere. Just be yourself, I am sure you are a cool kid. Good luck!
My friend lets call her "trish" and I both like the same guy!! I told her I liked him first and now she likes him!! I cant believe her!!
People do this all the time, I don't know if "Trish" is doing it to bug you, or she may like him. Just give it time to see how's it going to turn out. But remember, it's never worth fighting over a guy with your friend.
my parents don't let me do anything they treat me like a child altho im 13 and almost 14 how am I suppoed to let them let me do stuff????
Well, what exactly do you mean by "stuff". I think every parents is kidna the same way when we are that age, but don't worry don't rush growing up. You are only that age once and don't ruin it by doing other things. Talk to them and tell them how you feel exactly and try telling them where you go and what you will be doing so they will trust you.
This summer is coming up, I maybe see my cusin well I love her so much she my best cusin and freind. well thing is that she can be on wild side and she drop out school get a job.. she likes punk music and stuff. I more of other side not punky and stuff like her. she hases these bypooler and deppression and she shave her head once. I want be ther for her and be her best friend agin like have good time and louhts but it hard becouse things inside me hurts what she doing to her self and I would talk to her but it wouldn't help.. I dont want judge my own cousin and I dont judge I just feel un combale things i dont know what to do..
Well I can see how that's tricky becausr you lover her. But the only thing to do is just what you are thinking, *talk to you her*. That's the only way you are going to feel better and get that off your chest. But talk to her in way she that she knows you love her and the only reason why youi are concerened is because you love her.
This mad sound stupid, I looking up yoga and all this. I relize that breathing lot helps ur mind or something..
wel thing is all my life I kinda talk to my self in my mind and this maybe sound silly sometims I'm not with my friends and I kinda pretend there in my mind talking to me. I know sound childest talking my self. I don't do it in pulublic. well in my mind I do somtimes. well my qestion is it okay do that unless don't controll and make thing in mind say thing in real life. if this dont make since it ok dont answer and yelling bout my grammer.. I sorry I am deaf and I have slow writing I do want wirt good. I like helping others and stuff. well thanks any way. thing is right now I typing this I hear my self in my mind saying it.. well I do have good memory..
Pls dont judge my grammer just keep reading it and maybe u get it try put ur self in my shoe just turn around or something.. u need learn becouse there maybe lot people someday writ asl not english.. thanks
u. this intressing how many of u met deaf people?
Manda
Dear Manda,
You inspire me with your words and I have met a few deaf people and I think they are very sweet people, but always should be treated with respect. I think it's ok to talk to yourself, as long as it's good thoughts! Take care!
i have liked this guy(lets call him *B*) for about 8 months. he has changed my life completely around. i like him so much, i can talk to him about anything. and he makes me feel like a princess. he is like the ideal guy. except he has changed me and not for the best. before i used to be the sweetest girl who wouldn't make-out with guys a lot. but now all my friends are like to me "god you spend all your time with him now" and their all like "its not my fault.. cuz *B* is kinda controling" Now last nite my bestfriend told me that eventually i am gonna have to choose between haveing *ALL* my good friends or the GUY!.. but i like him soo much!!!!What should i do?? PLEASE HELP ME!
--troubled
Dear Troubled,
Ooh, that's a tough one but here's what I can say to help you out. I was in this same situation but it was with my bff and these other girls who I really really liked. I went with my bestfriend and we have been there for eachother for like 6 years. I know you like him, and he sounds like he means alot to you; however, your friends are the most important things in life(next to family) because they carry you out of so many hard situations even if you don't know it. I can't tell you exactly what to do, but it sounds like *B* is going to get to controlling in the future, and those relationships are a pain in the butt and miserable. If he likes you the way you think he does, talk to him and tell him how you want to be with him and your friends and tell him how much BOTH mean to you, because no one should make you choose between those two. Good luck with this!
My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do?
Well, she has a right to know because it won't be fair to you. I think you should tell her how you feel but word it so she knows you aren't trying to break them up.
I have a boyfriend and we get on really well when we're together. We've been going out for 4 months but we've known eachother for a lot longer. We were really good friends before we started going out.
The only thing is, lately he wants to see me 24/7. Don't we need space? I feel I need a bit of time on my own. But I dont know what to say to him. I don't want to hurt his feelings in anyway. When I say I have stuff to do he gets a bit annoyed.........well he kinda says its ok but he hints it a lot that hes not happy with it.
Please help me
Well, everyone needs some time by themselves. Tell him how you feel, you can never go wrong by that. No one knows him better than you in your relationship so tell him you feel you need some nights to yourself or go out with some of your friends. If he loves you and cares for you, he should understand no matter HOW much he will miss you!
in 5th grade i moved up north. and i met this boy named mark, who happened to be my neighbor. the first time i saw him, i had a crush on him. i mean im a girl who never even thought about boys, until i saw him. i found out later he liked me and we went out in 6th grade-- for 9 months, then i broke up with him because he never talked to me like he used to. and he understood where i was coming from, and yet we still liked each other-- a lot. in 7th grade, we went out, and then his friend came riding around the block saying that he didn't want to go out with me. the same year, i decided to give him another chance, but he dumped me again. then there i was sitting there with a broken heart. and i promised myself as well as my best friend that i would never ever go out with him again. well soon enough, in 8th grade, i gave him another chance, i thought he would change-- but he didn't. we went out for about 3-4 months. i was at my neighbor's house, and i found out he liked lisa behind my back. i found this conversation at his house, and it was all this perverted crap with her. i was furious. so of course we broke up-- again. this time was different, we didn't talk for about 3 months. then slowly we started becoming friends again, and 5 more months after that we got closer and i kissed him. and we also cuddled a lot. all my feelings started rushing back. i mean he was the first guy i ever liked, and cared about. a few days later he asked me out-- and i had the guts to say no. it hurt me so bad, because i liked him soo much, but i couldn't stand getting another heart break. that night i found out he started telling people he liked my best friend. my bestfriend & i both knew that he was just trying to get revenge on me because i turned him down. and later we found out that it was all just an act. he was mad at me for awhile, and i didn't blame him for being mad because i would be too. and then we became close friends again, and just recently we have became friends with benefits. he likes this other girl(lets call her *A*). and me too. but A would never go out with him. but now i regret saying no to him, because he is telling people that he will never ask me out again because i rejected him. but i really do like him, im just scared to get hurt again. do you think i should just forget him-- cuz highschool is next year(remember i have to see him everyday of summer because he is my neighbor and friends with my brother). should i give him one last chance? i really need your opinion on this. i have been confused for years, and i just can't seem to let him go. do you have any tips? anything would help at this point.
-confused
Well, you seem confused and I don't blame you. I don't think you should just forget him compteletly, but maybe move on for a change. You have been with him and constantly gotten your heart broken and that't not fair to you. I think you should go to highschool with a fresh new look on guys and ya ofcourse you can keep him in mind because I can tell you still think about him and that's ok. But if I were you, I'd give him a little break and tghink about some other guys. Don't totally ignore him, but you show him you are a changed person. Good luck with this one and tell me how things go!
I am turning 12 in October. I am about 5'1". I weigh maybe 115-120... is that bad?
PLEASE HELP!
Oh, and I'm a girl!
Thanks! Bye
No that's not bad at all. No one person is perfect, so we have nothing to compare bodies too. It's ok to be self- consious about your body, but accept what you have. You can work out if you want to tone up, but don't worry your still growing and developing!
Is there anyway I could get a bigger butt? (certain foods I must eat or exercises I must do?)
Well, that's not really something you can ask for haha. You can excersise maybe, but don't eat junk food to make it bigger. Good luck.
I'm going into a High School program(i just got outta middle school) that is suppose to be sooo hard that students who go there get so much work you have to spend the night studing and don't have time for a real life. I even have to go to summer school to get in. My mom's making me go. Worse of all i never do my homework. I've started working already to get ready. But i'm scared stiff. Any advice to help me be inspired to do my homework will help because i'm not sure how long this 'studying' will last.
Well, only you can choose to do your homework, no one can choose that for you. They can tell you do to it, but its all up to you. You know what's coming, so maybe that will be a little push to start doing some of the homework! Good luck! And remember, NO ONE likes to do homework so your not alone.
ok this boy is going to ask me out next friday and i want to say something other than the usual stuff like yes sure yea i guess.. i want it to be classy what is a good way to say like yes in a diffrent way though?
Don't sound to proper, just sat something like "sure, that'd be great" or anything that suits you and expresses yourself! Good luck!
Hi, it's my 15th birthday coming up soon, and I want to do something really good, like have a big party or something. The problem is, I want to invite all my friends (which span over a WIDE area - i have friends from loads of schools), but they don't all know each other, and some don't get along that well. Also, my best friend is a year younger and at a different school, but absolutely NONE of my other friends know her. I really want to invite all of them but I don't think they'll all enjoy it - especially my best friend as the only person she'll know is me. What shall I do?
I had the same problem that you did at one of my parties! I just invited everyone, at first everyone was a little skeptical about each other, but after I introduced them they were fine. You just got to make sure you include everyone in every conversation so no one feels left out!
I recently got married and ny husband has been emotionally and financially abusive. For example...I was recently diagnosed with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome and he has not been helping me out. He says he doesn't care how I feel and to suck it up. He does not pay the bills and we have shut off notices for the electric, phone, and cable. Yet he won't allow me to take over the finances. He goes out and spend the money on himself and playing poker. He took a trip ti Atlantic City without me and spent all of our money. We aren't able to buy groceries even. He yells at me to get a job. But with my medical conditions I am not able to work plus with having three kids under 5 years old...I wouldn't even make enough to cover daycare. He constantly calls me names and criticizes me, underminds my parenting in front of the kids, gets in my face and acts like he is going to hit me just to make me flinch. He calls me fat and ugly and worthless and thats just the nicer words he uses. Why did he marry me if he thought those things about me? I can't live like this any more! I am severly depressed and I am gonna end up in the hospital soon if he doesn't start to help out more with the kids. Just recently he took my wedding ring and engagment ring and throw them out the car window and told me he wants a divorce. We've only been married for a month and a half! What do I do!?
Well first of all, no one should be treated the way you are being treated. It's abuse! You have probably heard this many many times, but you need to get out of the relationship asap or someone could get seriously hurt. And with your medical condition, that makes it more serious. You need to seek some sort of help becuase there are people out there who have been through these types of relationships and they know how it is and I know someone will be willing to help you out! Good luck and remember, you are beautiful inside and out!