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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.


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--Jack

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ok, i was on teenfreeway.com and i sent off for some stuff but........ it's been over 4 months and i havn't recieved a thing! did i get ripped off? is that site a scam? if not then why is it taking so long? and if u have used this site, when do u think i will b recieving this stuff? please help me ASAP thanks in advance.

Hey-

Seems as if you've been caught in a scam. These types of websites are frauds to either steal your money, or waste your time. I don't know if you paid money for these things, but if you did, you just gave the company money. If you want a chance to redeem that money, you should look on the website, and find the email of the company, so that you can email them and complain.

I hope I helped!
--Jack

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Hi- i want to get cute christmas quotes for my profile but i cant find any ??!! if you have any websites to reccomend or cute quotes i would appriciate it =] ♥ jackie

Hey

try these!




http://halife.com/speakers/christmasquotes.html

http://en.thinkexist.com/quotations/christmas/

http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/christmas.html

http://www.neloo.com/Christmas/quotes.html

http://www.quotegarden.com/christmas.html

http://www.quotelady.com/subjects/christmas.html


Hope I helped!
Merry Christmas!
-Jack

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i dont know what to get my bf [of 5-6 months at the time] for christmas. hes not into sports but he likes music and plays guitar.
soo i was thinking one of these 2 ideas:
1- ipod nano [which hes mentioned he wanted] and maybe some guitar strings if i can get them.
or 2 - Guitar Hero 2 [which he's also said he wanted] and a Fender hoodie or shirt.

im mostly thinking the 1st one but id like opinions. were both 16 hes fixin to be 17.

and as far as money is concerned, hes talkin about gettin me a $300-$400 ring, so yeah! were splurging. thx! :)

I think if you are both spending about the same money ($300-$400), than I think the first idea you mentioned would be fine, provided you get him both parts of your idea.

Do what you feel would be the best, but always remember that Christmas is really about being with the people you love and reflecting on God and Jesus.

Merry Christmas!
-Jack

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how can i change my ipod's name?

Get on your iTunes, and when it displays your iPod name, click on it, only once.. not twice, and then type in the new name you want!

I hope I helped!
--Jack

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I have a ipod nano and I installed it about 5 months ago on my computer everything is going fine. Itunes comes up and everything. But then my sister got an ipod video and the ipod video doesn't bring the itunes cd. We tried downloading itunes from itunes.com but it won't work. So my friend let me borrow her ipod cd and I tried it but it won't install itunes for my sisters ipod. Can anyone tell me why not?. Also is it possible that anyone can install two ipods from the same computer? I need help. I want to install my sisters ipod but I don't know how two. I could install mine but I can't install hers whynot?. Help. Thanks in advance.

Hey!

I just got a video iPod, and it didn't come with a CD, which means that you need to follow the directions inside the box and it gives you the website and tells you each step in downloading the iTunes. Unfortunately, you cannot have two iPods on one computer.

I hope I helped!
-Jack

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Hello! i think that you need to change your profile!!!! i sure hope your not single!! or i would be devestated!!! ha ha it should def. say that you're going out with the most amazing girl ever! and that she is awesome! ha ha just kidding!!
I love You!!!

-Lauren

Hey Lauren-

Sorry.. I haven't been on advicenators to change it yet.. by the time you get this, you will notice that I am taken by the most wonderful girl ever.

-Jack

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Hey sweetie,

Sorry to hear about your break up. Hope everything's okay. Really like your advice column and visit it regularly; just checked it then so I sorta just realised.

Take Care

sexy_rexy

xox

Hey!

Thanks so much for taking the time to care, and read my column.
Fortunately, there was just a mix-up, and we are back together now.

I haven't had much time to be on advicenators a lot lately, with my school's play and all.. Plus.. I kinda stopped coming on frequently when I got banned for posting a question twice.. how retarded.. but whatever..

Thanks again,
--Jack

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Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend?

hey-
i completely without a doubt agree with you. This is disgusting that kids (my age; I am 15) find themselves having to have sex before they are married.. one girl in my biology class told me that she has already had sex 10 times with 10 different people- and I found myself almost gagging. Also- I found that everyone pretty much in my grade has done drugs in some way/shape/form and I keep asking people "why" and they look at me like I'm a freak and I'm not cool (which I've already realized)
you aren't alone.. and seeing as over 20 people have answered this saying that is is wrong, you aren't alone.. most questions get like 3 people to answer them.

Hope I helped!
--Jack

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Okay right now I am 17 in high school. And I would like to become a news anchor where should I start. I mean I make the announcements for my school sometimes and it feels good doing it. I also was thinking when I do get to college that I should goto a community college and then transfer to a university do you think I should do that.

Hey!

Congratulations on being able to find what you want to do with your life! Some people sometimes don't figure that out until it is too late.

I suggest that you talk to your school counselor about what classes you want to take next year (if you are a junior).. or if you are a senior.. ask what community college would be the best to go to to become a news anchor. High School Counselors usually know this type of information, so it would be wise to ask them.

Good luck with your career choice!
--Jack

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does any1 know any good songs that were made in 2006

Hey!
This is a good question!!

Bascially anything from the following bands (with some of their better sons below them):

FALL OUT BOY
dance dance

PANIC! AT THE DISCO
but its better if you do
i write sins not tradgedies
the only difference..

THE FRAY
over my head
how to save a life

THE KILLERS
mr. brightside

RELIENT K
be my escape
who i am hates who i've been

AFI
miss murder

SEAN PAUL
temperature


That's all I can think of at the moment..
If you want some more.. post a question in my inbox later, and I'll've come up with some other good bands/songs

Hope I helped!
--Jack

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there's this friend i have at school...he always helps me if i have a problem and he has the sweetest personality. he always takes the time to listen. whats a good way to say thanks?

Hey!
Thank you for posting in my inbox, and sorry if this is a little late.. I've been kind of busy with this weekend having been homecoming weekend..

You're really fortunate to have someone who will listen to you. A nice way to say thanks is with a homemade card, a thank you note, or just to tell him thanks (the last one is really boring).

I hope I helped!
Feel free to post in my inbox whenever!
--Jack

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I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions? Movies, Jet Game, ANYTHING?!

Hey!
Thanks for posting in my inbox, I appreciate it..

This is wicked awesome that you have a crush and being friends is always the first step to developing a lasting relationship.

Like you said, the movies are a good idea, with a huge group of friends.. there are loads of good movies out now that are a good see..
Any type of event where you and a whole group of friends can hang out is a great idea: like put-put golf, sporting events, or even just a party that one of you plans..

What you gave as suggestions pretty much covers all the good ideas...

Hope I Helped!
Feel free to post in my inbox with any additional questions you may have!
--Jack

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hey jack,

i dont need advice but i just wanna say i reckon u've got a wicked advice column lol! your like, the only guy who answers questions properly and the only guy i can find from oz!!
keep up the good work! ;)

sexy_rexy xox

Sexy_Rexy xo,

Thanks so much! I appreciate it, even though I was banned from this site for the most ridiculous reason.. so I'm wicked mad at advicenators.. haha
Well- If you ever need any answers.. feel free to ask!

--Jack
R.I.P. Steve Irwin

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Hey!!
Well i have this problem.... i miss my boyfriend!! i don't get to see him much, cause we have no classes together in school, and i only get to see him like once in the hall for a split second, and one the bus... but he doesn't ride to bus everyday, cause he has play tryouts and other stuff... i love him sooo much, but i never really get the chance to tell him i love him!! i just wanna be with him and tell him i love him!! cause i love him SOOOOO much!!!! i can't live without him!!

Hey!
Thanks for posting in my inbox, stranger!

I know you are feeling upset and worried that your relationship might end.. but you can't lose hope because I'm sure your boyfriend loves you and he wants to see you just as bad.. Just make the most of each time you see each other (as I'm sure your boyfriend already does) and everything will work out.. When you both have an opportunity to be together- seize it! Take it and run with it! Let him know always that you love him and make sure hear it from him..
He is just as desperate to see you as you are him..
I hope everything works out!
--Jack

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so.
there's this boy.
i'm guessing you got that part already.
&& well...i want to kiss him.
so much.
SO much it hurts.
we're good friends.
how should i do it?

thanks.

♥

Hey-
I am wondering if you are anxious to kiss him ad you will stop at nothing to do so.. There's only one problem.. Just kissing somebody who you aren't going out with isn't exactly the best thing to do.. First, if you really like this guy then you should tell him, and he might end up liking you back.. then he might ask you out.. and if you are willing to make the commitment and you aren't just thinking about him for a kiss- then you should say yes..
Time will take over and you will kiss him in no time!

I hope I helped!
--Jack

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hey again... i have this geometry homework that i don't exactly get how to do b/c i had to leave class right when we stated taking notes b/c i had a doctors appointment... it says find the slope of a line perpendicular and the slope of a line paprallel to the given line... y= 4x+7... and the other one is y= -1/5x+2

Hey!
I am so sorry that I didn't get to you fast enough.. I've been kinda busy since school started and I'm trying out for my school's play and I've been caught up in stuff.. again.. I am so sorry..

Unfortunately- I have forgotten all about slope and I looked in my notes from last year and found that I had thrown them out..

Next time something like this happens- just email your teacher or call a friend in the class asking what the notes were.. that way you can understand your homework.

Again.. I am sincerely sorry that I couldn't be of any help on monday.. and I hope that you will continue coming back for advice even though I was unable to help you

Sorry!
--Jack

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are there any websites that you can look up the meanings of songs ?

Hey-
I know for a fact that "lyrics.com" isn't a very good website..
a better one.. which Paige712 beat me to is

www.songmeanings.net

and also

www.lyricinterpretations.com

and

www.songinfo.com


Hope I helped!
--Jack

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hey. i am a guy.. && 15 right now and i am getting a 2001 Black Accord LX 4 Door. I was curious if this is too much of a "girly" car..

Hey-
Honestly.. it seems okay for a guy.. but if you are having doubts (which it shouldn't really matter) then you could try to find a more masculine car.. such as a Mustang or a Grand Am.. black is probably the best color

Hope I helped!
Have fun driving!
--Jack

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is it normal for people to shave there feet?

Hey-
I've never heard of this.. but if you're a girl.. and you shave your legs.. then I guess it would be okay for you to.. but if you're a guy that would be kinda weird.. but if you want to.. then go ahead.. no one is stopping you..

I hope I helped!
--Jack

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i need a new screename

anyone have any ideas?

song lyrics or a song title would be cool

like i got these ideas:

falsexpretense
yourguardianangel
damnxregret

anything with the word regret would be cool
anything about love
i dont really know
anything will be helpful

my current sn is
essentialromance


will rate=]

Hey-
Although I'm sure this question will soon be deleted.. I just wanted to give my input so you still get some answers..
here's some ideas I immediately thought of:

NoxRegrets
missBRIGHTSIDE
x0 Lovin you
MakeDamnSure (yeah I know that's a song)
HelloGoodbye (yeah I know that's a band)
Ready4Love

Hope I helped!
--Jack

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