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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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how come your so fucking sex?

What?
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with all my faith.. and all my heart.. and all those simple things you are ;D

Aww. I love you!
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I heared your going out with Jon! Omg girl, your so lucky.. he's the hottest guy in our school.

Yeah, we're together =)
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ok... me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and we still haven't had sex... i am a virgin but he isnt, he has had sex 3 times. I am afraid that i am really tight down there and that either it wont fit or its really going to hurt. my friend said not to worry about it but i am freaking out and tomorrow i am going ova his house because its our 1 year and we are going to be home alone, and he is already brought up like hints that he wants to do it... i am soo scared... PLEASE HELP !!!

It's normal to be scared your frist time, try not to think about it too much. Maybe to losen you up down there, he can finger you before you actually have sex. Just tell him to go easy on you. I'm sure he won't go hard on you because he knows your a virgin, just take it slow. If it does hurt you can tell him to stop, there's nothing wrong with that. But just try to calm down a bit because everythings going to be perfect!
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(16/F)
i have been spending A LOT of time with my b/f and i haven't been spending as much time with my girlies. i want to hang out with my girlies more and spend time with my b/f just not as much. how can i tell him, nicely, that i would like some space to spend time with the girlies? thanks in advance.

You need to spend time with your friends, so I'm sure he'll understand when you tell him that. Friends are just as important and you can't keep ditching them for your boyfriend. If he wants to do something one night, explain to him that your having a all girls night. Then maybe he can go hangout with his friends and catch up on old times. You can even start hanging out as a group. Go to the mall, movies, your house, etc, with your friends and his friends all together. That way you'll get to see eachother and your friends!
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and we havent done anything more than hold hands and hug. THe reason why i am affraid to go any further is because i am affraid that he is going to judge me because i have never made out with any body or anything, and he has. I am just scared i am not going to be able to do it right. What should i do?

Aw hun, everyones scared, especailly if it's their first time and they don't want to screw up. You guys been together for 6 months, doesn't that tell you something? Most guys, if they don't get any kind if skin within a month, they dump the girl. This guy seems to really care about you and is happy with taking it slow, he just wants you to be 100% ready. Don't be scared about not doing it right or what he thinks, just go with a flow and it will come naturally. He'll probably just take the lead so just go with what he does. You'll be scared the first couple of kisses or two, but once you get the hang of it, you'll start to enjoy it more.
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Is it bad if your boyfriends "belongings" smell a little bit wierd/mildewy...my boyfriend Chad wants me to give him oral sex well when he pushes my head down there**i start to gag a little bit....but i dont want to be rude or ne thing but it makes me gag a lot and its a tad bit undigesting!HELP i rate so high that it touches the sky!teehee

That has to be the worst thing. Maybe if he really wants you to give him oral sex, make him wear a condom. You can get the flavored ones, then you'll just taste the strawberry or chocolate. Or you could tell him you don't really like the taste and you rather not do it. If he loves you, he'll be happy with what he's getting. He could be eating a lot of meat. The cum tends to taste better if you eat fruits and such. Maybe you could share that with him. Oh and one more thing, "I rate high that it touches the sky". I love it! =)
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OK im about to get my permit and I was just wondering what is the test like? and what do you have to do? (I've already read the book but I can't remember all the things)

The test isn't too bad actually. First they give you a vision test, where you have to look at things and tell the guy what they are. They do this to see if you need glasses to drive or not. Then you'll have to do a written test that includes, the signs and questions. The signs are easy, you just have to match the meaning to the correct sign. The questions are simple as well. If you read the book, you'll do great. Make sure you know all the distances. Example: How far you have to be away from a car, when do you have to turn your bights on/off, when do you put your blinker on, etc. Also keep in mind, how many drinks you can have to drive, how many days you have to wait before you can come back to the do test again (if you fail), how old you have to be to start paying your fines if your not wearing a seatbelt. It's only 20 questions, so I'm sure you're going to do awesome on it. Good luck and I hope you ace it!
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Does the person who asked you a question know if you rejected it?

They only way they may know, if they don't get an answer, or their question just goes away. If you check "Your Questions", you'll be able to see. One day you might have a question up, then another day it will be gone. That's how you know it's been rejected.
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Is it bad to be on the computer for a long time. Is it bad to do that? Thanks!

It's not that bad but you can stran your eyes. Just try to take a break from the computer every so often, so your not on it for hours at a time!
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Could i maybe perform in a theater. I would like to. I love to perform. Should i try?

You can do anything you set your mind to. And if this is your dream, make it come true. You should always follow your heart, no matter what!
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If you have your permit or license answer this for me please cuz i am gettin my permit tomorrow and i heard this question is on there and i have no absolute idea! when your right back tire blows out.. what way do you steer

You're suppose to get off the highway/pull to the side. So either to the right or the left, depending on where the side walk is. Good luck on your permit test!
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My pubic area has been itching for awhile. It looks white by the root of each hair after I scratch it, like dry skin.

I have never been sexually active with anyone.
Could my skin just be dry there, and what to help it with?

Your skin is probably just dry, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Maybe you could put some cream on? It could help you with the dry skin and ichyness.
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ok..
i like this guy and i also like this other guy!! and they r both friends!! idk wat to do!! both of them r really hot but i have liked the guy lets just call him jim ( thats not his name ) and i used to like LOVE jim so much!! and all he wanted to be was friend but i think that he is starting to like me!! and i was like O my god!! and ya but then the other guy lets call him jake
n i have liked him for a while too and now he likes me i dont no what to do!! please help me!!!!
i really like BOTH of them

You have to figure out who you like more. There's many ways to figure that out, I can list a few: You can hangout with Jim one day, then Jake another. Once you get to spend a day with them you could decide who you like more. Or you could simply do a pros and cons about each of the boys. The one with the most pros is the one you should go with!
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13/f
today i just found out that the guy i really like and i asked out... well i found out why he said no. my friend told me his mom said he wasnt allowed to have a g/f, and this really sux because i like him so much. is there anything that i can do? or do i have to wait...

There's nothing you or him can do about it if his mother said no. You'll have to wait till he's old enough to have a girlfriend. He probably wants one just as much as you want a boyfriend. I guess the only thing you'll be able to do is wait, but don't wait forever. If you like someone else, go for him!
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My two best friends are in a fight. I used to be in it but I got myself out. Today Friend #1 tried to settle it by talkin to her but she made her cry. What should I do to help them and not get myself in the fight again?? PLEASE help
Thanks sooo much

You have to talk to them both. Maybe try to get them into the same room as you, invite them over to your house. (But don't tell them the person their fighting with is coming, so they'll actually come). Once everyone is there, have a talk and explain that this fighting is stupid. You don't want to be in the middle, but you have to try to help them because their both your friends. I hope everything works out with both of the girls and you can all be friends once again!
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my friend has a crash on a boy at school after alot of time the boy had the guts to ask her out to a valentines dance but because of her parents she couln't go! now she is sad that she couldn't go and she really wanted to go!she's asking me all these question what should i tell her that its okay or not give my some advice plz!

You have to be there and give her good advice. Let everything flow from the heart. Since her parents didn't let her go, it's not her fault. And if this boy really likes her, there's going to be other times that they can do something. Tell her not to worry. If it's meant to be, everything will fall into place. Keep being a good friend and always listen and try to help her get over this.
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Do you got any cartoon doll sites so I can get some THAnkz!

http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html,
http://www.dolliecrave.com/
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is it phisically possible to lick your elbow?
please answer, me and my friend are mad at each other because she says it is possible but doesn't care to prove it.



lee lee

It is phisically possible. Some people can and others can't. It just depends on how flexible you are and if your double jointed.
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its kinda hard to think of him not my tru friend because hes been there for me but ever since high school hit, me and him have found different interest and groups.. he always uses the "you've changed" thing to me but i dont think hes noticed that hes also changed .. its hard

Well, your both going to have to understand that people change. Nothing can stop that, everyone changes, even if its for the worse. Lots of friends when they hit high school become distance and kind of do their own thing. They start doing new things and hanging out with new people. If your really true friends like you say, everything will come back together and you'll find a way into eachothers lifes again. Try talking to him about both of you guys changing and see what you can do to make it work. If your friendships strong, I'm sure it'll stay that way. You just need a good heart-to-heart talk with him.
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