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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i just won a coke contest for a lot of coke from my coke lid. how do i get my prize??

I'm sure theres something on your coke bottle that tells you what to do. Probably something on the label with a local number you could call if you win. Just read the bottle, should be on there somewhere!
♥ Krissy

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okay my motto is that I'm young wnough not to know and old enough not to give a ....(fill in the blank)
and u see.. with me that pretty much means that I'm leagle... even though I'm 16
So.. is it bad to have a crush on someone who is like 7 years older than me? And what if it possibly happened 2 turn out to be something in like a year or so... is this wrong?

It's not wrong, not at all. You can't help who you like, nor can you stop just because of age. If you like this guy, you like him. There's not much you can do. If anything does possibly happen in a year or so, make sure you can trust him. Make sure that he loves and respects you and isn't in it to get some skin and such. If he isn't and all goes well, that's great! Even if he's 7 years older, he could be the best guy in the world. So when you are ready, go for it.
♥ Krissy

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ok... i am a little overweight and I like this guy who is really cute. and my parents own a pizza joint so everytime we get in a fight (which is like everyday), he says that i get loaded from my parents shitty pizza... and i get really offended and i still really like him... should i still be his friend? should i block him from my screen name? help please

Aw, hun. You don't need a guy like that at all. He's being very rude and immature. You should start ignoring him and when he does talk to you on AOL/MSN, don't answer. You should like a guy that will treat you like a queen. Not one that doesn't have any respect for you.
♥ Krissy

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I have really curly hair that I used to chemically straighten a few years back, before it damaged my hair. It's now grown out curly again, but I can't wear it that way because it won't lay in defined curls and it always frizzes in the back. I straighten it with a ceramic iron that I bought through my hairstylist, and I love how it looks when it's straight!

What I wanted to ask was, what hairstyles can I try? I usually either wear it down, or some up and some down, or in a ponytail. Are there any other cute styles I could try? Btw, I don't have bangs, if that gives you any other ideas.

You could: Put your hair haft up haft done in a bun (make the bun messy). Put all your hair in a messy bun. Part your hair on the side and leave it down (either, curly or straight). Put your hair up in a pony tail, then rap some hair around the top, where your pony tail holder is. (if you know what i mean?). Leave it down and clip some hair back with pins. Put it up in a lose pony tail, then pin some hair up. Leave some peices hang from the pony tail and curl them. Put your hair up in a bun and get a cute flower and put it in.
♥ Krissy

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I have a friend who I want to take on vacation with me thi summer. Only I don't want my other friends to be hurt and mad. I have some friends who are very tepermental and stuff. Don't tell me not to tell them, because I know the secret will get out. What should i do???

There going to have to deal with the fact that you took this girl with you. It's not really that big of a deal for you, but it could be for them. When I was in 9th grade my friend took me to Florida with her. Our other friends were mad at us because she didn't pick them, but they got over it. If they ask you about it, don't lie, tell the truth. Just say that you could only pick one and you picked her. Maybe next time you go on vacation you could take a different friend with you!
♥ Krissy

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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee...

Yeah, that's totally okay. It sounds like a really cute outfit. Go for it!
♥ Krissy

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ok, i lettered in academics this year and im a freshman, but some people might think that it's geeky, but i really want a letter jacket! should i get 1 or wait?

Get one! Who cares what other people think about you. They're probably just jealous. Letter jackets are hot anyways. So go for it and get one!
♥ Krissy

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Ok, I met this one guy online and my one friend showed me who he was and showed him who I was. And we've been talking online for a while now. I was talking to him a while ago and he was like dropping hints that he liked me and stuff. And then his one friend was telling me about how he always talks about me and everything. He asked me to go out with him and I told him I didn't know, so now everytime I talk to the guy that likes me's friend he asks me to go out with him. The guy that likes me told me that he really wants to talk to me in school, but he likes me to much and is afriad and I dunno why. I don't want to talk to him at school until he talks to me. I still always talk to him online and everything but I don't know what to do about him. He tells my friend all this stuff like she's so hott everytime I'm gonna go up and talk to her I lose everything I was going to say she is so beautiful. I was thinking omg when she told me that and I didn't know what to say. He still hasn't talked to me, and I don't know what to do! Someone please help me!

If you like this guy hun, your going to have to make the first move. Just go up to him one day and start chatting. Maybe you could have some friends around with you so you'll feel more comfortable. He seems like he's really shy and you can tell he likes you a lot. Everytime he does go to talk to you, he gets them butterflies and backs down. So, if you do want to be with this guy, or try to start up a relationship, you have to talk to him. You never know, he could be the sweetest guy ever, or even your Mr.Right. You have to take chances in life. So go for it and talk to him. I'm sure everything will turn out great!
♥ Krissy

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Omg, do y'all know that one video of that kid lip synching to the Romanian song? There's that video, and my brother showed it to me one time. Well, I can't seem to find it on the internet. Does anyone know the link to the video? I'd ask my brother, but he's 22 and lives in another house. Thanks.

He's the best ever! http://www3.ns.sympatico.ca/lyle_24/myhero.html
♥ Krissy

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i really like this boy, and he really likes me to, and i guess he's soposed to ask me out really soon like tomorrow or somthing. Well this is new for me because i just got over a long relationship and i've been trying to move on and i'm hoping that he wil make me happy and it will be great =D .. so am i making the right decistion with this new boy?.. oh and what are some tips to make him like me a little more.. like things to spice it up ;) thanks so much

You are making the right choice. Just because this relationship didn't last, doesn't mean another one couldn't. It's great that your moving on. Things that could make him like you a little more, be yourself, laugh at all his jokes, be flirty/cute with him, hug him and whisper sweet things in his ear when you see him. All kinds of great stuff like that.
♥ Krissy

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my mom has been really stressed. she was suppoesd to pick me up after school yesterday and she was late. no biggie, right? but later she admitted she's forgotten about me. i'd like to help relieve some of her stress. any ideas?

Maybe you could take her out for a hole day, make it really special. Take her out for dinner. Then you could go home and have a movie night. Try talking to her about things and maybe she'll tell you about what is stressing her. You could also get her a little something just to show her you care. Maybe a single rose with a note explaining to her how great she is. I'm sure she'll love what you have planned for her!
♥ Krissy

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hey can anybody tell me where to find good quotes for AIM profiles and such? thanks in advance.

http://www.holliesquotes.com/
♥ Krissy

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hey ok here is the thing i know its a lil confusin but plz try and help..last night 2 of my closest friends one as my best friend and one whom i know and im a lil close with who i saw twice, they both r in 8th then me so there still in the jr. high so i dont know what goes on between them since im in the high school now. well my friend comes on and tells me that my friend slapped him across the face and called him a jack@$$...but then again i dont blame her bc i would have done the same thing most likely...the thing is that i still want to be friends with him but i dont know if i want to, i dont want my BFF to get mad..though we have gotten into a fight over the summer me. vs. her n my X-BFF and anyways we became friends again and all n my X-BFF was ok with that...now i dont know if i could do this because i miss him and i do want to see him again..i just dk where i could go to hang out with him n still be friends bc im not allowed to go to the movies with guys nor can i go to their houses or have them over till im 16...we have gone to the mall twice but she was with us so i dont think the mall would be such a gr8 idea...he said well see how things work out between us and well work from there on where we can see each other or we would just have to wait till next school year to see each other again..which i dont know bc she'll also be in the school with us and i really know what to do...
i know she liked him and i liked him too @ the time but he was in a grade younger so i know i wouldnt be able to see him much till next year...so i just backed off think i may like him...i dk i how that would effect her..i asked them both if they would ever be friends again..she said she didnt know n he said he doubts it...im feel like im stuck in the middle of this and i dont want to take sides..since i was right there on-line in the chat when the whole fight broke out.

btw he is in a grade younger...yet he is 2 months older so he is now 15

(i just asked her on-line if she was ok with me being friends with him but could she be lying?)

You shouldn't just stop talking to this guy because your friend and him aren't getting along. I know it's hard being in the middle, but you can't just give up on the friendship because of her and him. You need to talk to her about this and explain to her. Tell her that you want to be friends with him. You know they'll never be friends again but you can't just ditch him, because he didn't do anything to you. This is between her and him and it shouldn't effect your friendship with him. If she doesn't understand that, she's not being a good friend. She'd probably do the samething if she was in your shoes. You have to talk to her though, it's the best thing to do. As for hanging out with this guy, you could go to the mall. I know you said it wouldn't be a good idea, but it sounds like it'll work out great. Maybe one of your other friends (a girl), could invite him and his friends over and you guys can hangout together. Go to the park and meet him up there or even at the movies. And I don't know for sure if she's lying to you or not, that is why you must talk to her. Tell her to tell you the truth, even if it's bad, you want to know the truth about this.
♥ Krissy

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ummm there is this guyy and hes nice i guess to me.. hes really rude and short..i dont like him but im sure he likes me...how do i get rid of him without being mean???

If you don't like him, theres not much you can do. You have to tell him you don't have any feelings for him. And then maybe he can find someone new to crush on. If he still doesn't get the hint of you not liking him, simply ignoring him. He'll get what your trying to get at after awhile.
♥ Krissy

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Well here is the thing see im 14 m and i have never had a girlfriend is that weird or wrong or anything please help.

Aw, theres nothing weird or wrong about that at all. Everyone starts crushing at different ages. Some might only have their first crush at 18, while others are crushing at 13. Everyones different. Don't worry, your time will come and you'll get a girlfriend. You just have to give it time. And don't look for love, let it find you.
♥ Krissy

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this is prolly odd and gross but...
what is the best position to lie in when your on your period (like when ur asleep in bed) to stop leaks? forget pads and stuff, i oviously have them, but is it best to lie on your back or side or what to prevent leaks?

Lay on your belly. When your on your period, the blood usually leaks down. For example, if your on your back, you mostly always get leaks, because it leaks down. So if you lay on your belly, it'll help with the leaks, because it will be going on your pad insted of on your pants.
♥ Krissy

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Ok, so i have this crush on a guy but its like an on and off thing were i like him one minute and the next i dont but when i heard someone saying how hott he was i got so jelous and everything so does this mean that i really do have a crush or just like a teeny teeny crush on him?

This means you do have a crush on him, a really big one. When your finding yourself getting jealous over things other girls say, that should tell you your answer right there. Your really digging this guy and I think you should do something about it. You never know, he could be that special guy you always wanted.
♥ Krissy

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my friends and are going out for a nite in the town and i like one of my friends a guy and he knows what should i do?! i know flirt but should i do anything special maybe ask for a goodnite kiss?! suggestions please!!

Aw, that's so cute. Since he knows, go for it. Just flirt a lot and be yourself. Then at the end of the night, be like "I was really hoping I could do this" and then kiss him!
♥ Krissy

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I like to shave everything if you know what i mean. well this is the first time but i noticed red little bumps by wear my pubic bone(the triangle area) well im not sure if its razor bumps. the day i shaved it hurt and then little bumps appeared. I think they are since i do shave against the grain which i heard is bad. they dont hurt it just hurt after i shaved. if any one could tell me if its from shaving plz let me know. there very small and only right by wear i was shaving.

The red bumps are from shaving, it's called razor burn. You can really get it anywhere, even your legs. Maybe try using a different razor, a better one. Then use soap or shaving gel. Try not to shave everyday, then you won't get bumps. Also once your done, put some cream on. It'll help with the redness (if any) and the bumps!
♥ Krissy

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Ok well i have these two bff's in the world and they'd never do n e thing to hurt me! So one of my bff's has another friend witch is totally fine. But me and my other bff dont like her she tries to take her away and ruin our friendship. And she act's like she doesnt even know us in public. So today we got in a fight and now she's all pissed @ me. Wut shood i do?

She doesn't sound like a good friend to begin with. Maybe you should try talking to her. Tell her how your feeling and that she's acting a little crazy about everything. If she doesn't smarten up tell her you'll have to end the friendship. You can't stand to be friends with someone who's like this. And if she really is your friend, don't worry. She'll come around and smarten up!
♥ Krissy

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