Question Posted Thursday February 17 2005, 5:00 pm
Ok, I met this one guy online and my one friend showed me who he was and showed him who I was. And we've been talking online for a while now. I was talking to him a while ago and he was like dropping hints that he liked me and stuff. And then his one friend was telling me about how he always talks about me and everything. He asked me to go out with him and I told him I didn't know, so now everytime I talk to the guy that likes me's friend he asks me to go out with him. The guy that likes me told me that he really wants to talk to me in school, but he likes me to much and is afriad and I dunno why. I don't want to talk to him at school until he talks to me. I still always talk to him online and everything but I don't know what to do about him. He tells my friend all this stuff like she's so hott everytime I'm gonna go up and talk to her I lose everything I was going to say she is so beautiful. I was thinking omg when she told me that and I didn't know what to say. He still hasn't talked to me, and I don't know what to do! Someone please help me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MummuM answered Saturday February 19 2005, 1:18 pm: If you like this guy hun, your going to have to make the first move. Just go up to him one day and start chatting. Maybe you could have some friends around with you so you'll feel more comfortable. He seems like he's really shy and you can tell he likes you a lot. Everytime he does go to talk to you, he gets them butterflies and backs down. So, if you do want to be with this guy, or try to start up a relationship, you have to talk to him. You never know, he could be the sweetest guy ever, or even your Mr.Right. You have to take chances in life. So go for it and talk to him. I'm sure everything will turn out great!
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shake answered Thursday February 17 2005, 7:09 pm: Well you said yourself you didnt want to talk to him until he talks to you so umm....wait... [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
Hellheart answered Thursday February 17 2005, 5:48 pm: My suggestion would be to make the step yourself. You seem to be fairly outgoing, but even if you're kinda shy, you should be able to take the step because you aren't so obsessed. He'll calm down over time, but at this point he'll be almost incapable of taking any risks associated with you because his mind can't cope with getting rejected by someone who's so important to him.
If you DON'T want a relationship with him, then tell him so, and do explain why (truthfully why), preferably in person but online if you have to. You'll be talking solely online for awhile, but eventually he should relax and you'll be able to talk in person. [ Hellheart's advice column | Ask Hellheart A Question ]
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