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so there is this boy i like in my school he knows i like him but he dosnt like me. i have liked him for about a year now an this girl in my year lets call her C, the boy really likes C and last year i think asked her out but it only lasted about 2 weeks i think because C ended it she didnt really like him she is one o them girls who is a right slut who all the boys love and last night the bot left a comment on C's facebook saying i love you there not going out with each other like but as soon as i saw it a filled up with tears and ran to my room crying and nw i feel like kiling myself it sounds abit mental i no but i feel like he is the only thing keepin me alive and knowin that he will never like me hurts me so much what shall i do ? (link)
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as iv grown up iv learnt one major thing....boys always come and go.in your present moment you thing your life has ended because your totally inlove with this boy that loves someone else so you have no will to live because you think hes the only thing keeping you happy, well once youv over come that path and you get over him your going to look back and think "oh man what the heck was i thinking"right now it might be hard to imagine but yes you will get over him and you know something else?another boy is going to come by and your going to think "hooo DAMN i want him"and then hes ganna say "ohmama shes fine i want her" and your both going to fall inlove with eachother and get married and maybe have babies etc but before that you need to just believe this guy at the moment is just not into you.he doesnt have to like you its part of those things in life you need to overcome,so what you do is just move on and then the right boy will find you and hell want you and treat you amillion times better than this boy ever will.youll look back and think i cant believe i wanted to die over that other guy "ewww vomit what was i thinking" seriously
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Sia,
I know you are having fun, but the man who asking you these sexually graphic questions is a troll. He has asked hundreds of female advicenators the same question. When a young women takes the bait, he follows up with more and more graphic requests. If you need me to give you some links to some of the dozens of girls he has contacted here, with the exact same stories and compliments he's telling you, I can do that.
He has been banned before for this behavior.
He will be gone again shortly.
Please, please, please, keep yourself safe and do not play a part in his fetish. You are being used. Please, reject his question and do not contact him on any other site. There is sufficient reason to believe this guy is not safe.
Please. (link)
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oh my god are you serious?!i wasnt trying to be sexual at all,i really thought he wanted help with his stupid book hes writing..im soo ashamed.
i really would like to see those links please for my peace of mind.
Please do
oh what a sick man!!!!!i think im going to votmit yuck!
thank you so much for letting me know xoxox
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I'm a few months into my 16th year and the guy I'm going out with is turning 18 next month.
We just had our first kiss and it was my very first kiss, but he's had two or three girlfriends before. It wasn't awkward at all, the situation we were in was practically begging for it-- he had been holding me for half an hour and my lips had been settled on his cheek, it was dark and we were all alone-- but I know I was really dfjsdf about it. He did like the pecks, no tongue, and it was really romantic, but all I could focus on was, shit I suck at this. Like I know I got better because when I kissed him goodbye later it seemed natural but at first I was like, doing nothing. He didn't say anything about the kisses afterward though which I'm not sure is good or bad.
Next time we're alone and the time seems right, should I admit he was my first kiss? The situation couldn't have been better, it wasn't awkward and thankfully I didn't make any major mistakes but I just feel like such a loser that I couldn't have done better at first. Opinions? Stories? haha;)
Please say your age and m/f... I'd love some guy responses haha :) (link)
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awwwww how exciting...im sorry im not a male but i really want to reply lol.
firstly you should tell him that he was your first kiss, guys really like to be first to everything, show how pure your are. it will also bring you two close when your open about it.
it doesn matter whether your good at it or not,it was your first time just like driving a car.when you first get into the drivers seat tour not going to be able to just drive it without abit of practise.
all you do is press you lipps together and kiss like you would do to his cheek..im sure he probibly got that it was your first time because usually girls just kiss they dont just wait around if you know what i mean.
im sure he didnt say anything because he thought it was natural and there was nothing wrong abbout it...when you guys kissed did he ever try pull away and avoid the kiss after the first or second time??if no then he liked it so dont worry.
there was one time me and a boy kissed and he was really bad like he didnt know where to place his lips And the whole situation got abit awkward (youd both know when the kissing isnt good because thered be siliva everywhere and youd just feel it in your gut that these kisses are just not ment to be like that)
anyway after we kissed and tried to get it right acouple of times whe sat there quietly looking at the ground and in the end he comes out and blames it on me telling me that im not moving my lips right!!!I then come out and say, ehmm the last time i checked, when your trying to kiss someone it doesnt mean your trying to swallow their whole face along with it.it was kinda funny though, at the time.
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How will 2 male cats get along, one is 14 years old and one would be 6 months old? (link)
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you need to get them nuted..like snipped at the vet. especially around this month due to their male hormones increasing through their body.theyr going to fight because theyr trying to show whos bigger and better and protecting what they think to be their land/ home...
i mean you never knwo they could get use to eachother but i doubt it, ask a vertrenarian
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When going out to eat with a group of people at a restaurant, is there any other way to pay for yourself besides cash when getting the bill? Can everyone just put in a credit card so they will split the bill for you that way?
Does it depend on the restaurant? (link)
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you can pay by credit card.just add up how much each person is paying and let the waiter know. some restaurants wont let you do that so you need to ask before hand :)
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If a woman has sex while on her period, does she stop bleeding during the actual intercourse? and do the same rules still apply for her to have an orgasm, or is it easier or harder? (link)
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no she doesnt stop during the process..if you want to have sex while having your period then you reallly need tou put a towel under you because your getting loose causing the blood to flow easier out of your vagina.i think it is the same rules applying for an orgasim but im not sure for some reason i have a feeling its easier for the girl to have an orgasim when having her period but i cant be certain
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So I have a girlfriend (im a girl) I have been bi sexual for awhile but I started dating "tina" and she showed me to be proud even if your bi sexual. I am terrified to come out to my family because we are really close and I dont want to lose that. Everyone I work with and my friends know and my cousin and aunt and uncle do how can I come out without feeling terrified? I know witht he holidays comming its usually not the best so what do I do? (link)
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a confession is always going to make you nervous and terrified..the only way is to overcome this is by actually going out there and doing it. before you do it think of the best words to use and what your going to say to them.
take them out to dinner or tell them over the dinner table somewhere where there is not interruptions like over coffee or something...ask them to meet your girlriend and tell them that you want them to be apart of their happiness etc
even if they get angry theyr your family and theyr close to you which means theyr there for you for the good and the bad.from what your saying i really do think that by telling them it might bring you guys closer because your being honest with them. just dont tell them that everyone else knows about it because they may feel let down that you didnt come to them first
goodluck :)
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Who's the prettiest girlfriend of Robert Pattinson? (link)
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the only girl i know robert has dated is nina schubert and shes nnot pretty well i dont think she is.
this girl is quite pretty
http://www.twilightseries.ca/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/erika-dutra-girlfriend-robert-pattinson-500x498.jpg
or this one
http://cdn.buzznet.com/media/jj1/2008/12/camilla-pattinson/robert-pattinson-camilla-belle-laughing-03.jpg
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Ok...So I saw this on my bestfriends bulletin on myspace...does anyone have a clue what the heck this is? Or means? Or says, if it says anything at all? I asked him and he just laughed and said, figure it out. I've tried but, I have no clue, here take a crack at it, see if you can decode it.
He said it was posted just for me, hmmmm...I have no clue what it says. Help?!
" 3C1ntSt4pTh3nk3ng, Th1tsM62ss52...3W4nd2rW3ll1n64n2B21bl2T4R21dTh3s1nd5nd2rst1nd3t?
3m1t1l4st, 1g5stTw2lv2th...C1ntG2t545t4fM6H21d!!!"
That was what is said.
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i cant stop thinking, thats my issue...i wounder will anyone be able to read this and understand it?
im at a last, i guest twelveth....cant get u out of my head!!!!
thats what it says :)
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I left my school in 9th grade to be home schooled because I was horribly bullied throughout middle school, and I was always intimidated by those that bullied me. With that said, when I was returning to that school in the last semester of 10th grade. I was terrified of going back. I wanted to forget everything and start all over. I changed my name to a preferred name, and acted like I didn't know anyone (which was very immature, I know). A bunch of people found out and they bullied me even more; taunted me, and spread rumours about me even more to the point where I'd skip school because I'd feel terrified of going. Things have gotten a bit better in 11th grade but I feel like I'm reserved and not able to make friends because I'm always feeling worthless, and like I'll always be rejected? What can I do to have high self esteem, and be able to stand up for myself without feeling bad about it? (link)
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im really sorry you went through all of this..its soo sad and people just never let things go. do you know why?its because they lie themselves but use others faults to make them feel better about themselves. im sorry if my advice isnt the one your looking for but its the most powerful one. time is the only way. time heals everything and time is what makes people forget.
live your life the way you want to live it,being nice and treating people the way you want to be treated. believe in yourself and it will shine through you. beauti isnt from the outside its what you have to offer from the inside that makes you beautiful.
ext time someone asks you why you lied just tell them the truth and make and oath to yourself that you will never lie again. you cant change the past but you can certainly fix the future. if someone comes up to you and goes "haha look at that girl that changed her name and made people believe she was someone else" you just reply back and say" yeah i did it because people like you were bullying me so im sorry if i had the slightest thought to want to be someone else, someone that people would like, someone that people would stop picking on"
If you have a counsellor at your school book an appointment because talking about it will ease the pain...
smile and never show your sad xoxoxo
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I go to a center everyday and there's this girl named terra and everybody makes fun of her becouse she pees in her pants and she has a medical problem how can I make people understand so they won't make fun of her anymore or should I tell staff? (link)
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oh my thats horrible!theyr soo mean. sometimes you cant change people so dont be disapointed if they dont stop. ask them how theyd feel if someone made fun of them, if they did soemthing really humiliating by accident and had everyone make fun of them. this girl didnt purposefully pee her pants and probibly stays up all night remembering all those people who made fun of her. just because she doesnt show emotion doesnt me she cant feel it.tell them to picture themselves in her position.
people like that actually make me sick!
remind them about her mental condition. ask them that is it ok to make fun of soemone because theyr not as fortunate as them?what goes around will come around remind them of that. tell them its not her fault she has a medical condition she didnt ask to be the way she is just like they didnt have a choice to be who they are. tell them to think of a feature they reaaaally hate about themselves like their weight, bad skin, big nose etc, and tell them to picture somone noticing that feature that theyr already self concious about and making a big deal about it how would they feel?i mean its one thing to notice it but its even worse when people use it against you, make fun of it, and make you feel worse off then you already are. :(
your a good person you inspire me thenk you for having her back. if this doesnt work then tell staff immediately!
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hi im from pakistan
im 18 years girl..
i was in relationship with a boy who was very mean nd insecure about me and tease me a lot . . he alwys black mail me emotionally thus driving me mad...
sumhow we brok up but i m facing lots of problems in my life after it so i need ur help !!!
my problems are :
1) major problems is that i have become lazy nd absent minded
2)i feel like dumbest girl in world
3) i m losing my beauty ,wit, senses nd efficiency
4)i respond to others late bcoz my mind take lot ov time to think an answer
i hv lots of goals nd i need to study nd socialize bt i cant there is no wayi ll call him back so i need ur advice to become better
plz i need long and sincere answers
THANKS IN ADVANCE (link)
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Heeeeyy :) ok heres my advice..the only way you can be able to socialise and go back to the way you use to be is by letting him go. by moving on and believing hes in you past. right now you still think about him, maybe soemtimesa you miss him and stay up nights thinking about hima nd how he hurt you. you need to stop and stop feeling sorry for yourself. he wasb an ass yes, he hurt you yes, he abused you yes, he was a dumbass yes, ok now weve established that next step is to let it go and be strong about it. dont be scared of him. if he tries to black male you then dont answer him dont talk to him. if you see him on the street walk the other way and just erase him from your mind. once youve done this then youll be happy resulting in a life in your self esteeem resulting in feeling better about yourself and when you look in the mirror youll see a beautiful girl that was better than that ass, better than him because you didnt sink down to his level and was mature about everything. i mean at the end of the day look at the bright side. atleast your still not with him trying to get away from him, being abused by him, anythings better than that right?
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jack off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. He also said one day he was leaving school he saw her walking towards her car, he took out his cellphone and snapped a pic of her secretly. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Or should I straighten him out? (link)
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its normal to have a crush on a teacher it happens all the time but the thing is its not normal to say those things about his teacher.i hope hes not stalking her or anything like that because hes getting very obsessive.he does sound like he know he cant be with her but just let him know that just incase he doesnt.a teacher will loose her license to teach if she is caught involved with a student. since im studying to become a teacher id probibly want to know if a student was obsessed about me just so its at the back of my mind. maybe tell him to just cool it down alittle i mean its ok to like her but not take piks of her because that illegal..be careful cuz stuff like that can get out of control
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My husband and I are expecting twin girls in two months. It's really exciting and it will be our first children. We already purchased our new family home and are really excited to get to working on it.
We're not sure what colors we should paint the baby room though. I heard that bright colors stimulated a child's mind and may later enhance their creativity. I figured we should color the nursery room fun, bright colors then. We're just not sure what colors. They're girls so I was thinking pink (or various shades of pink) but I'm not sure if that's too plain-jane.
What do you think? What are the best colors to paint a child's room in? (link)
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AHHHHHHHH HOW EXCITING!!!im soo excited for youuuuu!!k i really think you should go for pink and maybe yellow? yellow and aqua (greeny blue) are both nuetral colours and can be used for any baby room not matter what the sex of your child is. you could paint it pink with yellow doors and yellow frames, that is if you have wall frames...my room is a greeny aqua colour with pink doors and pink wall frames (the frame that seperates the ceiling from the walls)
and yes you are right bright colours stimulate the baby's brain as well as helps with eye sight.
are you creative?why dont you paint flowers on the corners of the walls or cartoon characters or soemthing...this could be just me getting carried away i love babies!congrats!!!!!!
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I'm sixteen years old and I'm a 34B, and I have stretchmarks on my breasts. I'm wondering what is up with this? Like, is this normal? What caused this? (link)
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adding to what the other person has said...you can also use organic rose hip oil from your nearest health store thats really good
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I'm currently a teacher. I've switched schools three times now. This is my sixth year teaching. I would like to quit teaching in December and go to graduate school to get my certification in paralegal studies. I've always had such a huge interest in law and I feel that I should pursue that. Financially, I believe that I will be okay. The stress of teaching has had such a negative impact on my life, and I'm currently taking anti-depressants to get through each day. I do not have any sort of "spark" or interest in teaching and cannot quite figure out why I started doing this in the first place. What should I do? (link)
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oh wow this is alittly scary seeing as i have one more year to finish my teaching degree...to be honest in my opinion your either a teacher or your not theres no inbetween.
sounds like this job is really affecting your health. any job that affects your health so much is not worth it. i mean teaching is very stressfu;l and alot of teachers have retired and tried something else because they cant cope.
remember thaT when your stressed your most likely going to take it out on the children.imagine those poor kids coming to class everydaY thinking oh its that teacher that just doesnt want to be there as much as we do. the only difference is that they HAVE to be in that class and listen to you all day but you dont.you dont have to be there.dont make it a tourture for both of you and just move on. the other day i actually herd that its healthy for an adult to change their career path every 6years. maybe this just isnt for you and im sure your not the only person whos changed their career path because they just werent enjoying it. do something you want to do, soemthing that will make you go home everyday with a smile on your face unable to wait for the next work day :)
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its my booyfriends bday soon (by then we'll have been going out for a little under a year) but i have no idea what to get him!!!
For my bday he got me a £70 necklace and paid for the repairs when i (accidently) broke it. I cant afford any more than £20 and he already ahs everything!! Anyone got any ideas????
Nothing too soppy - bearing in mind im 14 and he'll be turning 16 :)
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why dont you be creative and make him something. like get a box and in that box put all things that you think are special to him like photos of both of you.make little IOU cards and put it in there so he can "use" e.g make alittle paper slip that says IOU one kiss or soemthing like that or IOU one hug.i mean you can come up with stuff hed like and put it in the box. im not sure if hes that kinda guy though.
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Share your favorite type, way, location, position to kiss !
I like upside down kisses. My current boyfriend and I did the Spiderman kiss... I hung from the monkey bars.
I like to sit on the counter in my kitchen, pull my boyfriend in by his shirt, and kiss him. Once or twice he picked me up so my legs were wrapped around him and he carried me to the couch. (link)
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hehe i like this question...mmm i like it when my bf holds my hand and kisses the top of it. i like it when we kiss and he puts his hand on the back of my neck or plays with my hair.
i like it when we re kissing and he holds my face in his palm.or when hes sitting on the couch and i sit on top of him face to face, him holding me by the waist and his cold hands softly rubbing my back making me feel tingly(im very Ticklish)
sometimes hell push me against the wall and kiss me forcefully, hell put his arms between me as like im trapped if that makes sense ummm what else, nothing really too out there that i can think of
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I just got out of a semi long term relationship, so I kind of need a refresher on how to date. I've been hanging out with this guy every day for the last two weeks, and for about a week we've been kissing and whatnot. I've slept over at his apartment the past three nights (no sex) because he asked me to stay with him. Since us hanging out has kind of become a nightly thing, I sort of was surprised when he didn't invite me over last night. I didn't want to text him and seem clingy, plus it was kind of nice to just hang out with my roommates, but now I've been wondering why he didn't ask me over and all that good stuff. So my question is...do I text him and tell him I kind of missed hanging out last night? Or would that make me look too clingy? I just want to be sure there's still something between us, but asking straight up would probably freak him out. I mean I understand that we're not gonna see each other every day and all that jazz, but is it too much to say I missed him? Because as much as I don't want to seem clingy, I also want to be sure he knows I'm still interested. So help? (link)
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id say give it a day before you txt him..or you can wait till he txts you but dont leave it for more than a day because he maybe waiting for you to txt him. hope this helps
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so one day, i decided to be a big girl and iron my clothes. While i was doing this, my clumsiness got the better of me and i knocked the iron off the ironing board and onto our carpet. Our carpet is fine. I only realised then that the carpet was made of some plastic. Oh, the iron fell face down. So the hot side (where you press onto your clothes) was on the carpet. And because it was hot, the carpet melted and now that i had left it to cool. It has this hard plastic stuff on it. And i cant remove it..
Does anyone know how to remove this? Im really desperate and a bit of a cheap-skate.. :) my mom gets back in 2 weeks!
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hmmmmm have you tried nail polish remover??it might rub the plastic off the iron.i just asked my mum and she said that if you spray biff paff like the fly spray and wipe it off(lol) i mean its worth a try.You can also try peel the plastic off unless its teffal like that non stick stuff then dont try it cuz then your iron will get scratched.
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