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people making fun of a girl becouse she peed in her pants!
I go to a center everyday and there's this girl named terra and everybody makes fun of her becouse she pees in her pants and she has a medical problem how can I make people understand so they won't make fun of her anymore or should I tell staff?
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This makes me hate people so much...why is it that people have to find something to make fun of someone else for their own amusement?
Well I'm glad Terra has a friend like you I would jsut be there for her and if someone says anything either ignore them or tell them to cut it out. I would however tell someone on staff about whats going because Terra is probably having a hard time with what she is going through right now. Just be there for her!
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oh my thats horrible!theyr soo mean. sometimes you cant change people so dont be disapointed if they dont stop. ask them how theyd feel if someone made fun of them, if they did soemthing really humiliating by accident and had everyone make fun of them. this girl didnt purposefully pee her pants and probibly stays up all night remembering all those people who made fun of her. just because she doesnt show emotion doesnt me she cant feel it.tell them to picture themselves in her position.
people like that actually make me sick!
remind them about her mental condition. ask them that is it ok to make fun of soemone because theyr not as fortunate as them?what goes around will come around remind them of that. tell them its not her fault she has a medical condition she didnt ask to be the way she is just like they didnt have a choice to be who they are. tell them to think of a feature they reaaaally hate about themselves like their weight, bad skin, big nose etc, and tell them to picture somone noticing that feature that theyr already self concious about and making a big deal about it how would they feel?i mean its one thing to notice it but its even worse when people use it against you, make fun of it, and make you feel worse off then you already are. :(
your a good person you inspire me thenk you for having her back. if this doesnt work then tell staff immediately!
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The staff are probably very aware of the situation and how sensitive it is. They probably expect others are aware of the fact or expect that and haven't thought about anyone who is ignorant.
It's really up to them to do something about the teasing and ridicule. Seeing as they haven't bring it to their attention and ask them to address it. If they show reluctance or no desire to tell others at the center her story than you can do it.
Take the individuals that make fun of her aside and tell them that she has a medical problem and cannot help these things and that it's not right to poke fun. Hopefully, that will curb the situation.
You don't need to go into a ton of personal details as to what she has and why she can't control her bladder but a brief explanation and a "how would you feel if it were you?" should suffice.
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