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what are the chances of a condom having a hole in it?? i had sex with my boyfriend and i know it didnt break cuz i know what that feels like....and nothing has ever happened before.....but like im worried for some reason.....

lol you'll know!! iidn u can just tell!

xOx*

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okay well i have a boyfriend and i do likie him soo much but i dont know if he feels the same about me .. well him and this girl were going out and he dumped her for me and we went out for like 2 days and then he dumped me and went back out with her.. well now she dumped him and we are goin out and it will be one month like soon okay well he walks me to like all of my classes and then kisses me but it always just so happens to be in front of guess who .. his ex so do you think that hes trying to get her jealous and win her back? but tell me what ya think.. hope you and jake go out for a while!!!

hmm idn who this is lol BUT maybe u should ask him if he rele likes u or if hes tryin to get his ex jelous...be honest with him....good luck! and thanx i hope me n jake go out fer a while too lol!

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my friend has a boyfriend and they have been going out for like 10 or 11 months and last night she cheated on him for her friend..she likes her friend a lot and he was just kissing her to well..kiss her, he doesnt like her. her boyfriend happens to be my friend too and he loves her and everything..what should she do..i think she might have told him by now..

i thynk it was rong of yer friend to cheat on him in the first place ESPECIALLY if her n her bf have been together that long...i thynk u need to have a serious talk wit her n tell her how bad she can hurt someone by cheating on them...good luck!

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im 14/f i have a LOT of blackheads all over my nose and they won't go away does anyone know how to get rid of them?? because i have a formal coming up and my pores are pretty big so a lot of people notice the blackness of my nose everyday!!!!
please dont delete this!!!!!

they have blackhead cleanser at liek drug stores for about 3.00...try that or u can try popping them then put alcohol on it and they normally heal....or just wear foundation fer the formal! good luck hun!

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My boyfriend who is also one of my best friend just called me and accused me of cheating and told me never to talk to him again. I know i didnt cheat on him, what do i tell him?

call him back and be like before u hate me hear me out i did not cheat on u i wuldnt do somethin like that and if u dont believe me it shows how much u liked me....or say somethin like that lol kay!good lucc sweetie~!

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ok there is this guy at my middle school and he gives me and my friends hugs like all the time but he always wants to give me the first&last hug do you guys think he is dropping hints?

well he might be....some guys are like that...but sometimes it doesnt mean that he likes u so the only way to find out is maybe flirt with him a little bit and if he reacts back then he must like u but if he doesnt flirt back then you kno he doesnt lol good luck!

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For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style*

Its Good Riddence by Green Day
hehe good luck!

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my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???

lol everyone likes that game....just be like theres more to life then that game maybe we can go see a movie or somethin! or maybe u guys can play he game together...i mean hey at least yer together lol! good luck babe!

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My boyfriend is amazing. I love him to death. But he is a little immature sometimes when I need him to just be serious. Any way I could tell him in a nice, non-offending way??

just be like omg cant u ever be serious...haha if u get mad guys feel rele bad and they always comfort u...lol its great good lucc sweetie!

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i get depressed like really easly.. like today at school i was really hyper and happy and all that but now im really up set and want to cry over nothing. i just randomly melt down.. is there anyway to stop this or is there a reason im like this?

they have anti-deppression medicine....but therez gotta be a reason your always depressed! so talk to yer mom or somthin! good lucc sweetiE!

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If I start exercising almost every morning for 30-60 minutes by walking and I start doing Pilates and also start eating healthy, how long do you think it will take to lose some weight and get skinnier? Thanks!! :)

sit ups- not eating soo much--crunches

good lucc!

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i'm somewhat flat chested, but i have great legs. how can i take all the notice off my chest (or lack thereof) and refocus it on my legs without being thought of as a skank?

wear more skirts and shorts...kapris!!
and they do have semi-padded bras??
good lucc!

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Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
Help, i rate.

ull get it soon most of that is signs that its coming most of that happens to me too before i get myne! good luck!

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okay im about 125 lbs n i dont think im a fatty or anything but how can i lose wieght quickly and tone my body?

running...eating less...sit up..crunches.

good luck =)

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okay i just started my period. I have a few questions.
a)if when you put a tampon in, and in 6 hours later when you take it out. and theres blood on it.but when you wear a pad and you take it off, and theres no blood. is this a period?
b) can you bathe with tampons in?
c)is mastrubation with your period a bad idea
d)it acually hurts when i insert a tampon, could it be that i forgot to take a previous tampon out?
e)what exactly are cramps?
f)is it healthier to wear a pad or insert a tampon?
g) can you get pregnent if you are having your period?
h)is having sex with your menstrual flow an unhealthy idea?

thanks

a) u should change yer tampon every 3 o 4 hours and its in u therefore more blood gets soaked in it...
B) u can bathe with tampons but its not good
C) masterbating with yer period is nastey and disgusting...i dont reccomend it
D)u should no wether u took the tampon out before
E)cramps is like bad stomach achs
F)its healthier to wear a pad but its okay to wear tampons
G)sometimes and sometimes not
H) u can but its gross

good luck!

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i need ideas on how to convince a girl that i really do love her...so please give me some good ideas ill rate a five

well tell her u rele love her...kiss her and hug her alot...always be there for her! just simple things like that makes a girl feel special!

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for some reason people think im bisexual even though im not how can i make them stop because i do tell them if i was it wouldnt matter and then they make fun of me so how do i make this madness stop?

aww my friend is in that position right now....but wut u need to do is just try to ignore them and tell everyone its only a rumor and NOT true...something will happen and it will be old news!!! sorry to hear this hun! good luck with it!

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my bfs b day is coming up in about a month and i LOVE him so much....we r really close but i have NO idea wat ot get him!!! help!! i dun wanna get him lyke a watch or sumthing hes more of a skater n i want to get sumtihng that reminds him of me whne he sees it and sumthing sweet...help...15/f

well iif hes a skater i wuld buy him a element or volcom shirt...Or
they have like skater belts and stuff at skater stores! buy him a nice skateboard lol or u can buy him a gold or silver chaiN! good lucc sweetie!

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i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:

1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?!

welllll lol this sounds familiar lol....hmm well my bf is scared of gettin me pregnate but im not too worried becuz ok if u use a condom and stuff im sure ull be fine!! and iif yer nervous u might not be ready lol...and as fer smelling just take a shower n u`ll be fine! good luck hun!

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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!

yeh for most girls it does hurt the first time and maybe even a few more...u probably got nervous and yer muscles tightened up..that happens alot...but just HaVve fUnNn iiTz nuttin to werry about*

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