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Age: 15
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This is REALLY stupid I know, but I feel like I dont have a big enough butt. Is there anyway to get your butt plumper looking? (link)
The myth is to eat cornbread. Lol, no but there are butt exercises out there. Look them up on google or something, they will tone and firm your butt making it appear bigger and at the same time you will get a workout. I don't see why you want a bigger butt though. Lol, o well. Good luck hunnie.





-Brianna


the girl wants to drag me down to the mall and get me a "whole new look" for prom, including contact lenses and i'm guessing that i will not come away with completely brown hair or my usual hawaiian shirt. The girl is totally bangin, but has not given me a definitive answer on prom yet.
I would love to take her to prom(and date her too), but is it worth my dignity? also considering i have to go on an army outing the day after it is supposed to happen. i think looking like a fairy would not earn me points with the sergeant.
-hitler the manly goat
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Don't do anything that you don't want to. As simple as that. Like don't die your hair bright orange because she will think it is hot, if you really don't like that idea.





-Brianna


I don't really have a specific question I just need some advice on what to do because I have no idea.

Background Info:
Jon and I have known each other and been best friends since we were 4. Our fathers own a law firm together so we're together a lot, obviously. I've only had one real relationship. I've had many boyfriends but only one serious one. Same with him. We're both 17.

Early Jan.:
My parents threw a big block party which Jon and I both attended. I wasn't feeling well that night so we left the street (were the party was) and went to my backyard and just hung out. Everything was going fine until he told me that he wanted us to try to be more than "just friends". I was completely blown away because it came out of no where. At the time, I didn't see him in that way so I let him down. It was weird between us for a while but eventually, things got back to normal. Around early Feb. he met a girl who he claims is "absolutely amazing" and they started dating. I was fine with it.

Now, my real problem:
About a month ago I started to realize that I want to be more than friends and that I do like him. But, he now has a girlfriend in the picture, so there's a problem. I'm not the type to break up a happy couple so I tried to forget about it. But, I couldn't. A friend told me to talk to him about it (she though he still might feel the same way). So, I did and it went horrible. I don't think I've ever known a guy that ever reacted the way he did. All he said was, "I asked you before and you said no. Now you're too F*king late. I like Lauren a lot...you should have F*king said something sooner I can't F*king believe you" and then just stormed off.

That happened 4 days ago and I haven't had the nerve to talk to him since. I don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks
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Aww I'm so sorry to hear that! That sucks. I think you should let him cool off for a while. Tell him you are sorry that you have just told him now, but you have just realized that you have begun to develop these feelings for him. He is just upset because maybe he deep down really does care about you still and is just mad that you decided to wait until he had a girlfriend to tell him or whatever. Good luck!





-Brianna


How do *you* flirt with guys.. i want everyones ways hehe


thanx (link)
I smile alot, and laugh. I be myself and act like a retard. Lol, most of the time I am really nice to them. But I keep it real too! lol





-Brianna


How do you make friends? I have only like 3 friends but I want more...I'm not shy but I come off shy..please help (link)
Well, go and talk to new people. Just be yourself and don't try to hard to impress them. Don't brag and be nice. That's about all it takes to make a friend! Good luck.





-Brianna


I've liked this boy for a long time and i used to be his "close" friend. Well ever sense he told me well pretended that he liked me and told me he did i started liking him. First it was just a little but now it's like a REAL LOT! WEll after that he told me he didn't like me and he started goin out with my best friend. Well then i cut and i was really depressed. But to my best friend cutting is normal because she is suicidal. Well anyways after she broke up with him because she felt really bad for me and she knew it wasn't right of her to go out with him. Well anyways i still liked him after that and i pretended for a while that i didn't anymore because just liking him caused trouble so i knew i liked him but no one else knew. Well one day i told natausha at school that i've liked kevin this hole time because she finally got over him. And she was totally shocked that i kept that from her because we tell eachother everything! well then I told a lot of other people that were really close to me too. And even though i had a couple of crushes on other guys i still liked the main guy! Now i have a boyfriend but i don't really love him but i can't break up with him because i know that i'll break his heart well anyways i still like that main boy a lot and i just either want him to like me or get over him and him just be my friend!!!!!!HELP PLEASE AND FAST!!!!!!!

Thanks,

xOcHeLlYOx (link)
Wow, if you like the other guy, you can't stay with your current boyfriend. I can understand that you have mixed feelings but wow. Lol, you are going to have to break up with your current love and go back to him since you feel so strongly attatched to him.





-Brianna


A while ago, my classmates and peers used to make fun of me a while ago because of my "different" style of clothing. Now I realize that the style wasn't me and I changed it. Now, I'm always afriad of being judged, even though I'm not "openly" judged anymore (I used to be called names because I guess my peers thought I was goth). I know I shouldn't be, but I always am. Please help me get over this! Thanks so much! (link)
Who gives a shit what people think. Of course people will judge you and make fun of you because the way you dress, but that is human nature. You will be the talk of them because you changed your style to whatever it was you were from. Just ignore them!





-Brianna


Hey. I'm 13 years old and in 8th grade at the moment. Right now I'm registering for high school classes for next year. I'm definitely taking Latin 1. Since there aren't very many honors classes for freshmans, I think I want to take Spanish 1 also (it's not a honors class. I want to take it because I think I can use it a lot in the real world or w/e). My question is, do you think I should take 2 languages?

Thanks. (link)
If you want more credits for college, then take both classes. If you have a busy life and whatnot, then only take one because it will be to frustrating to take two classes. Believe me!





-Brianna


what happens when you go to the gyno?? i have no earthly idea!! (link)
Depends on what you go there for, if you go for a check up, they just look down there and stuff. Everything is confidential so if you had sex and they found out or whatever, they wouldn't be able to tell your parents.





-Brianna


okay this guy im going out with is so shy! i can never get him to talk... lol.. any ideas!!?? (link)
That sucks. Make him feel comfortable and be yourself around him. Eventually, he will open up to you! GOod luck and hope I have helped.





-Brianna


I am a tennis player and i play everyday except friday(sometimes) and I am on my school tennis team.. but my shoulder has been killing me!.. If I hit hard it pops.. and when I put my hand on it and move it I can feel my bones rubbing together!.. what is it?.. Is it serious?.. Are there anythings that may help the pain? (link)
It could be that your joints have like shifted and moved in a direction they arent suppose to. That is what happened with my knee. Go to the doctor and he will give you medicine and exercises you can do to help heal it! GOod luck!





-Brianna


im 15 and i still have an A cup... all my friends have like huge boobs and i have no idea how to make mine any bigger!! how can i?! (link)
First of all, your body doesn't stop developing until you are 18 so you still have a chance. Look at your family. Do they have big boobs? If they do, then you have a chance of having them too and vice versa. Lastly, you can't make your boobs bigger unless you get implants which are dangerous and expensive. Sorry and hope I have helped!





-Brianna


I'm 16 and have never kissed, dated, or even gone out with a guy. IS this really wierd? I'm not ugly, and i'm thin. But I am very shy. IS there any way i can get over this. I really would like to have a boyfriend soon. I want one really bad!! (link)
That's not weird. Infact, some guys like girls that don't have their first kiss when they are like 12. Lol. You just got to go up to them and talk to them, you will get over that fear once you realize that it's not as nerve wrecking as it seems to be! Good luck.




-Brianna


i have a mole on my cheek... should i get it removed or keep it? and if i do wanna gte it removed how can i approach my mom with the idea... about 2 years ago i told her i wanted it removed and she said we'll think about it... but im really afraid to ask... any ideas?!?!!? please help! (link)
Why would you be afraid to ask, it is not like you are asking to get implants! Lol, but anyways if it bothers you that much and you don't like it, then go for it and get it removed. If she said we'll think about it two years ago, chances are, she will say yes now!





-Brianna


well me and my bf have been going out for a while and i finally got my first kiss from him. the problem is that he doesnt seem 2 want 2 do it agian. if ne one have ne advice on how 2 get him 2 do it more would be very helpful! (link)
Maybe he's nervous because he thinks he is a bad kisser. Or even worse, he could think you are one! Lol, but I don't know ask him if he did or didn't like it.





-Brianna



okay theres this girl named alex.. she's the "popular miss" at my school...all of the guys like her...all of the girls like her. shes so incredibly mean she has gone after every single one of my ex and even current boyfriends...we used to be best friends...way back when..she was nice...i feel locked down like i have to be her friend and i'm afraid to tell her how i feel....she's not the kind to really take bull shit from other people..she's slapped me across the face before and i'm 100% sure she wont hesitate to do it again...she's pretty much a bitch...me and my friend brooke used to be pretty close with a girl named kaylen(kk) ..the other night kk had a party..she invited alex .. for some reason alex thought she needed more attention than what she was getting i mean you should have seen what she wore..she looked ridiculous tanktop tight jeans thong hangin out and high heals yea you get the picture .. so anyways her and kaylen started makin out.. now there good friends and kaylen cuts herself. i don't like what she does to herslef and my friends but i just can't get myself to stick up for them .. i'm not that kinda person.. but nobody else will say anything what should i do
please please help me
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I deff. think you should tell this girl what you think of her. That is bullshit. You should've deff. stuck up for yourself and not let her hit you and get away with it. As for your friend, try and talk to her. She really needs support, so don't be like ew why do you do that or whatever. If you helping her doesn't work, you have to tell somebody. It could get serious!





-Brianna


i used to be friends w/ this one girl but then she started going out w/ my brother and totally changed. now she complety ignores me and acts like a total b*tch to me. i tried being nice to her but i cant do it anymore. she comes over everyday and she is a total snob. also, everyone in my family is on HER side. they are always telling me how i need to be nicer to her even though shes the one thats being so mean to me. and ever since my brother started going out w/ her, he hasnt really had time to hang w/ me and instead he's always telling me that i need to be more nicer to his g/f even though i really tried to be, it just didnt work. someone please help me. (link)
Ugh, that would suck if my friend went out with my brother. I'd be pissed. I can understand how you must've felt. Try telling them that you try to be nice to her. They just don't see the real side of her. Give it another try in front of them, if she is still a bitch to you, point it out to them! Sorry and hope I have helped.


okay. i like this really hot guy. and we flirt everyday. and i think he likes me. And i DEFIENTLY like him!!!! should i tell him???
and if i should HOW?? (link)
Yes, I do think you like him. Or, you can do it my way (lol) and ask him who he likes, then tell him that you are into him! Good luck!




-Brianna


hey i don't like kissing...i mean i hate it the last time i made out with a guy was a long time ago and i had been with him for 2 years so i was really comfortable with him.. now i feel like i'm gonna have forgotton how to do it and make a fool of myself..i really like my boyfriend and he asked me why i wont make out with him...idont' know what to do ..please help (link)
Maybe you don't like kissing because it reminds you of your ex, or he was just a really bad kisser. You don't have to do anything you don't want, so just tell your current boyfriend that you just do not like kissing! Some way or the other, he will understand. Lol!




-Brianna


Theres this guy at my school,im totally crushing on,and we've talked alot.But i cant seem to get him to like me.How do i get him to notice me more,and come up to me and start talking instead of me going up to him? (link)
Well, you can't make someone like you. But, here is what you can do. Make eye contact with him, let him know you like him. Flirt with him alot, don't go overboard though. Just go up and talk to him what's the big deal... sooner or later he will start coming up to you! Hope I've helped.



-Brianna




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