hi there,i am pakistani male n i need ur help.I am getting married with American citizen next month.I have been studing in U.K where i did a stupid thing and got deported.What i did is i tried to catch a flight to Canada on a passport which was'nt mine.I was sent to prison for three month and got deported back to Pkistan.U must be thinking why the hell i wanted to go to Canada 4?Well, i wanted to go there for better future as many Asians nowadays try.MY question is,do i have a chance of getting American visa after my marraige after all that?c if u answer that.t.c
t.c -
I don't know a lot about the government policies on issues like these, but I'm assuming that you have a chance to get an American Visa. Keyword: chance. It depends on how strict the policies are. Because of that incident, they might have some restrictions, but again, I'm not quite sure. I would suggest you talk to a lawyer in your local area about this issue. I'm sorry I couldn't help much but contribute a few assumptions and observations. Good luck!
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Hey! If You have a favorite quote, or an inspiring something to share: please do!
I'll rate all 5's! Promice:)
-*KeLs*-
Kels-
- All the darkness in the world is never strong enough to blow out the light of a single candle.
- Love is like broken glass. It is better to leave it broken than to hurt yourself putting it back together. (Love the quote but simply isn't true)
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(16/f)
It feels like everything I do doesn't make a difference. I always feel like screaming and running away. I feel like running away from my problems all the time, but I know I will never get anything solved if I do get away. What should I do when I get down like that? Also, when I feel like running away...I feel like killing myself, too. What should I do?
anonymous -
Here are some suggestions:
-Go for a walk around the park to clear your mind.
-Pretend your a kung-fu master and punch holes in cardboard boxes (believe it or not, it helps! doesn't hurt the knuckles either!)
-Go to the gym and work the stress out.
-Write in a journal.
-Call up a friend for emotional support.
-Start a hobby of painting and paint your feelings on the canvas.
Basically, just be productive. It's not worth running away or hurting yourself over. What I do when I'm in that kind of situation is go for a walk or sit down and realize how lucky I have it. I mean, yea I get pissed at my mom and dad, but I still have my mom and dad. Some other kids are less fortunate and are either orphans or have divorced parents. You're very fortunate for what you have, and although you feel you don't make a difference, you don't have to. Don't do things to prove to someone that you are capable, do it for yourself, for your own benefit. Cuz after all, you know that you won't let yourself down.
Watching the Spongebob Movie helps me a lot too lol. It makes no sense but it's hilarious! That, or you can email me if you'd like someone who can relate and talk to.
I hope this helps and cheer up! :)
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i am SO ugly. i know most people think they're ugly when they aren't, but i AM. i've been called ugly before, i've seen mirrors (unforunately), and they look horrible lol! how can i sort myself out so i can look pretty? my hair is kinda frizzy, i've tried SO many products on it; frizz ease, pantene pro-v, andy collinge, herbal essences, sun silk.. and loads more. anyway, none of them prevented frizz or 'flyaway' hair. i have straighteners that aren't really all that good, worth about 60 quid. i want some ghds but i'd have to wait until like august to get them, for my birthday (unless it's worth spending my bank account on them?). and then there's the fact that i don't wear make-up. i haven't got a clue how to put it on. i don't even wear stuff like lipgloss, i'd probably get it all over the place, and if i tried eyeliner/mascara i'd end up poking my eye out! lol! so anyway i'm clueless when it comes to make-up, any tips on how to use it/the best make up to buy would be so helpful! i've worn lipgloss before, but it just feels so.. greasy, and uncomfortable, it was from the body shop i think.. anyway, if you can help me look pretty instead of an ugly duckling, i'll be really grateful. thankyou!! xo
xo -
Here's a good website for makeup tips (note: you have to be a member of xanga and subscribe to her journal):
http://www.xanga.com/jomacjo
You can also ask me for any makeup advice, just IM me on yahoo! Screename is on site.
As for hair, work with your hair's natural style. If it's frizzy, work with it when it's wet so it'll be easier to manage. You can use hot steam rollers for nice bouncy waves, or french braid your hair in pigtails and remove when dry for more defined waves. Straightening frizzy hair would take a long time...unless you have the patience, go for it!
As for makeup, if you have smooth skin, you don't need a lot. Maybe use a few drops of foundation applied with a triangluar sponge to even out skin tone. Then bronze eyeshadow with brown mascara, no need for liner. And the lip gloss, no need! I don't use it either cuz it's too sticky. But for lips, all you really need is chapstick or tinted chapstick. Be sure to tame your eyebrows according to the shape of your eye. Do not pluck too thin though!
If you'd like we can talk on yahoo. I doubt that you're ugly, everyone has flaws but most importantly, acknowledge your qualities!!!
Hope this helps! :)
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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.
anonymous -
I also have brown eyes so maybe I can offer you some helpful suggestions.
Since brown eyes look warm, tend to use warmer colors like brown, bronze and peach tones. What I do is get a highlighting shadow which should be pretty light, say a pinkish peach. Using a shadow brush load your brush with the color, tap it to remove excess. Apply this light color from the lashes to the brow. Then with a medium hue (brown, bronze), use a shadow brush and do the same and sweep the color from your lashes to the eye crease. To highlight the crease, you can use a darker color and sweep a small line along your crease. Then with either a liner brush or a spongey pointed pad, dip it in a little bit of water and brush with a darker shade of brown. line your eyes lightly and lift your arm as you get to the outer corner of the eye (not too much!) Curl lashes and finish with mascara.
The above method is for a pretty natural look. You can use a variety of colors too. Try to avoid light blue and pastels, they tend to make your eyes look pasty and chalky. My suggestions are darker colors like a plum, very dark blue, dark pink, and browns and peaches. Do not use the dark blues, pinks, and purples over the whole lid. Only use these colors to line your eyes with a similar but lighter color for the actual shadow.
As for the color of the eyeliner, use a dark brown by day and a black by night. Smoky eye also looks very pretty at night.
I hope this helps!
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My family is extremely well off money wise. And so are the kids that go to my high school but my family kind of has more money then most of the people in our neighborhood.
Well, I've been talking to a few girls at school about our prom dresses and theirs are around 200-500 dollars. Well, I found the perfect dress but it's 1,500 dollars. I'm supposed to go buy it this weekend but there's a problem. It's not that we can't afford the dress, because we can and my parents think that it's a good amount to pay for it. It's that I don't want to be the only girl there that paid over a thousand dollars for a Prom dress. I don't want people to talk about it or anything.
Should I get the dress even though it's 3 or 4 times more than what everyone else is going to pay for theirs?
anonymous -
Go right ahead! It's not like they'll know how much you paid for it!
Have fun :)
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My hair is wavy-ish straightish...kinda unruly. It's dark brown and a little longer than shoulder length and super layered with side swept bangs. For school I usually just use a straightening iron to make it stick straight. But I want to try some new styles...cute stuff, punk stuff, whatever!!! I want to keep it the same length though because I am growing it out. Anyone have any ideas??
anonymous -
My hair is the same. I'm not sure what kind of hairstyles you might be interested in, but here are a couple of ideas:
- Part your hair in half at the crown (one bottom layer and one top layer). Sweep the bottom layer aside or tie it in a ponytail to temporarily keep it out of the way. Then with the top layer of hair, part it down the middle and take one side (left or right, doesn't matter) and put that in a ponytail to set aside also. Twist the loose part from scalp to tip and roll into a sprial bun. Clip with a claw hair clip. Take the other side out of the pony tail and do the same. After secured, take out bottom layer of hair and straighten. In the end it's supposed to look like two buns on your head with the bottom layer down (lil bro calls it sailor moon knockoff). You can also secure the buns with two hair chopsticks by weaving them through tightly and then removing the clips. Mess up the surface of the bun lightly if you want the buns to look somewhat spiky/messy.
- Another style is to straighten your hair first hand. then take little segments of hair on your crown and make tight curls using a small barrel curling iron. In the end your hair should look stick straight with a few (very few) wisps of curly hair.
- One style that I've always wanted to try but haven't gotten around to yet is to have a mix of bouncy curls and stick straight weaves. What you do is separate layers of hair from the crown starting from the bottom first. Curl one segment of hair with a large barrel curling iron, set aside. Take the next small piece of hair and put hair wax or gel to make it REALLY stick straight. Repeat until finished. I'm not sure how it looks, but I need to try it also!
As for color, what would definitely stand out is if you get your tips done with highlights. Since it's dark brown, you can get a lighter honey brown color for highlights and maybe tips also. But if you're going for that punk look, I'd get the brown highlights but one to three wisps of a bright bold color. Purple, magenta or a vibrant auburn would look nice. The bright colors would look pretty cool for tipping too, like your hair is on fire!
I hope these ideas were of help to you! Have fun!
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Hi,
I am a 27 year old male. I have a problem that has been plagueing me since the age of about 18. I can never meet the right person and it seems the last 9 years of my life, not one really special mate has come into my life. I have a great bunch of friends, am considered attractive by many in both looks and personality, but yet, the right woman never comes into my life. I have had only one serious relationship, that lasted a year. And with other romances included that means that out of the last 9 years, 7.5 years of that time I have been alone. All my friends managed to find attractive girls that were good fun and have serious relationships their whole lives, yet I was always the one left out, the one that was always alone.
All I want is a girl that I find attractive, that I get along well with, and it just seems meeting these girls is very few and far between, say once a year/every 2 years. I'll admit I've had many girls that have liked me, but I never liked them.
If you had to see the world through my eyes, it would seem like there is this intense design by a higher power preventing me from meeting this right person. I have been to numerous house parties, barbeques at friends houses and various other places and yet never ever meet this special girl. This is not by chance or bad luck, there is a reason for this happening, and I would like to know what it is, or how I can remove this obstacle from my life.
This loneliness is really torture for me. Its actually weaking me as a person, I am strong most of the time, but sometimes I just break down and cry because it seems like some curse has been laid on me, that I will be lonely all the time.
Do you have any advice on something like this?
Thanks
anonymous -
I'm not sure what your standards are in women, but perhaps maybe you're limiting yourself or you're maybe too fickle?
You say that often times a girl may like you, but you don't like her in return. Might I ask why? There are some men and women who single out possible mates by looking for "the perfect one". Unfortunately there is no such thing cuz everyone possesses flaws! If you've seen that movie "Shallow Hal", like that guy who dumped a girl just cuz her second toe is longer than her big toe? It's just not right.
For example, when I first saw a picture of my boyfriend (haven't met yet, we were online friends through his cousin), he was attractive, but he looked like the overrated attractive. You know, the super ego meatheads (which I simply do not like, I tend to like nerdy average looking males). Even so, as I talked to him more and more and got to know him, I still went out with him and love him to this day (3 yrs.). Looks are not an important factor for me, because as time elapsed I've grown to love him for who he is, flaws and all.
If you don't think your standards might be too high, sign up for a gym membership and scope out girls. Or perhaps go to a club with some friends. Or even maybe a church event, broaden your horizons! There's a lot of places where single girls hang out, heck you could even find someone in the supermarket! Or try an online dating service! Be creative :)
I hope this helps, and I'm sure you'll find someone out there. It's a big world and you're still young! Good luck!
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okay like,me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and 2 days. and i absolutely love him with everything i have. but i feel like he's becoming too attached and serious. i'm 15 and he's 17 about to turn 18. ((thats beside the point)) but like last saturday ((march 5th)) he asked me if i would promise to marry him and he gave me a promise (("pre-engagment")) ring. well of course i said yes. because it's what i was thinking at the time. but now i'm having second thoughts. i mean i'm only 15 i have the rest of my teen years to live. i just dont know what to do. i wanna tell him were getting to serious, but i still love you and wanna be with you.
eck..someone please help! ...=]...i ratteeee!!!
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inlovebutconfused -
The best way I'd approach a situation like this is to tell him how you feel but at the same time reassure him that you love him and that you do want to be with him. He should understand, reassurance is key here. Like the columnist below me said, there isn't a nice way to really tell him.
If he overreacts, tell him that if he did really love you, he would respect what you'd have to say. It doesn't mean that the relationship is off, just that it's moving too fast. After all, you're telling him this in order to improve the relationship in a sense where you both are on the same level. Also tell him (if he overreacts) that open communication is key to a good long-lasting relationship, and that's exactly what you're doing.
Hope this helps and good luck!
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whenever im talking to this guy i like on the phone or online i never know wht to say!! its soo annoying and awkward. i dont know him tht well so what would be some things to say that would start a conversation?? please help! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!!!
anonymous -
Here are some suggestions:
-plans (ex. what are you doing this weekend/summer/spring break?)
-info (ex. ask for his birthday, hobbies, etc.)
-music tastes
-new film releases
-the news (sounds boring, but could be interesting!)
-future (career goals, college interests)
-sports (guys LOVE sports!)
-television (who sucks on american idol hahah jk :))
-hangouts
-cars (guys love cars too!)
I'm not sure if this list was helpful, but if it helps at all, at last resort make an outline of things to talk about and be sure to expand on each subject to keep the conversation moving!
Good luck!
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All you girls out there...
I am kind of shy, but am trying to be more outgoing, which I am finding easier and easier. Usually when I like a guy, they have no clue, but I would like to change that. What are the best ways to flirt? If you could tell me some of your favorite flirting moves I would appreciate it. Any little flirty gesture or something that always works for you?
And for you guys out there, what kind of things do you love when a girl does? What is the best ways for a girl to flirt in you opinion? How do you like a girl letting you know she is interested in you?
Please keep in mind that I am kind of reserved, so please don't tell me to go up and grab his butt or something, thats not really my style. Thank you so much in advance for your advice!
anonymous -
What you do is first get to know the guy. Strike up conversations so you two can feel comfortable around each other. Smile a lot (guys fall for great smiles) and when you've become pretty good friends tease him and play hard to get. I'm not suggesting mind games, but like playfully joke around with each other and leave him wanting more of you when you get that vibe from him.
I'm not sure if this was a ton of help, but I'm a shy girl myself and good guys tend to fall for good girls, not flirting that is REALLY obvious! I'm sure you know what I mean! :)
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I am 14 years old, and i like a guy that goes to my school. He is going out with the biggist slut ever.. & I like him alot! Everyone thinks they are wrong for each other. I need a way to win him over. I donno what to do cuz me and the girl hate each other. He won't listen to any of his friends and i know he wont listen to me. We would be the best couple ever! So if you have any advice please feel free to give it!!
anonymous -
Remember that the decision to hook up with you is the guy's responsibility. You can't really "make him" go out with you, but you could give him little hints here and there. If you're friends with him, be a friend and show that you care for him and that you'll be there for him. Show him (without words) that you're girlfriend material!
But if he's happy being with that slut-girl, unfortunately the only thing you can really do is be happy for them.
Hope this helps and good luck!
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Theres this guy online that wont leave me alone. He's so perverted and i have no idea who he is. hes not from my town but he always tells me that he sees me and he tells me what im wearing. hes always saying stuff like how much he wants to fuck me and he just says really nasty things. hes really violent too, like if i dont answer him RIGHT away he'll flip out and call me names, so im scared to block him or anything since he knows what i look like and he "sees me all the time" what should i dooo?
anonymous -
If he's true in telling you exactly what you're wearing (like intricate details of your clothes), my best advice is to call the police. This guy is dangerous and could cause a potential threat to you and your family. To be honest, he sounds like a stalker, but that's just a hunch. Tell someone before someone gets hurt! Don't be afraid to approach them, don't call 911, but call your local police department or go down the station yourself and talk with an officer about it. You don't deserve any of this and this guy needs to be locked up.
Good luck!
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anyone know any sites i can download free music at if you do please help me thx!
anonymous -
Download the Limewire program ( at limewire.com or search on google). It's a pretty good program :)
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I was just wondering if any of you guys out there are seirous about this- Okay, I was wondering when should you start having sex? And please please be serious.
Thanks~ Jessica
Jessica -
The right time to start having sex really depends on your personal preference. But first things first, safety risks, and responsibilities are top priority. Be sure to use some form of birth control (condoms, the pill, etc), be prepared to take on the possibility of the emotional attatchments that follow with sex, and be prepared for the consequences that might occur.
If you want to save it for the one you love, be sure you've been with the guy for a healthy 9 months or so at the least first. This shows that he respects your decision to wait. And if you've been together this long, you two probably work out fights well and get along. But be careful, once you lose your virginity to someone, you may tend to grow emotionally attached to them. Meaning if they leave you, you will be beyond devastated...
Be sure to take everything into consideration when thinking about sex. Remember that it can be one of the most wonderful things that has happened to you, or it can take a turn for the worse and fuck up your life. Sex is a powerful thing.
Think things through and good luck :)
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hey do you get what this means>>>>>whats your flavor
anonymous -
Usually it means what ethnicity are you, but it can also mean what are you into (whether hobbies, aspects you look for in a guy, etc). Hope this helps!
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Why do guys always have to date popular girls?Why cant they date a regular girls?
anonymous -
Guys date popular girls for a variety of reasons:
1. They both hang in the same social group.
2. Popular girls have the admirable social status.
3. Popular girls are confident (which is a great quality in a girlfriend).
4. Popular girls tend to be attractive.
5. Popular girls know how to have fun (guys won't get bored).
Don't stereotype that popular guys never like regular girls cuz it's simply not true. The reason why they never publicly reveal their feelings is because perhaps their afraid of the risk that it might cause to their reputation. Trust me, some popular guys do like average girls.
Throughout my previous school years, I was always the quiet, smart girl. I always got along with everybody, but I was not considered popular (more loner'ish). However, one of the popular guys had a liking to me; how I know is eavesdropping when he was standing with his friends behind me lol. So don't prejudge people, some popular people are really cool (note, the snobby ones SUCK!).
Hope this helps!
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May 1st I'm going to have to wear a white dress for this really REALLY important thing of my entire life. I've been eatting like a pig beause... I guess its anxiety. Well I want to loose weight. Also, avoid the things that make me gain weight. I was thinking of diet pills but I hear they are REALY bad for you. Anyway, any tips to loose as many weight as I can in less than 2 months? Im not exactly looking for permenant diet plan just... an emergency one. Maybe if I only ate a certain amount of calories... or didn't eat or drink nothing but water... or... did a certain excersice. I don't know. Please pretty please HELP ME! Thank you sooo muh for your time!
anonymous -
The best advice that I can guarantee that works is eat healthy and exercise! But since you are on a time limit of two months, in order to lose the weight faster, limit your calories per day. Remember to make the goal reasonable, say 800-1000 calories (which is easy to attain). Also try to drink 8 glasses of water per day to reduce your appetite. Green tea also helps boost your metabolism to help you burn the fat easier. As for exercise, do a lot of cardio (running, jump roping, jogging, dancing, anything to get your heart rate up). If you want to tone other parts of the body, go to the gym and use the machines.
Depending on how much pounds you want to lose within these two months, if you jog for at least 20-30 mins everyday and stay active, you'll easily lose 1-2 pounds per week. Just stay motivated and stick to the plan! NO CHEATING!
Good luck!
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tomorrow is the last competition and i have missed two of them already my coach was so mad. Im not particepating but im still in the team so as she says i have to go. I have no ride or anything my mom says i cant go if i dont everyone will hate me what should i do?
anonymous -
Hitch a ride with your teammates. I'm sure they'll be glad to have you carpool with them.
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I cant get a foundation to match my skin, because I am so pale. Does anyone know any good brands?
anonymous -
Jane Stay Calm foundation is a good brand because it goes on matte (not shiny). Although there isn't a variety of colors (there's only 4 colors i believe), you get two that match your skin the best (one light one dark) and mix and match. It's about $3-4 at Walmart.
This is a good method to use for all foundations because your skin changes color during summer cuz you get more tan and in the winter you get more pale. It's good to buy one light and one shade darker and mix to match your current skin tone. I hope this helps!
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