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Running away
(16/f)
It feels like everything I do doesn't make a difference. I always feel like screaming and running away. I feel like running away from my problems all the time, but I know I will never get anything solved if I do get away. What should I do when I get down like that? Also, when I feel like running away...I feel like killing myself, too. What should I do?
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go write a dramatic book....
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you should maybe go to a councillor and talk about your problems!
hope that helped!
~crissy
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sometimes, i feel the same way
(except with the suicide)
just do this.... when you get mad, you should punch something, something soft, like a pillow, and then maybe get a punching bag. think of your future, who you will hurt if you kill yourself. { besides yourself =] } think of the children that you will have, or the man(/woman if you les or bi) that you want to have and to hold and that only you want. and if all else fails, turn to your friends.
irish
13/m
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First, you should probably seek help. Talk to someone--a doctor, counselor, a trusted teacher. It doesn't have to be your parents if you're not ready to talk to them, but whatever you do, don't kill yourself. You may not live to regret it. Whenever you feel this way, try to distract your mind from these thoughts. IT may seem like your only running away from these problems, but until you talk to an adult or someone you trust, then it's best to occupy your mind and keep your hands from being idle.
Take care.
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everyone feels somewhat like tht at some point in their life and i think yoo shuld really either talk to someone tht yoo can trust or keep a journal to get yoor feelings out. the thing yoo shuld really stay away from doin it thinkin tht yoor along and bottling up yoor feelings. sometimes it also helps me to juss sit down and think abt things..juss rmr tht nothin is as bad as it seems and there are ppl tht care for yoo and love yoo
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hey, you seem like your in the position i'm in. You cant run away from your problems becaues you they'll never go away. I feel like sometimes doing the same thing. But think about what yo would be leavin behind..friends..family.. Think about all your good times and you'll realize what you should do. Good luck
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anonymous -
Here are some suggestions:
-Go for a walk around the park to clear your mind.
-Pretend your a kung-fu master and punch holes in cardboard boxes (believe it or not, it helps! doesn't hurt the knuckles either!)
-Go to the gym and work the stress out.
-Write in a journal.
-Call up a friend for emotional support.
-Start a hobby of painting and paint your feelings on the canvas.
Basically, just be productive. It's not worth running away or hurting yourself over. What I do when I'm in that kind of situation is go for a walk or sit down and realize how lucky I have it. I mean, yea I get pissed at my mom and dad, but I still have my mom and dad. Some other kids are less fortunate and are either orphans or have divorced parents. You're very fortunate for what you have, and although you feel you don't make a difference, you don't have to. Don't do things to prove to someone that you are capable, do it for yourself, for your own benefit. Cuz after all, you know that you won't let yourself down.
Watching the Spongebob Movie helps me a lot too lol. It makes no sense but it's hilarious! That, or you can email me if you'd like someone who can relate and talk to.
I hope this helps and cheer up! :)
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Indiffrence always worked for me.
Try just not caring.
"He who despairs over an event is a coward, but he who holds hope for the human condition is a fool."
-Albert Camus
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I think that you should stop thinking about killing yourself and you should get into sports or something social.....I know it's hard, but you can do it. By the way, have you ever heard the song "Hold on" by Good Charlotte? I'm not a big fan of Good Charlotte or rock music, but you should take the advice in that song.
$$$babii d$$$
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I KNO THIS IS LONG
FIRST THANG DON'T EVA EVA EVEN THANK ABOUT KILLING YOUR SELF. life is way 2 good to just throw it all away.if it is that bab then pick your ass up and run a way it's much better than killing your self go 2 a friends or someone you can turst. if you wanna you can also get a private concelor. i kno this is long so 4 more e-mail me @ sugababii2005@yahoo.com
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Go somewher you like to hangout by yourself thatnobody knows of your favorite place near your house like a lake or something go and think about things sometimes you just need to get away for a while it wont hurt just to go and thing about things.
Goodluck zoey
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ive felt like that many times before.
the only thing to do is get out your anger with something...
find out something you love to do.
people take out their feelings on lots of things. they arent always the best ways but here are some examples:
some people eat, or dont eat.
they cut themselves
they play sports
they play instruments
they clean, or dont clean
they...
talk or dont talk.
act happy on the outside but are really sad on the inside.
i hope you feel better because i know how hard it is.
dont run away. it wont get you anywhere.
trust me.
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I think it is just a part of being sixteen. I felt like that all the time. In fact I wrote about it, threatened to leave to my parents, and suicede was a daily topic. Talk to someone. I had my boyfriend to keep me from running. Don't run because on top of every thing you will develop some bad habits that will continue into adult hood.You will never learn to face anything if you keep running Try to be open and talk to someone who won't freak out when they hear about these problems. You can email me if you want. I'm 21/f. ktsu0723@aol.com
I hope I helped.
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