Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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whenever i get to be friends with a guy, i start to LiKe them...i can never be just friends really and its so awful! then after about a month i start to stop liking them...but my guy friends, i dont wanna like them at all EVER (except if we go out sometime ;)) what should i do how do i not like them (link)
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You're definitly boy-crazy right now! Which, by the way, isn't a bad thing! =)
Just try to think of your guy friends as people who you hang out with and laugh with but never would have a more romantic relationship with. I know it may sound weird, but think of them as your "girlfriends". It should help =)
Good luck!
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This is kinda complicated. I have known this one guy since like 1st grade and in like 5th I switched schools. Now im in 8th and the guy is at my school he's new and I like him again this year but I don't know if he likes me and I can't even get up the nerve to talk to him. I don't know what to say. He's always around his jock friends and I feel like if I say somethin to him around his friends I'll just look like an idiot plz help me thanx bye! (link)
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You won't look like an idiot if you go up and talk to him when he's with your friends! But, if you feel uncomfortable doing it since you haven't seen him in so long, then try to do it at a time when he's alone for a second. If he's always with his friends, and you really want to talk to him and become better friends (and maybe more) then you have to get the guts to talk to him. Think of what you want to say to him ahead of time so you won't be tripping over your words. I hope I helped you!
If you need more advice just ask me! =)
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This girl keeps being mean to me over msn IM (the reason is too long a story to explain) she wont leave me alone. I keep telling her to leave me alone and that I don't want to fight but she wont leave it. What shall I do? We go back to school soon and I'm worried of what she may do to me. (link)
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Is there a way to block users from contacting you on MSN IM? If so, you should definitly block her to hopefully stop her from bothering you.
If you can't, just ignore her or just simply tell her to leave you alone. Also, you could change your username for MSN IM.
When you go back to school, just stay away from her. She's a loser because she can't talk to you to your face. And, if she tries to start something with you, adults are two seconds away =)
I hope I helped you! Tell me if you need anymore advice!
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my form teacher is utterly shameful, she doesnt even know our names by heart after 8months being our form teacher. she calls us "eh, girl. eh you. eh come here." grr how do u deal with teachers like this?? to me its rather disrespectful on her part not even knowing her own class students' names. -rei (link)
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When your teacher calls you "eh, girl" just say "Umm, it's Rei". Hopefully that will get the hint through to her. If not, you've already been with for 8 months, so the school year will be over in a few.
If you need anymore help just ask me! =)
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Me and my friend really want to get fit, is there any good dances that keep you toned? (link)
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You and your friend should take up a jazz or acrobatics class. The instructors will probably work hard with you to get you fit.
If you need anymore advice just ask me =)
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okay well i really like this guy lets call him joe, well everytime i look at joe i catch him looking at me and he blushes and his whole face turns red it is really cute anyway well my friend said she would ask him if he was going to the dance and if he would go with me [we are having a dance] i also found out he likes me too. so she asked him and he said no to both questions. what does that mean?? (link)
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It means that Joe could be very shy, and maybe doesn't want to tell your friend that he likes you and would rather tell you personally.
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my name is carly and im 13. i really like my friend "bob". over the summer we were like best friends we hung out a lot.. and we went out twice. the first time we were going out he broke up with me cause he thought i liked another guy. so i told him i never liked any other boys a few days after we broke up and we went out again. but the second time we went out things were getting too serious, like he said he was in love with me? and i wasnt ready for that.. i was really scared. so i broke up with him. but now i think i made a mistake. i've hinted around that i like him again and he doesnt even seem to care.. i think i really hurt his feelings. now he doesnt even say hi to me at school or anything.. we even walked out of the door at the same time and neither of us said a word to each other! i havent told very many people but im like crazy about him! im like missing him all the time and i never talk to him cause hes never online anymore. everything reminds me of him too! what should i do? i really need advice so if you could help me out that'd be great!! (sorry this is so long) xoxo -*carlycakes!! (link)
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Since you can't seem to get "Bob" off your mind, I really think you should just tell him how you feel. You should be the one to break the ice between you two and confront him during lunch or something and tell him that you still have strong feelings for him.
If you feel uncomfortable doing that, have a close friend tell him or try to call him. Use your imagination =)
Good luck & I hope my advice worked!
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Ok well i'm 13 and i was getting to know this girl. She just broke up with her bf. And she told me that she liked me. C the thing is i didn't know her that well and i started to try and talk to her more. I was starting to like her but i've only seen her once and only talk to her online. But i started to like her. Only i just started talkin to her 4 days ago. So i told her that i wasn't gonna ask her out until i got to know her better. The problem is now she's goin out with another guy. Is there somthin wrong with me should i have asked her out?
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There's nothing wrong with you. You were right to wait to ask her out until you felt like you knew her better.
When she and her current boyfriend break-up (if they do sometime soon) you should ask her out if you feel like you know her more!
Good luck =)
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my bestfriends mom is kinda phyco and when i went to my friends house her mom lik yelled at me and i told ma parents and now i cant go to her house n e more....what do i do???? (link)
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I think you should talk to your parents and told them what really happened. Plus, your friend's mom could have just been in a really bad psycho mood =/ Also, the only people who should yell at you should be your parents, unless you did something really bad where someone else had to step in.
If you feel uncomfortable even going over your friend's house again, just invite her over and try not to talk about her mother!
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hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends? (link)
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There's nothing wrong with you. Your friends are just jealous that you have a million guy friends. Just don't pay any attention to the haters! =)
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if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut?? (link)
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Nope! Hehe, atleast I don't think so =)
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whats a really good way of telling when your going to get your period (link)
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You get grouchy and very sensitive to little things, you feel bloated and maybe have a loss of appetite.
If you've had discharge for awhile and your breasts have been growing, then you're going to get it soon!
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ok im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet... lately i have been really emotional like the other day i was at my friends and i called my mom to see when she was gonna pick me up and i just like broke down crying... and like my friend said how i curse alot and like idk why but i felt like i was gonna cry... is this a sign that im going ot get my period? and what are some other signs that im goin to get my period soon... thanx alot... i will rate!
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Yes, this is definitly a sign that your period is coming! Usually girls get mood-swings and are more sensitive to the little things around them.
Just be prepared for when it comes!
If you need anymore advice just ask me =)
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is it better to shave or bleach the hair on your arms? (link)
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You should definitly BLEACH your arm hair. Shaving could make it grow in thicker and darker, and could be irritating. Plus - which way does that hair grow?!
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Hey guys =) I was just wondering if any of you know any sites I can put pictures on, that's free.. anything besides, picturetrail and photobucket. Thanks so much! (link)
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Try www.ofoto.com =)
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i got these lil pimple thimgs on my legs? i'm a virgin.. i'm 13/f.. never even had my first kiss... so i no its not STD.. is that normal? i dunno.. help!! (link)
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If you shave, it could be razor burn. If it isn't, some people get actual PIMPLES in really odd areas that they usually wouldn't be.
I think you should show your mom and ask her what she thinks it is.
Good luck =)
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hey..i wanted to know if anyone new any cool online games to play..anything at all..thanx byebye (link)
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Go to www.games.com or www.bored.com
They both have tons of games to chose from! =)
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i'm 13 and i want to find a job to raise money. is there any places i can work at? i rate realli high! but there is one problem..i love babysitting..but there isn't many people i know with younger kids. so besides babysitting..what else? (link)
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Maybe you could tutor at your local elementary school, walk dogs, or ask if you could apply for a small job at your library. Good luck!
If you need more suggestions, just tell me =)
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does any1 noe what is the best prodect to get rid of acene.thanks i will rite high. (link)
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ProActive is the BEST product to get rid of acne! A bunch of people think it's not good because you can't buy it at stores, only by phone or www.proactive.com.
Try it out - it's a 3-step program, and if you stick to it, your acne will go away!
Good luck & tell me if you need anymore advice =)
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I was at the beach last week walking around bearfoot. Now my feet are pealing like crazy and look just awful. Is there anything I can do for them? (link)
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Try putting lotion on your feet that has Aloe Vera in it, or go get a pedicure! =)
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