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I need to know where to look up information on Wilms mass, its a type of cancer of the kidneys

*What Is It?
*Symptoms
*Diagnosis
*Expected Duration
*Prevention
*Treatment
*When To Call A Professional
*Prognosis
*Additional Info
ALL THIS CAN BE FOUND AT: http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSIHW000/9339/24572.html

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Should I be worried if I am 39 weeks pregnant and it feels like something is tearing in my side?

It could be a number of reasons... I'll list what few I know..but why take any chances? This is your pride and joy were talking about :) call your doctor as soon as ya' can.
COULD BE:
*Irritation and inflammation of stomach lining (gastritis) which is also associated with ulcerated areas of stomach lining which can cause bleeding. In advanced cases perforation (tearing) of the stomach lining can occur. Both of these problems can lead to anemia. Inflammation of ducts (passageways) can also be problematic. Nutritional deficits can occur because of a condition called malabsorption. This occurs when the stomach cannot optimally utilize (use) nutrients.

OR:
*The stomach lining appears to be a nighttime construction site -- a continual repair work-in-progress, according to a new study. And late hours, too much alcohol, and other lifestyle factors that prevent a good night's sleep, disrupt the stomach's natural repair cycle and may lead to ulcers, or tearing of the stomach lining.


Hope this helps

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Ok, last week I asked what I should do about my "crush" on this girl I work with. I havent told my husband still and I'm just wondering... should I tell my husband that I'm sexually attracted to this woman? Do I tell her? Will that open a can of worms and hurt the good relationship that's going on so far? All I think I'm looking for is maybe some exploring as far as other women go but I dont want to hurt anyone. How can I be true to myself and still come out good in the end (if that's a possibility)?

Don't listen to what the other person said...that your bi-sexual. You can't label yourself that if you've never done it. Your appropiate label in this case would be bi-curious. You need to ask yourself a couple questions before procedding in this matter. Am I in love with my husband? Would I be hurt if my husband came to me and told me he found someone else attractive and wanted "permission to explore"? and Could being with this woman damage the relationship I have with my husband? Think long and hard before you say anything to anyone about your feelings. What if your hubby was ok with it and wanted in on the action? Could you handle him having sex with another woman? Would that by chance ruin what yall have if you felt jealous? If you still want to move forward on this, then the best thing I can tell you, is to bring this subject up with your hubby first. Like maybe while yall are having "hot sex"....get all into moaning and everything and then say what would you think if I were with another woman? That right there will tell you if he would possibly be up for it or not. If he's like NO then you know right then that if you want to keep your hubby you stop right there and doing it this way, there's no hurt feelings on your hubby's part. Best of Luck to you.

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are there any good acne scar removers out there that is cheap? i have tried cocoa butter and i have not seen any results at all and ive done this for like 2 months..

Acne scars, accident scars, surgery scars, scraped your knee scars...it all leads up to one thing. Scars. You can use any medicine you want that treats scars. It doesn't just have to specify for acne scars. My advice to you, would be to reccomend a product that I have used, and can tell you first hand that it works- awesome product! ~Neosporin Scar Solutions~

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how do i know when i'm experiencing an orgasm. like, when my boyfriend fingers me, it is the best feeling ever and i get really wet but i still don't know how i can tell. when a guy ejeculates he is having one, but how can girls tell for sure that they are?

An orgasm is the term used to describe the release of built-up muscle tension resulting from sexual activity (e.g. intercourse with pentration or manual or oral stimulation). It produces rapid muscle contractions usually in the genital and anal area, but these contractions can also be throughout the body. Most people find these muscular contractions very pleasant. In both men and women, an orgasm is sometimes accompanied with the release of ejaculatory fluid. Ejaculation is much more usual in men than it is in women. Only about 10 percent of women report ejaculating during orgasm.

When people experience an orgasm (while it is a little different for everybody), they may also experience strong feelings of pleasure.

Many women experience difficulty achieving orgasm and do not always orgasm during penetrative intercourse without additional manual or oral stimulation of the external genitalia. This doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. If you aren't sure if have had an orgasm, you probably haven't experienced one yet. Keep working with your man, experimenting with new and different activities and positions, and it may become more clear when your man is making you "go".

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gimme some cool words to integrate into my daily vocab please!

LOL THIS ONE'S MY FAVORITE: ~perturbed~ means:disturbed, upset.
In a sentence: Ar you perturbed? lol

*Putative - assumed to exist or to have existed
*Lacivious - producing sexual desire or behavior

http://members.tripod.com/philomanshomepage/word5.htm

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WELL my friend is way over weight...and she wears a 2 peice, and she looks really sick in it. She's really just embarassing herself by wearing it. How do i tell her this!? Or should i just let her embarass herself?...Help..its really sick!!

There's nothing wrong with your friend wearing a 2 piece. If there was then the company's wouldn't make them in sizes bigger than a 6 but they do, so we wear them. Be glad that your friend has high enough self esteem to wear something like that. Who cares if she's not the best looking girl in a 2 piece? People that make rude comments to overweight ppl don't realize this, but when you say hurtful things, it doesn't help them loose weight. It makes them more depressed and lowers there self esteem and brings on more bad eating habits. Let her be happy just the way she is.

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You know on myspace where people post builitens with likie the cool surveys and stuff? and the things? wheres a place you can get them
i know of
quote mania.
but any otherss?
ill rate high!
thanks!

HERE'S A COUPLE THAT I LOVE. THERE AWESOME!

www.freeweblayouts.net

Get your own countdown at- BlingyBlob.com

YouThink.com -quizzes and personality tests.

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Does anyone know any good sites for when ur bored? Im like so bored and i cant find any good sites...

www.firehotquotes.com
www.yahooanswers.com
www.killsometime.com
www.yahoo360.com
www.myspace.com
www.hotornot.com
www.likemytattoo.com
www.bored.com

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my b/fs in the navy and has been gone for a long time and he comes back on sunday does any1 have any sexy/fun/cute ideas i could do for him....

How old are yall? That might be helpful in coming up with ideas for your age group? I know for him to be in the Navy he's at least 18....

Any guy being deployed for a certain amount of time only has one thing on his mind for his return home and that's being with his woman. Try to do something different with your hair, wear a sexy outfit...stuff like that.

*Have roses on the carpet and they lead to your room
*Have candles-lots of em' :)
*Go buy a pocketbook that matches his "cammies" and have his name stripe sown on. How proud would that make him, that while he's away...his girl is "declaring" her love for him! (I did this, my hubby loved it)
*Take a drive to a special place, a place where you two have never been. Don't tell him where your going.
*Ideas for "secret" places could be, the beach at sunset, do his favorite activity, the lake with a picnic, adopt a pet (that could be like yall's lil' kid :)
*Write him a poem letting him know just how much he means to you.
*Get the dogtags made that have yall's face engraved on them or something like *Kristen & Dave April 03, 2006* (The day yall started going out)
*Let him go to your room and have you sittin on the bed wearing nothing but a t-shirt that reads NAVY :) He'll love that one lol
*Here is a website to a Navy online giftshop:
http://www.navyonline.com/giftshop/StoreCategory.asp?Category=USNA
*Buy a bumper sticker that reads "Keep my soldier safe" it let's him know you supported him while he was gone.
*Hope this helped!
-Marine Wife

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I am a 23 year old female. I am happily married, but a few weeks ago, I made the mistake of having unprotected sex with someone other than my husband. I just found out that I am pregnant. I cannot keep the child because there is a good chance that my one-night-stand is that father. I want to have an medical abortion and disguise it as a miscarriage. My husband is a doctor, and I fear that he may be able to distinguish the difference between an induced miscarriage and a spontaneous one. What is the difference between a medical abortion and a spontaneous miscarriage?

Abortion is: a suction tube is inserted through the dilated cervix into the womb. A powerful vacuum tears the placenta from the uterus and dismembers the body of the developing child, sucking the pieces into an attached jar. There is a risk that the uterus can be punctured during the procedure. Also, the abortionist must take care that all the body parts are removed from the womb, as infection and hemorrhage can occur if fetal or placental tissue is left in the uterus.

Miscarriage occurs from a hormonal imbalance AND/OR chromosomal abnormality's, infections, and maternal health problems like diabetes, or thyroid disease. A recent study found that women with an infection called bacterial vaginosis were nine times more likely to have a miscarriage than uninfected women. Most women who have an early miscarriage do not need treatment. The uterus empties itself like a heavy period. However, a doctor may recommend a D&C if your beyond 6-12 weeks pregnant at time of miscarriage.



I feel as though I cant just answer this question without having my opinion be known even though I'm fully aware that it wasn't asked for.
I am 100% against abortions. They should be made illegal. Your wanting to kill that innocent baby just because it may not be your husbands? What may I ask did that baby do to deserve to die? It's still A PART OF YOU.

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I got this sunsilk shampoo and conditioner and this straighten up cream.

The brand is sunsilk. And i tihnk its new. Its in purple bottles.

I was wondering if anyone ever used it? did you like it? would you buy it again?Did it work? anything i should know?


Thanks

I use the one's in the blue bottle. Sunsilk for frizzy hair. I love it!! For the first time ever after blowdrying my hair it was no where near as frizzy as it was before. (I straighten my hair)
And I dont' know about the other kind's but my shampoo and conditioner itself matched the bottle. It was blue! How cool is that? lol ok guess I'm a nerd but the shower can be pretty boring so why not wash your hair with BLUE shampoo? Yes I would definately buy this product again!

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Hey everybody. Well, I'm 14/f and African American (if that's of any help). I have like these scabs on my legs, and I really want to get rid of them, but everything that I've tried had failed. I really don't feel comfortable showing off my legs, but they're in really good shape and they look nice, and I really do want to show them. If anybody knows of any creams, etc. that help with scabs, discoloration of skin, or scars, and that can get my skin clear in the quickest time, I would really appreciate that! Thank you soooo much!

I swear by Palmers Coca Butter. If you have any discolorations, stretch marks or scars, overtime it fades it to the color of your skin.

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i have a friend named mandy and ive known her for about 3 weeks and she is lesbian. well in the past three weeks, ive gotten to know alot about her and before that i was trying to figure out if im straight or bisexual or lesbian. and now, im pretty sure im bi, cuz i really like my friend mandy. we have alot in common we talk for hours. the other night me and my sister were talking about bisexual and stuff like that and she thinks she is attracted to girls and guys too. i wanted to talk to her soo much about it but i didnt want her to hate me or anything. so yeah, im still somewhat confused about me being bi or not.

It is VERY COMMON in your teen years to wonder what your sexual preference is. There should be no rush to label your self right now. Over the next few years your decesion will become clearer to you. Just have fun and do whatever you think is right. Also, think long and hard before you act on anything, wether it be having sex with a girl or a guy. Just make sure it's not going to be a decesion that you will later regret. Good Luck.

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To start off i am a 15 year old girl. I am living at home and pregnant. I no stress is not good. Living at home i think is stressing me out i cry every day. Im not sure what to do or how to tell me mother i need out. I am not getting along with my brother or my father. Please Help

Being pregnant at 15 can be very stressful. I've been there. (I was 17 so I can relate to you on this) What do you mean you need to tell your mom you need out? To tell her your pregnant? Or to tell her you want an abortion or something? I want to help you because I know this is a very hard time for you right now. You can e-mail me at lost_carolina@yahoo.com and I'll help ya' the best I can.

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I want to start babysitting again so I'm making a flyer. I only babysit for kids who are potty trained. How do I put that on a flyer and still sound professional?

Here's some options:

*I prefer potty-trained children so that way I have more time to interact and play games with the children.*

*Potty-trained children are a must.

*I babysit from ages 3 and up. --(most kids have learned it by now)

OR A WHOLE NEW APPROACH:
*Babysitting discounts on all potty-trained children.

-that let's them know what you prefer.

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Well, I gave my boyfriends head. I told my friends. They got mad at me and they told thier moms. Now the whole school knows. All the moms and students hate me!!! Im soo imbaressed what should I do!!!13/f

OMG my sister is 13! I would just die if I ever found out she was doing things like that at such a young age, WHATS THE RUSH???? The only thing you can is ask your friends for forgiveness.

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is it ok to finger yourself while you have your period? will it effect your health or is it fine?

Other than things gettin' a lil messy it's quite fine. Won't affect your period in any way.

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Ok, this question is preferably for guys.

You and your girlfriend are playing a sport (how about soccer) and she's pretty good at it. Do you like a girl who gives it her all and plays like she's one of the boys--even if she beats you? Like if you don't know how good she is until you're playing with her, would you want her to hold back just a little so you both will have more fun and it would be more.. flirty, I guess? Because wouldn't you feel stupid if she was more manly at a sport than you are? And if she played as best as she could and beat you, wouldn't the relationship be more competitive then romantic?

No not at all. Just because a girl gives something her all doesnt mean it's a competitive relationship. Sounds to me like you would prefer her to slack up on the game just so it could be on more love/flirty terms? Doesn't make sense. Sounds to me like you played a game against your girl and got creamed and don't feel like a man anymore. You shouldn't feel that way or discourage her from doing her best. It's a game, you do it well or not at all.

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Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends.

No you are not selfish at all for wanting better for your new child. Don't bring a child into that environment! Tell him simply, "You can either start saving asap to get us out of this disgusting basement or me and YOUR CHILD are leaving. I will not bring my baby into a damn basement full of mold for her/him to get sick!"

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