what do we use soap for
To wash ourselves with?
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ok my feonsay and and i have been going out for almost a year she has had a hard up bringing and we work out sooooo well whin we are together now hir fother abandend hir whin she was 2 and another man rased hir his name is shon now back in the day hir and hir dad yousto do dope now she dosint do it any more but he dose now she is 21 now and he is saying that he loves hir tonight she told me that he tuched hir and if she is not guna b with hir he is guna kill me and she and i beleave that he will so she dose what he sase now he also has HIV so if somthing hapends i cant b with hir we love each other alot i wana spend the rest of my life with hir but i dont know what to do someone help me !!!!
The rules state that you should use correct grammar/spelling when asking a question.E.g Fiancé not feonsay.
Therefore, I and many others probably do not know what on earth you're asking because the question is illiterate.
Please ask this again, with grammar/spellings that mean I can help you.
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I am a female, 19 years old and I have a male cousin who is 18 years old. My cousin asked me if I have a boyfriend and I told him no and then he asked if I have ever had a boyfriend. I found this a little odd but I think that's just because him and I have never really talked about that sort of thing before and we haven't seen each other in like 3 years. Is this weird at all?
You're thinking way to deeply into this.
He's obviously trying to get to know you a little better...work collegues ask me the same thing! Chill!
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16 yr old Female, UK
My Music teacher is 49. I am 16. I help out in some of his lessons, for younger years. We talk all the time. He tells me funny little stories about his family, and he tells me about his difficult past, personal stuff... but he has always seemed such a closed off man.
He calls me Professor Jane (Jane is not my name, but I don't want to put my name on here), and I call him by just his last name (like smith, rather than Mr. Smith)
I resently left school (year 11) and he wrote a funny limerick about me (teasing me) in my leavers book, and I know he didn't write in anyone elses. He gave me his number, in case I needed it for my exam revision.
We argue, like allot, over all sorts of silly stuff. Like, the other day, we argued about the best Dr from Dr who, and its like real arguing.
He tells me stuff about the school, like stuff about private teachers meeting. I consider him a very good friend.
I suppose this is not a question, more a situation, and I would like your opinions on it?
Thank you
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You recently left school, so why do you care anymore?!
If you consider him a very good friend, then don't report him. I'm sorry, I don't see the problem here.
As you're older, you'll find when you do your A-level or whatever that the futher you progress up the education system, the closer lectures/students are. I know people my age (18) who have teachers as contacts for the future.
You're obviously old for your age and he can see that. But if you consider him a good friend-what's the issue? Its not like he's telling you things an you feel uncomfortable-you like being confided in by him.
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Hi! I am going to a school trip overnight next week, I can't wait to go!
I wonder and wanted to know of what should I bring?
The bus is going to be very cold.
I might get on water rides or just rides.
So any clothes of what should I bring? and etc.
Should I bring snacks like chips, candy and etc..?
It's going from 5:30am to 12:00am Any suggestions? Thanks. (: (Please answer)
No offense, but on the clothes front, its just common sense. I mean, if you know you may be on water rides, common sense says to bring something water proof.
I think you need to bring a change of clothes. So wear something that you don't min getting wet at first, and then change into the spare clothes after. These days, people just wear like a tank top and cheap leggings-don't be the person who wears a swimming costume-only unless you plan to actually be swimming. Be sure to bring some spare change with you, as the toilets may cost to get in, so you'll need to money to change clothes.
There is the option of wearing a tank top and leggings underneath say some jeans and a top, and that way you don't have to be a burden on everyone by going to the toilets to change.
Also, its best to bring nibbles to keep you going-food wise, throughout the day. You want something that doesn't take too long to eat. It sounds like a pretty action packed trip! Bring things like a wrap for lunch, and whatever you want, so ypu can just pop it in and go-you don't need a fork or whatever to eat it with.
Make sure you bring a fleece or something for the bus if you know its cold. To recap:
1)A light lunch-a small wrap and other things
2)A Towel
3)A fleece
4)Leggings and a tank top underneath what you're already wearing.
5)A camera
6)A cool but large bag to carry it all in
7)Spare change-not so much notes, just in case theres a gift shop and for the toilets
7=8)Oh, and if you're hair is long, wear it in a ponytail-that way if you do go on water rides, it wont look messed up afterwards.
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I had my period in april 18 smthing like that and i got my period in may 25 ..has any chance that 1'm preganant ?
Well have you had sex? Did you do so after your period came or before? Please provide more information.
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So I met this guy on a website specifically for writing your own stories, but there are forums where you can chat to other people. They're nice people, honestly.
Anyway, I started talking to him and we have a ton in common. The first night he asked me about my secrets, and thinking I'd never talk to him again, I told him everything. And he listened the whole time and he didn't judge. He cared. And then he told me some of his secrets. And i listened and cared and didn't judge.
A couple days after that, we were talking about relationships and love and he suddenly asked me who i liked. I didn't even think he cared. I tried to dodge his question, because in truth, I had started to like him as more than just a friend. And i know thats weird because it's moving so fast, but i honestly don't care. You love who you love.
So near the end of the bombardment of questions he shot at me, he said, "Obviously it's me." And i said, "How?" and he went on to explain how defensive i was of it and how the answers kind of described him. And then he told me he liked me back,and i was so excited.
Until he said he wanted to keep it a secret and not tell anyone.
Honestly I still want to be with him, even though he wants to keep our relationship a secret.
But there's a problem. See, he lives in England and I live in the States. That kinda complicates things. I just wish he didn't live so far away.
I want advice on how to handle this and if i should even attempt a relationship. Please? Anything would be helpful.
Oh and I'm 15, a female :)
You're not in love with him.
Its down to psychology, you see, he lives in England, and it takes us hours and hours to cross the pond and get over to you in America.
So its IMPOSSIBLE as your both too young to fly on your own, to see him in person. The fact you cant have him, due to travel issues, makes you want him more.
My inkling is that you have lots of hormones swirling round your body, and so you're ovs going to react this way when someone flatters you.
The same goes for him as well.
In America, you date more than one person at a time, whereas here in Britain, we only date one person at a time. So for this reason, the fact you're showing your interest probably means he feels more closer to you than you do to him.
Realistically, this relationship at the moment isn't a relationship, its a cyber relationship-not a healthy basis for it to flourish.
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I'm 15 and just got recently into masturbating.. I'm a female. What are any ways to arouse myself more? I would love to be able to orgasm but I don't know how to make myself orgasm, help?!
Want my advice? You should be studying not masturbating. Honestly, if you want a job when you're older, the climate is tough at the moment.
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13/m
so i want to talk to my mother about my "love life" since i got myself a girlfriend, and i cant keep it secret forever. So how do i start a conversation about what is going on?
Pull her to a quiet room. Say, mum I've been asked out by someone. She'll give you her full attention.
Go into detail.
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We started off talking like every few days. Hung out a few times and texted eachother a lot. And he was obviously interested as I am. Well now I feel like he along with some other friends just quit talking to mw so much. Yeaterday he texted me and asked how work was going. I said it was alright and stuff and he didn't reply then he texted me a few hours later saying woo you get off in a hour. And that's it. Today he didn't text me at all. I texted him and said I hope he had a great day and no reply. I just don't understand why he's backing up all of a sudden. And just everyone else it seems at the same time.
Do you initiate the texts ever? Or Is it just him? Cause if its mostly him, the one thing he'll love is if you texted him for once.
He can see something changing in you. Either positively or negatively.
Well its one or the other isn't it? Once you excuse the possibility he may just be busy.
You say you texted him and there was no reply. I think (in my experience) this means a guy is thinking things through. He doesn't know where you two are at any more. It's a guy thing...I guess they translate mixed emotions about someone by being silent, and us girls get really confused.
I say the best corse of action, if he doesn't text you, is to not text him either. If he likes you, whether it be a week or a few weeks later, he'll text you again, as he'll miss you.
If he hasn't texted in like a week and a half I'd text him and just be like 'how are you, not spoken if a while'.
I think when you begin texting him again, remember one thing. Text him as if you're his friend, not obviously trying to get in a relationship with him. Guys like the chase. If you act all 'Oh, you never texted back' then he wont like it-too much baggage, you know.
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how do i tell my mom my hymen broke
Why do you need to tell her? You don't do you? I don't really know anyone who tells their mum this quite of thing...
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I'm 13 and I'm tired of using му finger. What can I put up му vagina? No toys cs I can't get any,no food cs му parents will realize. ANYTHING else that will feel good
As a regular advice giver on this site, I'm tired of people like you-who 3 of 4 years ago didn't even know what sex really was-asking questions like this.
The user below is correct. At 13, you should be developing your intelligence, your social networks, your hobbies and your skills, not sitting around the house putting things up your V.
If you want to carry on, fine, but don't be surprised if you can't get a job when you're older. For yoiur generation, getting a job is very tough, right, so you'd be nothing short of a fool to waster your FREE education, by being sexual at such a young age.
What's the rush?!
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i have my period last april 10 until april 14 then i have sex with my boyfriend april 16-17-18...but i have my period may 8...it is possible that i will get pregnant??
No, because having your period means that the egg has not been fertilized, which is why the walling breaks down, because you don't need it there, as theres going to be no baby to protect it.
If you didn't know that, you're not old enough to be having sex-its illegal at your age anyway.
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Ok so I had sex with this girl and I wore a condom and I didn't ejaculate inside her. She is a week late for her period and I'm freaking out! And the pregnancy test came up negative. And she also said she sort of had a period but just for like a day that confused me too. Help!!
I don't know about you, but the advice below didn't really make sense!
If she took a pregnancy test and it came back negative, then she's not pregnant-they're not wrong. I suggest if you have doubts, then leave it a month and ask if she's had her period yet. Also, you could by her another pregnancy test to make double sure.
Unlike what the user below you says, if you wear protection, then their is still a chance of pregnancy e.g: It could have split. However, you'd know if this had happened-it doesn't appear to be the case.
It doesn't sound like she is pregnant, but I suggest don't do it again with her until you're sure she's not.
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Ме and му friends both 13 female and I used to cut and tried killing myself by taking a od. Anyway lately friends been cutting hecticly, she started friday and been cutting over the weekend and has been telling ме how she wants to die and she's planning on comitting suicide. I'm really worried about her. How can I make her stop and give her good advice and what can I say to make her think a little? I can't tell sanyone about it though so please don't say tell her parents because they know and she just gets grounded for it and they fight because of it which makes her cut even more. Her famils the main reason of her cutting.
The truth is, there's only so much help you can give before you have to get an adult involved.
I know how it feels-you don't want anything to change between the two of you as friends, but you want to help her in a way that causes the least amount of trouble.
I'm not a doctor, but if she wants to kill herself she sounds depressed. If it is about her family-then there you have it-that's where the blame may lie and that's how your friend can get better.
You'll have to tell a teacher, a priest, a neighbour...a responsible adult. I hope you realise how serious this is...people get sectioned for this kind of thing, or put on suicide watch.
Telling an adult will help your friend the most. If you try to help her alone...by say typing in 'cure for depression' into Google, it's not going to work. Because you don't have the resources and adult does, and also if you cut yourself, that suggests you're perhaps a little depressed to. So the last thing you want to do is club together with a fellow person who is depressed, because you don't want to be swung to her point of view.
If you tell an adult, they can drive your friend to speak to a doctor and a counsellor.
I suppose it all starts with motivation. You're friend can get better, but it means being brave, in the sense that you have to put your personal views aside e.g: you don't want to change the relationship you have with your friend.
Telling another adult may be the hardest, and last thing you want to do, but it may be the only thing that saves your friends life.
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would the above develop at the age of two if the mother was ex anorexic??
It depends-I can only tell you about anorexia.
The debate whether anorexia is a biological or psychological issue is still ongoing. In America, it is seen as a psychological disorder which is why insurance companies don't allow health insurance.
The consensus is that anorexia is a mixture. As a result, it can not be developed at age two.
It is partly genetic-so the child could be more likely to get anorexia. Studies have shown concordance rates can be quite high for it.
So to answer your question, no. Anorexia develops around teenage years.
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So i really feel uncomfortable putting what happened during my past... but i like this girl and we are having an awkward relationship... So i want to just try make a huge step and hold her hand... how will i o it? Just slide my hand slower and slower towards her hand?
Aww this is cute!
In the past what guys have done to me (I'm a girl) is they have actually asked me, like in a text, how would you feel about holding hands.
Then what you do is don't just grab her hand. Offer it to her, with your palms facing the sky. Then you can either interlock fingers or go for a less intimate, wrap around the palms.
Its also nice to stroke her hand with your thumb. It shows her what kind of intimacy you want, and also acts as a nice surprise for her.
The worst that can happen is she can refuse-and just take this as red that she's just not ready. But ask her in a quick text if your very shy-if she hasn't tried either then she's also probably very shy, and will be glad you made the move :)
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i want fuck my cousin sister we talk sex things ligtly iwant to increase to chat these things
That's incest. And it's illegal. Eww.
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i am 9 years old. can some 9 year old boy have sex with me?
Look. You're too young to be on this site. Did you not read the rules?
You're too young to be thinking about sex let alone having it.
You're too young to surely have had your first period yet.
YOU'RE TOO YOUNG.
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hi, im 16 male.. and i want to ask question.. me and mu girlfriend (17) were trying to do stuff but she is still a virgin and i've put my penis inside her without condom just only about a 1cm maybe even less .. i couldnt of gone further because it hurted her so much.. my question can she get preant form that ?
Without going into specifics too much, if you managed to ejaculate within her then yes there is a possibility.
People may say 'there isn't, because you have to come into contact with her V', but then pregnancy is always an unexpected surprise, so if I were you I'd be the gentleman and buy her a pregnancy test, just to make sure.
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