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im fat. all i ever think about is food and eating. i cant stay out of the pantry and fridge, and i eat when im bored. i dont want to be this way. i already work out and it helps some. now i just need to control my eating. how can i not be so distracted by food? i talked to my mom and i asked her to stop buying junk but i have 6th other family members..and this is not an option. help me please. (link)
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you need to cultivate a hobby to take your mind off of eating something you enjoy that way hen you get the urge to eat and your not hungry you can do that then youll slowly but surely get in habbit of doing your hobby whatever it is instead of eating.
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i really wanna learn how to dance, like you would at a party to a hip hop song or something. does anyone have any tips on how to do it? i've tried dancing in the mirror, it really does not help for me. are there are any good videos or ANYTHING? i just seem to have no rhythm and no idea as to how to move my body. please don't say anything like just listen to the music, because that's not working. (link)
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when i was interested in danceing i would just record music videos with dance moves that i liked and would watch those and pause it off and on and practice them its alot of rewinding and patience but good practice.
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Hey.
Tomorrow i am getting my hair dyed. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas as to what i should do to it.. like whats in style for dying these days? Right now i have sorta a medium reddish brown. my skin is fare colored..and i like darker hair. my hair is about an inch past my shoulder too.. thanks..by the way.. im 16..and a girl.. if that makes any difference.. (link)
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some people can pull of black without looking dramatic im fair complected and i have blonde hair. a real vibrant red would look nice to like that woman on desperate house wives. you could also go with a darker brown or a chesnut color it would help if you added your eye color to.
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Ok i have this sudden urge to talk to my ex boyfriend.Not really the plan of getting back with him but i dont know, i still love him but i want to know how his life is and im begginning to miss those long talks we use to have everynight.But i dont know if i should call,he has no reason to be mean to me but im afraid yet he will be.Should i call him? (link)
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if he has no reason to be mean to you then he probably wont. just take the confident step in talking to him and explain you want to be friends. if he doesn't like the idea then it wasnt meant to be but. but dont miss out on a potential chance of a really great friend. you might regret it if you dont try.
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I have really small boobs
They look un proportinate to my body
Becuase I look like the type that would have really big boobs
Im 5'6 and I am an 34 A!
I wear a push up bra but honestly it doesnt seem to create cleavage at all
Is there anything I can do?
and Another question, I wear those bra padding things but they are constantly coming out during the day, is there a special way to make them stay in place? (link)
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it also depends on how old you are and if your on the thin side. no, bras are not going to prevent your boobs from growing..you might want to make sure your bra is as tight as possibbble it should be like a second skin...big boobs aren't always attractive.you could get a water bra but really youll still what you have when it comes off. its really not big deal and some shirt styles even look better on small chestted women use debra messing the red head from will and grace she has small boobs and she attractive so are some models.besides you might still be growing. ive heard of 18 year old still not being fully developed. if you feel insecure about your boobs then play up other features about your self that you feel more confident about. but theres really nothing to be embarrased about.
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my crush[kyle] is supose to talk to my dad about me and him dating but kyle basically told me that its up to me because i have to write kyle a letter telling him why he can still trust me and what i would want out of our relationship, but i think thats just a waste of my time. because kyle can trust me and i havent thought about what i want out of our relationship because i've been really stressed lately because of all of this and i just cant handle it anymore. im starting to be physically sick. (link)
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he doesnt act like hes 18 i think its a little immature and uh thankyou
you have to write him a letter? how old is he,he needs to grow up.he either wants to be with you or he doesnt. you dont and shouldnt have to beg him for a relationship. i think this guy is wasting your time because if he really wanted to go out and liked you then he wouldnt make you write a letter.
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Okay, this guy Karl in my biology class likes me, but I don't like him the same way. I mean he's a really sweet nice guy and all, but I don't know what to do. My friend told me that he likes me, and later in Bio. class i heard people her across the room talking with him and two other people about it. I pretended I did'nt hear anything because I was so far away. but anways, If he says anything about it to me, what should I do? I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?
Also im female and 16 (link)
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you need to just say look i think its really sweet that you like me,im flattered but its just not a good time for me.if he persists just tell him you dont feel the same way. it will be less hurtful then letting him think he has a chance when he really doesn't.let him no that it doesnt go further then friendship.
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One of my friends has decided that she wants to run away. She's tired of living with her abusive step dad. She's asked for me to help her go somewhere where nobody will find her, like out of state. We're both only 14... I don't know anything about what to do. She doesn't want me to tell anyone else. What should I say to her? I'm so scared for her! What on earth should I do? (link)
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running is never good if shes being abused you need to call the police and report it. even if shes to scared you need to stop this. he has no right to beat on her and hes in the wrong for doing so. you might be afraid its going to make a mess of things and her family but her stepdads the only thing doing that. i know from experiance because i had an abusive father. report this to the police or tell a school counselor. she is going to have to step forward a little bit on this. her running away is safe there are child molesters annd murderes and other harms. its not safe and shes only 14 not even old enough to work. someone could easily take advantage of her and she could end up in a bad situation or dead. not that the one shes in now is all that good.thats why you need to do the right thing and report it she might be afraid that things will get worse with him but in reality this will progress it to end. its smarter then running away.
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ok theres this guy that i work with and to make a really long story not so long he has a gurlfriend and hes really famous for playing mind games and than breaking hearts hes a want to be player and he knows that hes playing mind games with me and that i being really stupid telling him things that i shouldnt like how much i like him and that i really cant trust myself around him he knows that im vurnable and he uses it against me im a virgin i havent done anything untill i meet him but i gave him head and he fingered me and afterwards i feel really sluty becuase he talks to his gurlfriend right afterwards and than he talks to me about all the other gurls he fucked and left, he flirts and flirts than sometimes nothing until he wants something so should i just drop him or become friends with beneifits you know just get the good with the bad because im 17 and still a virgin and he was my first oral but he wants to take my virginty but i know because of what kinda guy he is so should i stick it out and see what happens and hopefully he turns my way but than i think that hes cheating on his gurl that he suppossidly loves with me and every time i try to say no he sweet talks me and runs down my defenses, or should i just tell him that im better than that and just stay as friends and nothing more and try to work with him and not let him force and talk me down to it please help me lost and afraid (link)
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why do you want to waste time with someone like that. he even has a girlfriend, believe me he wont treat any better hes going on an ego/power trip. thats not love. plus he tells you to your face about all of these other girls. dont fall victim to him or any other guy. because if guy truly wants to be with you he wouldnt care about the sexual stuff. theres nothing wrong with being a virgin either i am and no im not religious or a feminist i just respect my self and believe that if someone truly loves me they'll stick it out with me. not every guys is all about sex.you are better then that guy. he sounds like a little slime ball who needs to grow into his hormones and have some respect for hiself you and others. dont let this guy intimidate you see thats another thing a good guy who cares doesnt want to intimidate you. dont waste your time with him or any others you should probably cut him off entirely because if you stay friends hes still going to mess with you. forget him and any one else that share the same traits their are better.hes the one who should feel slutty because what hes doing is really nasty and ugly. i know.
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i really dont want to be with my man no more so how should i break up with him with out hurting him? i mean i love him as a friend but nothing more? (link)
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just tell him that you love him and value him as a friends but anything romantic is just not working out for you anymore. tell him youve thought it over and not only would it be better for you to move on but him as well. if he drags it out anymore or is still hung up on you just tell him he shouldnt waste time holding on to you while theres other girls out there who would better suit you. tell him you guys have had a good relationship while it lasted so why not just leave it at that.he'll be ok trust me.youve gotta do what you gotta do.
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alot of my friends are going farthur and farhtur with thier bf's lately, and i want to with mine, i'm just worried about it, being self concious i mean. I shave, but how do i know if thats what he likes? will it be awkward, whatever we do? what if i'm bad at it? what if i'm wierd "down there" or something? (link)
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your choice should have nothing to do with your friends. you not being comfortable should be a sign that your not ready as far as worring about him he should feel privaleged enough that your doing anything with him. sometimes going farthur and farthur isnt always a good thing, if your feelings continue like this obviously your not as comfortable as you should be.
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I'm 15/f
I had a job in New Jersey last summer at a hotel and i met a guy there. He's 15 also. He lives in Maine. We made out 3 days before he left and were kind of "dating" the over the next 2 weeks. We talked on the phone all the time after he left, but then I went to the hospital and when my friend called him and told him he didn't seem like he cared at all. My friend yelled at him and i know that wasn't good. He told me we he didn't think it was a good idea to "date" anymore. The day i got back (which was about a week after that) he got a new girlfriend. They broke up and he got another one, they broke up, but he has one again. Whenever i call him a loser (joking around) and goes "hey remember you made out with this loser." I really really like him, but i don't know if he stil feels the same way about me. I'm going to see him again this summer and i want to start things over with him. I know i should talk to him about it, but i don't know what to say. Plus, I don't want to feel stupid if he says he really doesn't like me like that anymore.
Sorry this is so long.
i don't know if it makes a difference but he calls me all the time and NEVER wants to talk about his girlfriend, but ALWAYS brings up how we made out and how awesome i am.
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it he wanted to be with you wouldnt he it sounds like hes keeping you for fun. if disrespecting his girlfriend like that by telling you how good it was making out then how do you think hes going to treat you. its not a good sign. it sounds like hes using you and does have much respect for you or his girlfriend. move on.
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Ok, well a couple years back I met this guy over the internet. He lives in Egypt and I live in Canada. We've been on the phone, webcam and he sends pictures weekly. Is it possible that after all this that he is a fake? Because I'm really starting to get attached to him and for our school trip we're going to cairo and we were going to meet then. Should I go through with it or what. I'm really confused by it all. Sometimes, well alot we talk about our problems and well we help eachother out, I'm just scared that I'm going to get my heart broken and never be able to trust anybody anymore. What can I do about all this? (link)
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this is dangerous. yes there is a chance he could be fake and if this guy turns out to be a pycho not only are you leading him to yourself but other innocent people such as your class mates and such. also be very critical question every thing. if this guy really lives in egypt, does he have an accent does he look egyptian, can he speak the language. how old is he claiming to be and how old does he sound or look. sometimes people put on a big act to lure you into trusting them so they can do harm to you. this stuff happens. dont just worry about your heart being broken worry about other parts of you aswell as others being broken. if you insist on meeting this person atleast tell a teacher whos going with you and a parent if your underage.make sure someone in charge know whats going on. im not sure of your age not that it matters because an adult could be kidnapped and hurt as well.im not trying to scare you but there are crazy people outthere and if this person knows what you look like he could watch from afar and ambush you. he could shoot you or anything. and it puts people around you at risk aswell.
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What do you do? Like just stand there? I don't think so but what (link)
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you just talk to them like you normally would. i know it might seem nere racking but its better to keep it natural. its nice to smile and keep eye contact. you might even want to start a conversation thats positive and just kind of ease the question in when you both seem comfortable.
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My bf's name is George and he's really hairy down there and when we have sex it rubs up against me like a rug burn when we're having sex I really want him to shave it off. What should do I do? (link)
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if it bothers you that much then you should just tell him. its not an offensive thing really. but if he doesnt or you dont step up and tell him how you feel about the matter then youll have to live with it grow your out if you shave or shave him in his sleep.
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I just starting going out w/ this guy, he is really nice, but his parents are really strict, anyway, i really lked him, and my friends told him, and we ended up going out, some of my friends think tht he is"dragging me down" socially, and tht i should dump him, and ive noticed tht people are starting to react to me differently, and there waiting for us to break up, i not sure if i should just give in, because i really care about how ppl think of me and im new at this school so its even more important, or if i should stay w/ him, and risk my entire middle school career for this one guy. im really unsure of wat to do, i realy need somone to give me advice on this and help me make up my mind, i really dont want to hurt him, but my friends mean alot to me.
thnx alot hope you can help:) (link)
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its just middle school. if your happy with this guy then stay with him. it doesnt matter what your friends want for you. its what you want for yourself.well if you meant that much to your friends they would treat you the same as they did before and would take you as you are regardless. may you should reevaluate your friends. if they were real friends it wouldnt matter who you date because they'd make time for you.
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Hi , I met a friend in chatting ... we made friendship for a year... then later we started talking on phone .. it went for another 6 months ... wwe stay in different cities...one day we met ... things are fine ,,, some days later she was busy and i too in our jobs.. and we didnt spoke to each other for a week ....... then later when i tried to speak on phone she didnt respond ,,, and later i had sent a mail describing through reasons .. at last she had given a reply ,, with a million dollar question .... " i dont see y u want me as a friend..... and i cant fake ne thg wch i dont feel " ....... can u pls give an advice how to get our friendship as earlier ? do i get her friendship back ? (link)
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edit-you said thanks my dear friend so that makes me wonder what you consider friendship?
if she wrote that then she doesnt value your friendship that much and its not worth it.well if answering that question causes you to be false then its not right to be friends if you cant answer her then maybe you shouldnt be friends. your very lucky that meeting someone turned out that well over the net and i wouldnt test your luck.
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ohkay well im horrible at starting conversations and so is my boyfriend. and i feel like and idiot when were sitting around not talking about nothing. hellpPP? (link)
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how about asking about how eachothers day was. maybe you could talk about music or other interests. you could try to find something that reminds you of something that happened to you or talk about something that you thought was funny. share eachothers opinions on things religion,politics,movies,food,jobs,etc
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Everytime i try to Upload a Picture for my Column is says "You tried to upload a picture, but it was greater than 15K in filesize so it wasn't uploaded." How can i get a picture on my column? (link)
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if you have another site like myspace you can right click your photo hit properties and get the url thats what i did. then place the url in the url blank. it should be under the upload picture blank.
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yeah im a very a.d.d. type of person, im loud, im outgoing and so many random things come to my head that i cant keep track of anything. but i have alot of close friends and they some how love me even though im just about the most hyper person in the world. well most of the time when i like someone i have to control myself and not show how energetic i am or else they would be scared off. like i usually have to try so hard to stay calm and not be quite so obnoxious. but ive finally met this guy that i can be my complete self around and he still feels the same way about me that i feel about him. he is one of the greatest people ive ever met. hes cute and funny, and nice, and gets me. soo the only problem is, is that my good friend that knew him before i did likes him too. actually she is like in love with him. and he told me that he likes me and hes told her he doesnt have feelings for her but for some reason she keeps holdng on. andd i dont know what to do cause i dont wanna loose a good friend. but no guy has ever understood me this well. advice would be greatly appreciated. (link)
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ok its not your fault that your friend like him. thats her problem to deal with. if he wanted her hed be with her but his eyes are on you and you feel the same way for him so go with him. its selfish on her part if she trys to get in the way of it.she should be considerate of your feelings as well. if she isnt its not your fault
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