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ok theres this guy that i work with and to make a really long story not so long he has a gurlfriend and hes really famous for playing mind games and than breaking hearts hes a want to be player and he knows that hes playing mind games with me and that i being really stupid telling him things that i shouldnt like how much i like him and that i really cant trust myself around him he knows that im vurnable and he uses it against me im a virgin i havent done anything untill i meet him but i gave him head and he fingered me and afterwards i feel really sluty becuase he talks to his gurlfriend right afterwards and than he talks to me about all the other gurls he fucked and left, he flirts and flirts than sometimes nothing until he wants something so should i just drop him or become friends with beneifits you know just get the good with the bad because im 17 and still a virgin and he was my first oral but he wants to take my virginty but i know because of what kinda guy he is so should i stick it out and see what happens and hopefully he turns my way but than i think that hes cheating on his gurl that he suppossidly loves with me and every time i try to say no he sweet talks me and runs down my defenses, or should i just tell him that im better than that and just stay as friends and nothing more and try to work with him and not let him force and talk me down to it please help me lost and afraid
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i dont think that you should be doing anything with this guy unless you really like him. The first guy that i had sex with when i was 14 i was in love with! so dont do anything that u will regret that is all that i have to say. i hope that helped.=)Amanda
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-forget him
-move on it was just a booty call
-plus your seventeen so just wait till you find the one who's right 4 you
-plus your to good for him
-think on the bright side if his girlfriend finds out about his 1 night stands
-he'll be avalible then jk lol
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why do you want to waste time with someone like that. he even has a girlfriend, believe me he wont treat any better hes going on an ego/power trip. thats not love. plus he tells you to your face about all of these other girls. dont fall victim to him or any other guy. because if guy truly wants to be with you he wouldnt care about the sexual stuff. theres nothing wrong with being a virgin either i am and no im not religious or a feminist i just respect my self and believe that if someone truly loves me they'll stick it out with me. not every guys is all about sex.you are better then that guy. he sounds like a little slime ball who needs to grow into his hormones and have some respect for hiself you and others. dont let this guy intimidate you see thats another thing a good guy who cares doesnt want to intimidate you. dont waste your time with him or any others you should probably cut him off entirely because if you stay friends hes still going to mess with you. forget him and any one else that share the same traits their are better.hes the one who should feel slutty because what hes doing is really nasty and ugly. i know.
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i really just think to leave this guy alone. he's no good for you. if he's manipulating you to get stuff from you, he has no feelings for you, he just sees an easy target to get stuff. and he has a girlfriend, that he cheats on, that he probably tells he loves her. all the stuff that he will do to you if you guys actually ever go out. and he will try to get your virginity. he will manipulate you and manipulate you until you give in. do you want that? because i don't think you do. so you should really just stop talking to this guy, but the decision is up to you. hope i helped
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