my crush[kyle] is supose to talk to my dad about me and him dating but kyle basically told me that its up to me because i have to write kyle a letter telling him why he can still trust me and what i would want out of our relationship, but i think thats just a waste of my time. because kyle can trust me and i havent thought about what i want out of our relationship because i've been really stressed lately because of all of this and i just cant handle it anymore. im starting to be physically sick.
illdomybest answered Friday January 5 2007, 4:31 pm: he doesnt act like hes 18 i think its a little immature and uh thankyou
you have to write him a letter? how old is he,he needs to grow up.he either wants to be with you or he doesnt. you dont and shouldnt have to beg him for a relationship. i think this guy is wasting your time because if he really wanted to go out and liked you then he wouldnt make you write a letter. [ illdomybest's advice column | Ask illdomybest A Question ]
Tan answered Friday January 5 2007, 3:49 pm: If you want to be with Kyle, then writing him that letter is not a waste of your time. He obviously feels insecure about you leaving him or something. If you dont want to write him a letter, maybe you could prove he can trust you another way?
Another thing you might want to ask is, can he trust you? Lie down somewhere quiet and think. Ask yourself how much you like him, whether he is worth proving this thing to him, and if you need to, what you want from the relationship. It seems as though kyle needs to know what he means to you, and maybe after you have that clearly in your own head you could put in clearly in his?
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