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Is he worth it?
I just starting going out w/ this guy, he is really nice, but his parents are really strict, anyway, i really lked him, and my friends told him, and we ended up going out, some of my friends think tht he is"dragging me down" socially, and tht i should dump him, and ive noticed tht people are starting to react to me differently, and there waiting for us to break up, i not sure if i should just give in, because i really care about how ppl think of me and im new at this school so its even more important, or if i should stay w/ him, and risk my entire middle school career for this one guy. im really unsure of wat to do, i realy need somone to give me advice on this and help me make up my mind, i really dont want to hurt him, but my friends mean alot to me.
thnx alot hope you can help:)
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My dear, you're only in middle school...you're taking this a wee bit too seriously. If you break up with boys that you like jsut because people make stupid judgements about you because of a guy, you're never going to make a relationship work. People are going to have to accept the real you and you who like someone they may dislike. If you try to please all your friends, you're not going to have time to have what you want. Stick with this guy and if people don't like you for that stupid reason, forget about them. They're worthless friends. Find people who will like you for you and not for who you date and how much you please them.
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its just middle school. if your happy with this guy then stay with him. it doesnt matter what your friends want for you. its what you want for yourself.well if you meant that much to your friends they would treat you the same as they did before and would take you as you are regardless. may you should reevaluate your friends. if they were real friends it wouldnt matter who you date because they'd make time for you.
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I'm assuming that you are about 12-14 years ild. Considering that you are that young, I"m guessing that you haven't had much love experience. I wouln't rish your school career over one boy, jr. high, high school, whatever. Do what you think is right. Besides, you have so many years ahead of you to explore like and love.
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