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Im 18 years old..born & raised in northern va. I love to have fun with my girls, and ofcourse love to shop. Im a goody goody and damn proud of it! Feel free to ask me any questions, thats what this website is for : )

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there's this guy that i love more than anything in the world one problem...he's in soo much trouble and I can't help him with it...he says if anyone helps him it HAS to be me well i don't know how to help him but he seriously needs it. He's tried to kill himself and he thinks that no one will help him because he hasn't done anything for anybody ( I went out with him and he did a lot for me whether he knows it or not) but it's been a week or so since we broke up and he's now into all this he's been high all day since god knows when and it's not a good thing I need help and councelors who can help him in ways that i can't!!

I think you should talk to an adult from school. It might make him mad but whatever, it seems to me you can worth risking the chance of him getting mad at you because he's risking his life. People who get high and drink, are either depressed or are craving attention. Talk to a councelor at your school real soon.

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i've had under eye circles my whole life and sleeping more doesn't help because it just makes them purple from too much sleeping. stupid eyes. circles be gone!

yeah i get those randomly because i dont ever drink water and on weeknights i dont get much sleep. Eat veggies & fruits...drink lots of water. Cold cucumber slices every day for about 15 minutes....or you can buy that Fair & Lovely Ceram for undereye circle....the result last for about 6-8 months i think.

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hi i need to find pictures for homework like..pictures of a normal liver and a liver affeccted by alcohol, or a regular heart and an alcohol affected heart, or just any organs like that. my project is due tomrorow and i need some pics! thanks!

google images

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well i had these two friends and they are trying to make me and my really good friend to fight. what should I do?

well then you cant really call those other 2 ppl friends can you..? forget about them..n dont fight with ur real friend

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i am suppost to go to this party tonight with a couple of my friends. this guy i know wants me to go so i can hear his band play. But most of the people there ((except for like 6 people)) i dont really know very well, and dont really like to much. I kinda want to go but wat if the think "why is she here?" so should i go? and the guy is gunna ask me out there, and i kinda wanna say yes, and i kinda wanna say no.. wat should i say? Ill Rate!

You should go, hear his band play, talk to him for a few minutes...then dip out*

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I have a really good friend and i can talk to her and yadadada yea well we can do stuff like talk u know she is like my BFF. But there is this other girl she is really good friends with her and i dont realy like her but yea she is okay but ne time my friend hangs around with i feel like i dont need to be there becasue she always gose to her and not me. What should i do?

Yeah alot of people feel like the third wheel sometime in their life. Well I think you should first try and put yourself into the picture, if they're doing something - nomatter how weird it seems, try putting urself into the thing too, and if they act like your unwanted, then talk to your friend in private and tell her whats up.

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i lost a parent a year ago. my other parent is getting married in the summer. how do i show this fiance that i still love my parent, but i'll try to have a relationship with the fiance.

thanks

Your parents new fiancee will most likely already understand that you still love your birth parent. And they prob will never try to really replace your parent...because they know thats impossible. I wouldn't try to show him or her that you still love your parent, when you get to know them better, you can talk with them about your parent & their death.

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i have formal in ONE month..i need to loosed 10 pounds.. im 14/f .. i work out daily.. but NOTHING seems to be working.i need something simple that would help me loose it on a normal everyday life.. should i eat less carbs or something? how much a day should i consume? what should i eat for breakfest/lunch/dinner ?

Aight, for breakfast eat cereal, try skim milk if you must. For Lunch, eat spring mix salad(least amount of calories in this salad!)..with reg dressing, don do low fat because then you don't even want to finish lunch. Drink ice-tea or just spring water. For Dinner, I recommend eating either spring mix salad with diced chicken....ohh my fav salad is italian pasta salad but that isn't low fat.....* Eat fruits thru out the day

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I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day...

Stay after school with your teacher and ask her to help you finish your assignments....yea school is gay sometimes but summers almost here ( :

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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!

I think you should go talk to her PRIVATELY, and in a calm place. Try to do it in person though, not online or the phone...tell her that you feel as if shes not acting the same towards her anymore...*

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I didn't want to go to school today in the 1st place bc I have too much on my mind (that they don't even anyways) and I was really tired bc of all the thinking, but I got ready and I got out late so I missed the bus, bc my mom was yelling at me bc my parents got into a fight bc I didn't want to get up in the 1st place and go to school. My dad had woken me up @ 6 and I have to be out by 6:25 and I missed the buss bc someone decided to move the soap and toothpaste and I had to run across the house and get it and ect. Now my mom wouldn't drive me to school and my dad already left for work..it's 7:50 AM and I am bored out of my mind till everyone comes home @ 2 PM...any suggestions?

Order some pizza/chineese food....or better yet make some food lol . Order a movie on payperview....watch day time soaps.....put on an old dvd....go online, burn cds.....finish ur hw for the next day.......

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I called Express and the girl said for me too come in and fill out an application and they will also give me an interview....she said they like all their associates to wear clothing from the store and that I should dress accordingly....so my question is what would be a good outfit to wear?? I really want this job.

Yeah its a rule at express that you have to wear their clothes. Black editor pants (try pinstripes), with any cute color collar shirt...Try light pink(in style now for men). Good Luck!

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do magazine subscriptions and all of those things go on your credit report? if you dont pay a magazine subscription, does that go towards your credit and make your credit bad or is it only things such as car payments and what not?

Nope...not at all....even if your paying with a credit card..they don't go through your credit report....ordering magazines online is real funny cause soemtimes they don't send you the bill till two years after you've subscribed. I subscribed to Glamour about a year ago and still havn't gotten the bill...*

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Would Express clothing store hire a guy?? I was shopping there and really like their clothes... and I figure if I worked there I would get a really nice discount.

Yes they do hire guys & beleive me, the discounts are hott there! go apply now...you will NOT regret it (;

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Ok,I'm a guy that has always liked women's clothes.And am finally starting to go out dressed,but I really need some help with fashion....like what are the best placeses too shop and what are some clothes that I should have to start a basic wardrobe?? I already have a few skirts....black,gray and deninum. What will I need for spring and summer?? also what about shoes ?

I think the best store for casual/semi-dressy clothes is definately Express or Bebe. Other stores that I also love are forever 21, Rampage, Wet Seal...but Express is the best! For shoes, Lord & Taylor is off the hook, it surely has the best quality shoes*

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14/m.. 8th grade
at my school there aren't any girls my type. they are all stuck up and preppy. at the other school i have a lot of friends. i know i would fit in over there. there are so many hott girls that are so fun to be with. whenever i hang out with them i have a great time, but they are at a different school which makes it hard to have relationships. what should i do?

Honestly I don't think it really matters what kind of ppl go to your school...not tryna sound all mommish or whatever but, your going to school to learn, not find a girlfriend* But if you must do something, try transferring over to that school...tell your mom you would do better there because you are having 'issues' at your school right now.

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how do i loose 30 pounds?!??!!?!? seriosly withuto working out @ a jim?? like in 3 weeks do i just not eat???????? HELP

NOOO that is sooo unhealthy and trust me- you will gain back that weight before you know it. Eat healthy foods such as fruits & veggies....go on an all veggie diet...DRINK LOTS OF WATER...not only will that help you lose weight but also make your complexion nicer ( : Eat smaller portions of the foods you eat now.....Don't skip any meals alltogether....its unhealthy & doesn't work! ( ;

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okay what if i went out with this guy couple months ago (i broke up with him becasue he cheated on me-he cheats on all his gfs) but then 2months after we broke up we both liked each other and stuff and we made out and now wer best friends and friends with benefits and i REALLY like him but now hes going out with my friend and he likes me but he likes her too (probably more) and we talk on the phone more then they do and stuff and when other people are around he always talks about her i hate it but when its me and him he talks about us and i love it...What do i do?!

If he's going out with your friend and still talking to you on the phone---don't you think he can do the same to you? and this guy already cheated on you...and your still thinking about getting back with him? No No.

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i recently got my hair cut but they cut it way too short for my liking, it just reaches my shoulders and is layered all over and i cant do anything with it so i was just wondering if theres anyone out there that can give me advice on what i can do with it or a way of styling short hair really anything
thanks alot xoxo


You could try crimping it with gel, try LA LOOKS...that works real well....or try using a straightner to give it a neat look....blow dry it to make it look perky....good luck

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how long does it take for leg hair to grow back? I'm 13.

I recommend waxing...it doesn't come back for atleast 2 weeks.

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