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okay what if i went out with this guy couple months ago (i broke up with him becasue he cheated on me-he cheats on all his gfs) but then 2months after we broke up we both liked each other and stuff and we made out and now wer best friends and friends with benefits and i REALLY like him but now hes going out with my friend and he likes me but he likes her too (probably more) and we talk on the phone more then they do and stuff and when other people are around he always talks about her i hate it but when its me and him he talks about us and i love it...What do i do?!
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I think he is using you for benefits. If you can live with that so be it. But, that's all it is i'm afraid.
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well you said he cheated on you and that he cheats on all his girlfriends so why would you want to go back wit him. you tryin ta get back wit him only sets you up for problems and pain. i dont see why you would even do that to yourself. all im sayin is that you shouldnt even try and get back wit him.
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If he's going out with your friend and still talking to you on the phone---don't you think he can do the same to you? and this guy already cheated on you...and your still thinking about getting back with him? No No.
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You have to get him to break up with either you or her - or you will break up with him. It's not fair on you or your friend to be with this guy when he's too greedy to be with just the one of you. Give him a time limit - say two weeks - to break up with one of you, or you leave and you tell your friend what's going on. Your friend would much rather hear it from you, knowing you'd broken up with him, or at least told him to choose one of you, in two weeks time, than from a grovelling boyfriend whom you are still with and made no effort to break up with, months down the line. She will forgive you so much quicker if you tell her and make him choose between the two of you. I know it's hard because you think he loves you, but chances are he's saying EXACTLY the same stuff to her. Don't let him pull the wool over your eyes. Wake up, smell the coffee and see him for who he really is - a two-timer. You're better off without him sweetie. If he chooses you, then great, fine - but don't let yourself get involved in another love triangle. You know more than anyone right now how messy they are.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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