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This is just a suggestion, I'm not telling you you need to. But, its kind of hard to read what your saying because of writing like "tHiS" at least it is for me and others. but its just a suggestion you dont have to, but maybe you can write normal?

HaHa... oK? wElL oBvIoUsLy uR sTuPid tHeN rIgHT? aNd mAybE u CaN sHuT uP... iNstEaD oF tElLinG oTheR pEoPlE wHaT 2 Do! iF u cAn'T rEaD tHiS... wHaTs wRoNg wItH u aRe u ReTaRdEd?!? (tHaTs wHaT i ThoUgHt) aNd iF u SaY u aNd oThErs... wHaT oThErs? If u CaN gIve mE aT leAsT 5 aDvIcEnaToR pEoPle's nAmEs tHeN i'LL sToP! dEaL! dEaL! aNNd iF iTs bUgGinG u.... dOnt rEaD mY sTuFF! sImpLe sOulTiON
HaVe a NiCe dAy! :)
aLeX

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why do every1 spend mmore time rating bad answers than good ones? (1)'s usually get a HUGE explantion, but (5)'s get nothing, and good advice is also usually never rated. doo yu ppl here actually like 2 give ppl bad ratings more than good ones?

i KnOw WhAT u meAn... bUt when i rate people ones... its because they were being a jerk 2 me and i need 2 let them know what a jack ass they wEre! LoL iTs kinda fUn... But i agree... i rate pretty muh every1 a 5 who answers my question just for taking their time 2 heLpe me! :) bUt LoL... gOOd PoiNt!
xOxO, aLeX

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I just have to wonder how all of yall bush lovers can actually support him after all the fucked up things hes done?? you really enjoy us being at war?? how can yall continue to support him?? honestly?

hAhA! tHaNk yoU! u r aWeSoMe! :) LoL! kErrY sHouLd hAve bEEn PrEs! aNd i ToTaLLy aGrEE wIth yA!
xOxO, aLeX

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Does anybody know a website that has really good lyrics?
Thanx!

if u mean lyrics... by like looking up the words 2 the song: that i would suggest:
www.lyrics.com
www.lyrics.astraweb.com
www.azlyrics.com
www.lyricsfreak.com
www.lyricsworld.com
aNd Thats all i can think oF... LoL hOpe i HeLpeD! (and answered by what u were meaning!)
xOxO, aLeX

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i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do?

wOw... tHaT iS so totally awesome.... mE and my friends agreed that 22-24 is the hOtTeSt aGe for guys! i've gone out with a 21 year old guy be4... (LoL) aNd it was so awesome so i totally know how u feel. u can hang out with all of his friends and feel so grown up... bUt... it is illegal since ur a minor and hes over 18. but what i did is not let ne body find out aBout it! LoL... WARNING though: don't get 2 attached... at that age.... guys really arent looking for that big of a commitment... (drink, party, hook up) aNd aLso... u may find this hard 2 believe a first... but 8 years is alot... u may feel mature... buT it is a big difference and u guys r at totally different stages in life... hes getting his carrer established or just finishing college and ur still in jr/high (i dunno what ur iN! LoL) sOooO yEa! bUt i would seriously still go 4 it.... and see how thing work out! i was just trying 2 wArn ya about some possible tHings! bUt oLdEr guys r waaay more fuN! so good luck! and u HAVE 2 let me know how it goes! xOxO, aLeX

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there's this boy in school that i have a crush on
but he's popular and i don't think he would like me i don't know what to do i can't stop thinking about him

aWww... jUst cause he's popular... dosent mean he has 2 go 4 all of the popular girls... last year... the hottest senior EvEr aT mY sChOOl went out with a girl tHat was wayyy not popular. dont say u dont have a chance... cuz u never know... get 2 know him 1st! bUt... alot of popular guys are jerks and think their better then every1 else... so if he thinks hes "better then u" (Ha) then u dont want him ne way! bUt gO 4 iT gIrL! and gOOd luCk! (let me know how it goes!)
xOxO, aLeX

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i took this test on the internet because i have always thought i had add. i've never told anyone this b4 though so i was a little scared when i was takeing the test. im only 13 years old and it said if u chose 8 or more out of 20 of the questions then u are highly too have add. well i got 10/20 and i dont know if i should tell my mom what should i do?

yEa.... i would mention it 2 ur mom... but a computer cant exactly diagnose u with add... bUt it does know signs and symptons 2 look 4... mention ur ur mom that u thnik u may have add... because u wouldnt want to have it and be untreated.... if u have some of these signs... mention 2 her y you think u may have add:
*fidgety, squirmy
*difficulty staying in seat
*difficutly waiting turn
*ignores deatils, makes careless mistakes
*appears forgetfull, disorganized, easily distracted
*difficutly following directions or staying on task
sO let uR mOm kNow...
HoPe i heLpeD! xOxO, aLeX

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im 13 and i have a bf. hes really nice and i like him alot but whenever im stressed he tries to cheer me up my makeing out hes 14 so hes only one year older but everyone at school thinks im a whore because i've been presured into having sex once but the person who did it got in trouble but everyone thinks i wanted it....i really didnt and i always think about it but my true problem is does my bf try to go further because im not exactly a virgin??? please help

I would say YeS... he knows ur not a virgin... so he'll think you'll have sex again.... just because you've had sex in the past. bUt u gotta let him know that you dont wanna have sex with him! it sounds easier then it is though rIgHt? but if ur not ready 2 have sex with him YeT... then u gotta let him kNow... GoOd lUck tHouGh HuN! anD i hope i helped ya oUt!
xOxO, aLeX

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what are some ways that can help me to stop being so shallow? and stop caring about looks in a guy?

You should get 2 know the guys. I used to totally be the same way 2... until I forgot about the looks and reminded myself that there is more 2 a guy then what he looks like. I would hang out with them and then notice how cool they really are... and forget about how hot (or not LoL) they are... so once u get 2 know a guy and figure out hes the sweetest guy ever and he can make u laugh all the time! LooKs wOn'T mAtTer!
hOpe i heLpeD!
xOxO, aLeX

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okay..im a wee bit embarrased to ask about this...butt...i have never had a period before,and today when i went to wipe, there was a LOT of blood on the TP. so then i put on a pad, thinking i knew what was going on. then about an hour later, i went potty and there was no blood in the pad. then, i wiped again, and blood on the tp. so then i decided to put in a tampon, and about 1.5 hours later, i took it out, and there was brown stuff and blood all over it, then i put in a pad again. and i waited, and there still was no blood.
is anything wrong with me..
btw..13/f

nOpe... ur perfectly normal! all that happened is u started ur period (ahHhh it sux!) at first ur period is really irregualr... for like the 1st two years and when u 1st get ur period the blood isnt exactly the cutest shade ever... its much like u described.... sO uR 100% nOrMaL! gOOd LuCk and hOpe i HeLped yA ouT!
xOxO, aLeX

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Does anyone know any really good books about like teenage situations but is like a fictional story. (like the Gossip Girl series). I love that series and would love to read other books just like that! I'll rate. Thanks for your help.

the sisterhood of the traveling pants... number one and 2! i dont really like 2 read.... LoL but those books kept me sUpEr interested! its coming out in a movie next summer i tHiNk! trust me... you'll love them!
xOxO, aLeX

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okay im 13/f and i want to ask my mom to buy me a thong but i am afraid shell think im like a street walker/hooker/slut whatever but i want one. i dont know of anyways that i could get one myself other than sneak it like go in a diff aisle thingy and buy it with my own money but i dunno. any ideas?

weLL... go out 2 the mall or somthin with ur friends.... ur not a hooker or anything... just underwear lines are nasty! she really dosent have 2 know.... unless she does ur LaUndRy... haha bUt tell her its not a big deal... ur just wearing it so they cant see ur underwear! i'm sure she'll understand... but i know how u might feel uncomfortable "thong shopping" with ur mom... so go by urself... or with ur gf's! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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I'm making an all time favorite country c.d. and i was just wondering... what are some good/classic country songs that I could put on there? Thanks in advance!

hEy! i LikE:
*mayberry
*live like u were dyin
*pick up man
*when the sun goes down
*whiskey lullaby
*this ones for the girls
*i love this bar
*there goes my life
*remember when
*over and over again (i dunno if it's considered country... but tim mcgraw is in it! LoL)
aNd: aNyThInG bY kEnnY cHesNeY (sooo hOT!) and tIm mCgRaW! hope i helped ya! xOxO, aLeX

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Hey Girl! you are soo pretty!! ok well my best friend sits by my crush in class. I always write her notes right before that period and i'm really crushing hard on this guy..umm lets call him 'X'. So in the notes I'm always like "I like 'X'" "did you see his out fit its sooo hott!" "I like 'X'" blah blah blah basically i say "I like X" A LOT! well i just found out that she shows him a bunch of those notes!! and she tried to lie and say he read them over her shoulder but i found out that she LETS him see them! Now i'm soo embarrased! Do i have a right to be mad @ her? and I can't really talk to X in the halls because i barley see him and when i do...now i get so nervous because he already knew i like him but now he thinks i'm obsessed! WHAT DO I DO!! pleasseee help me!! sry so long!

haha awww thanks! ur a sweetie! lol... wow... what a snotty thing of ur friend to do! i had a friend kinda like that in 7th grade once... i had the biggest crush on this boy taylor and i would always rant and rave about how hot he was and that i wanted him... and she told him everything which was supposed 2 be a secret... even the sign i had in my notebook.. alex + taylor=true love! LoL... and u TOTALLY have a right 2 be mad at her... true friends would never do that 2 u! talk 2 her for sure though and let her know that your hurt and that u didnt appreciate what she did 2 u.... i hate when that happens... but if shes still gonna be bitchy about it... u dont need her as a friend!!! also i would maybe write "X" a note and expalin 2 him that ur not obsessed with him and u never meant 4 him 2 see those notes! I hope i helped ya! and good luck! xOxO, aLeX

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I meet this guy at my best friends school dance. We danced and talked, and he seemed pretty cool so i gave him my number. Well a day later he texted me on my phone to say hi and to just see what i was doin that night. We haven't actually talked on the phone yet, but it has only been 3 days since i met him. Should i call him, or wait to see if he calls me?

And if i do call, what should i say???????

hEY! well gooo 4 it! alot of my guy friends told me that they like it when the girl makes the 1st move... so he'll be amazed by ur outgoingness... 1st i would text him again though (less pressure) and then once u guys start text talking more then i would call him 4 sure... chances r hes shy and dosent know if u like him or not... so u gotta let him know... be4 its 2 late... and whenever a guy gives me his # (ughhh i hate that! i want them 2 call ME! LoL) i always wait 3 days... so i dont seem 2 desperate... haha so it sounds perfect and Go 4 it gIrL! let me know how it goes and GoOd lUcK!
xOxO, aLeX

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I really want my nose and ears pierced. The problem is Im scared of needles. I've had my ears pierced one but I took them out because I didnt like them. I was about 10 then. And Im 15 now. Does anyone here have there nose pierced? And can you tell me how bad it hurt and the proceduce. And if you're scared of needles how you delt with it? Thanks!!

Hey! well i dont have my nose pierced... but i went with my friend who got hers pierced... to be honest it looked painful. i get sooo grossed out by stuff like that so maybe its just me... but i almost gagged when the guy stuck a HUGe needle in my friends nose and it was just sitting there 4 like 10 seconds... but the good part is she said it didnt really hurt! she said it was just a twitch of pain and then it hurt for about 30 min. afterwards and then she was fine. ears dont hurt at all! if ur gonna get ur nose pierced u have 2 be 18 though without a parent. annnd when i got my bellybutton pierced... all i did was squeeze my friends hand... trust me it works! LoL. nose rings look so good on most girls sooo i hope u go through with iT! goood luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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i like a few boys and i broke up with my bf just to look . do u think its wrong

No... it's not wrong... if u like other boys... then it's not fair 2 ur bf 2 keep going out with him. but if u still do like ur bf then maybe it is wrong... because if u said u just wanted 2 look... u can still "just look" with a bf... but dont worry about it! LoL!
xOxO, aLeX

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me n this guy like eachother...but hes moving far away at the end of the year...my friends are mad at me cuz im spending a lot w/ him...wat should i do?

i think that if hes moving far away... then u should wanna spend time with him... because u may never see him again... but dont get 2 involved.... because rememeber... u may never see him again like i just said.. lol... ur friends r probably jealous because ur always with this kid. so have a friday night girls night and have all of ur friends sleep over and have a girly sleeepover...its what me and my girl friends do when were having problems!
gooood luck! xOxO, aLeX

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I have a scrapbook that I'm making for my Junior/Senior year..I'm really into decorating..but I was just wondering if anyone has any cute ideas for me to add to it..or maybe some stores where I could go to find some cute things..besides Walmart..and Joanne fabrics..are there any other places? thanks!

HeY! oMg i am exactly doing the same thing! i love to scrapbook because its such a cute way of looking at pictures. i am currently working on my high school scrapbook 2 so this is so totally awesome. well where i go 4 everything i need is archivers. it is a PURE scrapbooking store and it has unlimited paper and stickers and everything is sooo cool there. i also go 2 micheals where there stuff is pretty reasonable there. they have scprabooking stuff at random places to... like when i was in a ben franklin store getting gum.... i saw they had scrapbooking stuff there... haha rAnDoM! but if u dont use dye-cuts u should... they make the scrpabook complete. and also for ideas... i go 2 scrabooking websites and order free catalogs... just go 2 a search engine and type in scrapbooking magazines... hahahha awwwww i am such a nerd! lol hope i helped ya! xOxO, aLeX

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Ok so last weekend i hooked up with a girl at my friends house when his parents were outa town. she was hella cool, and actually had a sense of humor, and was hot. I mean it all went on for like hours on the couch, then moved to the bedroom, and i am pretty sure we both had hella fun. But she lives like 20 min away frum me (with no traffic) and we ahve talked for a , long time online before i actually met her, cuz she is good friends with my friend who parents were outa town. But i wanna hook up with ehr again, cuz like that ngiht was soo awesome, and i don't want it to be like all the otehr girls i've hooked up with, who like i barley talk to. well?

wOw.. sOunds like a fun night. sO... Talk 2 her! u guys seemed 2 get along great.... so i'm sure she'd be glad 2 hear from u. 20 min. is nothing! one of my best friends lives 40 min away and i still see him like every weekend! i really dont understand ur question though.... but if u were asking what next...u should def. hIt her up!
Goood luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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