You need to decide whats more important to you. Your friendship with your friend (which could last for a few years or a lifetime), or a guy (who could last a few days to a lifetime, but its not probable.) Me personally, I would not bother with hime. I think friendship is more important than a guy. But you may feel differently, so you have to choose for your self.

Well, if you dont feel right kissing, don't do it. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you just like cuddling better. He should understand if he likes you that much.

Hmmm... well.. split it up. 3 days a week with dad, 4 days a week with mom. If thats possible. I dunno, but try that. If not, you really need to think. Whats more important, talking or driving a car. I personally, would probably pick mom. But thats just me. Its your decision.

Hmm.. Well its okay to be lesbian, you know. Okay, its normal to think other girls are pretty or gorgeous or they have great boobs. Its sometimes jealousy or just admiration. An dI have kissed girls before, its not a big deal. Just fun with friends. Anyway..So you might not be. But it sounds sorta like you are.

On Dr. Phil.. he said a lot of times gay men are formed because they had a bad relationship with their father. I'm not sure, but lesbians may be formed by bad relationships with your mother. And i dont think its genetics, it may be, but i doubt it. Its just the way you feel.

To get out of it, theres not really a way. Its just your feelings. But if you want to try, try spending less time with girls and more time with guys, hott guys.

Hmmm toughy. Whenever I get invited to two things for the same time, I go to the one who invited me first. Its just fair. So if you want to do it that way, you can try to habg out with your boyfriend tomorrow.

Here's an idea. Go to your friends party for an hour-two hours.. then go to your boyfriends party. All will be good and fair. Just make sure to tell your friend your leaving early, and your boyfriend your coming late.

Well, i suggest give her some time, a day or two to relax. Then call her or talk to her online and tell her you are sorry, and you didnt realize it, you just wanted somebody to talk to. And tell her your there for her anytime she needs it and tell her that shes a great friend. Hopefully she'll understand.

For someone to talk to, other close friends or a parent or sibling or me would do. Yes, you can talk to me if you would like. (my sn: BreatheIn4Luck81)

Well, its fine you read those books and watch those movies. Its your way to cope, i guess. But you might want to pull away from those, and try to forget about ou being harrassed. So maybe you can get over it. I'm not sure if you are or not already, but it might help you more if you kind of push it away from your mind (not forget about it, but dont think about it all the time) And about this guy.. I personally would be so pissed at him, but i would try to ignore him and just not even look at him. This would also help you get over it. Also, talking to a parent or friend would help. And a good cry once and a while is good.

I think I know what your talking about. Its just tissue from the uterus, its fine.

Oh, I use Proactiv and it works okay for me. How long have you been using it? Because I started using it last year and I didnt get results in the 2 weeks like i should, so i stopped using it. But then I tried it again this year, because my acne was getting bad again, and after a like a month, my skin was pretty clear. I like Proactiv because they have moisturizers, sun screen, concealer, foundation, ect that doesnt clog pores. They also have creams that take away shine.

If you have acne, theres no cure for it, if you have acne, you may never have clear clear skin. But you can get your skin in better shape.

Okay, I suggest that if your getting a zit, before you go to bed, put a little toothpaste on it. It burns the zit away. Haha, sounds weird, right? It works.

After you eat greasy foods, wash your face. Grease from foods can clog your pores.

Dont sun bathe. It makes you sweat and dries your skin, possible clogging your pores.

For that shine, and just washing your face, I haven't tried it but try Biore. They have a big line for face stuff, and one is to ban shine.

He might possibly like you. You can tell if he looks at you a lot, flirts more with you than any other girls, smiles a lot around you, ect. Just follow your instincts. Ask him out, whats the worst that can happen? Oh, and good luck with the rest of the year, it sounds tough.

Ahah. I have the same problem (except I'm not an only child. But, all of my siblings live out of the house, so its like I'm an only child.) Get a lot of books (optional), magazines, movies, CDs, and video games for when your home by yourself. When your not, try going to the movies, bowling, mini golfing, mall, ect with friends. They don't last long, and i garentee that you wont get bored. Since your parents are strict, tell them your responsible enough. And if you have a cell phone, say you'll call when you get there and call when your leave (when they are not picking up or dropping off), and do it.

Just say, oh I'm sorry I can't help right now. And dont feel guilty.

Okay, there are plenty of girls who want those boobs, so just leave 'em. Learn to be happy with yourself and your boobs. haha.

Okay. I'm confused. Is she forcing her self to throw up, or is she like sick and throwing up?

If shes forcing herself to throw up, you need to be a good friend and tell her parents to get to a counselor or doctor or something, it is definely not sake for her to do that. If she is doing that, then it is an eating disorder called bulimia (http://www.mamashealth.com/bulimia.asp)

If shes just throwing up all the time, because shes sick, tell her to go to the doctors. It could be serious, but not necessarily.

Hmmm... Well if you don't like her then dont go out with her, it would be unfair for her. So I suggest finding out if you really lik eher. If shes constantly on your mind (like you said), and if you smile when ever your near her, then you probably like her. Ask her out then. But whatever you do, make sure that you are positive on your feelings about her before you do anything.

I say, dont beg on your knees. It never works, trust me. Maybe confront your dad in a confident, calm manor and ask if you can get your belly button peirced. If he says no, then say how responsible you are, and how not too many people will see it, and say how its your body and you want to decorate it with a fine piece of jeweleryon your belly. Hopefully that works. But if your dad keeps saying no, its a no. I'm sorry, kid, but parents rule the earth. Dont you hate it?

Tough. Tell your best friend how you feel. But you need to think if she would get mad. And if so, is this guy really worth risking your friendship.

Your not huge. Dont worry. Your BMI is 22. That is a normal BMI, so your not huge. But if you want to loose weight, i suggest eating right, not much junk food, and working out. Possibly go to the local YMCA or gym and work out there, or if you have any exercize equipment at home, work out. Try running a mile a day outside or something. Maybe try a sport. If you want to get toned... listen to this.

Arms- Sit on a chair, get a grip on the edge (front) of the chair. Bend your knees like your sitting, then lower yourself slightly. Try to keep your buttocks as close to the edge as you can, without touching it. Hold for as long as you want, make it worth it. Then lower yourself and raise yourself (sort of like pull ups/push ups.

Thighs- The lunge is easy, you just stand up straight then drop your buttocks basically, bending your knees. Another one is when you lay on the floor, back and head flat on the floor. Lift your legs straight up, making an L with your body. Then drop your right leg slowly, stopping it about 6 inches from the floor. Then raise it back up into the L shape. Do that as many times as you want, make it worth it, at least 15, then switch legs.

Stomach- crunches get the top abs, but thats mainly it. But there is the two way crunch. Lie on your back with your knees bent, feet on the floor. Raise your legs to your knees are above your hips and your calves are parallel to the floor. Put your hands lightly behind your head, then pull your bellybutton into your spine. Exhale, squeeze your abs as you lift your hips slightly off the floor, bring your knees to your chest, lifting your head and shoulders a few inches from the floor. Inhale as you lower. Then there is the plank, put your hands and knees on the floor. Drop your hips and walk forwards so your knees, hips, head, and shoulders are in a diagonal line. Flatten lower abs by pulling in your belly botton, but dont curve your spine. Hold that for 60 seconds. Then lower abs to stabalize your pelvis and spine. Slowly lift your right knee, then your left, and straighten your legs behind you. You should be on your toes and hands (sorta like a push up) forming a diagonal line. Keep your torso stable, continue pulling bellybutton in while breathing normally. Hold for 15 seconds, add 5 more seconds each day you do it.

Butt- Stand tall with your feet hip width apart and toes forwards, arms hanging at the sides, abs contracted. Step as far back as you comfortably can with your left foot, bending both knees so your right knee aligns over right ankle. Your left knee should be lowered to the floor, without touching it. Keep your left heel lifted. Return to standing position by squeezing your butt and puching off of your left foot, repeat same leg 15 times, slowly. Then switch legs.

down and curly. New Years is a very bouncy holiday, so bouncy curly hair would be great. Bright makeup would also be great.

You probably have indegestion. I suggest asking your doctor if thats what it is and if he has any suggestions for medicines to prevent the gas.

I absolutely love giving advice on advicenators. When people ask for my advice in real life, its probably not as good as my responces on advicenators because advicenators gets me thinking. I love helping people and I try to give the best advice I can.

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