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Ok- I usually am the one giving out advice... but I am stumped on my own problem. Well here is what happened:
I used to have a best friend named Justine. We hit it off great from the start. After the first month we'd known eachother, we spent the night at each other's houses almost every weekend. We had only known eachother for a year when the inevitable happened- but we'd shared so much together. I had told her all of my deep dark secrets, and she had told me some of her own.
Well- this summer, I had been at my cousin Ashley's house- and we had been chatting with boys on AIM. I told Justine about it when I saw her- and for some reason, she FLIPPED. She wouldn't talk to me, and she ignored all my e-mails to her.
This year, I went back to middle school, and Justine had changed completely over the summer. She had all these cheerleader friends, and she was acting like she was better than everyone else. She even sits in front of me in my English class.
This is where the problem comes in. I don't want to be Justine's friend anymore- she is such a brat- but I do want her to act civil towards me (in English she is always sighing, like she hated being around me- and she tells people, when I can hear- that she hates me). What can I do to make her stop acting so immature??? (link)
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Yell at her in front of everyone and say something really embarrassing. Give her back what she does to you. Look good make the guys want you and be friends with EVERYONE except her of course. -aMaNdA
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ok this might be long. i went out with this boy a while back probably a year ago and we broke up because he kissed a girl. but he told me..and then like about a month ago his brother and my sister started going out. and they want to get married. ahh and this boy and me started talking again and i love him so much but he has a girlfriend. and i was going to go out with him but he said i showed no intrest in him. so last night i was talkin to my sisters bf and hes tryin to hard to keep me away from his brother hes sayin hes a player and hes going to hurt me. and all this shit. and i told him whatever i dont care i love your brother and he said you dont know what love is your a child. and im 16 and this boys 16. and i dont know it pisses me off so much because everytime i talk to the boy i love it reminds me how much i love him and i cant have him. and im trying SO hard to keep his brother from marrying my sister. what do i do? sorry if this doesnt make any sense. his brother is 18 and my sister 17 turnin 18 september 30. ( And if they get married then i wont be able to date his brother cuz we'll be inlaws. ) and my sister is considering NOT marrying him cause of me. please helP!! (link)
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So your sister is willing to giving up on her boyfriend who loves her and who she loves and wanna get married? for you someone who loves someone whos taken by another girl? And if your sisters willing to give up on her boyfriend like that then they cant really be in love. And if your in love, try doing this all by yourself. Dont ask his brother dont ask your sister, YOU do it! And dont tell your sister to not get married if shes smart and loves him she wont care what you think. Sorry if i sound harsh but its the truth. If the guy you liked, liked you right now, and he too *loved* you then that would be diffrent and you'd have A BIG problem. But he doesnt cause hes got a GIRLFRIEND. Get it?
-aMaNdA
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hello. i'm going into 7th grade and i weigh 153. i'm 5'3". i want to run cross country, but i don't want to get a physical cause you get weighed. for one reason, my mom is skinny and is always preaching to loose weight and i did, 5lbs. reason two, i don't want the coachs, and definatley other runners to see it. what should i do? I only have till next thursday. please help. i rate HIGH!
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Maybe then you should not try out this year, and run around your block and do sit ups to tone yourself and then you'll have lost some wait and then next year you can try out! But if you really wanna do it and your good then try out! I mean if your good no one will think anything about you! -aMaNdA
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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!
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Go with what your heart tells you. You said yourself your not ready, so why do something you dont wanna do. If he loves and cares for you then he will understand. Although it sounds like hes forgotten uhm 5 times. Tell him your not ready. Be honest and open. Remember trust is the BIGGEST part of a relationship! gOOD lUCk! -aMaNdA
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Ok, I have thick, brown, shoulder-length hair, and normally, I straighten it every day with my CHI straightener. But everytime I straighten it, it gets messed up within the next 30 minutes. So my question is, what should I use to keep my hair straight for the longest period of time possible? Like, should I use a gel type substance? If so, exactly what brand do you suggest, and exactly HOW do I apply it? Thanks so much! (link)
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just wondering but whats CHI.. i've never heard of it.. i think its a brand of straightener? um but i wouldnt use gel cause your hair wont look good it will be hard where you added the gel so.. maybe try some kind of finishing spray. Or when you straighten your hair do it 2 times ...like wait awhile then go back and do it. -aMaNdA
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What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o) (link)
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Play video games! no joke its so fun and it doesnt cost anything. guys like it. Or you can just *rent* a movie and hang out and watch it. -aMaNdA
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okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and the guy i am crazy for is 18, only like 3 or 4 months over tho, and my mom is freaking out over it! she's like, "if you guyz do anything, i will get him for rape" im in a tough situation and i dont really know what to do. i went to my friend and she said "follow your heart" how typical... ;D (luv ya tho sis!!!! if ya see this here! lol) ...anyways. i dont know what to do because i simply adore him, and my mom is okay with us hanging out and holdign ahnds and stuff, but i dont know about dating. help me!!!! cuz i dont wanna lose him (not that i am gonna do anyhting sexual with him anywayz! ) and i dont wanna dissapoint my mom... so either way some oen gets let down, and i really dont know what to do! (link)
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its only 3 or 4 months. As long as you care about him n love him then nothing else should matter. Your mom needs to realize you care for him and that shes lucky your 17...some girls who like 18 year old girls are like 14-15..so yeah. As long as your happy then she should just be happy for you. hOPE eVERytHiNG wORkS oUt! -aMaNdA
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Hey, its your advice columnist NicoleMarie. I had my first sonogram yesterday but its still 2 early to see if its a boy or girl. But now i'm excited. Can anyone give any ideas for baby names? But nothing too common. Thank you! (link)
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Congrats!
For A gIRl: Emma, Madison, Jackie
For a BOy: Charlie, Travis, Patrick
tHERESz A fEW.. but like everyones pretty much said www.babynames.com has TONSz!
-aMaNdA
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how do u change ur password again i forgot b/c i havent been on this in like forever!
please help!
xoxo
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go under profile settings and its like the second thing on the page. type it in and then scroll down and submit changes! -aMaNdA
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I am going to a different city in my state like I do every Saturday and I met this hot kid there who was real nice and he's 2 yrs older than me and he asked me out last saturday and I said yes so I am scared b/c I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him ever since like april 2004 and my bros friends who are his friends 2 said he is planning on kissing me and I am scared what if I dont wanna kiss him or freak out or what if I dont know how to french kiss and make out cuz I dont really.....well then if any of that happens what should I do? I wanna be nice and make him no I like him a bunches! plz help, thx a bunches! Ill rate ya! (link)
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lol ok dont panic. if you dont wanna kiss him then kinda move away and just let him know your not ready. If he cares he will understand. Also everyone kinda knows how to make out(that is french kissing lol) but its a matter on how good you are or not. Dont worry tho. If you do wanna kiss him then go with the flow of things. If you dont wanna kiss him let him know you still like him by putting your arm around him kinda or hold his hand..little things like that will let him know. -aMANdA
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Ok, i am between the ages of 10-15. I know i should be concerned but i am. i really want bigger boobs and i dont know y. can anyone tell me y i want bigger boobs right now.
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Dont be ashamed. Trust me they will come when they come. Just be happy with what you have! -aMaNdA
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Okay here's my problem!I liked this guy here and there on and off. There's no doubt that there isn't any attaction cause people see it all the time. When we go out in public, people think we are a couple. I told him how I really felt about him (though we are like best friends) he said he only likes me as a friend, and that he's sorry he can't return the same feelings. But he also like one of my friends and out of the kindness of my heart, I hook them up... but she's jux like me, and we are also cool. I'm not jealous (yet) or anything like that cause me and him still flirt the same way we do, and we are still good friends. So I dunno what to do, still like him or move on? I dunno how to feel or what to think? Any advice? Plz help! Thankz a munches! (link)
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Well as hard as it may be for you, you gotta try and move on. OR maybe you can still like him just hide your feeling and not let them mess up his and your other friends relationship. You should be happy for each of them and let him know that your glad there together. It will help him stay himself and for him to know that your happy for him makes him feel better cause he knows hes not hurting you. hOPE i HElPEd
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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\ (link)
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Well you gotta tell her. Best friends NEVER lie to eachother nor should they ever keep something from eachother. If you would want her to tell you then you gotta tell her. As long as you didnt know at the time you made out with him that she liked him shes gotta be somewhat understanding and i doubt your friendship will end. However if you did know thats completely diffrent and you might have to earn trust back with eachother. Good LuCk! -aMaNdA
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ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do?? (link)
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if he doesnt know already thenlet him know whats going on. Tell him your late and everything, then take a test! you gotta let him know since hes the one who is the dad if there is a baby. Maybe this month is just later. But to find out for sure if you are or not, take a test! They have them at drugstores n stuff like Longs and Rite Aid. -aMANdA
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man gurl ur really pretty and only 14 man ur lucky lol well i was wondering if u would add me as a favorite columnist mine is babyzee thanks gurl *STEPHANIE* :) (link)
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lol id love too. although i dont really know how? lol ill try and figure it out and ill let you know if i cant and maybe you can help me out? im still knew to all this. by the way thanks!
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My best friends seem like they don't wanna hang out wit me much nemore cuz they say we get annoyied wit each other and shit but i really love them and love hangin out wit them and thought we had alot in common and stuff. but they will hang out wit me for a few day constatly and then one day we won't and they say i change when i am not around them when i don't i just bored and resently they don't even seem like they want me 2 come over and it feels like they r just using me 2 take them places cuz i will take them somewhere and then they don't even ask if i can stay wit them awhile after words and i ask them 2 do stuff and they always make excuse about how there my mom not let them ( when they haven't even ask yet) or they have something else planned when i really don't think they did or they will say they will go somewhere wit me and then when it comes 2 like 2 days b4 they say i can't i wanna do something wit my bf when i asked tehm liek 2 weeks b4 and said not 2 make plans it just really pisses me off what should i say 2 them or do cuz i love hangin out wit them and do really get annoyed wit them they just say i do and that pisses me off more HELP what should i do ?!?!?!?!?!?! (link)
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j/w how old you are? cause i had the same thing except when i was in 5th grade. But if i were you just find some new friends and hang out with them for awhile. True friends dont do that to eachother so it sounds to me that they may not be your *best* friends. If your not willing to meet new people then try talking to one or both of them about it. a true best friend would say sorry and include you in all there plans! Well i hoped i helped! -aMANdA
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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me
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ok well first off i wouldnt go around having your thong stick out of ur pants. honestly if your desprite for attention thats not the kind you would want. TRUST me.. if you really want attention try making your outfits diffrent than other girls'. You know like Bows are really in right now so tie something around or pin it,stripes too. well ya you get the idea. Im really big with clothes lol so you IM me on AOL (wildncrazii09) or leave a message in my inbox!
hOPE i helped!
-aMaNdA
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Do guys like to be kissed with or without lip gloss? Wouldn't that be gooey and slippery? How can you tell if your lip gloss will taste good to him? (link)
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no i wouldnt do it. just wear chapstick thats flavored -aMaNdA
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Hi well ok see me and my friend were the bestest of friends then all of a sudden I start liking this boy , and he likes me but my friend said that she wouldn't get mad at me, well I called her and told her the news about us going out and she threw the phone across the room......
What do I do?>?? Plz Help me.......And Fast (link)
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ok well first sounds to me like your friend likes him...best you can do is, do your best to talk to her. Find out why she did that and then explain to her she said she wouldnt be mad. Next time she should tell you how she really feels instead of keeping it from you. -aMaNdA
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ok well sunday my friend came home from vaca. and the guy i liked and he liked me kinda liked her.(if that makes sense)so anyways he told me that he would be better off with her than me. so i said ok and decided to move on cuz i new that we could never be. so i did. and on weds. i told him that i liked someone else. and he just started like flipping out. cuz i thiink he was jealous and he is over my friend and likes me again. but its to late and i told him that. i told him that i already like someone else. but then he told me that he wasnt gonna let me throw me and him away. and hes really mad that i like his friend and everything. i duno what to do. cuz i really dont wanna hurt my friend. but then the guy i like i already told him everything that went on between me and the other guy. and i already told him know ahwile back when he asked me out. please help me.
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well if you like the guy go for him. And as far as the guy who liked your friend he needs to get over himself. Hes not making things any better. Hes just tryin to get you to go back to him and everything but DONT. he had his chance and blew thats his fault.. -aMANdA
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