Whenever I see a few people at school huddled in a corner laughing and looking at me, I think they are laughing at me. Then I end up skipping class cause I dont want to have to go through that. What can I do so I stay in class and not worry about them?
Maybe find a group of people to hang out with that will keep you positive and make you go to class when you feel like skipping. good luck
-holly-
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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do.
I think you and her should have like a girls day out and go do whatever tickles your lil fancys... Show her a good time you're having and maybe she'll find things that are happy in life... if not sooner or later something good will happen... believe me... it happened to me. And now i'm a pretty happy person, still have a few down falls but dont we all
-holly-
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Hey Im 19 and I have blonde hair, green eyes, im 5'5, and 100lbs. My bf says he loves me but I think he only likes me for my looks. He is always telling me how pretty i am and stuff. Everytime I ask him why he loves me, he jus doesnt answer the ?. He loves bringin me places to show me off to his friens. Everytime one of his freins hits on me, he jus laughs and keeps talking. One time his friend tried cybering wit me on here and when I told him he didnt believe me.
Maybe you shouldnt be with this guy if hes trying to show you off like a show dog! you're a girl you should deserve to be treated right! A guy should always care when their friends hit on you! Also the whole cybering thing thats just dicked if he didnt believe his own girlfriend. its time to move on :-/ Sorry to say! Hope you find a better guy
-holly-
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ok there is a guy i used to like a whole lot. and i dont realli like him much ne more. but i still feel like crap, he broke mi heart pretty much. and now i dont even talk to him. cuz like he alwayz blocks me. itz soo annoying and it hurts cuz he used 2 like me and now he iz such a jerk. but when we r like inperson with each other he is nice and stuff. and it almost looks like he still likes me. but like tha same day online, he blocks me. i hate this!! aargh plz help me!! how do i stop feeling thiz way?
Well if hes going to be a Jerk to you and not be nice I dont think you should care about him! Seriously if he wants to come and talk to you... sooner or later he'll come around! Dont go chasing after him because i'm sure thats what he wants to you to do. good luck
*-holly-*
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hay..im 15 yrs old and i have the biggest crush on one of my friends (jj)..the thing is, he likes one of my best friends, Nicole, and he likes another girl, Whitney,..Whitney doenst really like him..she just tells him she does so she can make him do w/e she wants and everyone knows this and we tell jj alll the time but he just doesn't accept it..my friend nicole doesnt like him either..and she knows that i've liked him for the longest time..and i've told him this lastnight cuz we were havin a little 'confession' thing lastnight when we were talkin on AIM and he was tellin me about nicole and whitney and how he liked them so i told him that i liked him but then i changed the subject cuz i was upset about him liking the other 2 girls....i dunno what to do! ive been upset all day..can u help me?!
Well you should go back and have another confession time. Tell him how you feel about him liking the other girls. Let him know what Whitney is doing and tell him you wouldnt lie about something like that. then go back into the conversation about you liking him. Ask if he has feelings for you as well. If he doesnt then theres not much you can do about it :-/ Just hope for the best that he'll like you and not go for whitney that will miss-treat him. Let him know your always there for him.. and maybe you two will become close and start to get together. Sorry my advice wasnt top of the line but hey I tried :D
-holly-
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15 female
me and my boyfriend(Tyler) started dateing really early this morning like 1 something
well i was talking to Laruin and Ashley(Tyler's ex) iMed her and was like hey this is Ashley Tyler's girlfriend....well laurin was like are u still going out w/ Tyler and Ashley was like yay y! welll Laurin told me bout this...so me and her 3ways Tyler at wrk and asked him about it and he said that he wasn't going out w/ her so i told him he better go str8en things out w/ her before i decided to get crunk on him!
what should i do?
I think its all one big miss-understanding I think you should hold out i'm sure the guy really likes you but the ashley chick is either being a bitch and just wants to piss you off and break you two up . Give it time for him to tell her no. good luck
-holly-
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i'm 19/m and i have a huge fear of regection. in fact i've only had two girl friends, and i'm still a virgin, any ideas on how to get over my fear?
aww:( dont worry theres nothing wrong with rejection! I get it all the time lol. um just dont get scared.. whats the worst that can happen? If you dont put yourself out there you'll never go anywhere in life! good luck
-holly-
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15 female
i got my 1st GOOD hicky from my best friend (which is a girl) but we are really close...we were on the way to someones house w/ her and her boyfriend and she was showing me the hickys' that her boyfriend gave her and i was like hey i want a hicky!! and she gave me one...is that wrong for ur best friend to give u a hicky!!??
*I AM NO BI!*
Nah i dont think its wrong at all! I think its just you girls getting a good laugh! Dont worry about what the rest of the advicenators say about it I think theres nothing wrong with it.
-holly-
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okay this is really dumb but all my friends say "this one time at band camp......" and then leave it at that! wut is that from? is that from like a movie? lol sorry im so dumb!
w/b sooon
lol what an awesome movie! American Pie! Alright theres this red head chick that always tells her stupid band camp storys cuz shes a total band loser... and the most funny part of her band camp things is she says... "This one time at band camp i stuck a flute up my pussy" So thats probably what they are laughing about. I advice you to watch that movie! Its funny as hell!
-holly-
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I started to like someone.. that has hurt me manny times in the past.. and i dont know wat to do. Its not a big problem. but im soo confused. BEfore he lied to me, and went out with my friend. HELP
I really think you should like him! You deserve a guy that will treat you good and take care of you when your upset or sad! Not someone that would make you upset and sad! i think you need to focus on better things then that jerk!
-holly-
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okay so i was goin steady with this boy lets call him tom well me and tom were perfect and i really liked him alot and he was crazy about me. well then at the end of the school year i dumped tom cuz i didn't want a bf over the summer and i was kinda getting sick of him. but now that we've been broken up for like 2 months now i really relized how much i miss him and need him. i really want to talk to him and tell him but i think he still has hard feelings about the break up. even tho i talked to him a few days after and he told me he was over it and he was cool about it now. well im gonna c him tomorow and i don't knoe how to act around him should i talk to him and tell him i still like him? i knoe thats wut you guys r all gonna say i should do but im really shy when it comes to that kinda stuff. shoud i have a friend tell him? or is that dumb? or should i just act cool and flirt with him? idk please help me
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well if you really like him i think you should be flirty and maybe call him or IM him online and tell him you still like him so you dont have to do it in person! See if he still has the same feelings for you, if he does go for the goal! :) good luck
-holly-
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okay ive been friends with this guy for like 6 months, and he use to like me but now we are just friends cause i didnt like him at the time. but even when he says he doesnt like me that way nemore, he still hints it kinda alot. but now we actually call eachother our best friend. but the thing is ever since he got a gf, which was like a month ago, ive kinda started to like him, but hes like my best friend, he tells me EVERYTHING and i tell him EVERYTHING...ahhh what should I do??
Well since you tell him everything maybe you should tell him how you feel! Whats the worst that can happen? good luck
-holly-
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I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me
I think you should talk to her.. But sweetie the fact that you had sex at 13 is amazing! Seriously thats no good i'm 15 and STILL a virgin! my boyfriend is 17 and STILL a virgin... but its your life. Try talking to her and see what she feels.
-holly-
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Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.
Omg hun that is horrible! You need to tell! The guy that raped you can go do it to someone else! You really need to get the guy behind bars! I think you need to also tell your boyfriend what happened so he can understand why you're not willing to have sex yet! he will understand i promise and he will be there to comfort you all the way!! But you really need to tell someone and get checked out to make sure that You dont have anything wrong! Please you will be doing everyone a favor if you tell! you have to. I hope everything gets better and I wish you the best of luck. A lot of weight will be lifted off your sholders if you tell! Good luck hunny!
-holly-
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Ok..volleyballl tryouts are almost over and the first day was really hard. Our coach yells alot and if we drop a ball without goin after or something we run or do pushups. But shes still a good coach. Well i take alot of things personally. I feel like its all my fault. also im super nervous wen i get out there and mess up. Wat should i do? HELP
Stay calm... everything isnt your fault! Dont take things personal coachs are rough so you'll be a good team and play hard! Dont be nervous either you'll do great! good luck and i hope you make it
-holly-
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Hi. I have been going out with girl for about 2 weeks now and she is coming over to my house tommorw. We have not kissed or made out yet, and I was wondering if anyone had any advice to get her to want to do it. Such as things to do, etc. I got a pool, TV, dvd player, computer, anything, lol
Watch a movie and cuddle while you're watching it wait for the right time to kiss her and go for it! good luck and have fun
-holly-
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does anyone know anything fun to do the rest of the summer?
Go to a lake and hang out with friends. Have a sleep over or something.
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Is it ok to go out with someone two years younger than you?
YEAH! Its 100% OK! My boyfriend is 2 years older than me :) you've got no worries!
-holly-
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Hey everyone! Me and my boyfriend recently broke up. He asked me if I still wanted to go out. I had been meaning to break up with him because I was starting to feel uncomfortable. He was trying to make me do stuff I didn't want to do. There is also a 3 year difference between us and I think that is one of the main reasons why I was starting to feel uncomfortable. Anyway, I work with him and even though he was the one who suggested breaking up, he ignores me when I try to strike up a conversation. I understand that he might be feeling hurt, I don't understand why he is acting like everything was my fault. I still think he's cool, but I think we make better friends than boyfriend and girlfriend. I really value his friendship. How can I make him feel better about this whole situation and help him realize than even though it didn't work between us, he still is a great person?
Thanks!
Jenn
Hey jenn I think you should really get a hold of him and tell him your feelings of the situation and let him know everything. I'm sure for a while things at work might be awkward cuz he still probably has really really strong feelings for you, but in time those will start to fade out. I think you just need to talk to him and tell him how you feel! Good luck hope things get better!
-holly-
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does anyone know where i can publish my poetry besides poetry.com? i really want to get some published because i have so many poems...thanks.
Well if you want it in a book you can send your poetry to Chicken soup books! They are always good. Good luck!
-holly-
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